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The non-answer answer
“Lord, will only a few people be saved?”
It’s a real question. It was real when it was asked in today’s Gospel. It’s still real when you and I ask it.
There are a lot of people out there who don’t believe. And a lot of people who don’t know what to believe.
Because there are a lot of people who wear the label “Christian” (liberal, conservative, progressive, traditional, pick any of them) that only add to the confusion. Often by giving some of the most off-putting presentations of what it means to be a Christian.
The lived sermons of some of the loudest “Christians” are no help at all. So it’s no wonder that people don’t know what to believe, and are asking,
Whose example should I follow? What does it really mean to live my Faith? How do I have a real relationship with God?
This is why – “Lord, will only a few people be saved?” – is a real question.
What I love best is how Jesus answers it. He doesn’t give numbers or percentages. He doesn’t have statistics or projections or trends.
Because Jesus doesn’t care about numbers or statistics or trends. What Jesus cares about is people.
But not as anonymized data or members of a group. Not as collections of identifiers and labels.
Jesus doesn’t care about groups. Jesus doesn’t care about labels.
What Jesus cares about is you.
Which is why Jesus’ answer is about our part, is about what you need to do and what I need to do – “Strive to enter through the narrow gate.”
Jesus doesn’t want a relationship with a group. Or a collection of labels.
Jesus didn’t preach the Kingdom of God to a group. Jesus didn’t give His life for a collection of labels.
For Jesus, all of it is personal.
Because Jesus wants a relationship with you.
Today’s Readings
#Labels#Getting past labels#Groups#Personal#God#Jesus#Catholic#Christian#Church#Christianity#Catholicism#Moments Before Mass
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HAPPY PTIDE MONT EVERYBODY!!!!!
been fighting demons (sinus infection) for the past two weeks now, I promise im still alive (kinda) AND IM COOKING SOME OTHER MORE FINISHED PRIDE STUFF TOO!!! I just wanted to throw together this one for sillies cuz my fighting of demons is killing my ability to make finished art 💔 IM GETTING THERE THOUGH!!!! PRIDE MONTH CANNOT ESCAPE MY PRIDEFUL HANDS NO MATTER HOW GROSS MY COUGHS GET o7
#saiibo#kiibo#k1 b0#keebo#shuichi saihara#saihara shuichi#danganronpa#danganronpa v3#drv3#danganronpa kiibo#danganronpa shuichi#danganronpa art#danganronpa fanart#danganronpa v3 killing harmony#danganronpa v3 fanart#danganronpa ships#headcanons haven’t changed for me at all in the past year eheh#shuichi is so undeniably bi 2 me…..#and kiibo gets the rainbow flag cuz!! I don’t really see him having any labels on his sexuality tbh!!#that and I just don’t really headcanon him a specific sexuality either LOLZ#HAPPY PRIDE YIPPPEEE
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Obsessed with what America and England have going on in HetaOni. America's like "I keep having to watch my dad die from overusing his magic in past timelines and not knowing how to stop it is killing me inside but I'm not going to talk to him about it" and England's like "I can't seem to hold a conversation with my son without insulting him but I won't hesitate to use my dying breath to ensure I can protect him from beyond the grave"
#good morning i still have hetaoni on the brain#that scene where it looks like america's going to die but turns out past loop england used the last of his strength to cast a shield on him#(+italy and germany) before sending them back to the present.... godddd#and then current loop england goes and takes on the monster america was worried about and succeeds. at the cost of going blind.#one of the very things america was afraid would happen!! he was so relieved when england survived the fight before finding that out too!!!#i don't know if this is coherent im just. they care about each other so much even though they won't say it and 😭😭😭 it makes me ill#sigh. rotating both them and hetaoni in my mind at the same time makes me so. waaughh#(also obligatory disclaimer that hetaoni doesn't label their relationship in any way them being father and son is just canon in my brain)#hetalia#hetaoni#hws america#hws england#tea dad n coffee son#personal#i have an old hetaoni wip fic that i think i intended to do more with but was mostly just about america and england as far as i got...#i can't remember the rest of my plans for it so maybe i'll shift the focus to them and try to get it finished sometime
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#I say that but in truth I've been wondering if the time of this blog has come#As time passes I feel more and more unwelcomed in the fandom?#And though I know it's probably all in my head it's still a feeling I haven't been able to brush off in months. Or longer#And in the last days in particular. I feel like one blog too many has blocked me 😅#I don't even remember what blog it was that blocked me and yet ever since it happened I have been carrying this uneasiness#Which. Look. It's plain ridiculous. And probably just a sign for me to move on or move out#I've felt the urge to deactivate so often in the past week#Tumblr has just been feeling like a big party was being thrown in the next door without me being invited. Which I suppose is#intrinsic to socials in general but it only gets worse by the year#I hate those stupid mutuals labels so much.#My Tumblr experience has gotten one thousand times worse ever since they were implemented.#Sigh. Either way I'm probably going to stick around at least untill ss/kk have their moment. I'm not stupid.#If I ever disappear remember to keep archiving b/sd official content for me.#Track and download the masterlist contents if you can. All links break sooner or later.#random rambles
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out of curiosity, would you consider yourself butch?
used to be a blonde underweight twink and now I'm a based jock still got the chanel bag and the sick albeit matured mind of a suckpig to prove it so I'm gonna let you decide whether you wanna call me that word just cuz I got a pussy and short hair. I promise you that there have been enough advancements made in the art of lesbian sexual dynamics in the past 50 years to broaden the vocabulary used to describe the plethora of types of masculine females.
#being called butch just reminds me of how much males have the freedom to navigate between male archetypes and how people pay attention to#the distinguishing features of these varying masculinities#but when a female is seen as masculine it all gets lumped under the “butch” category#her masculinity is seen as unnatural and therefore incapable of being considered genuine or taken at face value as it is with males.#its always brought into question instead of taken in consideration with the rest of the woman's life and experiences and her particularities#Hence... Butch is still being treated as though its a huge lesbian cultural phenomena instead of a specific niche thing#also i dont mean to invite the “you dont pass!!” anons again bc that idiot is missing my point entirely (which is that im truly not trying)#but the fact is that for the past 3 years i have found myself increasingly navigating the male social world#and discovering what it means to me as a female to have access to the ability to take my “masculinity” for granted... relax#forget about it#etc#i think thats entirely antithetical to the Butch thing which seems to rest on the tension of other peoples expectations of her#people broadly are more surprised to find out that im interested in women just as much as they're surprised that im a gym queen iykwim...#ive worked hard for this and now that ive gotten the Woman Social Role thing pretty much entirely out of the way i am living the dream#i think a large part of that is learning as a dyke to appropriate the language of gay men theres a reason their terminology had#staying power even when their scene was *literally* dying meanwhile all that seemed to survive from dyke spaces was butch n femme ??#its because theirs didnt necessitate the building and maintenance of a scene in order for the subculture to hold its head above water#their labels *largely* weren't predicated on their relationships to gender roles and its telling that for dykes it was#their labels rested on the need to simply show up anonymous n be able to easily flag whether they were looking to fuck or be fucked#alongside the set of circumstances under which they would be fucking or getting fucked or what have you#it all comes back to the restrictions of female social blah blah blah and i think the sooner we collectively set down what we see as our#responsibility as lesbians and as feminists to Be A Woman the sooner we can step outside of that#n start thinking clearly about our individual circumstances and the necessity of putting on your own oxygen mask first before helping others
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gender microlabels are really cool to me bc a lot of the time they're like, metaphors almost, for how someone experiences their gender. like constellunyx, which is a gender connected to the moon, stars, & the connection between the moon & stars. or mechuatic, which is a gender related to mechanical sharks or fish. or lunaboy and solgirl, which are a gender related to the moon + femininity while being a boy, & the sun + masculinity while being a girl, respectively. or genderfunky, which is when ur gender is funky and goofy, and has a really fun flag. like i genuinely think it's so cool!! i love it & i wish microlabels weren't so looked down on both within and outside of the queer community bc it rules!!!
#text#ive had really bad obsessions abt labelling my gender/sexuality in the past so its also really nice to see ppl having fun with it#and not stressing abt finding The One Right Label To Use#and instead going Yeah here's my bucket of 37 metaphors that get across the general vibe of my gender. I love you Serious#i get the idea that labels should be for quickly communicating a broad concept of identity and a lot of -#whats the opposite of a microlabel. macrolabel? LMAO i'm using that#a lot of macrolabels serve that purpose (shoutout queer gotta be one of my favorite words!!)#but i think theres also a lot of value in having fun with it! &being like. im a queer demigirl and here's a bunch of other words i vibe w#is really cool!! even if i have to google most of the labels i see lmao#idk i just think its cool
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I find it interesting that after people’s interaction with Ominis outside of the Undercroft where he gets upset with them, people label him as a “privileged Slytherin” akin to Draco Malfoy, but that really can only be taken from his comment about using his family’s ties to the headmaster against the MC. Beyond that, Ominis and all the Gaunts are far from privileged.
By this point in the HP universe, the Gaunts are incredibly poor and they are very isolated from a lot of the wizarding world because of their aversion to anything Muggle (a view which Ominis states clearly that he disagrees with and isn’t proud to be related to people who have those views.) In the Half-Blood Prince, Dumbledore literally says the Gaunts lived in poverty due to previous generations having little sensibility when it came to indulgences and that was the case for a while before Ominis was born. All Gaunts lived in a run down shack that was a poor excuse for a home.
I think Ominis’s connection to the headmaster really just comes from them all coming from pure-blooded families, so they’re related in some way. The Gaunts aren’t very well-respected for a number of reasons. It’s only their history and their blood status that they really have to stand on (two things that Ominis rejects), not the current state of their family. His threat to use that only came from fear because of his perfectly understandable trust issues and the fact that one of his family’s secrets he wished to keep hidden had been exposed to a stranger without his knowledge.
#ominis gaunt#hogwarts legacy#some of the hate i've seen toward ominis label him as privileged and i had to get my thoughts out bc that is factually incorrect#i like draco let's be clear he's a great character#i just feel like people aren't looking at all past the surface when they compare ominis and draco#beyond them being pure-blooded slytherins they don't really have a lot of similarities at all#but anyway i have a lot more thoughts about ominis's current relationship with his family that i will get to later#headcanon
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also while we're here i would like to share the two iterations of tumblr user gorespawn that have existed since i abandoned this blog back in like early 2021. Who wants me
#i grew my hair out so i could twirl my hair while giggling about bald men#and also t.o.p of bigbang#and short men i see at the grocery store who honestly make me feel light-headed with raw and unbridled Want#but that's just a joke. i am. Lesbian#''no ur not'' I AM#anyway i used to be so ripped and hunky but now i am frail and sickly#what getting a job can do to a mf#thankfully i quit my job last week YIPPIIIEEEEEEE so now i will work towards becoming an absolute hunk again#wish me luck#ALSO#if anyone is obsessed with me and remembers all my lore i used to be transgender and i still am like lowkey on the down low#but in a new exciting way#anyway i used to be a gay man and then a stone butch dyke (as seen above) but now im practicing being a girl#it is very difficult but it is also fun. ive never been a girl before so it's a lot#anyway i bought two super cool sexy dresses yesterday for the first time ever in my life#sexy dresses meaning up to my neck and down to my feet and past my elbows. kind of like a wardrobe straight out of the handmaid's tale#from (to quote my friend) ''*The* old lady store'' thanks man. well i think theyre pretty and its v exciting bc ive never been a girl befor#anyway#who wants me#i still use the name emil online btw and i honestly always will i think it's just so me and also i do still answer to he/him dw#in a man way not in a he/him lesbian way#''he's LGBTQA+'' what. all at once?#yes.#i have mastered them all i have collected all the genders and all the sexualities and ive never been ''wrong''#it just keeps switching. which is fine. well im a girl now. in a detransitioning man way. who is insanely attracted to men#but you will have to tear this lesbian label out of my cold dead hands#''you can't call urself lesbian if u have sex w men'' well first of all fuck you and second of all i am celibate so you dont need to worry#''what the hell are you talking about'' nothing. now look how hot i am#im just joking around i hope that's fine w y'all
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ok bro so i don't know how to make this post SDJFHSH and say hi hello i missed everyone without being awkward and facing cricket noises since it's been over a year since i’ve logged in LMFAO and ppl still following r gonna be like ??? but .... ASKDUSDL HELLO!!!!! 🙂↕️ to everyone that is still here ... <3
I MISSED YA'LL SM OMG ;---; i hope some of you still remember me so this won’t be too awkward 🙂↕️🙏
on that note!!!! i have returned because i have really bad gojo and isagi brainrot since rewatching/rereading jjk + getting into bllk
+ i have so many fics i have completed that i want to post !!! i have been cooking in isolation and after much needed self-growth and love in writing <3 ;v; (gojo, isagi, and nanami ones mostly lmaoo AND ALSO A SUKUNA SERIES I WANT TO POST) AND IDK WHAT TO POST FIRST LOL
also to the mutuals (that remain... <3) please do not be alarmed if u see me in ur notifs reblogging fics for my current faves and yapping in ur tags 🙂↔️ like in the next few days LMFAO i have been deprived of reading good fic for soooo long bruh and now im like. I NEED TO READ FOR GOJO AND ISAGI SO BAD…. i missed fic so bad...
would ya'll be chill if i posted writing out of the blue here lmao and changed my username ??... it wouldn't be too awkward ?? 🙂↔️ (for the username i will change it in a few days despite my impatience so i give everybody like a chance to get used to me being on their dash so it won't be too alarming LMAOO)
#i am way too lazy to make a new blog from scratch lol#idk how to post its been so long KSJDFHS (ALSO WHY IS TUMBLR SO SKINNY NOW LIKE THE DASH IS SO NARROW IM LIKE CONFUSED LMFAOO???)#also tf r community labels what is this... saw a notif on a dumb shitpost of mine and it is labeled?? as that KJHDSF idk what that means#so much as happened in the past year idek where to start but i am here to stay if u will have me ^_^ <3#HELP IM BEING SO AWKWARD THIS WILL GO AWAY THE MORE I POST I JUST. whew getting this post out into the dash is nerve wracking bro lmfaoo#over a year completely away from tumblr was strange cuz idk how to behave LOL#i do wanna post here so i just wanted to make this post in advance and like greet everyone and interact w everybody so its not too-#-awkward once i start posting writing and reblogging n such LMAOO#and also posting blog maintenance stuff :3#KSJDHF LETS RIP THE BANDAID OFF AS THEY SAY#i am so excited !!!!!#i thought about some of u guys while being away from the app and just kjshdf i hope some of u r still here ;___;#i've also figured my interests n stuff out a lot this past year...#found out im bi gender also so. weeee ...
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i always feel like there's such an underappreciated aspect of lumpus being the one to have feelings for slinkman (over the years) which is that there's something so Hilarious about him wanting to dump his head in a vat of acid because he's thinking stupid mushy shit, or Worse, about this Thing again
who also does not pick up on this at all and just thinks he's being weird again
#camp lazlo#talk#shipping stuff#scoutmaster lumpus#slinkman#slinkman.jpg is always there for us#you love your silly little slug don't you scoutmaster lumpus...#''an underappreciated aspect'' there's only like 3 people in the world who've ever written in-depth thoughts about them in general syd#it's just so easy for me because i also see slinkman doing anything and i'm like (holding my head in my hands) wtf#My Beloved Slinkman Calms Me Down#i think about it a lot though because before i started joining in over here#slinkman being the one with the crush is what i would see like 99% of the time#but i Literally had to actually go and plot things out for lumpus to get better before i could see slinkman liking him back#and that's also why i have this Entire larger picture here#where in the grand scheme of things i'm not even really imposing on canon in that way...#i'm not really planning for tension to be at the forefront there#its some other weird shit going on. y'know. until other stuff gets revealed in the past and the future#the whole process here is like a 30-year journey we're taking the advanced course and still not ending with anything labelled#so i do get it especially with lumpus being preoccupied with jane#and yet still not for a moment have i subscribed to slinkman having feelings first ☝️
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Hello! I have an inquiry regarding your fanfic ‘one single thread of gold’. I see that it is marked ‘explicit’ so would you say it is 18+? It looks lovely but as I��m 17 I would hate to disregard any boundaries you have around that. I hope you’ve had a magnificent start of the new year!
HI !!! this is such a respectful thing to ask omg hello
uhmmm so there's like,,, one explicit scene in chapter 1. and then the rest is fineeeee and then later on there will be one implied/imagery vibe explicit stuff??? but beyond those two scenes there's nothing else E in the fic and those are either already marked in the AN or will be when i post :D
i'm very aware that by posting things online i can't monitor who sees what, so the tags are there and CW are in each chapter as like a "hey! this is in this!" which is really all i can do on my side, then it's just down to hoping people know what they're doing.
but my baseline is like,,, i'm not anyone's parent or guardian, and by tagging it i've done my part. i can't limit it much further, even with a MDNI, minors will infact I. all i really ask is that anyone under 18 doesn't like,,, talk to me about the scenes. because that's uncomfortable for the both of us.
HAPPY NEW YEAR HI I EXPLAINED THIS SO BADLY I AM NOT ELOQUENT OVER TEXT
#asks#this is a !!! i've spoken about this sm with friends#because we as adults in this space have a responsibility to not expose people to things too soon#but really past tags or MDNI labels there's not much we can do without bordering onto censorship discussions#and also that responsibility isnt ours because we're engaging in this space too#it's down to parents to monitor and educate and for minors to respect boundaries#and then down to US to just tag things correctly so people know what they're getting into#which i explained sm better over voice note than tags hi sorry#but in an informative sense: there's 2 horizontal times scenes and the rest is not E
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Seeing
Sometimes the Bible can sound like nonsense.
Like today’s Gospel, “they look but do not see and hear but do not listen or understand.” How is that even possible?
It’s not just possible. It’s commonplace. You and I do it all the time. Here’s how it goes.
We look. We label. And…we’re done.
We don’t really see the person. Not after we label them.
It’s not just that we don’t stop for a closer look. We don’t even slow down. With a quick label, we’ve turned them into a thing. Dropped them into a convenient box with everything else that has the same label. And moved on.
The scary part? How often you and I do this. And how easily we do it.
Whether we slap a positive label on them or a negative label really doesn’t matter. Because either one does the same thing.
When we label, it keeps us from seeing everything that’s really going on with them. From ever understanding who they are. Or why they do what they do.
Which means that we can never help them. We can never use the gifts that God has given us to do any good for them. To make any difference in their lives. Even the thought to do that never occurs to us. Because to us, they’re just another thing with a label.
Truth be told, getting past the labels and to the person?
It’s the only way that any soul is ever saved. It’s the only way that any life is ever changed.
And it starts with seeing them not as a label, but as a person. As someone.
Someone worthy of your time. Someone worthy of your sacrifice.
It starts with seeing them the same way that God sees you.
Today’s Readings
#Labels#Person#God#Jesus#Catholic#Christian#Church#Getting past labels#Worthy#How God Sees You#Moments Before Mass
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*grits teeth*
i do not want to discourse here or anywhere anymore but it does kind of affect me as a transmasc bi person when i see shit that indirectly misgenders me and implies that bisexuality is an icky no good word and identity and you have to be bi and gay and bi and lesbian and bi and straight at the same time or support them or you're an evil stinky stinky terf like... hello where am, i
#it makes me feel othered by an otherwise inclusive community bc how dare i think that men aren't involved in lesbianism#or how dare i think that bisexuality is a whole and valid sexuality#or how dare i think that any and all nonbinary genders are included in every single sexuality by default#or that trans women are women so no fuckin g duh theyre included in lesbianism and if your knee jerk reaction to seeing:#men cannot be lesbians is to think of trans women then you are the transphobe here#or how i dare think that trans man and transmasc aren't the exact same thing#that genderqueerdyke person is also a transadrophobia geek and theyre buddies with genderkoolaid#which like. do i HAVE to say it?#IF U IGNORE THE TRANSMISOGYNY (WHICH U SHOUDLNT) THEYRE ALSO A ZIONIST HELLOW?? WHATS NOT CLICKING WHATS NOT CLICKING#OK IM KINDA MAD ABT THAT LIKE... SORRY BUT HOW ABOUT WE DONT PLATFORM IDIOTS NO MATTER HOW GOOD THEIR RHETORIC MIGHT SOUND#BC U WANT TO BE TOTALLY INCLUSIVE AND NOT GATEKEEPY#ive BEEN around the fucking block ive BEEN on tumblr when the resident terfs here coined bi lesbian#if you scrolled back far enough in certain keywords you wouldve seen that shit in the early 2010s being discussed in their circles#to mean lesbians who are attracted to trans women#you cannot reclaim that or recoin it#yes ive done the research too#i looked at every single piece of evidence of that label existing in the past 50~ years#its just bisexual women back when lesbian spaces also included them#plus like may i also fucking ssay that bisexual also used to mean being of two sexes (transsexual/gender and/or intersex?)#this close to fully believing that the pushback against bisexual being it's own whole and valid sexuality is some kind of psy op#i sound schizophrenic well Maybe I Am#i feel like im going to end up deleting this post bc i dont want to argue with people who disagree with me because there is no getting#through to any of you#tbd.
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ive had to step away from all the analysis of the finale because thinking about it for too long it fills me with such a [rage? bitterness? frustration? all of the above?] the likes of which ive genuinely never felt for a show before
ive cared about media before. ive been disappointed by media before, but i think the difference is i haven't put my faith in media like i did ofmd- and the more time passes the more i feel fucking stupid for putting that faith in the show in the first place, when so many of the things coming to light now were already there
i cant think about it too long else it makes me so fucking sad, and im tired of analysing it to bits because its not going to change anything, theres no way to fix any of this, no way to find a spark of light in it, no way to come back, to resurrect the show i fucking loved.
im sure everything everyone is saying is well thought out and nuanced things but for the sake of my own enjoyment of this fucking show i have to just not engage with it anymore.
#the last post was the exception to this and its only bc that segment of the interview was directly on my feed#like im sorry if you followed me for my serious takes and now youre getting silly goofy dude#but not taking this media too seriously is the only way im coping rn#ikyk ive talked your ears off about my relationship with fucking show and the fandom in the past month but. but#nyxtalks#ofmd#ofmd s2 spoilers#ofmd critical#like. the serangela break up Sucks and i could yell about it forever#but in the end i dont think i really went in having faith that marvel wouldnt fuck it up#and thats the difference here for me#the faith i did put in. and the way i see how that i shouldnt have#ill still complain. but i dont have the energy to read them or try and write them in a way thats in any way fact checked or nuanced i just#i need to complain but i need to keep my love for this fucking show i. need to#again. ikyk. so. silly hours. ignoring s2 hours. making up that fictional man hours. i gotta#also please enjoy nyx tries to label an emotion and fails
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why do i keep getting into communities i inherently have one-sided beef with (meaning, hate deeply and thus refuse to interact with)
#current thing is me going thru metalhead communities wanting to put up my battlevest idea somewhere and get tips#and going 'hm! all of these are elitist as fuck!'#like. chasing people who listen to nu metal or deathcore or whatever out. literally who cares man#would you do this in real life. the guy's in your metal community they are clearly not opposed to metal.#would you say this to a guy you met with a mcr patch face to face in a concert#this is about the battlejackets reddit community for absolute transparency. who the hell cares#one of the rules is Gatekeeping Is Encouraged come on man are you insane#these rules dont even really apply to me im thoroughly into what most Would irrevocably label as death metal#but like i also know what a red flag looks like#veespeaks#also about that one poll acc that decided to publicly respond to a submission ask saying 'half of these arent real metal'#like as the past owner of a gimmick account you dont need to accept everything but YOU DONT RESPOND TO THEM SAYING THAT#YOU JUST DELETE THE ASK MAN
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#everything about how 1d meant the most to liam#they all said he was the one out of any of them who was actually a professional#he cared so much and it was his dream to be a famous musician since he was a kid#kinda a cruel twist of fate that he ended up being the least favorite of the 5 of them#and his solo career was the least successful by far…….#i can see how seeking fame and external validation is dangerous#because it’s so fickle.#idk I just think in comparison to someone like Harry who despite his crazy levels of fame seems more grounded#because he has a good support system. Like I think of Anne and Gemma#(not saying that Harry doesn’t struggle with fame and I’m sure his life is darker than we see)#but yeah#like the fact that Liam’s parents and especially his dad wanted this lifestyle for him too#it just seems like so much pressure and then for it not to be going well for him at all#for his record label to drop him#etc etc#who wouldn’t be messed up from that?#like I personally am the queen of unhealthy coping so maybe I can empathize more idk.#nothing excuses his abusive behavior but you can see how it all spiraled out of control#once you start misusing drugs and alcohol your life can get out of hand so quickly#and even the thing about his PR rep dropping him within the past few weeks#it seems like he had NO ONE looking out for him#and that is so scary.#liam payne
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