#OR SOBER FOR THAT MATTER

[dayurno]

i feel like dear john by taylor swift gives kevin vibes

its because riko is an expert at sorry and keeping lines blurry never impressed by kevin acing his tests all the boys that youve run dry have tired lifeless eyes cause youve burnt them OOUUTTTTTT!!!!!

but yeah i agree :-) [i took your matches before fire could catch me / so don’t look now] is very kevriko

[bunnions]

something something katsuki can't keep his hands off you when he's had a little too much to drink (see: denks the worst at-home bartender in the world, believes a shot of vodka really means four).

it starts off innocently enough, gathered in eijiro's living room, when he cracks a foul-mouthed joke and you double over into side with laughter. the heat starts to creep up his neck, but it's easy to blame it on the alcohol. he nudges you back playfully, a grin quirking at the corner of his lips.

two more shots of whatever vile concoction denki mixed up and he's melting into the couch. he's sitting on one end, a little squished with how mina, eijiro, hanta, and denki are piled on top of each other - chatting away, drinking, and desperately trying not to make eye contact with the wasted blond. katsuki's got you perched all pretty in his lap because "there isn't any room left to sit." a convenient excuse.

you're flushed and trying to keep up with mina's story and you're having a great time with your friends but katsuki's hands are looping casually around your waist and pulling you closer to him and he's leaning a little on you for support and you feel a zing speed down your spine as his lips brush against your arm. an accident.

his head's a little fuzzy, but katsuki's practically melting with the alcohol swimming through his veins. and you're so soft it's making everything even fuzzier. before he even finishes that thought he's testing out the plush of your waist, your thighs, pinching a little at the small of your back, and back down to your thighs. you squirm in his hold, and he retaliates with a soft grunt and by biting what he could reach.

the spit on your arm is more uncomfortable than the rather tame bite he gives you. you can see his eyes wobble, flitting to different parts of your face. "hol' s'till," he garbles and your heart leaps into your throat. you can feel four sets of eyes boring into you both, but you can't break away from katsuki's heavy, lidded, lovesick gaze.

[ruporas]

drank too much

[ID: Digital Art of Vash and Wolfwood from Trigun Maximum. Vash’s body is turned slightly away from the viewer as he holds a staggering Wolfwood by his shoulder. He has one foot ahead of the other, the foot in the back used to stabilize himself from tipping over. Wolfwood is tethering into Vash, his weight pressed into him with his arms wrapped around Vash’s waist and his face is hidden away as he leans against Vash’s shoulder. Vash’s expression can be seen, his eyes wide and mouth tight-lipped, and his face is flushed red. A speech bubble comes out from Wolfwood, saying a drawled “Spikeyyy...”. The background are desaturated pastels of blue and green, showing night time, as they stand in the middle of an empty street that is also lit by the moon not depicted. Yellow light is seen coming from the inside of a saloon. End ID]

[fairycosmos]

can’t remember the last time i had something to look forward to. can’t remember the last time i actively enjoyed anything

[neuroticboyfriend]

just wanna thank the universe for tonight's sobriety. i feel like a person again. i'm a person with trauma, psychosis, depression, anxiety, chronic pain & fatigue... but i'm still a person. i'm still a person and i don't need to drink and drug away my life, my soul. whether i relapse again or not doesn't change that.

my future self could try all they want to erase my humanity, in a desperate attempt to see my ego as the sole cumulation of all i am... but that will always be wrong. that will always be sickly, deadly, and unnecessary suffering. that will always be far less than i deserve.

i am sober tonight. i hope i'm sober a minute from now, an hour from now, a day from now. i hope i feel that way every day i have left on this earth, however many or little that is. i'm a person. a whole world exists inside me and for tonight, in this moment, that world gets to simply be. exactly as it exists right now, pain and hardship and all.

and it's beautiful. hold on, pain ends. h.o.p.e. i love you all.

[uncanny-tranny]

r u chill w non transitioning ppl?

Why wouldn't I be? At one point, every trans person who is transitioning was once someone who wasn't (whether or not that was a choice or their need is a separate discussion).

Hatred of any kind of trans person is not a Righteous or Good Thing - every single trans person has their place, their entitlement to safety, community, and respect of who they are

[unsolicitedadvicecatlady]

Trauma is a wound

Let's talk about trauma. talk about it in a way that honors the person who has been wounded. talk about it without being condescending or dismissive. talk about without making disgusted or shocked facial expressions, further shaming the wounded person. talk about it with empathy and compassion. talk about it without guilt-tripping the survivor.

Trauma is something that happens inside of you as a result of what happened to you.

There is no set standard for healing. There is no timeline to be followed. There is no expectation of linear progression toward healing.

Treatment is not the same as healing. Healing doesn't happen without remediation. Remediation doesn't happen without change. Change doesn't happen without affirmative action. Action doesn't happen without making decisions. Decisions don't happen without discussion. Discussion doesn't happen unless you can talk about it. So, let's talk about it.

[dreadfuldevotee]

Literally, I think I'll be genuinely angry if we go some huge amount of time without ever seeing Yaz again. LIKE I CANT GET OVER: There is a Woman out there, who loves you so much. Sometimes to her own detriment, but God is she truly in love with you. You, The Doctor, are in love with this woman. You wished for forever with this woman. You regreted not giving voice to how much you love her so much, that it almost fucking fixes you're next incarnation. You! The Doctor!! have a whole lifetime of therapy, or whatever you quantify as that idk, in part to work on that whole "so emotionally repressive, its killing the vibes in the next galaxy over" and are back and traveling and whatnot. AND THAT WOMAN IS STILL OUT THERE!! If I were you, The Doctor, I would go tell that wonderful woman who loved me and stood by me when I was actively breaking her heart and pushing her away that I love her. That even if those emotions have changed in the lifetime I've been away, That there was a time that I loved her like she loved me. That I carry that love we shared still and what has become of it with me.

[mash4077confessions]

wild that "one night at Rosie's" was the first time Mulcahy had been to Rosie's bar. This means that even though everyone was Kung fu fighting, and the whole place got destroyed, Mulcahy still had a really good time and decided to go back again in "no laughing matter"

[identitty-dickruption]

When people say that they don’t want to be around addicts, they don’t mean recovered /ex- addicts - they mean active addicts or “dry drunks” who haven’t changed their behavior and are still selfish and manipulative and playing the victim. Active addicts hurt everyone around them. If you’re a recovered alcoholic people aren’t talking about you.

"still selfish and manipulative and playing the victim".... you are aware that addicts, even addicts who are not in recovery, are complex human beings with a broad range of characteristics and behaviours, yeah? the diagnostic criteria for being an addict is not "selfish and manipulative cunt"

I never said that anyone has to be friends with an addict, and it is never morally wrong to cut off someone who is being shitty to you. people can have their boundaries and that's fine. but when you say that you don't want to be around addicts, you are making a fuckton of assumptions about what an addict is. and you know what? I don't want to be friends with someone like that. I don't want to be excluded from the category of "addict" so that people like you can still feel okay about demonising addiction. they're talking about me because I am an addict and always will be, and I stand in solidarity with my fellow addicts. peace and love

[elvisqueso]

Some context and clarification.

[lightasthesun]

you know what I think would be really funny?

Truth or dare or something similar with pre-relationship codywan.

[schizononagesimus]

🎶 they tried to make me go to rehab and i said PLEASE PLEASE HOLY FUCK I FEEL SO BAD WILL NOBODY HELP ME I CANT STOP WHY DOESNT ANYBODY NOTICE HOW BAD IT IS PLEASE HELP

[leconcombrerit]

THANK YOU Only Friends for saying that trying to quit for someone or something other than yourself is fine. The addictologist didn't even question it and I might have shed a little tear.

I've seen many people say that Ray had to want it for himself, much like Sand stated, and I get that. I get what you mean. Ideally, that's what would happen. But the situation isn't ideal and, with his self esteem currently being a tripping hazard in hell, Ray can't do that. He can do it for Sand though.

And that's fine too. What matters right now is that he quits drinking. Doing it for Sand puts his recovery on shaky grounds, but shaky grounds is better than sinking lower and lower. As he drinks less, and addresses his issues and trauma and doubts, he might grow strong enough to stay sober for himself. Doing it for Sand is a good enough start, a huge step forward. He could say he wants to quit because he keeps spilling beer on his favorite Teddy bear and I wouldn't care. He could do it for Britney Spears. He could stop drinking for a rock. Whatever. What matters is the first step taken.

It kind of reminds me of a very bad depression I had. As in really, really bad. I couldn't do anything. I didn't even want to do things anymore. What kept me from letting myself rot wasn't self love. Hell, I did it for my dog and for a book -yup, a book. I had been waiting for it to be released for almost a year at that point, so why not focus on that ? A couple months and the book would be out. I kept taking my meds in the meantime, and the depressive episode reached its end eventually. Self love and dreams were beyond reach, but my dog and a book weren't.

So hell yeah, Ray ! Quit for Sand, do it, and then you can keep moving forward. GO RAY GO

[crowsdove]

Aight so if my f/o dies, no he didn't even though he did. Because he didn't though <3 he's safe with me forever

[james-is-nasqueer]

anyone else seeing some distasteful kurt busch dwi takes or is it just me