#Endo safe

[lifenconcepts]

NEVER STOP BEING YOUR OCS 🫵

NEVER STOP BEING OBSESSED WITH YOUR OCS 🫵

[genderqueerdykes]

btw 'syscourse' and plural infighting isn't accomplishing anything. back in the late 90s and early 2000s, the only communities and resources for plurals that were widely available were for and by non-traumagenic systems. the only people who were advocating for normalizing and accepting plurality on a large scale were non-traumagenic systems. if you did research into plurality 10 - 15 years ago, most of the results that came up would have been experiences written by spiritual and natural plurals.

many people at the time were expressing their dislike of forcing every single plural to identify as if they had trauma- many found this insulting to themselves, and rightfully so! no one should be forced to identify in a way they don't agree with just to rightfully be a part of a community they already occupy. this obsession with "you can only be plural if you have trauma" has only come about extremely recently. i found out about plurality through the otherkin community. i was actually told about DID by someone in the spiritual plurality community. people don't seem to understand that most non-traumagenic systems have respect for traumagenic systems and don't gatekeep their spaces to prevent us from entering.

older plural spaces on the web like healthymultiplicity accepted all plurals. the goal of the community was to show that you can live as plural and not have it be a tragedy or something to "fix". if anything, folks with dissociative disorders owe a LOT to non-traumagenic systems for pushing to normalize plurality without implying that we HAVE to integrate our headmates and try to stop being plural. a huge part of the early online plural community was there to push that plurals can and do live happy lives and shouldn't view their plurality as a bad thing

it's not going to make singlet society see us in a better light. it's not going to get people to understand plurality better. it's not going to get us better mental health resources. it's not going to improve the quality of care for dissociative and traumagenic systems. all you're doing is bullying someone else that you don't understand simply because you don't agree with them.

you're not going to recover from your trauma or understand your own plurality better by denying the existence of other types of plurality. you're not "making the community safer" by gatekeeping. telling other people how their brains work is policing their identities. whether or not you want to accept it, if you forcefully kick endos out of plural spaces, you are the cop you claim to hate.

fighting with people on your own team will never net you a victory. to every other dissociative and traumagenic system: endos are on your side. you are wearing the same jersey. you are made of the same flesh and blood. enough. come together to share your similarities instead of fighting over differences. celebrate the diversity that plurality offers. don't take someone else's identity personally. someone can share the space with you without having to match exactly how you identify. diversity is what makes a community thrive.

[interstellarchaosss]

DEFEND YOUR FUTURE.

Please do not use our art without our permission. Feel free to ask to use for icons and similar things, but we have the right to say no.

Program: IbisPaint X Approx. Time: 3h Original Date: 18.12.24 Commission/Trade/Collab status in bio/pinned! Art Of: Shard [OC] (System Member Artist: Mike)

[shitty-proendo-blackout-posts]

duck

[pwuppykin]

me talking 02 my irls about it ❤️.

( we never address “ it “ as systemic or plurality. just discuss. it ‘ s sorta funny. )

I love you irl conversations about plurality

I love you respectful curious singlets/questioning systems

I love you normalizing plurality

[calidum-astra]

Reminder that exclusionists are not punk and will never be accepted as punk 🥰

[d3r-d4s-di3-dex]

the winter time is here, Christmas are near and new year is behind corner;

shout-out to those who get eaten on Christmas dinner

shout-out to those who are cold

shout-out to those who starve in winter

shout-out to those who fear and panic from fireworks

shout-out to those who fight for their life while humans celebrate holidays of "peace and love"

shout-out to those whose past and present is not as bright as the future can be

shout-out to those whose heart was broken and those who lost their beloved one

shout-out to those who help others in need

shout-out to those who want to make the world a better place

shout-out to those who stay in shadow

shout-out to those who do not harm nature and do not use fireworks

shout-out to those whose kin got on the red list, who are endangered species, who are almost extinct and who are extinct

shout-out to those who are trying their best to survive

shout-out to those who are hunted for who they are just because they're not considered "normal" and for those who use to be a Christmas gift

shout-out to those who are having hard times as mentally as physically

shout-out to those who want to manage it to the new year

[buntress]

[IDs in alt text]

❝ Invineverfound ❞

[PT :: Invineverfound]

An inviane identity related to the following image, a recreation of a hazard sign named "never found". This can be a gender, alterhumanity, aldernic, etc.

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Inviane By :: @/kenochoric Note :: Image taken from this post. I've been obsessed with it for a while and have been meaning to make a gender about it.

Archive Tagging :: @radiomogai @horrormogai @bungender-archive (idk if this counts but im tagging just in case)

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Taglist :: @genderdenied @mimiscoiningcafe @discrophy @horrgores @smilepilled

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Additional Tags :: @wilted-blades @rabidbatboy @enderluna @blood-moon-night-coining

[caracoldimi]

WE HAVE 3 KAISERS/CESARS AND 5 TARIKS/PACTW

BRAIN PLS ELABORATE HOW IS THIS GONNA MAKE ME COPE BETTER WITH LIFE?? 💀💀👎

-🍳

im no expert but this is how it works to me i think

[genderqueerdykes]

hey, i saw a post on here saying you guys support non "traumagenic" systems and I was wanting to know if thats true.

You guys are so amazing and have helped me with my identity a lot, but this information is really important to me as a trauma survivor with severe PTSD. If you are pro endos but are open to listening to trauma survivors and phycology sources, I absolutely will provide them. I want you guys to be a safe space for people with PTSD and dissociative disorders so bad, as people who has OSDDDID tend to have more "contradictory" labels in the first place, due to the complex relationship all the different alters identities make combined.

I'm hoping so much that you'll be open to listening if this is true.

hello! i'm good, i don't need any!

if you only have severe PTSD and not a dissociative disorder and do not identify as plural, you should NOT be commenting on plurality at all. like i hate to break it to you, but if you do not deal with plurality, you do not know what the experience is like. reading papers about it will not give you insight into how people actually live.

i'm an inclusive Dissociative Identity Disorder system who is 100% pro endo, and any other type of system. i support ALL plurals, i don't cherry pick. you're correct, this blog is a safe space, especially for people with "contradictory" identities or ones that "don't make sense." why wouldn't i be here for endogenic and non traumagenic systems?

that would go against everything i stand for.

i am a trauma survivor as well. i *have* DID, i don't really need any resources on the matter- before I was diagnosed i spent years researching, and i still do keep up with research. i am aware that DID and OSDD are caused by trauma! generally it's severe, repeated trauma and/or neglect. i have no memories of my life before the age of 10. i too have severe PTSD, i have a diagnosis for C-PTSD in specific. i live with this every day of my life. i still have a lot of trauma and triggers. i black out and lose time and regularly forget who i am or where i'm at.

something to keep in mind is research on DID has literally 0 bearing on other types of plurality. just because there is a lot of research into DID, OSDD, etc. does not mean that other plural experiences do not exist. when ONLY siting medical sources and saying that because there's no other "proof" or "evidence" that other types of plurality "can't" exist, it's an appeal to authority. there is no research data to point toward because studies on DID and OSDD and other dissociative disorders have really only gained traction within the last 10 - 20 years maximum. this is an extremely recent phenomenon! just because there are no (paid, keep in mind that studies have to find funding, and investors are picky) medical papers or studies to point toward doesn't mean something isn't happening.

someone identifying as plural without trauma is not an affront to plurals who do have trauma. someone identifying as a system who doesn't have or know of any childhood trauma is not spitting in your face. i've seen this take around and it's just not it. don't take someone else's mental health as an attack on yours. it's not hurting you at all for people to identify as plural if they don't have trauma. it's not spitting in *my* face, so it's not spitting in yours, either. it's okay to let non traumagenic systems exist. it's not exacerbating your trauma or re-traumatizing you or subjecting you to new trauma.

they're not saying that your trauma is invalid just because they don't have any. i don't like people who get on a high horse because they have a dissociative disorder and act like they get to police how other people's brains work. you only know how your brain works. you do not know how any other type of system works.

endogenic systems are not identifying as endogenic to spite you or dissociative systems. they're not doing it to hurt you. they're doing it because they identify as multiple people. that is not being done with the intention to hurt anyone. this is about THEM, not you. nobody is the protagonist of the plural community. no one.

as a plural, myself, i get to choose who i support. and i choose to support people who aren't hurting anyone or doing anything wrong. i really don't care how offensive some people find non traumagenic systems, but they're not hurting you, me, or anyone else. live and let live. you don't know how someone else's brain works. you will never be able to know how someone else's brain works. accepting that will make your life easier.

being angry at other people for not having trauma will not make yours go away or undo what was done to you. you should never take out your frustrations on people who haven't hurt you. endos haven't hurt you, you just don't agree with them. these are 2 separate things. also you really don't have the right to comment on the nature of how complex non traumagenic plurality is or is not- endogenic systems can have just as many nuanced and complex identities regardless of whether or not they're dissociating. they're still multiple people whether or not you see them that way. they also have complex identities, why wouldn't they? being different people leads to a lot of complexity. you should still see them as multiple people even if you don't think it's legit. that's basic respect for another person who, again, literally hasn't hurt you.

also endogenic and non dissociative systems are still people, and we should still care about them. they're still people even if you don't agree with them, and again: they have not hurt you by virtue of existing.

hope that helps and makes sense. i am not open to changing my mind on this, but i appreciate you giving me a good reason to explain my stance on the matter. i don't have the right to police other people and tell them how their own brains work. you don't have that right, either. i'm not here to police anyone. that goes against everything i stand for. i don't gatekeep.

i'm not a cop.

[meeb-motes]

Conduct disorder emoji

@boyswillbedogz >:333

this emoji was drawn by scar we think ? Not quite sure since everything has been very blurry and confusing the past couple of days lol

-Vee and Grian !

Conduct disorder: a disorder that presents as consistent patterns of violent/aggressive behavior usually seen in children/teens! ( so things like stealing , violent threats , physical assault, breaking and entering etc )

fun fact: you have to have been diagnosed with , or showed signs of a conduct disorder to be diagnosed with ASPD !

[the-fae-of-proendos]

Shoutout to systems who are disabled

Shoutout to systems who are mentally ill

Shoutout to systems with a cognitive disorder/s

Shoutout to systems with a developmental disorder/s

Shoutout to systems who are schizo-spec

Shoutout to systems who have compulsions

Shoutout to systems who have personality disorders

Shoutout to systems who have many disorders / disabilities / Mental illnesses .

Shoutout to systems who have “scary” mental illnesses

Shoutout to systems who are mentally ill AND are /can be violent

Shoutout to systems with intellectual disabilities

Shoutout to systems with disabilities / disorders that are barely talked about

Shoutout to systems who can’t mask

Shoutout to systems who can’t learn some “basic” things

Shoutout to systems with low/no empathy and/or sympathy

Shoutout to systems with conduct disorders

Shoutout to systems who can’t do most iADLS without help

Shoutout to systems with facticious disorder

Shoutout to systems who are sick of sanism

Shoutout to any and every disabled / mentally ill system.

we see you, we hear you, and your valid <3

-sincerely a “scary” , “violent” mentally ill + disabled freak 🪲

[geatsoneness]

For me, as a god of humanity:

bird like wings or wings made of nature (fire, thunder,light)

halos or horns

warrior or scribe (I fit both, in different ways, but I'm closer to a warrior.)

gardens or clouds

singing or playing

armor or soft linen (I miss my rider powers, a lot!)

sword or quill (My main weapon is a sword-gun hybrid.)

heaven or earth (This fits more with the type of god I am: I'm here to watch over and help people here in this world.)

god or gods (There's quite a few gods in my source, I'm not the only one.)

pearls or gold

human form or true nature (I'm human-presenting anyway, as I am one in a divine sense, so I'd rather show as myself than pretend to be mortal.)

possessing a vessel or being born with it

creating life or destroying life (I'm an aspect of a god of creation, so I'd rather create life then destroy it.)

church or altar at home

worship or be worshipped (I'm not really a deity you worship in a normal way, though... if you are interested in worshipping me, go out and live your life as best as you can. I'll make a post about that, someday.)

pray or answer prayers

rebel or remain

tag game this or that. angelkin edition

bird like wings or wings made of nature (fire, thunder,light)

halos or horns

warrior or scribe

gardens or clouds

singing or playing

armor or soft linen

sword or quill

heaven or earth

god or gods

pearls or gold

human form or true nature

possessing a vessel or being born with it

creating life or destroying life

church or altar at home

worship or be worshipped

pray or answer prayers

rebel or remain

tag: anyone that comes across this

[fawne-is-gone]

"hey brain, can i have good coping mechanisms?"

"im putting a cat into your head"

"wait why?"

"the cat is going to replace you"

[luv-n-chaos]

December 20th Is Upon Us!

Since Sonic 3 is coming out today, I'm going to be blocking all the Sonic 3 tags so I don't get spoilers. Looking forward to discussing the movie with you all when I get the chance to see it after Christmas! I'm super excited! :D