#Predatory men

[liberalsarecool]

'Men assaulting women' is now the official way to get a job with the Trump Administration. If you have sex outside of your marriage and force NDAs on your victims, you are MAGA material.

[sophiemariepl]

Men who view women and girls in the category of “legal/illegal” and prey on teenage girls who just crossed the age of consent in their country (be that 15, 16, 17, 18), are some of the biggest egoists on this goddamn planet.

They think only in terms of them getting legal consequences of their actions.

It doesn’t matter to them if the girl will have a trauma afterwards and battle the consequences of such a “relationship” with a much older man for the rest of her life.

[femme-dor]

Hey Ladies, men who bitch about women’s outfits with dumb shit like “Men like The Chase™️” & “Women are gifts that should be unwrapped by a special man”, are admitting out loud he’s a predator who sees & prefers non-consenting women as consumable objects for male enjoyment he must outwit & manipulate in order to “win” aka get her clothes off.

It’s never about modesty. Run in the other direction.

[tryinganythingtobehappyagain]

Now someone do a post of all the songs women have written about predatory men.

[basically-queenberyl]

Why do guys look at me like a piece of meat? I don’t want to be your prey, I wanna talk about Carl Jung and the current economic climate or leave me alone.

[jhsharman]

"Women's Work"

Hold onto the title. We are going to have a play off of the phrase "women's work" and standardized gender roles and assumptions. The story of The Wilkin Boy, running parallel in responding to the same societal upheavals with the sitcom All in the Family, has the straight arrow conservative father raising a daughter and through some combination of him wishing he had a son and she wishing to please her father (that appears to be the subtext for the series) picks up weight lifting. So she is stronger than her next door neighbor boyfriend -- son of the pudgy liberal her dad does not think is raising right. So. Here predatory men are taken to be a given --

And after a couple such displays --

The problem comes with the title and call back and change here. And I guess here-abouts they weren't sure what the change was going to be at first, as they initially redirected the word balloon to Samantha for I assume some other dialogue --

They no longer like the phrase and gender assumptions under-girding it -- understandable enough -- but in the context of this story, it is the title, and the gender premises and play off of them remain.

The change is a curious splitting of hairs.

[iamnotyourbabe]

god i am soo soooooo weary of art by cishet men that's just "sexy (often nude) lady"

tired. uninspired. no subtext besides 'makes my peepee hard.' the stench of objectification dulls any impact it could have.

this post is not for terfs.

[lazylittledragon]

my absolute favourite genre of transphobic propaganda is when the caption is like “look at this poor, confused little girl who was forced to mutilate herself :(” and the picture is just the hottest man you’ve ever seen in your life with a full beard and a body that would make thor weak at the knees

[gay-otlc]

Actually I think we should talk about how incredibly fucked up it is for sapphic women to say shit like "I'm no better than a straight man 😔" when attracted to a woman in a way that isn't 100% pure and wholesome, or act like men's attraction to women is inherently dirty, predatory, or objectifying.

[coochiequeens]

the Drag Queen said the incident happened when she was younger age and before the "transformation". Does this mean he just just a regular predatory man pursuing a minor?

A video of the Drag Queen RawBee Candles admitting to almost going to jail for having a relationship with a teenager has created a huge uproar all across Greece.

The drag queen came into the Greek public spotlight after reading fairytales to children in Thessaloniki recently, but in a video uploaded to social media, the drag queen revealed some disturbing details.

In the said video, the Drag Queen said the incident happened when she was younger age and before the "transformation". RawBee Candles then admits the teenager in question was 15 years old, and for this reason the drag queen "almost went to jail".

There has been an uproar in the comments on Twitter.

It is recalled that many parents with their children, as well as representatives from political parties, attended the event organised by Thessaloniki Pride on December 30. The drag queen read fairy tales to children aged 3 to 13.

The event was initially planned to take place at a private daycare centre in Kalamaria. However, due to the large participation and reactions, the organisers changed the venue.

Speaking to ANT1 today, RawBee Candles responded to parents' reactions to this initiative, saying that these parents "have no light in them" and "therefore they should not have children".

"There were about 30 children with their parents in the room. We started with their names, their favourite colour, to break the ice and get into a mood. The reading of the fairytale followed, and after that we asked the children how they felt and everyone was very happy," she initially said.

Asked afterwards if any children had questioned why she was painted or about her clothes, the drag queen said: "I didn't go to this event to sexualise the children or to tell them anything about my own sexuality orientation."

"I went to this event as an artist to read a fairytale to the children in a theatrical way and I think the children understood that. We used the LGBTI flag to ask the kids what their favorite colour was and then asked them if they knew what that flag was," she said afterwards.

Regarding the reactions that arose, she replied: "These reactions all respond by themselves. All people are free to express their opinion in any way they want in public. Nevertheless, it is up to each person to have developed a critical faculty to be able to judge what is an opinion and what is not."

[uncanny-tranny]

Begging, begging, begging people to stop associating aging and femininity in men/masculine people as Wrong and Predatory. Femininity has no age limit.

To any feminine man, masculine person, or really, anybody who needs to hear this: Your femininity deserves to be recognized and celebrated. Aging is a natural and unique part of life, and you don't have to sacrifice your femininity for fear of being "too old" to be accepted or seen as charming. You are already charming.

There is no limit to being who you are. No matter what you're told, you still deserve to completely claim yourself.

[catastrfy]

today i am thinking of all hte times missing steps and whisper networks failed me and my friends. that guy who "everybody knows" that young girls in short skirts or low cut costumes/clothes shouldn't get in the elevator with. or to not turn your back on. or who will try to get you drunk. except ime "everybody knows" is often "all [the speaker]'s own friends know". sometimes it's "i know, so *or course* everybody must know." sometimes it was "teens don't belong at cons w/o their parents, their parents should be warning them. i don't even KNOW those kids!" (this stuff is 70s/80s convention specific,so maybe it's totally different now. but there are at least 5 guys i wish i'd been warned about, and half a dozen who i'm glad i was. and i'm so very tired of predators not being called out and kicked out of cons, gaming groups, etc.,bc they're "friendly and popular" to the people with the most power)

elise matthesen aka lionesselise wrote a heartfelt post about neil gaiman over on dw and i highly recommend it

and oh, this part “I believe the ones we’ve heard from, and the ones we haven’t heard from, and the ones we will probably never hear from because, as the songwriter said, this world is shaped to have his back.’

[burningtheroots]

"Sex work is work".

Okay, then why not teach it at school?

Why not fight for making it a 50:50 business where men are just as represented and available?

Why not introduce an anti-discrimination policy so customers can‘t reject a worker due to their sex? (that would be fun)

Why not cut down unemployed men‘s unemployment benefits when they reject a job offer from a pimp? (it already happened to women in my country)

Just wondering.

[ayaahh00]

Being a lesbian in a patriarchal heteronormative society that always wants to force women to centre men is hard. You have predatory straight men who want force themselves on us and can’t fathom we’re homosexual women so they fetishize our very sexuality that excludes them, the only time they won’t is when you remind them they can never ever love a woman or bring women pleasure the way we do, that’s when it’s offensive to them. Then you have trans-identifying males who call themselves “transbians” when they’re just hetero-agp males who fetishize lesbians and genuinely believe lesbians owe them attraction after putting on a dress. And let’s not forget how they desperately want lesbianism to include males. And lastly, society has always mocked us, turned our sexuality into a fetish and always invalidated us. Because we’re the women whose attraction and sexual orientation completely exclude men in a world where women are always expected to center them. To be a lesbian is to exist outside those rules, and society always responds by mocking, fetishizing, and trying to erase us.

[demuredeadbeat]

I don't consider myself part of 'the queer community'. I actively avoid groups, labels, gatherings. I don't need to describe why.

But is transandrophobia one of the reasons?

Lol, duh. No shit.

[crimeronan]

i can't believe i still have no voice. i wrote a song i'm pretty pleased with and i can't even record properly yet because my singing sounds like a slowly wheeze-dying cat.