#Endo Safe
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Bodily 19 years old
- Shay (They/it)
ao3 turns 15 today
reblog if youre older than ao3
(there's a lot of people asking about this, but the legal age to use social media is 13, except in few countries. so yes, there are people here under 15)
#alterhuman#nonhuman#enby#fictionkin#actually audhd#actually neurodivergent#plural#plural system#endo safe#tags are hard#💚🩵🐾🪶#other reblog#ao3#ao3 birthday
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Plurality is so weird sometimes because sometimes you go to refer to yourself and it’s like. I? we? wei? I/we? I/[headmate]? I (blurry)? I (system “I”)? all of these feel subtly different and sometimes figuring out which one to use in a given moment is weirdly difficult
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ATTENTION❗ ASTROTHETHERIAN HAS ANOTHER ACOUNT @/kingofantiendos PLEASE DON'T ENGAGE JUST BLOCK
#plurality#endo safe#plural system#pluralgang#pro endo#sysblr#actually plural#the creature speaks!#system stuff#system things#tw anti endo#anti endos dni#anti endo dni#dni anti endos#astrothetherian
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ENDOGENIC SYSTEMS YALL ARE THE FUCKING BEST!!!!
#endo safe#endogenic system#endogenic#pro endogenic#pro endo#system posting#endo friendly#endo system#I fucking won that fight#BUT YOU ALL ARE COOL AS FUCK#YOU ARENT FAKING!!#-Snowy
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we just had our little cofront while i scrolled through a list of girls names until she picked one ^_^
Some of us just come pre-labeled idk man lol
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So, we've been doing some research on which platforms are best/worst for being openly endo/pro-endo on
Disclaimer: this applies only if you are going to be actively interacting with / coming across plural spaces in these socials
More in-depth info under cut
Tumblr: you know it, you love it, you're currently on it. Tumblr is near undoubtedly the best social media to be endo/pro endo on (that we've found). Users / followers of pro endo tags outnumber users / followers of anti endo tags, which, while definitely existing along with anti-endo blogs, are far less popular, as well as being full mostly of posts that aren't even about endos or even sometime plurality in general, they're more just regular posts tagged with it just to ensure the "icky endos" stay away from their posts.
Bluesky: anti endos are far more common to encounter on Tumblr, but are still generally outnumbered by pro endos. Most mentions of endos just have them on DNI lists from antis or people doing syscourse.
Pinterest: honestly we should have put Pinterest next to Twitter on this list, they're about the same. Anyway, you can't really do text posts though you can definitely find anti endo userboxes and flags, but there's also quite a few endos / pro endos on there. They seem to number about the same
Twitter/X: surprisingly good! A fair few systems on there state being radplur/radinclus, even if they don't explicitly state they're pro endo. We saw just as many people supporting endos as we did hating on them, though syscourse doesn't seem to be discussed often on there.
Instagram: anti endos appear to outnumber pro endos by a little bit. The top few posts we saw were about 50% "why endos are bad" 40% "why endos are okay" and 10% "why fakeclaiming in general is bad (this does not extend to endos)". Overall, fairly negative place to be, try to avoid.
Youtube: 95% of videos about endos are information videos about them or "why I don't support endos" or "why are endos problematic". Syscourse is not a popular topic there, videos are 1000 views at max. There are definitely better places to be endo / pro endo
Tiktok: absolute hell for endos and pro endos alike. Next to no pro endos, next to no usage of the proendo tag, home of Asp*nfr*st*n. For your own safety and mental health, if you use tiktok, do not publically announce you are endo. It is better to stay away from the plurality side in general, to be honest.
Reddit: not on this list. This is because, due to how separated communities are, Reddit is Schrodinger's syscourser: both anti and pro endo at the same time, depending on which plural communities you frequent.
Hope this is helpful! :]
Let us know if you want us to investigate another social media we didn't mention, we're happy to do so.... for a price (the price is you asking us :P. We will not charge someone for making sure they are safe to be themselves on the Internet ^_^)
Quick tag in case its interested: @furyfuzz
And transparent blank template for this arrow we made:
#endo safe#pro endo#pluralgang#pro endogenic#endo friendly#endogenic system#actually plural#plurality#sysblr#plural community#plural system#endogenic plurality#endo community#endogenic#endogenic safe#anti endos fuck off#anti endos dni#anti endos not for you#system stuff#system#pluralpunk#plural
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how self entitled and stuck up do you have to be to make a pro-___ flag about yourself.
like the anti-astro flag was for shits and giggles but we're about to start taking that shit seriously. astro is a threat to people.
sorry for the astro jumpscare we hate anything surrounding him too
but seriously what the hell is this
-The Corporate Tower
AINT NO WAYYYYYY
we made the anti one for genuine shots and giggles
like it genuinely was a fucking shit post flag
ain’t no way his crusty ableist ass took it serious
he needs to get some media literacy on god 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Chat should we re-post our anti-Astro userboxes ?
also did he just re-skin the gay flag ????
#plural#pluralgang#plural system#endo safe#plurality#plural blog#plural community#tw astro#yeah he gets his own tw#xe are crusty as fuck#also see how we still respect xer pronouns ? Even tho we hate his guts ?#tagging for sunny
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*hugs all of you* I’m so sorry about that. I’ll get you a blanket and some tea and you can have some time to rest
the system experience
>type did system into youtube search bar
>first option is "did system cringe"
>go onto reddit and type did system
>first option is fake disorder cringe
>feel fucking awful
>do a did presentation in medical class
>someone raises their hand and asks how to know if someones faking
>feel fucking awful
>tell someone you have did
>they ask if you're faking because you have a fictive
>feel fucking awful
>feel fucking awful
>feel fucking awful
>tell a close friend you have did
>they get disgusted when you say we instead of I
>look at tiktok compilations
>did cringe compilation
>follow a funny youtuber
>video on people faking did
>feel fucking awful
>try and look for resources
>psychiatrist making a presentation on how did systems looking for community is a sign of faking, uses system content without their consent
>psychiatrist making a presentation on how did systems being open is a sign of faking
>go onto tumblr
>type plural
>find post about how "the future is plural" is traumatizing children and should never ever ever happen because fuck plurals we don't need acceptance that bad right?
oh my god when does it fucking end
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#Yes: I have Introjects of said source#No: I don't have Introjects of said source#Results: Results?#actually plural#endo safe#fictive#introject#plural#plural community#plural culture#plural positivity#plural stuff#plural system#REQUESTED
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Shout out to one of our friends for possibly one of the funniest system jokes a singlet has ever made
-🚭(Cody, he/it/they/bat/monster)
#pluralgang#plurality#pluralpunk#anti sysmed#plural#sysblr#endo safe#anti transmed#multiplicity#endo friendly#wizardposting
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A Guide: Encouraging Separation in Plurality
Hello! I'm Ardyn, and I decided to make this guide because after talking to many systems, I've come to realize that moving from a near medianhood to a full multiplicity may encourage better function for certain systems. For us any identity blurriness brings a lot of pain that has been aided by further separation and amnesiac barriers. Before you put an awful judgement on this, remember that healing is different for everyone, and breaking down barriers isn't best for everyone. This is up to the system, there is no guilt on wanting to do what is best for your system.
RADQUEERS DONT TOUCH
This guide will hold many different exercises and ideas that have been taken from tulpamancy and my own experiences.
first I'd say get situated with identity grounding and also following the "The Body is a Car" exercise within these sources
Identity Grounding
Guide to Switching
Building up Distinction
Separate Journals/Diaries
A seperate journal or diary that nobody can write in but that headmate is a good way to help a headmate build up their identity. They will be able to write down their own experiences and their own feelings, and this seperate space gives reinforces the idea that they are ultimately apart from you.
Separate Accounts with a Separate Feed
Something that pushed for the blur was having similar feeds, seeing my interest would push me to the front and cause issues for Vincent. He ended up making his own account on reddit where he is able to join subreddits that appeal to solely his interest, and it would help keep him at front instead of pull someone else.
Distinct Hobbies
encourage your headmates to pick up hobbies that are not something you may be interested in, hobbies give way to individuality as now they may seek others who share that hobby or spaces online that appeals to that hobby.
Different Clothing and Ownership
Assign different clothing and other items to headmates, let them pick out their own jacket and may they be the only ones to wear that jacket. Let them have their own perfume, let them have their own bag, let them have their own keychain for the car keys. This won't just give you that barrier, but also can be used as a form of identity grounding during a blur. When in blur, you will be able to tell whose fronting based on what clothing makes you feel more yourself.
Different Friends
This option may be more difficult, but it works very efficiently. Let your headmates have their own friend, I mean it. Giving them someone outside the system that they themselves can solely talk to is absolutely perfect in giving that split. Interacting and communication outside the body and encouraging unmasking will do wonders.
Drop Part Language
If you really want to encourage separation, you will have to drop the idea that you are all pieces of another. This is however a preference, speak to your headmates about it. Speak to them about terms they may prefer, maybe customized role names, let them be themselves. Push to yourself too that these are different people, not parts of you. But like I said, if parts language isn't an issue for you, then you might not have to change after all :P but I recommend it for this all to work.
Identity Separating Exercises
Now as you have pushed the formation of these headmates, now it's your goal to start separating them more and more through these exercises
Remember: Fake it until you make it
Being consistent in these exercises will be great, but you also have to make sure you believe that they are working. Plurality is very much a brain game, you have power over yourself and the more you believe these separations the more they will be. Some of these exercises are purely for pushing the belief, I recommend having a collection of proof on your plurality to refer to whenever you get doubtful.
I also recommend joining a tulpamancy community such as a discord or reddit, even if you don't practice tulpamancy, these people have so much trust in themselves and the process that it starts to rub off on you.
Separation Meditation
If you are able to visualize and even after doing all the above you still feel like your headmate hasn't fully left you, this exercise may be useful. In this meditation, you are to visualize the headmate in front of you. Then repeat "___ is a separate person from me" repeatedly for however long you like once a day.
Discussions
Speak to your headmates, ask questions about their lives
Here is a good source on that
The best route to take is to discuss opinions and specifically focus on what you disagree on, this will reinforce in your mind that this person is not you, this person does not agree with you, this person has their own opinion. Focus on those ideas until they really settle, and maybe also record these disagreements in your proof collection.
Affirmations
If you are a bit too busy for these things, constant affirmation throughout the day are both simple and helpful. Here is a good list
"__ is a seperate person from me"
"the system has entirely different and seperate people"
"___ is real and a seperate person"
"the system is noticeably distinct"
at first it may feel silly, but like I said, fake it until you make it. These will reinforce ideas.
Building Up Amnesiac Barriers
This may be more controversial, but for us these barriers help a ton. I would like to say that we already had blackout amnesia to begin with, but these exercises made them "worse". There are many reasons why a system may want to have higher amnesiac barriers, ours being privacy and independence, try to avoid judgement on this decision. The Switching Guide above also has an exercise that will push lost time.
"Cancel Recall"
When a memory from another headmate tries to seep into your thought process, immediately cover that memory and say to yourself "This memory isn't mine to remember". Perhaps visualize a door closing on it or a lock appearing on that memory. Mentally assign that memory to the correct headmate and move on
Affirmation
Affirmations that may help these barriers can be used situationally, just whenever you try and remember a time another headmate fronted think "No, I don't remember"
Headspace Tools
If you have a headspace, try using creation. Imagine cutting memory ties off with everyone else that can only temporarily be connected when agreed upon by both parties. Maybe also set up a headspace memory lock system.
Using Remnants left behind
When I say this I mean use something such as text messages a headmate left behind and when scrolling through them, focus and think "This wasn't me, I don't remember typing this".
Memory Redirection
Most times it's harder to push a memory away than just redirect it. When redirecting memory, for example you start to remember something another headmate did in meatspace, recite "that wasn't me, what did I do during this time" and attempt to recall your time within the headspace instead.
FAKE IT UNTIL YOU MAKE IT, REMEMBER THAT
what do you guys think? any changes we should make? we would love to hear how this guide impacted your system!
#pluralgang#endo safe#plurality#plural system#actually plural#system things#plural community#systempunk#syspunk#plural#plural guide#system#system stuff#tulpa safe
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This right here.
I just honestly think “sysmed” is a better term than “anti-endo” because they’re not just against endogenic systems.
They’re against traumagenic non-disordered systems.
They’re against traumagenic systems who are disordered by something other than a CDD.
They’re against traumagenic CDD systems who support endogenic systems.
They’re against traumagenic plurality if the trauma happened as an older child, teen or adult.
Some are even against traumagenic CDD systems if that CDD isn’t DID or OSDD (and sometimes OSDD doesn’t even count to them).
They’re not just anti-endogenic. They genuinely believe that everyone who doesn’t 100% agree with them are faking or enabling faking.
It’s more accurate to say they’re system medicalists (“sysmeds”) because they aim to pathologize (medicalize) plurality as a whole and leave out everyone who doesn’t have a dissociative disorder (and even some who do). Yes they are anti-endo but they're also anti-DID if it fits their narrative.
-- Hyena (he/him)
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Various Loops from yesterday in the Secret Santa server! Drawn by Ganymede but he forgot to post them. My post now
It's raining people. What in the world
#please use it/its or she/her for Loop on this post o7#isat#isat loop#loop isat#in stars and time#isat fanart#plural artist#pluralgang#endo safe#<- art of a headmate!
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Empty Inbox Alert!
How was your day?
Did you take your meds, eat, look out the window, etc?
Do you have any plans for tomorrow?
You're doing so awesome. I'm proud of you!
#Plurality is Mundane#mundane plurality#Plurality#pluralgang#actually plural#plural positivity#plural community#plural stuff#system#traumagenic system#Endo#endogenic system#Pro-Endo#did system#actually did#did osdd#osdd#dissociative disorder#tulpamancy#fictive#introject#pluralpunk#Actually plural#Endo safe#plural system#osdd system
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“Plural people like music made by plural person. Forks found in kitchens.”
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#mod 🛣️#plural quotes#system sillies#plural memes#system memes#plural stuff#endo safe#pro endo#pluralgang#plural gang#endo friendly#plural system#anon quote
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