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maybe i’m a joyless bitch but i actually do NOT think it’s funny to see women being like “the house is just in my husbands name” or “my husband makes all the money” or “i don’t even know who our mortgage is with” or “the only bank account/credit card is his and i get an allowance” like i do NOT find that cute or romantic and i am begging these women to Stand Up. you should at least be named on the deed to your house and the title to your car and the bank accounts even if you don’t pay for them/earn all the money. you can’t stop existing in the eyes of the law and the credit unions simply because you have a husband. if you’re raising his children and washing his socks half of everything he’s got is yours and it needs to be yours LEGALLY BY NAME. "he takes such good care of me :)" girl you are a PRISONER!! that’s all
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What a beautiful day to thank God I never had or cared for TikTok.
#good luck to yall though#some of yall are such addicts#you went to Rednote#have fun with the Chinese propaganda sis#TikTok#tiktok ban#rednote#social media#queue are so beautiful to me
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Kpop fandoms are deadass insane. Nonblack people hilariously misusing (gay) AAVE. Complete and willful ignorance to idols eating disorders because it’s normalized in SK. Nonstop TOXIC body shaming & fatphobia toward young female idols. RAMPANT anti-blackness despite their idols using black culture. Dying on a hill that your idols are flawless, perfect, autonomous, individuals having fun & not images/personas carefully crafted by their company. The willingness to fight somebody in the Popeyes parking lot over a group or idol that won’t even last 5 years.
And it’s all marketed to children/young adults.
Christ.
#not even teenage me could ever#the antiblackness in the fandoms and SK is enough to push me away#people have the audacity to compare this to American pop#and lemme tell you#the Bey-hive & Swifties had DECADES to build their fandoms#Kpop fans be fighting for girls that debuted YESTERDAY#that don’t sit right with me#queue are so beautiful to me#thoughts#kpop#kpop fandom
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I disagree…
Speak up when you’re being mistreated/disrespected.
Set your boundaries when people think you have none.
Stand up for what you believe in.
Say what you need to say when it needs to be said.
Call out a man’s bullshit.
Being a woman is asserting your authenticity, how you should be respected & who you are as an individual. “Holding your tongue” is only reserved for personal secrets you shouldn’t be handing out to people you don’t trust.
#I hate this saying#‘hold your tongue’#that phrase carries a history of silencing women#for not asserting their humanity in the world#if you wanna say keep secrets#or manage your rage or whatever#say that#queue are so beautiful to me#thoughts#honestly#women
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Keep it that way as well.
#oh no they have access#she has my phone number and calls me often#she just doesn’t care or want to know the ‘new’ me#because that would mean recognizing me as an adult woman#sister#someone#no access#honestly#toxic family
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“Overconsumption” ok girlie see you at Target tmw. 💕
#overconsumption#hypocrisy#consumer culture#calm down Ms. Amazon prime shipping#queue are so beautiful to me#thoughts#facts#funny
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If they got you texting a message longer than 2 sentences, dump them🙃
i need this more than anyone
#if they got you opening the notes app to edit your reply before sending#dump them#queue are so beautiful to me
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