#I'm still cis though
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self insert fic but the character helps you transition
#guys I just watched the tintin movie and had a rather vivid daydream of him helping me transition#it definitely wasn't from his own personal experience or anything#I'm still cis though#right?!#ramblelele#ohhhhhhh man I want to be him so bad#gender envy go brrrrrrrrrrrrrr#LOOK AT HIM!!!!!!!!! LOOK AT HIM!!!!!!!!!#AGHGH#life is not fair
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really love that for the metron design they went with "androgynous angel dressed head to toe in glitter"
#played by a cis woman#sites call them a “male metron” though#so interesting#i feel this is never talked about but is actually super forward thinking???#like they were clearly going for genderless#what a perfect blend of “feminine” and “masculine” presentation#for superior beings who have advanced past violence and division and hate#ugh i love this show#even if it wasn't intentional and is just a cheap costume#i still love it#LOOK HOW JIM IS LOOKING AT THEM TOOOOOOOO#star trek#star trek tos#star trek the original series#captain kirk#james t kirk#jim kirk#arena#star trek arena#costume design#trans#gender#enby#representation#please don't think i'm praising this as ACTUAL representation#but for the time and in context#i just think it's neat
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on dragona
i managed to track down some pictures of the jojolands raws, and specifically one of the pages where jodio talks about dragona. i think ultimately we’ll have to wait for more to get a real read on his gender identity and presentation, but i wanted to see what the original japanese was and what it said for myself
here is where jodio is talking about how his mom can live a peaceful life because of what he and dragona do. in the first bubble he starts with “オレたち兄弟” (oretachi kyoudai). the key word here is 兄弟, which just means sibling(s). so he says “we siblings” (or, given context, could also be “we brothers”). regardless, this phrase is gender neutral
in the second one, he says “オレと兄” (ore to ani). this is why i’m choosing to use he/him for dragona as of now, because 兄 means big brother, and as far as i know, nothing else. i’d translate this as “me and my brother” (or if we’re trying to be grammatically correct, “my brother and i”)
in this bubble, jodio again says “兄”, which, if you look up in a dictionary, only translates to older/elder/big brother.
i think you could’ve argued otherwise if jodio had called dragona 兄貴 (aniki) because that once can be a little more ambiguous in terms of familial relationship and gender, but just 兄 alone reads to me like dragona is jodio’s older brother. i also don’t really think that jodio is purposely misgendering dragona.
given what we know so far about the characters, i think there’s enough evidence to say that dragona identifies as a boy, but enjoys presenting feminine. so i’m going to be using he/him for dragona unless something contradicts that in later chapters
#hope this was helpful for anybody!#i'm not trying to say anything about whether dragona is good or bad queer rep#i'm a cis girl so i don't think i have much to add to the conversation in that regard#but its pretty clear that in the original language dragona is refered to as a boy#okay thanks for reading also general disclaimer i'm still learning japanese#the words i pointed out are very simple though so i'm not worried about having mistranslated anything#dragona#dragona joestar#the jojolands#tjjl#tjjl 1#jjba#日本語 study
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I may fully be a binary man but in the same way as gomez addams is fully a man (gender subclass: husband (my love of my not yet wife and my general devotion to the women I love is a part of my sense of gender))
I think that being Just A Man And Nothing Else At All is also something that comes with variation and unique relationships to gender and all the spicy stuff that the patriarchy hates.
I'm a man, and I'm also like, horse guy/nerd/academic/artsy/faggy subclass, or whatever. And every cis man at this horse show I'm at right now (most of the attendees) fucking hates me for my tboy swag, even though I am Also a horse guy (I didn't bring the cowboy hat or the big buckled belts bc I didn't wanna wear felt hat and fucking jeans in 100 degrees. I'm just a bad person I think)
anyway point being that "binary man" just means "not nonbinary", but nonbinary people aren't the only ones who get to be funky little freaks about gender.
you are Gomez Adam Man Gender and that's cool as hell dude you don't need to qualify your unique relationship to manhood. everyone should have one of those.
#this is kind of why i don't claim the label 'binary' outside of like#specifically convos about nonbinary stuff i guess#even then i identified as nonbinary for like 5 years it was not that long ago and i still don't think that like#my experiences now are that far removed#despite identifying as Just A Man now#I'm a trans man and I'm not nonbinary but my lives experiences have changed almost 0 as a result of this#progressive ally (tm) cis women sure want me to be nonbinary though!!!
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ough any genlosers in the chat?e
#art#my art#genloss#generation loss#genloss fanart#genloss art#employee1010#what do you mean I'm making an oc based off my current fixation instead of doing artfight no nooooo me? nooooo shhhhshshhhhhh#of course its me to make myself a background character instead of something more interactive with the main cast- what do you want from me::#the guy does have some lore though don't worry ::)#or maybe do... depending on how you feel about them.. mmm#also still deciding pronouns?#Im thinking he him but maybe a neopronoun in there.#he/him zey/zem?#maybe?#*maybeee*#either way bros not cis.#butyeahhope you enjoy ::)
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Happy birthday, Taizi Dianxia!
#it's still july 15th where I am#谢怜0715生日快乐#xie lian#tian guan ci fu#tgcf#heaven official's blessing#I'm experimenting with coloring styles again#I really like how I colored his face and hair not a big fan of the way his clothes turned out though#fanart#tgcf fanart#dramatic alice art
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"The average person will not care if trans people exist in the same spaces as them," and, "some of the most powerful people are of the opinion that trans people must be separated from society, thus, it's important to not stop your allyship with 'I don't care'" are both true.
It is good that so many cis people don't care enough about who is trans and who isn't, that isn't solely what will save us. It's important to stop people in power from affecting the lives of trans people, from preventing them from pushing us out of every space and opportunity they can.
#trans#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq#ftm#mtf#nonbinary#ally advice#transphobia#transphobia tw#i've come across many a cis person who literally doesn't care what trans people do or do not do and i appreciate the viewpoint of...#...'it isn't my business so i don't make it my business'...#...HOWEVER i do not think that alone is sufficient when it comes to ensuring trans peoples safety...#...because obviously people in power have immense interest in making the lives of trans people either impossible or very hard...#...and that isn't going to stop unless we make it stop#i'm not trying to say that if you're cis and you don't find other people's transness your business you are wrong and terrible by the way...#...what i AM saying is that trans people are still in material danger the longer people have the power to make our lives hell y'know#as far as i'm concerned the whole 'it ain't my business' can often be a good response to transness#in that you recognize that it isn't your place. i do the same thing even though i'm tranS#because even though i am trans it is STILL none of my business who's trans and who's getting what surgery or whatever
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Amy/Rory I Saw the TV Glow au:
Amy as Maddy/Tara, who ran away and never came home, who talks about things that can't be real (the TV show, the TARDIS, a world where they're strong, a world where they're something better).
Rory as Owen/Isabel, meek and yet loyal and yet terrified of his best friend and what she means. And what she says. And what she shows him.
Doctor Who, the TARDIS, the Doctor, all wrapped up into the role of the Pink Opaque, the TV show from their youth, and something Amy grasps onto and never let's go. Something Rory abandons for a normal life.
And yet.
#there is still time.#I saw the TV glow#rose rambles#dw au#I'm less attached to Rory as Owen/Isabel (and not totally sure what pronouns to use for Owen in general)#what pronouns do you use for a character who only STARTS to understand who they are at the very end? I don't even know what pronouns I'd use#for my OWN younger self y'know?#I'm not usually one for crossovers but Curtis brought this up and#but Amy as Maddy. Man.#rip Amy you would have had a good breakdown watching isttg#also does the Doctor exist in this universe? I'm not sure. Someone has to be Mr Melancholy#so I guess either he takes on the villainous role#or Mr Melancholy is Amy's mom or one of her psychiatrists?#lots to think about. few to think about this with. my house is filled with The Plague so we're all working at 50% capacity#I feel like this leans less into the transgender themes which is a shame bc My God is that movie. So so so much.#I am trans. As you could probably guess from my username. Movie hit me like a truck.#anyways I AM soft for T4T Amy/Rory though so they can also be trans here too 👍 what is isttg if everyone is cis#its just I am most compelled by Amy as Maddy/Tara and the parallels between those two characters#nd how they could be worked into somethig like this#so
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i think people still fail to realize that there is no "masculine" or "feminine" facial feature or body type. none whatsoever.
because yeah, trans, non-binary and intersex people exist but even otherwise. sometimes cis women have typically "masculine" features, like facial hair, a flat chest or broad shoulders. sometimes cis men have typically "feminine" features like a small waist, big chest or soft skin. sometimes cis women are taller and cis men are shorter. it all depends on your genetics and sometimes your lifestyle.
and this is where transphobes trip up when they say shit like "we can always tell". no you can't. you'll go and call a cis woman slurs because she happens to have a body that you consider masculine. you bully a cis man because he doesn't fit your criteria of masculinity. you're literally a parasite to your own community, just because of your hatred of the trans community.
so yeah. the sooner we dismantle these stereotypes and just accept that people have different features, regardless of whether they are cis or trans, the easier it would be to just exist in your own body without worrying that you're not masculine enough or feminine enough.
#i specify cis people here because there's this idea of only trans people being “not passing”#for context i'm afab and generally use the label “woman” (though i'm genderqueer)#i haven't gotten any surgery im not on hormone medications#but i have mostly “masculine” features#facial hair chiseled jawline thick eyebrows high cheekbones broad shoulders#and people often mistake me for a man just because of these features#i'm not particularly bothered by it personally but it's still a shallow judgment#so yeah it's a pity but#once we start accepting that cis people can have features of the other gender#it'll be so much easier to accept trans people who dont pass as their gender#queer#transgender#transgirl#transmasc#transfem#nonbinary#non-binary#genderqueer#intersex#demigirl#demiboy#cis men#cis women#gender#gender presentation#gender roles#lgbt#lgbtq community#lgbtqia#lgbtq
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Can't tell if actually a trans guy or just a cis girl who's extremely interested in trans culture...and also doesn't feel any connection to being a girl...and is lowkey obsessed with tomboy characters...and daydreams about dressing up like a dude...
#still totally cis though haha#part of me is scared to find out if I'm trans because of how much change and upset it would bring to my life#and another part is scared because I would be such a weirdo of a dude#one-time I took a picture of myself using a man filter or whatever it's called#and I ended up looking like the guy who tried to shoot Ronald Reagan#transgender#trans egg
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is tumblr!mickey trans? I was looking at the tumblr blogs for him and ian and they both mention that he is trans and there are questions asking about his pursuit and whether mickey thinks about if getting surgery. However, there's no reference to him being trans in the fanfic so I was unsure.
I just want to make sure I understand the characters correctly because somehow I'm only just now finding this series and am enjoying the fanfic and art.
hi anon! this is a super valid question!
when tumblr!mickey was first dreamt up by @breedxblemickey @ianandmickeygallavich & a slew of anons -- truly a team effort that you can read all about HERE -- he was cis like in canon. there have been a handful of fics, mine included, that have kept him this way:
hornygaythug.tumblr.com by papayawitch
@/hornygaythug by @whatthebodygraspsnot
(g)loved up & flip fuck? by me
then, actual tumblr blogs for ian & mickey (@/hornygaythug & @/9inchredhead) were made by some incredible creators in the fandom, & that iteration of tumblr!mickey is trans! there was a lot of Very Important discourse about the need for more trans!mickey content around the last spicy collab & a fic was also written that took that route:
In The Midnight Hour by @lesbiangallagher
in my humble opinion, all tumblr!mickeys are incredible tumblr!mickeys & it's been so fun to see this fandom come together to explore all of the different versions of him! there are even multiple RP blogs now on tumblr -- @/hornygaythug, @/hornygaythugg & @/hornygaythuglife !!! sweet, right?
i hope this answers your question! i think with this character in particular, cis/trans/not specified depends on the creator!
thanks anon! xx
ps. if you're in the market for more trans!mickey content, be sure to check out:
Strangers on a Train & Blackout by @thisdivorce & @breedxblemickey (with a part 3 coming atcha this week!!!!)
Pride by @you-show-me-love
hard to find how i feel by pinkpantherman
Gallavich Porn Gallery (nsfw art) by @psychicskulldamage
Every Last Part of You by @depressedstressedlemonzest
a grip on his heart (and his hips) by redroads
SHIT SHOULD I DO A REC LIST ON @slim-jims-in-this-shit-hole ???
#thanks anon i love you anon#did you still like my fic even though mickey's cis? 🥺 👉🏻👈🏻#trans!mickey is honestly a gift#also if i'm missing any hornygaythug fics/content lemme know slash feel free to add!#shameless#shameless fanfiction#shameless fan art#trans!mickey#tumblr!mickey#ian x mickey#ask bee#answered
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"trans people are only trans because of oppressive gender roles and if we just got rid of the gender roles nobody would be trans" might sound like a hot take, a thoughtful and compassionate take, but unfortunately it is ice cold and does not understand how being trans works at all. meet and talk to and listen to more trans people - preferably in real life - before making assertions like this, especially if you yourself are not trans.
#if this was true then explain to me why my friend is still a man even though his parents tried to raise him with as few#imposed gender roles as possible#every type of woman under the sun was thrust his way with the insistence that his sex was not a limitation#and a girl can be anything she wants and do and study anything she wants#he saw and appreciated all of that and at the end of the day his kid self was still like#'thats nice and i hear you but i'm growing up into a man. you cant fool me'#this is not every trans experience but it is not an UNcommon trans experience. so this argument just doesnt hold water#also if 'giving into your dysphoria' would have made you want to die#and accepting a gender that's in line w your bio sex makes you feel better#congratulations. you are cis#and therefore you do not get to speak to the trans experience#YOUR experience is valid. projecting your experience onto the trans community is wrong#it reads to me the same as someone who thought they were ace until they realized they weren't#concluding that therefore nobody is really ace and all ace people just *think* they are#and their hidden allosexuality can be 'cured' or jumpstarted by whatever set of circumstances triggered *your* sexuality#(knew someone irl exactly like this and it was deeply frustrating)#or thinking that gay people just need to meet the right person to be in a str8 relationship with bc YOU found someone like that#like no sorry...you're just bi#i could go on#i'm frustrated. i understand where this take comes from but it's really misinformed. you need to listen to trans ppl. start there
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One time when I was in 5th grade I wore a nice dress just because I wanted to and someone asked me if it was picture day and I never wore a skirt or dress again for three whole years. (They weren't teasing to be clear, they were just confused I think.) I still rarely wear skirts or dresses -- for one, putting on tights is more work than pants, but for a very long time I had a fear of being seen as "trying too hard" or something, which I still have but not so much towards skirts, those are less remarkable now. I'm not sure exactly what I'm trying to say by sharing this story but it's very formative for me.
#as far as i remember only two or three girls ever wore skirts in middle school. a few more do now but still v. rare#I think the way this has shaped my worldview makes it very hard for me to understand former girls#who feel like it was socially unacceptable for them to wear pants in the modern world (2010s and later)#because I felt it was Noticeably Weird for me to wear a dress as even a gender-conforming perisex cis girl#though I do know at least one of the comments on that last post was an older adult#i enver finished Stone Butch Blues because it was SUCH a hard read but those stories felt like they matched that era more than#the world i'm familiar with#why is the world always so awful to so many people for so long....#gd i fuking hate this place#it didn't have to be like that did it? why did it all happen#you can only think of the hundreds thousands who-knows-who-many who were victimized that we never heard from#I said this#personal
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i know i said i needed to rewrites parts of his backstory because of a major change i might and i will. but i also don't feel like making any anticipation for this because honestly? it doesn't change too much about him...
basically, patrick is trans (ftm). he transitioned in secondary school and while out about his queerness, his gender is something he keeps more to himself.
#the professor's journal ( psa. )#honestly? this actually explains a LOT about some of the things he does#like how he insists on being a gentleman....well that's a form masculinity that he vibes#also the fact that like almost everything in his life isn't necessarily something he was born so much as he gained/created for himself#over time#i will have to at least rewrite the parts about his early childhood#buuuuut.....this is also does simplify a few things for me too <3#oh and his relationship status is still the same#i can now say though that patrick's tastes can boil basically: 'women and hyuk' JFKLSDJFLSJ#but really he's still demi so it's still: 'felicity and hyuk'#in no particular order <3#look i know he doesn't garter a ton of attention bc he's single ship old#not white and now not cis#but wtf not it's not like i'm looking for him to be popular anyways
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sorry for rambling on about this but i thought i was being dramatic when i blocked all the transmiso intersex blogs and now that i only see intersexuality mixed with disability politics on my dash (i need to see more fat lib but i'll get there) i feel soooo refreshed... this is what i wanted, this is why i kept complaining. thank you hapi & hermaphroditus 🙏
like i live under a rock when it comes to intersex politics and i just mind my own business, but i wanted to partake in Community more, at least online - despite being disillusioned and jaded when it comes to finding that. there were some blogs from those i blocked that i wanted to follow before i saw the complete disparagement of the tme/tma terminology among them (sorta new to me in this context) with racist undertones, and it was like oh... right. this is why i stay under my rock.
but it's nice to see intersex transfems being listened to more and more, though i do have to make an effort to find them among the very loud transmisogynists. recently saw a very well written post mention ipsogender and it's like we truly are out here, creating words and talking about our experiences without being essentialist, individualistic & ill intentioned. good things can be possible when you aren't obsessed with your internalized dyadism.
#good things can be possible if intersex folx realized they Can have internalized dyadism and be sex essentialist#but i feel like their issues weren't with not having a word for “i'm not trans but my femininity is still different from cis women#it seemed blatant in some discussions that they hated how they couldn't be as Woman as a cis perisex woman (whatever that means?)#(+ they think that's what transfemininity is like???)#as harsh[?] as it sounds i'm not going to extend any sympathy for that#cis women (intersex or otherwise) have been my main abusers & even cis perisex men have treated me faaaaar better than them#though the bar is so fucking low that i can't even make that comparison#so i don't understand why/how anyone would find a home in their abusive and arbitrary womanhood#what makes you think of them as friends and expect acceptance from them?#i knew they hated my guts since i was like 6 & didn't even know the concepts of cis or perisex existed#text#💚
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It's still fucked up to go "why can't people accept trans men as men when they act JUST LIKE cis men," and it (at best) is putting trans men in a shitty position wherein we have to prove ourselves suffieciently enough and at worst is actively just transphobia reliant on gender essentialism, which affects all trans people and then some.
#trans#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq#ftm#nonbinary#transphobia#transphobia tw#i've honestly found that people have held me to a much higher standard than cis men and i imagine that is multiplied tenfold among TPoC#the conversation about how we (general) make TPoC into a Threat is not mine to have. i have seen this discussion pop up multiple times#and the way gender is racialized absolutely affects PoC and TPoC#it runs me the wrong way precisely because of the gender essentialism and how much of that is rooted in transphobia 👍#like i feel as though people will read past the transphobia i'm talking about to go 'oh classic man whining' but...#...transphobia is transphobia even if it is 'gender-affirming' transphobia#my manhood isn't affirmed when you assume i'm a danger or that i am bound to be a fuck-up yknow?#because i *do* actually try my best to be good to the people around me and i *do* my best to protect others#and i am confident in the fact that the people around me irl will know that i don't fuck around when it comes to wanting to have their backs#like i have made it clear that i am willing to go apeshit if i'm told somebody is not safe#anyway i just want people to be mindful about how they talk about trans people and how playing into gender essentialism won't save us#i want people to know that they're still hurting trans people even if they think they're somehow punching up at us#talking about this because it's weirdly something i see so often when people even look at a trans man (only slightly hyperbolic)#people assume trans men have no idea what women and gender expansive people go through when it's like...??? HUH???#(also going off earlier my manhood doesn't even *need* to be rooted in protecting others and being a shield for me to be a man)
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