#Green flags

[mindndamist94]

Is that too much to ask for..?

Get you a freak that

Genuinely loves and cares about you and your mental health.

[0ksypon]

my little baby boy 😇

[manincaffeine]

"how was ur day?" "how are u?" "i missed u today" "call me when u get home" "im proud of you"

[stardust-absolute]

[honeypleasejustkillme]

“what’s wrong, talk to me”

“let’s fix this, i can’t lose you”

“we’ll work it out together”

[theambitiouswoman]

Green Flags in Communication 💚💬

"I want to know when I hurt your feelings."

This shows they are willing to understand and acknowledge the impact of their actions.

"I don't want you to feel alone in this."

This shows empathy and indicates that the person is supportive and does not want the person to deal with issues alone.

"I've been struggling with ___”

This demonstrates vulnerability and trust, as the person is open about their struggles.

"How have you been feeling about ___? I know it's been on your mind a lot."

This shows concern for the other person's issues or worries, showing that they are listening and care about what's important to the other person.

"I feel __ when you __; are you open to trying __ next time?"

This is an example of constructive communication.

"What do you need from me when this happens with your family?"

This shows awareness and sensitivity to the persons family dynamics and a willingness to provide support.

"I appreciate when you ___.”

Expressing appreciation is vital for positive reinforcement and acknowledging the efforts and qualities of the other person.

"I didn't handle that well."

This is a sign of self-awareness and accountability, recognizing one's own mistakes and being open to learning and growth.

"I'm sorry, I was wrong to say that. I'll try to be more mindful in the future."

Shows you are able to apologize genuinely and a commitment to improving behavior.

"Tell me more about that; I'm really interested in hearing your perspective."

Indicates a genuine interest in the other person's thoughts and feelings.

"I noticed you seemed a bit off today. Is everything okay?"

It shows you are attentive to the other person's emotional state and a readiness to provide support.

"I'm here for you, no matter what you need."

Offers unconditional support, creating a sense of security in the relationship.

"I love how passionate you are about your hobbies. It's inspiring to see."

Expresses admiration for the other person's interests.

"Let's work on a solution together. What do you think would be fair?"

Focusing on collaboration rather than conflict.

"I trust your judgment on this."

Trust and respect for the other person's decision-making abilities.

"Your happiness is important to me. Let's make sure you're taking time for yourself."

Prioritizes the other person's happiness and emphasizes the importance of self care.

"It's okay to feel that way. Do you want to talk about it more?"

Validates the other person's feelings.

"I appreciate how you handled that situation. You're really good at ___."

Praises specific strengths or skills, boosting the other person's self-esteem.

"I know we disagree, but I respect your point of view."

Acknowledges differences in opinion while still maintaining respect and understanding.

[thepeacefulgarden]

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[deliy-art]

The greenest flag ever award goes to-

🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁🥁

[thatstolenpayal]

ngl but if i were a boy i would have been the best boyfriend

[yorsue-dolly]

TOGAME JO 🐢

[my-autism-adhd-blog]

Green Flag in People

The Spicy Autistic Femme

[classycookiexo]

[alastor-simp]

FIZZ X OZZIE ARE TOO ADORABLE I CAN'T!!!!!!!!!

Helluva boss new episode has me squealing like crazy. Not only that but the songs from this episode were BANGING, I'm gonna be listening to Glitz and Glam song plus Fizz song on repeat XD. So happy FizzxOzzie were able to come out as a couple with no one judging them. This was hands-down the best episode of Helluva Boss (second best being Oops)

[femininedating]

This situation is so sad.

Being feminine is not enough. Having your own money is not enough. We have to learn how to VET men properly.

Vetting a man as a provider is one thing, but don’t forget to vet his character too.

Is he a good person?

Does he have good morals?

Does he have good character?

Is he respectful to you?

Does he care for others?

Is he emotionally mature?

We have to pay attention to red flags and green flags. We have to stop being desperate and rushing when in relationships. Low self esteem, fear and poor vetting is why women end up with these type of abusive men.

Women have to start dating smart!

[nepentheseeker]

i just realised we never saw Seongji's happy Smile ಥ⁠╭⁠╮⁠ಥ

and I love it when Sinu smiles, Love him .

They are like greenest flags ever , well we can add more characters like Jichang and Jake but these two are my fav .