#Endo Safe

[eklesia-system]

It's not my birthday yet, but I may as well tell everyone about it via this post. -v- Some shmuck somewhere already made me this cake.

-Puppetmaster

[airy-was-heree]

Having fictives is so funny sometimes like. no he would not fucking say that. he told me so

[mewos-laptop]

Anways shoutout to my fellow folks who actually are incredibly GREATFUL to be a system/collective.

Shoutout to folks whose headmates have saved them from going through this alone.

Shoutout to folks whose headmates improve their life daily and keep them safe.

Shoutout to folks whose headmates help them with tasks around the house and take the load off your back.

Shoutout to folks with headmates who they're friends with, who they're partners with, who they genuinely love and find comfort in.

Shoutout to folks with headmates who took on your burdens and made them their own, simply to protect you.

Shoutout to folks who wouldn't be here without their headmates.

Final fusion isn't what all plurals want or need. Some of us need a little extra help in life, and sometimes that comes in the from of headmates.

Plurality is not all suffering all the time. It is not defined by whatever trauma or struggle you've gone through, and it shouldn't be treated as such.

Be kind to your fellow plurals and their headmates. Don't assume everyone detests their alters as much as you may.

[fireboltsystem]

It is okay and normal if you have to invent or decide things about your headspace/innerworld. Building your innerworld isn't less meaningful than inherently having one. It's normal to NOT have an innerworld at all for that matter!

We've had problems with getting "deeper" into our innerworld, so we invented what is essentially a grounding technique for specifically our innerworld. It's just an object, a simple white orb we call the Tether. We just hold it and focus on the sensory experience - you could give any object any qualities you like really. Ours is like glass, smooth and cool to the touch. Holding it gives us something to focus on while also keeping us grounded to our inner selves rather than "stuck" in the front. It works best if we're in a more meditative state, so our attention isn't divided between front and innerworld experiences. Front always takes priority it seems.

This strategy has allowed us access to innerworld areas we were not able to get to before! System hall pass. Sometimes inventing new rules tricks the brain into following them. You can make shit up!

[xx-obliviousfantasy-xx]

D:

I genuinely didn't know this w a i t-

*sigh* just a friendly reminder that PluralKit attaches a unique code to your system that allows anyone to look up your system - and if you look up a system on discord using pk;system [code], gives a link to all of their public system data on PKs website, which for some of you includes information on triggers, sexuality, and other things that cyberbullies may misuse.

I have been messing around with the settings as much as possible and I cannot find a way to avoid this beyond privating all alters and all system info, which many users don't do.

Even with information privated, it still seems that PK will link your discord handle with your Pluralkit user if the unique code is plugged in.

Sharing as this seems to me like a breach of privacy at best, and dangerous at worst.

[starrythequeerbeing]

TransDID/Transplural tips!

hi! We are a transDID system who are currently transitioning. Here are some tips for every being who wants to transition to plurality!

(Current fronter - Max)

Disassociation! Yes it can be triggered easily. Try to force yourself to disassociate, especially in stressful situations. This will nudge you to start switching!!

Plan and visualize your alters! Give them different views than you, voices, mental illnesses, trans and cis IDs, looks, and overall character.

Pretend to switch, especially in public spaces. Act like another alter was fronting before you. Force yourself to forget why ur there, how u got there, what’s going on, etc. Act dazed, pretend you’re pretending you know what’s going on.

Talk abt/to ur alters. A LOT! Talk like they’ve always existed, talk to them when ur bored or stressed, when you need help deciding things. Let that little random voice in the back of your head evolve into your desired alter, and keep doing that until all your alters exist!

this isn’t all, but this is what we’ve found most helpful!

[redarmysys]

when you see a good and relatable endo post but it's tagged as radqueer

[brightside-brigade]

Alright. I'm probably gonna lose moots and followers for this. But I've kept quiet about it since I became host and I don't feel right not saying it for multiple reasons.

I, and this system and blog, support systems of all origins, including non traumagenic. We consider ourselves mixed origin, for multiple reasons. I know some (a lot) of you don't agree with or are uncomfortable with this stance, so if you need to unfollow for your own comfort, that's fine. But do not announce your departure unless you want us to unfollow as well.

I feel like by hiding this, I've been lying to all of you and hindering our own ability to talk about our experiences. Overall, I cannot in good conscious keep it quiet.

This is not an invitation for debate. I hate syscourse and always will, especially with our previous hosts involvement.

If this is where we part ways, then farewell and I wish you the best. And I'm sorry I couldn't be honest sooner.

Plurals of all origins, you are safe with The Brightside Brigade

[ghosting-emojis]

Skin colors emojis ;33 !!

we are planning on making ones with vitiligo at some point !!! Also hopefully the shade range is ok :3 ? ( sorry if that’s worded wrong/vgen)

requests are closed !!

-Vee

[anomalycouncil]

PluralKit has added the ability to change where your system tag goes in your names! Here's a quick example list of ways I've found you can format it, apparently they plan to add additional stuff to the name formatting option in the future as well!

(also may just be good to know about if you moderate a server with PK so you're not wondering why that system's tag is at the front of their message LOL)

[loupgaroualejardin]

So, random thought of the week I need to get out.

Hate the way people say "your alters". Which, Don't care if someone wants to use it for themselves (because at that point, that isn't our business), but, with us in mind. The way "your alters" used always has read off as some kind of ownership of other headmates when we've read it.

Pretty sure it just rubs us all kinds of ways worse because we prefer to be seen as all equals in our system, even if someone has a "more important" role, and it feels like with the way it's written it's saying someone (said person they may be talking to) is superior and, blowing up.

[does-it-introject]

[the-orange-solace]

There is a difference between anti-recovery, pro-recovery and a person's reaction to being told what a system's choices are involving recovery and those are three separate things that are intertwined but are still their own things

If a system wants to recover that is their choice

If a system doesn't want to recover that is also their choice

And if I system doesn't give a fuck than that is, ALSO their choice

No matter the stance or personal opinion, no one else can dictate the recovery, or lack there of, for another person or system

You can inform them of things and share experiences but that's different than forcing unwanted advice or stating what they are doing to themselves is wrong

Because only a person or a system as a whole can really decide what they want or is best for themselves, and that applies to recovery stances

[pluralquotebook]

"can bugs hear" (this question is very serious from the person its coming from, hes a 13 yr old w/o a clue in this WORLD)

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[interstellarchaosss]

Merlin, the local weird harpy guy, sneaking around in the kitchen during early morning hours. Likely looking for snacks.

Please do not use our art without our permission. Feel free to ask to use for icons and similar things, but we have the right to say no.

Program: Firealpaca Approx. Time: 2h 30m Original Date: 10.11.24 Commission/Trade/Collab status in bio/pinned! Art Of: Merlin [Headmate] (System Member Artist: Vince)