#SUPPORTIVE

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(this is for everyone but especially queer, LGBT+, trans, “cringy”, disabled, fat, BIPOC/BBIMP, otherwise marginalized and/or non “normative” communities, identities, and people. we love you all 💜. ~Nico)

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Draw your otp <3

[ericshoney]

Protective ~ Sturniolo triplets

You had thought that your Saturday was going to be a dull one. Not having any plans, you thought to just chill, game and probably watch movies all day. That was until Matt had messaged you asking if you wanted to spend the day with him, Chris and Nick. You agreed and said you'd head to their place soon.

As it was quite hot out, you slipped on a pair of light blue denim shorts, along with a white crop top and your trainers. You were happy with your outfit as you knew it wasn't only just simple and stylish, but would keep you cool too.

You then walked to the triplets place, which was luckily around the corner from your apartment. When you arrived, you walked in as the door was already unlocked waiting your arrival.

"Hey guys!" You greeted as you saw the trio sat on the sofa waiting for you, their heads buried in their phones.

"Hey, looking good!" Chris responded first.

"Thank you." You replied with a smile.

"Where are we going?" You then asked, as the brothers pulled away from their phones.

"We thought about the mall." Matt said, making you nod.

"Alright let's go!" Nick exclaimed.

You laughed at his sudden excitement as you headed to the car. You got in the back with Nick, as he started showing you some random TikToks as Matt drove and Chris played some music.

When you all arrived, you walked in seeing it wasn't too busy. You walked in the middle of Matt and Nick, Chris on Matt's left.

"Where to first?" Nick questioned.

"There!" You exclaimed, pointing to a store that had a sale on.

You headed off a bit before the guys, starting to look around at everything. Your eyes landed on some cool shirts that were half price.

"Hey beautiful~"

You looked over and saw a random guy standing next to you. You looked around and saw it was only you and him.

"Uh hey." You mumbled.

"That's a cool shirt, would look good on you." He said.

You remained silent, hoping if you ignored him, he'd leave, but he wasn't having it.

"How about I get your number, I'll buy you that shirt and take you on a date." He carried on.

"Who?" Nick called, suddenly appearing, along with Chris and Matt.

"Who...what?" The stranger questioned.

"Who the fuck are you." Nick replied.

"Just asking a pretty girl out, none of your business." He responded.

"She's not interested." Matt said, as Chris wrapped his arm around your shoulder, knowing you were uncomfortable.

"So fuck off." Nick said, waving his hands to send the stranger away.

The guy scoffed and walked off, as you sighed in relief.

"What a weirdo." Matt mumbled.

"You okay?" Chris asked softly.

"Yeah, thanks for showing up suddenly." You answered, giving the three a smile.

"Of course." Nick said, as Matt and Chris nodded.

You four then looked around all getting some stuff you liked, before heading to grab some food. As you headed to the food court, you noticed it was really busy. The guys noticed how uncomfortable you suddenly felt with so many people around, as they shared a look, all suddenly thinking the same thing.

"Drive thru." They said at the same time.

You all then headed back to the car, Chris' arm still wrapped around your shoulder in comfort as Nick and Matt walked in front of you.

After arriving back at the car, the four of you settled on McDonalds, Matt driving there and going through the drive thru as Nick ordered for all of you.

"You wanna head back to our place?" Matt suggested, looking back at you.

"Yeah, I don't want to deal with anymore strangers." You said with a small giggle.

"That I can agree on." Matt replied.

"That guy was a total creep though." Chris said.

"Totally. His approach was all wrong." Nick agreed.

"Maybe next time, wear jeans." Matt said jokingly.

"Whatever." You grumbled, making the boys laugh.

"But in all seriousness, we're here to save you from the creeps, the heartbreaks and the fashion disasters." Nick said.

"Your all just protective, but I love you all for it." You responded.

The three smiled as you headed on home, happy you had them by your side.

[bismutharts]

this zine may not be about you. for a long time these thoughts were in my brain but only to lovingly yell at my friends. this zine may be about you but not helpful to you at this time. i hope it's helpful to some though.

if you like this zine you may also like the body neutrality movement. and the song "can't go back" by the crane wives, which i kinda quoted as well. leave the rest behind.

this is part of my project to make a zine a day in april

some things that didn't fit in this zine were:

you gotta learn. you gotta learn that learning doesn't mean feeling bad.

it doesn't help you act right to feel bad about previous things. guilt is useful to a point. that point is reached when you know what you did wrong

[undead-knick-knack]

He's always there for her in her time of need 🥰🖤💜

[chellychuu]

To all my creatives out there; you’re not a flop because your artwork didn’t get 100 likes, or because your video didn’t hit the 1k view mark, or you lost a few followers. You didn’t get ‘worse’ and people don’t suddenly hate what you’re putting out there. Sometimes you just get less engagement, but it’s not because you’re making ‘bad’ art!

Keep creating and making things YOU enjoy! You have to be your own biggest fan!

[aventurineswife]

one request <3 (im really bad at explaining)

how some hsr characters would react to a reader that are into otome games?

HSR characters with a Reader who's into Otome Games

Synopsis: How would some of these characters react to having a Reader who's into Otome Games?

Tags: Veritas Ratio x Reader, Aventurine x Reader, Jade x Reader, Kafka x Reader, Blade x Reader, Jing Yuan x Reader, Headcanons, Fluff, Established Relationship or could be read as Platonically, Psychological Themes, Banter, Supportive, Deep Discussions.

Warnings: Teasing, Occasional Dark Humor, Discussions On Morality And Psychology, References To Manipulation, Themes Of Ambition And Power Dynamics, Light Romance, Exploration Of Past Trauma(?).

A/N: I wish there was a HSR mod where we could romance the characters 😪😕

Dr. Veritas Ratio

Ratio would be intrigued by the narratives and character development in otome games, seeing them as an interesting exploration of human relationships and emotional intelligence.

He might initially scoff at what he considers shallow romantic tropes, but upon further discussion, he'd appreciate the complexities and motivations of the characters.

He’d encourage you to analyze the storylines critically, turning your hobby into a learning experience about psychology and social dynamics.

He’d love to engage in debates about your favorite characters and choices, often challenging your views to foster deeper discussions.

Aventurine

Aventurine would tease you about your obsession with fictional characters, using his charm to poke fun while secretly enjoying the playful banter.

He’d be fascinated by the strategic elements of the games, perhaps even comparing life to a game of chance, finding ways to apply his risk-taking mentality to the scenarios.

He might surprise you with gifts that reference your favorite games, like custom trinkets or stylish outfits inspired by characters, showing his support.

Jade

Jade might initially appear skeptical, viewing otome games as frivolous, but would soon become intrigued by the underlying themes of ambition and emotional manipulation.

She’d encourage you to see beyond the surface, urging you to analyze the dynamics of power and desire within the narratives.

Jade might even suggest treating your interest as a business endeavor, perhaps exploring ways to monetize your passion through game-related content.

If you have any game merchandise, she might admire your collection, possibly wanting to trade valuable items or share insights about the game's market value.

Kafka

Kafka would find the psychological elements of otome games fascinating, especially the manipulation of characters and narratives, seeing parallels with her own skills.

She’d casually drop remarks about the games, comparing the characters’ strategies to her own, which could lead to deeper discussions about morality and choices.

Kafka would be especially interested in the character designs and fashions, perhaps wanting to discuss or even replicate certain styles for herself.

If the games feature memorable outfits or coats, she might express a desire to acquire similar pieces, leading to playful banter about your mutual interests.

Blade

Blade might initially express a cynical view of otome games, seeing them as naive distractions from the harsh realities of life.

He would likely make darkly humorous comments about the characters’ romantic dilemmas, providing a contrasting perspective that could spark interesting conversations.

Despite his cynicism, he might secretly enjoy the escape they provide, finding a strange comfort in the fictional dramas.

Blade would likely appreciate the themes of love and loss, connecting them to his own tragic past and engaging in deeper discussions about the nature of relationships.

Jing Yuan

Jing Yuan would appreciate the storytelling aspect of otome games, often relating it to historical tales and strategic narratives he values.

He might offer calm, insightful perspectives on the choices you make in games, helping you to consider the ramifications of those decisions.

Jing Yuan would be supportive of your passion, perhaps asking about your favorite games and characters, fostering a sense of connection.

He’d likely inject gentle humor into the conversation, lightening the mood and making the topic of otome games feel more engaging and less frivolous.

[livelovecaliforniadreams]

Supportive/Protective/Worried Boyfriend & Girlfriend Jiara In Season 4 Part 1

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Finding strength with you ❦

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Louis-Jean-François Lagrenée (1724-1805) "Love Consoling Painting from the Critics of her Enemies" (1781) Oil on panel Located in the Louvre Museum, Paris, Francec

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Draw your ot3 like this

[ericshoney]

Toxic Friends ~ Sturniolo Triplets

Summary: You and the triplets were childhood friends and still to this day, you were close, often going out to LA to visit them or hang out when they came home to Boston. However, the triplets have noticed you've changed and not for the good, only putting it down to your new "friends".

Warnings: slight angst, toxic friends, mentions of underage drinking/drugs/smoking, mentions of not eating/eating disorder, mentions of not sleeping, broken home, brief panic attack, anxiety, pet names used in a platonic way, let me know if there's anything I've missed.

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Nick, Matt and Chris had just arrived back home in Boston and were first greeted by their parents, who met them at the airport. When the trio arrived at their childhood home, they were next greeted by their older brother Justin and best friend Nate. However, the three were expecting to see their other childhood friend, Y/n.

The triplets and you were still close to this day, including Nate, the four males basically being brothers to you now. But you happened to make some new friends to keep you company in Boston when Nick, Matt and Chris weren't there or Nate was busy. Nate however, didn't like them one bit and today was the day he was going to tell the trio the truth, he was far too worried about what was going on.

After texting you about your whereabouts, the four started to chill, but Chris was first to notice something was up with Nate.

"What's up?" Chris called, the younger male looking at him.

"She won't reply. She's with her new friends." Nate said.

"New friends?" Matt repeated.

"Yeah, she got some new friends the past month but they aren't the best." Nate admitted.

Before any of them could respond, their phones pinged with a group chat notification from you, saying you were on your way and ten minutes later, you arrived.

"Hey guys!" You cheerfully greeted, hugging the three.

"Hey." They all replied, taking in your appearance.

And instantly, they knew something was wrong. You were a lot thinner than last time they saw you, dark circles under your eyes, which were also slightly bloodshot and your clothes had a funny smell to them.

"Nate was just telling us about your new friends." Nick said, breaking the silence as you sat on the sofa.

"Oh he did. Don't worry they'll never replace you guys." You reassured them.

"Well of course not, we're the best." Chris said with a cheeky smile.

"Right. Nate's not that fond of them." You mentioned, the said male nodding at your comment.

Nick, Matt and Chris all nodded and dropped the subject for a while. The five of you hanging out like old times.

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A few hours later, Nate had to go. You all said bye and you remained in the Sturniolo house. You were still sitting on the sofa, scrolling through your phone. You were wrapped up messaging your new friends, that you didn't notice Chris sat on your left, Matt on your right and Nick pulled up a chair in front of you.

"Kid, we need to talk." Nick said, taking your phone from you, placing it on the table behind him.

"Okay...." You dragged out, feeling slightly confused.

"Nate told us about your new friends. Before he left, he mentioned they aren't the....cleanest people." Nick mentioned.

"What do you mean by that?" You questioned.

"Doing drugs, drinking underage. I mean your only nineteen and Nate mentioned the oldest just turned twenty-one. So out of what, five people, one is legal to drink." Chris answered.

"Just cause they smoke and drink, doesn't mean they are bad people." You tried to argue. But deep down you knew, they weren't great.

"Sweetheart, we're going to be honest with you. You smell like weed and look like you haven't slept in weeks. Plus you've lost a lot of weight. You don't look healthy." Matt said softly.

"I...I...so?" You tried to fight back the tears building up.

"We're your best friends, basically your brothers, Nate included. Don't push us out. You know we're not going anywhere." Nick said, holding your hands gently.

"We're not going to push you either. But if your ready, tell us what's been going on." Matt said, rubbing your back in comfort.

"I'm sorry." You whispered, looking down at your lap. A wave of disappointment washed over you.

"Bub, you don't need to be sorry. We're not angry. We just want to understand so we can help." Chris replied.

"I...I met some new friends....t-they seemed okay at first, but they do drugs and drink. At first I said no, I said no many times I swear!" You began to explain, feeling your breath quicken.

"Hey, sweetheart take a deep breath okay. We believe you, calm down. It's only us four, nobody else. We're not mad, Nate's not mad okay. Take a deep breath in and out." Matt gently said as Nick squeezed your hands to keep you grounded.

You closed your eyes tightly, a few tears still slipping out as you focused on your breathing and Matt's voice. Once you calmed down, you began explaining again.

"I...I said no. Said I don't wanna do drugs or smoke and that I won't drink till I'm twenty-one but only if I wanna.....but the peer pressure got too much. I caved. I felt like I was losing you guys to LA, I know you always come back and we still talk everyday but I was still scared. I didn't want to burden Nate with everything so I tried to find new friends. My parents are constantly arguing, so I thought being out late at night with these new friends was a good thing. I stopped eating because the drugs made me not hungry, I couldn't sleep cause the house felt cold and dark. I just fell down a big rabbit hole and I'm sorry." You finished explaining, more tears rolling down your face.

"Kid, you don't ever need to be fucking sorry, okay? We're sorry." Chris said, patting your shoulder.

"You don't need to be sorry. You didn't do anything wrong." You responded.

"We're going to help you okay. First off, your going to tell those people your done with them, then block their numbers. You don't need toxic friends." Nick said.

You nodded as he passed you your phone, the trio watching you as you texted the group chat, saying you were done with them and had real friends who cared about you. Before any of them could reply, you blocked their numbers. Nick, Matt and Chris smiled as the eldest took your phone back.

"Now what?" You asked, looking at the three.

"Well, how about you move to LA with us?" Matt suggested.

"Really?" You asked in shock.

"But what about my stuff here? What about Nate? Oh what will my parents say? Will they shout a-" You rambled, but got cut off by the guys.

"Hey, kid calm down okay. Fuck your parents, if they're constantly arguing to the point they can't see you need help, you don't need to be around that. Nate will be okay, he comes to visit often and we always come back here. You can text or call him everyday too. We'll pack your stuff up and talk to our parents so they are aware too." Chris said first.

"Okay. You guys really want me to live with you in LA?" You questioned, still feeling in shock.

"Of course bub, we'll help you recover, we love you." Nick said.

"Thank you." You said.

The three smiled and pulled you into a group hug. You knew it would take time, but with their support you would be back in a good place again soon.

[chronicallycouchbound]

How To Support People

Sometimes, when someone is struggling, we default to giving or offering what support we would want in that specific situation. We don’t mean to, but it can cause harm to someone who we are trying to help.

So what can we do instead? I would ask people: “How can I support you?” But it was often too open-ended. My loved ones didn’t know what they needed.

Mental, emotional, and physical are support types that can be used to give personalized offers for support! Sometimes, people need specific offers of support, usually a mix of types.

Mental support could be:

Facts

Wisdom

Constructive feedback

Solutions

Advice

Solutions

Resources

Mentoring

Guidance

Pros and cons

Advocacy

Reminders

Logical steps

Planning

Some examples can look like: - “I complied resources for you” - “Let’s make a support plan together” - “When I was in a similar situation, I did…”

Emotional support could be:

Validation

Venting

Commiseration

Solidarity

Affirmation

Listening

Check-ins

Distraction

Space

Comfort

Praise

Motivation

AITA?

Some examples can look like: - “Tell me what’s bothering you” - “I think it’s reasonable that you feel this way” - “You got this!” - “Do you need space?”

Physical support could be:

Housework/chores

Physical touch

Mutual aid funds

Body doubling

Acts of service

Gifts

Flowers

Food

Cards

Transportation

Some examples can look like: - “I finished your to-do list for you” - “I made you your favorite dinner” - “Let’s do this together” - “Can I make a fundraiser for this?”

We all have various needs and capacities, but I hope we can all find creative solutions to help support each other. Keep caring.

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'You can do this. You don't know it yet, but you can.'

Lev Grossman, from The Bright Sword