#Enneagram six

[enneadonis]

STOP FOLLOWING SUPERFICIAL CLASSIFICATIONS OF ENNEATYPES AND THEIR INSTINCTS

I'll start these with the Sexual Six since it's my type and, in my opinion, one of the worst examples of this.

Every Enneagram type is defined by a core passion that stems from their Triad Center's primary shared problem. The E6 is in the Head Triad, thus, like all Head Triad types, is characterized by anxiety. Sevens escape the anxiety outwards, Fives lean into it inwards, and Sixes are caught up in the middle. The passion of Fear is what rules over them the most, nothing feels certain to them and is subject to questioning in order to make it be more certain, and incur in less fear. It's funny how everyone considers Fives to be the resident academics and researchers of the Enneagram when Sixes can very well be their close partners in crime. Sixes are a mental, logical type.

In the same way, every instinct is characterized by focusing the personality on seeking one of three spheres of our lives. The Self-Preservation (SP) instinct seeks conservation of their personal sphere, the Social (SO) seeks adaptation of that sphere to external demands, and the Sexual (SX) seeks relations in that sphere.

So! What do we get when we apply the passion of Fear to the sphere of relations?

Well, according to some, it just means Sixes become these aggressive types, using intimidation and status symbols as a way of seeking security, basically making everyone else afraid of them so they themselves can feel like the fear isn't there. Okay. Where does this even come from??

This common understanding of the SX6, going as far as to getting the nicknames of "Strength/Beauty" and "Intimidation", is completely ridiculous. They miss the fundamental reason as to why people with these fixations would behave like this in favor of focusing on superficial characteristics that show up in some examples and do nothing but alienate people who would benefit so much from seeing themselves in what this type is really about! Think about that portrayal once more. Doesn't it sound much more focused in the security of the self?

That's not inherent to Sixes as many believe, that's just the sp insinct, conservation of the self, making sure the self is safe. Sixes are about Fear and constant surveyance in the service of certainty and safety, yes, but it gets applied to different spheres, not just to the self. This is why SP6 get portrayed as these meek little dudes who just don't want any trouble, when you're already applying the SP instinct to every portrayal of type 6, how are you supposed to differentiate the actual SP variant?

Fear, when seeking relations, makes us scared of not having relations. Or the relations that we want, or in the way that we want them. Doesn't matter, the point is that the focus is on relations, on others, on emotions, not the self and personal safety. The SX6 craves the intensity, romanticism and devotion that any other sx type would. Their fear of not being someone who could live up to the standards of others so they would want to have that with them is what rules over them. That is the primary focus.

What does an actual SX6 do then? Like all Sixes, they try and live by certain applied sets of rules, while simultaneously pushing back against them. This push-pull relationship with authority entities (unspoken rules like social conventions can still be an authority, even if more subtle) is what encapsulates the E6 experience. This gets applied to questions of "how must I be (compliant/dutiful Hornevian Triad) in order to be someone others want?". It's here that we arrive at the actual focus:

The SX6 is about Desirability

And not in a deceitful way, like Threes or Twos could possibly fall into. Sixes genuinely want to embody what characteristics and ways of life they see others deem desirable and worthy of admiration. This is how we get the current SX6 stereotypes: fitness influencers, jock bullies and the like. And those people could very well be behaving under SX6 motivations! Just not because strength and intimidation is the point, but desirability. It's not the need for being intimidating or strong that needs to be let go of.

What SX6 needs to let go of, in order to grow, is the need to abide by what they are so sure they have to follow in order to be desirable to others. Only then will they actually allow themselves to bloom on nothing but their own terms and actually be someone who attracts people to their side with their strength of character and courage. At their best, they might even have somewhat of a chivalrous air about them.

SO NO, NATE JACOBS IS NOT AN SX6, STOP LUMPING US IN WITH THE LIKES OF HIM

Thanks for coming to my ted talk, I will be dumping more about the Enneagram on here in the future byeeeeee

[annemarieyeretzian]

CRITICAL ROLE: BELL'S HELLS (2021–) ENNEAGRAM TYPES ★

Imogen – Type 6(w5): The Guardian

Sixes are hard-working, responsible, and trustworthy. They foresee problems and foster cooperation, but can also become anxious, defensive, and evasive. They can be cautious and indecisive, but also defiant, reactive, and rebellious. They typically have problems with self-doubt and suspicion. Sixes are the most loyal to their family and friends. They will hang on to relationships of all kinds far longer than most other types. Sixes are also loyal to beliefs, ideas, and systems – even to the belief that all authorities should be questioned or defied. Enneagram 6w5s are very loyal people who value clarity and honesty. They love to be surrounded by good people, and they appreciate having supportive and trusting relationships that can be their safe space.

Sources: 1 2

[capricornvampire]

Part One || The Hunger Games: The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes Enneagram

Sejanus Plinth

Type One || 1w2 || 146

Type One:

Sejanus is motivated by his desire for Goodness, in the moral sense. His ethical integrity is at the forefront of his personality, and is the be all and end all of all his decisions and relationships.

Ones are highly principled and decisive when dealing with moral quandaries, and they seek out a sense of purpose

Sejanus resents his father, his classmates, and the Capitol on the whole for decisions that are at odds with his own ideals, and refuses to let that go unnoticed; at all times, the most important thing for him is to stand up for what he believes is right and just.

Type Four:

Fours tend towards melancholia. They can be explosive and sensitive, especially when circumstances challenge their sense of identity.

Sejanus has a habit of self-pity, however justified it might be, and wears his emotions blatantly on his sleeve. He is not precious about being seen as flawed, but is absolute about being authentic and true to himself (and his ideals).

Type Six

Sejanus is committed to both his goals and his friends - right to the bitter end. He will only momentarily stray from his stubbornly held beliefs when cornered by Coriolanus, his closest, and perhaps only, friend.

He desires material and emotional security for himself and his loved ones, and we only see him falter when their safety and his own is compromised - when his actions backfire and he comes face to face with the chaos in his wake.

Thanks for reading! I intend on making more of these as the mood strikes me - particularly Coriolanus and Lucy Gray, and I might try my hand at the main trilogy too (as soon as I finish my reread)!

These posts solely reflect my personal interpretation of these characters based on both the books and the films, if you would type them differently, I’d love to hear your perspective!

I used the Enneagram Institute webpage for type descriptions to make my initial decisions for this post, so for more information on Enneagram types in general, I can recommend their site!

[mistype360]

[lombax-nexus]

Three by Sleeping At Last | Six by Sleeping At Last | Seven by Sleeping At Last | Eight by Sleeping At Last

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(via Enneagram Comparisons | Type Three and Type Six)

[ghostly--omens]

Bored so I'm assigning an enneagram to each ghost

There are 9 enneagram types, there are 9 ghosts so...

The Reformer - The Captain: The Rational, Idealistic Type- Principled, Purposeful, Self-Controlled, and Perfectionistic it's just him innit

The Helper- Kitty: The Caring, Interpersonal Type: Demonstrative, Generous, People-Pleasing, and Possessive Kitty is such a people pleaser and also a wee bit possessive

The Achiever- Fanny: The Success-Oriented, Pragmatic Type: Adaptive, Excelling, Driven, and Image-Conscious Maybe this applies more to her younger self idk, but she's certainly image concious

The individualist- Thomas: The Sensitive, Withdrawn Type: Expressive, Dramatic, Self-Absorbed, and Temperamental Needs no explaination whatsoever

The Investigator- Robin: The Intense, Cerebral Type: Perceptive, Innovative, Secretive, and Isolated my big-brained best friend

The Loyalist- Humphrey: The Committed, Security-Oriented Type: Engaging, Responsible, Anxious, and Suspicious Responsible? Idk but this was the only type left, sorry Humphrey

The Enthusiast- Mary (RIP): The Busy, Fun-Loving Type: Spontaneous, Versatile, Distractible, and Scattered she is busy making baskets five potatoes high

The Challenger- Julian: The Powerful, Dominating Type: Self-Confident, Decisive, Willful, and Confrontational I really struggled between whether him and Fanny should swap but idk he seems more confident in himself than her

The Peacekeeper- Pat: The Easygoing, Self-Effacing Type: Receptive, Reassuring, Agreeable, and Complacent Might be biased because I'm a 9 but he just is, isn't he? "Guys! Si'l vous plait!" my conflict fearing king

[nicorobinphd]

i’ve been personality-typing op characters just to get a rough framework for how i understand the way they think & conceptualize things & why before doing like real character analysis after a reread. i’ve also been using personality database as a dartboard & i have many disagreements.

controversial opinions in the tag for those interested lol.

[disneymbti]

Do you have a hc for the enneagram and mbti type of Lisa Crowne from Daisy Jones and the six. I know she doesn't have one, but what do you think she is based off of her limited screen time?

Hi there, sweetie! I really hope you like this a lot!

Lisa Crowne's MBTI Type, Big Three and Enneagram Type

MBTI Type: ISFP [The Adventurer]

ISFP types need plenty of personal space. Though they enjoy building connections with people, they need alone time to think and recharge.

They are very observant, especially focusing on the details more than the overall view. They live in the present and tend to base decisions on what they can see right now.

Adventurers also prioritize emotion when making decisions. They prefer to follow what feels right.

They don’t like schedules, but instead prefer to keep their options open. They are adaptable, spontaneous, and like to challenge the need for strict rules.

Big Three: Pisces Sun, Virgo Moon and Aquarius Rising

Pisces Sun: The planetary ruler for Pisces is Jupiter and Neptune, which gives Pisces Suns a sentimental, intuitive, imaginative, and dreamy nature. 

Virgo Moon: Virgo Moons use their calm nature to gain deep clarity on matters, filtering questions through their kind, but reasonable, lens.

Aquarius Rising: This rising sign can speak lucidly on a number of topics, using their lofty knowledge to charm crowds and solve problems alike.

Enneagram Type: 6w7 [The Confidant]

Basic Fear: Six wing sevens’ fear losing their support system. This may be expressed through self-deprecating humor, in which they seek affirmation and assurance from other people.

Basic Desire: Their basic desire is to feel safe and supported. They show this by being loving and supportive to others. They honor their commitments and are very loyal to their friends.

Like other sixes, Confidants defend themselves by projecting their feelings, which may lead them to misunderstanding themselves and their relationships.

[enneagram-life]

The Enneagram Types at a Pool Party

Type One: Probably laying out with big sunglasses on talking about how they could have decorated the pool better than the host did.

Type Two: Definitely made snack trays and brought them, giving everyone juice boxes, etc. They are also taking a LOT of pictures and talking their friends’ ears off. Type Three: Almost definitely the host of the pool party. Spends a lot of the time laying out; talks a lot about how much they spent on the pool, how beautiful it is, etc.

Type Four: Pretending they are in a movie while they lay out and stare off into the distance, occasionally dipping their feet into the pool. Type Five: Either stayed inside or, if they do decide to come outside, they are sitting in the shade on their computer or reading a book. Type Six: Making sure everyone has sunscreen on. Definitely had a checklist and is freaking out if they forgot to bring something.

Type Seven: Jumping off the diving board, going down the slide, doing flips, literally just acting like little pool heathens the entire time they are there. Little wild people. Type Eight: They might be laying out and are the person to yell at you if you tip their float. Has shoved at least three people into the pool. 50/50 chance they jump into the pool like the seven has been. Type Nine: Probably was laying out in a chair and fell asleep, they are absolutely getting sunburnt as shit and they know it, they don’t care they are just tired.

[rares-posts]

What would it feel like

To put this baggage down?

If I'm being honest

I'm not sure I'd know how

Six - Sleeping At Last

[kitttttchaos]

The Fascinating Difference Between Enneagram 8w7 and 8w9 (from an 8w9 who knows too many 8w7s)

Generally speaking, 8w7s tend to be more open than 8w9s, in the sense that they are less likely to care about the words they say to people, and more likely to be spontaneous or impulsive. 8w9s tend to be quieter, and pursue a level of comfort in adventure that is more associated with freedom than strength.

Both have the same core desire for freedom and the core fear of being controlled, leading to a need to project an image of strength. However, in my experience, these two types define strength differently.

The 8w7s I’ve met typically assert themselves by telling everyone how strong they are and how little they care about what people think of them, and this is so others become intimidated by them and don’t try to control them. They are the typically portrayed 8s, displaying their strength by being purposefully unpredictable, breaking rules just because they can, challenging the norms, both out of distrust of said norms and a desire to make people think they are uncontrollable and not to be messed with. Ironically, they do care what others think of them, but are terrified of that fact, because many of them associate caring with “weakness”.

I always associate 8w9s with a quote from Kaz Brekker: “You’re not weak because you can’t read. You’re weak because you’re afraid of people seeing your weakness.” (May not be the exact wording) 8w9s show more “weaker” emotions than 8w7s. They are willing to express sadness and fear, because they believe recognizing those emotions is the key to true strength. 8w9s pride themselves on their determination, and being able to persevere through a difficult situation or argument without having angry meltdowns. An 8w9 may be rebellious and unpredictable, but they’ll give reasons for being that way, to essentially prove that their way is the right way, without hurting someone else’s feelings. They recognize that they care what other people think, because caring is their version of strength.

In summary, 8w9s are more level headed on the outside, while 8w7s are more headstrong, because 8w9s associate caring with strength, and 8w7s associate not caring with strength

[ridgystacis]

was enneagram-ing dmc characters for fun and basically the current list is something like this

dante: type 9

vergil: type 8

nero: type 6

lady: type 1 (not super confident on this one)

trish: type 4 or 6 (currently leaning towards 4 but i can see either, not really sure here too lol)

[lowcountry-gothic]

In other words, don’t seek to avoid, disassemble, or transmute [anxiety]…just notice it. Be with it. Offer it a seat at the table because, truthfully, the table Sixes sit at is capacious enough to hold all that they feel, think, and intuit.

Susan Piver, The Buddhist Enneagram: Nine Paths to Warriorship

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(via Enneagram Comparisons - Type Six and Type Nine)

[defnotmadie]

a friend made me take an enneagram test my highest was six followed closely by two and one how intriguing indeed…