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“Overconsumption” ok girlie see you at Target tmw. 💕

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Megan’s Instagram Update (November 12, 2024)

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If they got you texting a message longer than 2 sentences, dump them🙃

i need this more than anyone

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Sad fact, but there are some women you could sit down, take their hands, and explain this on a level a child would understand and they still wouldn’t get it because they simply do not care about themselves like that & believe a man/kids is what will ultimately give them value & purpose.

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Also he’ll end up telling you exactly who he is & let the mask slip because he’s so damn comfortable so remember to also pay close attention so you can vet him right then & there, ladies.

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going to college is great

getting married is great

having children is great

but implying that there’s something wrong with people who don’t want to do those things and that they’ll never feel fulfilled in life if they never do those things is not great

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Learn to auto correct your negative thoughts by challenging and reframing them into positive ones

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Three truths:

Nothing is permanent.

You will have terrible, horrible, painful days where you question everything.

Again, nothing is permanent.

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The best way to determine someone’s real character is to not give them what they want

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The Prince and the Showgirl (1957) dir. Laurence Olivier

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Random memory but I’ll never when I signed up for Hinge in like 2018 and posted attractive photos of myself (not sexy or provocative, just had makeup & good selfie angles) and insecure men hit up my DMs mad asf for no reason & like two weeks later I got banned for “prostitution”????🙃🙃🫠

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Folks asking “What Happened to Dating & Love??” as if it vanished into thin air outta nowhere and not the glaring fact that you guys won’t to log off, actually go outside and spend time with real people to get with someone you actually LIKE & LIKES you. Y’all want the process to be instant, beautiful, and easy like a romcom when it’s not. It’s a messy journey of successes & failures that teaches you a lot about yourself, your self-worth & ego, the people you attract, and what you should and should not accept for a fulfilling relationship. In the end it’s worth it once you finally find the one for you.

If you honest-to-God think this is impossible & feel the need to argue, I urge you to first stop find out why because I promise when you really boil it down the issue is actually something personal you need to heal through, or you keep allowing rage bait, gender war dorks online to influence your view on love which is extremely tragic.