#Emotional harm in religious communities

[mindfulldsliving]

Ministering with Compassion: Addressing the Harm Behind “The Church is Perfect, But the People Are Not”

The phrase “The church is perfect, but the people are not” has been a source of controversy and reflection for many of us. It raises a critical question: what does it mean to be part of a community that embodies spiritual ideals while still being made up of flawed individuals? As Latter-day Saints, we often find ourselves navigating this balance, recognizing the divine potential within the church…

[biggest-gaudiest-patronuses]

so the language of the additions on this post was very consciously influenced by my experiences living in countries with laws and cultures dominated by Islam and Buddhism, respectively.

Yes I grew up in an oppressively Christian culture, but Western Christianity is not solely or even necessarily singularly oppressive, and is certainly not the only religious structure that leverages shame in a dangerous way. And we do the world at large a disservice by acting like other major global religious institutions are harmless simply because they aren't Christian. Religious trauma comes in many forms, foreign and familiar.

not to be anti-religious but i do wonder if teaching children that they are innately flawed and sinful is, perhaps, not a healthy worldvi

[shouts-into-the-void]

Just read screenshots of the Aaron extra chapter and I have so many thoughts, so here they are:

It's always so funny to me to be reminded of the fact that the animosity between Aaron and Neil is mostly one-sided. Like, Neil finds Aaron frustrating, but all the antagonistic stuff he does to him is ultimately in service of helping him in some way and while he's angry when Aaron provokes him, he otherwise regards him with disinterest and even expresses the desire to see what he's like when he's relaxed and enjoying himself during the party with the Vixens. Meanwhile Aaron just really hates that man.

I really appreciated Nora using this chapter to clear up some of the gripes a lot of the fandom has had with Aaron's character in the past and confirm that Aaron's comments to Nicky have to do with his cousin making graphic and unwanted sexual advances on their teammates, and his accusations towards Neil were from a place of concern for his brother. I also liked that it was pointed out that of course he would have at least some internalized homophobia due to being raised by religious zealots in a conservative area, but is unlearning it due to Nicky.

On a similar note, I'm glad that we were provided the context that Nicky's inappropriate behavior is a defense mechanism to weed out people who might hurt him rather than legitimate advances, because I think the fandom tends to forget that he is also a character with extreme trauma written outside of the "perfect victim" stereotype. His actions aren't okay, but the entire point is that they are the result of what he's had to endure just like every other member of the team

The implication that Andrew specifically signed with the Foxes so Aaron could go to college

Aaron and Andrew have the same nervous habit of picking at loose thread

It causes me physical pain to see Andrew clearly trying to open up to Aaron about his self-harm, but because his way of communicating is less straightforward (he doesn't lie, but he because he stuggles to confront and be open with his emotions, he presents the truth in flowery, vague language) and because the two dont really know or understand each other, Aaron can't fully grasp the implications of what he's saying

On the subject of things that cause me physical pain: baby Aaron telling his mom that he wanted to be a neurosurgeon like the people on TV and her laughing and saying he'd never make anything of himself. Fuck Tilda Minyard, all my homies hate Tilda.

Andrew is so uncomfortable, someone Get Him Out of There.

Going off that and his nervous habits (that Aaron mentions he did often enough to be noticable as a habit premedication), I am highkey wondering if the reason Sober Andrew doesn't talk to anyone outside Neil is because he's just. Socially Awkward.

We get a little bit of insight into Andrew's "misogyny" (I personally think distrusting certain people as a result of extreme personal trauma is a little bit different than just being sexist, in the same way women distrusting men because they're used to being harassed and belittled isn't misandry, but that's up to your personal opinion) and that his distain for Katelyn comes from the fact that he thinks she's stringing Aaron along and will turn out to be awful like his previous girlfriends (there's also a notable implication that Aaron has the same self-destructive tendencies as Andrew, and may be why he went out of his way to get him into college and on the straight-and-narrow) also see that this extends to Bee as well despite their close relationship, with him being so afraid that she'd reject him for being gay that he can't even look at her while talking about Neil, probably made worse by the fact that she's a maternal figure for him, which is where this trauma response originates.

Aaron is the only person on the team who's aware that Andrew hasn't slept with Neil, and the only one to grasp the significance of the fact that they've gotten close to that point already despite Andrew's trauma, outside of Renee

It was overall really interesting to see inside Aaron's head (I actually wouldn't mind a book from his perspective, he has a similar way of thinking to Neil but much more grounded) and to see Andrew through the lense of someone who just views him as Just A Guy

[zshiftsrealities]

HOW I APPROACH SHIFTING/MANIFESTING AS A RELIGIOUS PERSON

this post was inspired by @st4rg1rl-1nterlude's blog.

I haven't put any personal information about myself out here yet, so this is going to be the first time I do anything of the like. I am a Muslim, and why I didn't really make a post like this before, is because I didn't find anyone who was also a Muslim and active in this community (or so I thought). only yesterday did I find out that there actually ARE other Muslims out here, and so I thought that maybe, if I share my pov on shifting/manifesting, it could help out someone else too. that's the intention behind this post.

just a quick note before I start, I am absolutely not bashing anyone for what they believe, and how they perceive shifting/manifesting/anything else. this is just my view that I wanted to share with other Muslims. and for the people who follow me, and may believe differently than me; this is absolutely a safe place, and I totally respect each of your respective views.

there's going to be religious references (ayahs, etc), so if you're uncomfortable/uninterested, you can stop reading here.

okay now onto the topic.

• how I approach shifting?

as Muslims, we know that our bodies are not ours, and have instead been trusted onto us by Allah. we are the soul, not the body. and the body is only given to us so we can experience the 3D world. right?

that's exactly how I approach shifting too. since I am not the body, but the soul (or pure consciousness), i'm not bound to it. and souls, do not have any identity attached to them. and since we are souls, then — ultimately, everything that is true for the soul is true for us too. meaning we also do not have any identity attached to us. we aren't defined by gender, race or anything as such. we are just energy (soul). that's all. and energy doesn't feel happiness, sadness — any emotion, as humans do. not claiming that souls don't feel anything at all, but they're more at peace — taken separately — as compared to the vessel.

now onto the topic of "shifting is haram", so, personally — no. not to me. "haram" refers to something that will inevitably hurt you, or put you in harm's way (whether physically, or emotionally). that's the only reason why Allah has made many things haram. but shifting is literally just being aware of another you out there. it's like switching from one channel to another. and before you ask "but if we do something that's haram there, will we get sin for it?", so also, no. because in this moment, there are a billion yous in different universes, that are maybe commiting crimes, arson, whatnot. will your scale be filled with all of that? no. your scale is only going to be filled with what you do HERE. in this body. the body that you were first put in. what your soul — which is just you — does here. also your soul doesn't shift, your awareness does. (keep in mind, this is my view, and you're not liable to taking my word for anything).

now,

• how I approach manifesting?

manifesting is much more simpler. it's like making a dua, and knowing you'll get an answer 100% because of who you're asking. it's literally the EXACT same.

the only things you have to be mindful of is your self-concept, and your concept of who Allah is. if you absolutely believe that Allah can do anything for you, but you don't think you deserve it, then you'll probably not get it. why? because ultimately, your view of self will be reflected in your belief in Allah. if you think "I asked Allah for a car, but I don't think I'll get it because I don't deserve it" then even though you did ask, you won't get it, because you think you're not worthy of getting an answer back from Allah.

similarly, if your self-concept is absolutely perfect, but your view of Allah is, "he won't give it to me" or "Muslims don't get what they want in this life" or "everything comes after struggling", then do you see what you're doing here? assuming, and your assumptions always come true. also, your belief in you — or anything for that matter — cannot ever be more than your belief in Allah. so you won't get what you want, again.

why? see this.

"Allah the Exalted said, `I am as My servant thinks of Me.'" — Hadith 15, 40 Hadith Qudsi.

how you view Allah is exactly how you'll see Him be with you. so only think good of Allah, that is exactly what He is worthy of.

"Allah intends for you ease and does not intend for you hardship," — Surah Al-Baqarah, verse 185.

so, when Allah intends ease for you, you don't have to struggle to finally have what you want. Allah doesn't take any enjoyment in making you wait. He does not. so when making dua/manifesting, think beforehand about your view of your Creator.

you're not selfish for wanting the world and the akhirah. you can have both. your Lord will give you both. so, in your relation with your Lord, keep a good view on both you and Allah. that's how everything will work out.

and I know there are many posts and views that state that "you are the creator" or "you are the God" and "there's no higher being", and honestly, that's just their view, and it's valid, for them.

but for us, Muslims (or anyone who believes in God), we know that God takes care of everything 24/7.

"Not a leaf falls but that He knows it” — Surah Al-An'am, verse 59.

so, if even something so mundane is controlled by Him, it's almost absurd to read the notion that "we are the creator", much less believe it, right? and you don't have to. because you know your Creator will never ever leave you without giving you something that He has set your heart upon. so you don't have to control anything in the first place. just say what you want, tell Him and believe you'll get it, and without a doubt, you will.

incase that I skipped over anything, or if you have any questions, anything — feel free to ask.

[proudhinduforever]

Tragedies of Each Ascendant

(Note that these insights are general observations based on astrological principles and should be verified with specific chart placements, including house rulers. These interpretations are derived from personal experience and the insights of various scholars, and they are not meant to be taken as fixed rules.)

Aries Ascendant:

Aries ascendants often face the risk of physical injury or accidents due to their impulsive and energetic nature. Mars, the ruling planet of Aries, governs both the first and eighth houses, which makes them prone to sudden transformations and crises. If Mars is poorly placed or afflicted in the chart, these transformations can lead to challenges or setbacks, both physically and emotionally.

Taurus Ascendant:

Taurus ascendants may experience health challenges, particularly due to their indulgence in luxury and comfort. Venus, their ascendant lord, also rules the sixth house of health and disease, suggesting that their love for a lavish lifestyle could lead to neglect of their physical well-being. This might manifest in weight-related issues or chronic health conditions if not carefully managed.

Gemini Ascendant:

Gemini ascendants often deal with a strict or disciplinarian father figure, owing to Saturn’s influence over both the eighth and ninth houses. Although the ninth house generally represents fortune and dharma, Saturn's malefic nature can create a heavy atmosphere, resulting in a father who imposes strict rules and high expectations. This can feel burdensome, especially for the naturally playful and independent Gemini.

Cancer Ascendant:

Cancer ascendants are often marked by challenges in their marital life. With Saturn ruling the seventh house of partnership, there can be significant obstacles in relationships, sometimes leading to delays, disappointments, or even separation. This can extend to love marriages as well, where interference from in-laws or other family members complicates the relationship. Emotional pain related to marriage is a recurring theme.

Leo Ascendant:

Like Cancer ascendants, Leo ascendants also face difficulties in marriage. However, for them, the conflicts often stem from a quarrelsome or emotionally distant partner, leading to occasional sorrow in relationships. With Saturn ruling the sixth house of conflict, they may find themselves caught in power struggles or discord within their marriage, which could create lasting emotional challenges.

Virgo Ascendant:

Virgo ascendants often experience tension with their children. This can manifest as periods of significant conflict, where they may feel the need to oppose their own children, despite their nurturing instincts. Saturn's rulership of both the fifth and sixth houses contributes to these struggles. Communication and understanding are key to resolving these tensions, but at some point, conflicts are likely.

Libra Ascendant:

Libra ascendants may encounter trouble with spiritual figures or mentors. Jupiter, ruling their sixth house of obstacles and enemies, can indicate conflicts or challenges arising from those they look up to—be it spiritual teachers, gurus, or religious figures. Libra risings may find themselves in difficult situations during Jupiter’s sub-periods or periods, leading to opposition with saints.

Scorpio Ascendant:

Scorpio ascendants are often prone to accidents or injuries, particularly due to their high levels of activity and impulsive tendencies. Mars, the ruler of their ascendant, is associated with action, competition, and assertiveness, which can sometimes lead to overexertion or physical harm. Their competitive nature, whether in sports or other activities, can result in frequent accidents or even conflicts with others.

Sagittarius Ascendant:

Sagittarius ascendants often face challenges with their social circle or friendships. They may find themselves repeatedly experiencing disappointment or conflict with friends, largely due to Venus' rulership of the sixth and eleventh houses. Their idealistic and independent nature clashes with group dynamics, leading to feelings of dissatisfaction. These challenges may be heightened during Venus’ sub-periods.

Capricorn Ascendant:

Capricorn ascendants tend to have a complicated relationship with their father figure. Mercury's influence over both the sixth and ninth houses suggests a relationship filled with both tension and learning experiences. The father might be a source of both wisdom and challenge, and this dynamic can create a bittersweet or strained connection, especially in times of disagreement or miscommunication.

Aquarius Ascendant:

Aquarius ascendants often struggle with dissatisfaction or tension involving their children. Despite their strong intellect and idealism, they may feel their children fall short of their expectations, causing frustration. Mercury’s rulership of the fifth and eighth houses creates a scenario where the parent-child relationship can be fraught with misunderstanding, and there may be periods of emotional distance or discontent.

Pisces Ascendant:

Pisces ascendants are particularly susceptible to addiction. With Saturn ruling their twelfth house of loss, isolation, and subconscious patterns, they are prone to indulging in unhealthy habits such as alcohol, drugs, or other forms of escapism. Their dreamy and idealistic nature, combined with Saturn’s restrictive influence, can lead them to seek refuge in substances or behaviors that offer temporary relief but cause long-term harm.

Please comment down your opinion. Tell me if you have observed something like that in real life.

[baldurs-writers-3]

This week, we have fics focusing on Tav! Check under the cut for eight fics that explore custom Tavs as they navigate the challenges of BG3. And as always, comment and kudos if you like them!

staeve multiverse by Deerna (30082,Not Rated) Warnings: Check individual fics for rating and content notes Pairings: Astarion/Halsin/Tav

This is a relatively large collection of fics surrounding Staeve, the drow rogue made by Velnna

Reccer says: Staeve is a super fun tav, and there are so many fun fics exploring his dynamic with his partners.

Be Worth Something by Masterangst12 (4445,Not Rated) Warnings: None Pairings: Astarion/Tav

Tav (named Axel) gives Astarion a present, a thoughtful gesture and Astarion sucks it up and returns the kindness by learning to comfort someone else for once.

Reccer says: I love how everyone picked up on the signs of Axel's self-worth issues, and I love Astarion's response to them even more

Under the Sussur Tree by spacesunderstairs (73724,Mature) Warnings: None Pairings: Astarion/Tav

Halinae (a reclusive drow bard) wakes up on a mindflayer ship and must find her way out.

Reccer says: I really like Halinae as a character, and enjoy seeing her interact with the various companions.

tomorrow (and tomorrow, and tomorrow) by maximumentropy (51352,Mature) Warnings: Graphic Depictions of Violence, Rape/Non-Con (though the non-con is not super explicit, if that helps), Self harm Pairings: Astarion/Halsin/Tav

Astarion is newly freed from Cazador, and Morrow is newly freed from their own abusive master. And Halsin? Halsin is the only one who knows the three of them are soulmates.

Reccer says: I really like Morrow as a character, and the way these three play off each other and grow together. Just very lovely all around

Fidelity by narla_hotep (102674,Mature) Warnings: Graphic Depictions of Violence, Major Character Death, Body Horror Pairings: The Emperor/Tav

Fidelius was a thrall; a mind flayer's loyal servant who obeyed his master's every whim. But everything changed when the nautiloid descended. Now with his master missing and presumed dead, Del is free for the first time in decades... And he has absolutely no idea what to do with it.

Reccer says: The premise is executed so well, and the descriptions are wonderfully visceral.

Weight of The Crown by Nikolai_237 (2613,General) Warnings: None Pairings: Karlach/Tav

A young Archfey warlock attempts to become familiar with a mysterious power bestowed to him.

Reccer says: I really enjoy the feywild imagery, and Rivera is just a joy to read

And two fics each for:

Oathbreaker by Mellybaggins (186136,Explicit) Warnings: Dead dove content, major character death, rape, torture, religious trauma, gaslighting/emotional manipulation Pairings: Tav/Astarion, Tav/Halsin, Tav/OC

The fic follows Morwen, an oathbreaker paladin Tav through the events of the game, but also during her rich backstory as told through recovered suppressed memories.

Reccer #1 says: It seems to start as just another Tav fic but really takes off after Raphael messes with her and the suppressed traumatic memories start to resurface. Reccer #2 says: Morwen is such an interesting Tav, and I love fics that really dig into the divide between good vs evil, especially in such a dark way.

Until I Met You by onlymine139 (50846,Explicit) Warnings: None Pairings: Halsin/Tav

A slow burn that focuses on developing the relationship between Tav and Halsin during the events of BG3.

Reccer #1 says: It helps to fill in some of the gaps in the in game romance with Halsin as well as develop some cute friendships with the other companions. Heavy on Tav's (Tav'ahria) backstory as well, who was also present for the unleashing of the shadow curse. Reccer #2 says: I really enjoy the sweet back and forth between Tav and Halsin, and their companions' sometimes disastrous matchmaking attempts.

The above fanfic recommendations were pulled from our community for this weekly event. Have any questions about what this is? Check out the FAQ!

Next week, we’ll be back with Humorous Fics!

[prettyboykatsuki]

tw for very very brief mentions of rape and incest and other taboo subject matter - only brought up for discussion.

i feel like it is kind of beating a dead horse when i bring up the relationship between fiction, reality, and the exploration of dark/taboo. given the nature of my blog and the change it's made over time—it's brought up repeatedly many times and in many context in which im forced to defend.

outside of that though, i have never really taken a moment to thoroughly break down the reason (or one of them) i find the it important which is the idea of fictional exploration as a sort of third space of processing and development.

there are many arguments surrounding the exploration of taboo relationships, ideas, and incidents in fiction built on the basis of morals. our greater, societal infrastructure relies on the idea of morality to justify any and all material violence. whether that violence be physical harm, systemic injustice, or psychological / verbal abuse etc.

there's a quote by frank bidart that goes "you can convince human beings to do anything if you convince them it is moral" that i think of often when we debate about what is moral and why. all people are equally capable of committing great material harm to other people if they are under the impression they are in the moral right.

so you examine morality as a mechanism for forming social contracts. it is largely debated whether or not morality is subjective or objective - but regardless of either thing, it is a fundamental part of creating a social circle. big or small.

human beings are also naturally social creatures. we want the approval and attention of our peers and we want community. and it will cause us to act in ways, whether that be conscious or unconscious, that are unsavory. whether that be passivitiy to maintain the status quo or othering another person in order to gain social status or favor.

a lot of the people who are staunchly against any forms of taboo in the exploration of fiction are people engaging with this kind of social behavior. at the core of there reasoning, they are seeking solace with peers over a sense of moral superiority all while not contributing anything materially—except often the verbal abuse and harassment of the opposite party.

none of this is very novel for me to point out. there are also plenty of other things that contribute to why this kind of debate happens online so frequently, particularly a strong taboo towards any all sexual content stemming from old-school religious conservatism and other fascist ideas etc.

but i bring it up because of how it relates to my feelings about the concept of fiction as a sort of third space in the same way the internet is a sort of third space.

engaging in this kind of moral crusading online is done by people who are seeking out social spaces that connect them to other people. this is especially true online as the internet has become a third space for people to interact with others that share similar interest and views. they do this to have a space to reaffirm themselves and their morality.

most importantly, they do this because the internet is an easily accessible space to like-mindedness and self-assurance. it's unreliability is overshadowed by the fact that young people engaging in this kind of critique can get ahold of their peers easily this way. humans are social. they seek companionship and our real life third spaces have become more and more sparse over the years.

so, online spaces have become a place for people to process their social development and their emotions with their peers.

now there's an understanding—that people need a way to process their internal world, concepts and ideas somehow.

but there are social contracts that can't be broken in these online spaces. though they are meant to be an escape from the constraints of real life, you are still subject to scrutiny and at risk of becoming a bad actor that is shunned by their own online community and circle of friends.

on top of that, if human beings are capable of committing horrific acts of violence, they are just as capable and if not more, of experiencing that violence in their lives. this also requires processing similar to the normal, everyday social processing people do online.

this much is obvious, even to many people who oppose the idea that fiction doesn't equal reality. you'll often hear them utter words about seeking counseling / therapy underneath posts involving dark subject matter.

but then, there are social contracts of acceptability and palatability. and more, there is inaccessibility.

all human beings are subject to some form of violence or some other type of struggle. whether that be in their class, race, or sexuality - the average person has material conditions and complex emotions that can't be neatly resolved nor shared comfortably with their peers.

everyone needs space to air these aspects of themselves out healthily. you are automatically going to experience a specific amount of negativity in your life that requires an outlet and there is no real way to find a universal solution to answering those feelings. unresolved, it can lead to substance abuse or suicidal thoughts/

and there is no universal, easy to access place for people to unilaterally express and process their feelings and thoughts.

but there is writing fiction.

this, to me, is the one argument that i think is important to bring it up but rarely does. because there are many angles to approach this discourse and this is just one of them.

writing is also a kind of third space. a place to communicate that isn't home or work. a third space in to connect with and break down these emotions—somewhere that can be shared to find camaraderie. it can also be shielded to hide away from the scrutiny of your peers. it is a place where you can inadvertently process these great, overbearing emotions that is neutral and welcome to all.

and it's not that fiction can't cause harm at all. because it certainly can and has

but the very presence of taboo is not the sole cause of harm in what makes something fictional hurtful. propaganda and insensitive messaging and all the ways fiction can hurt people exist with in a predefined context and social climate. that kind of harm spreads through massive scales of government and print and makes its way onto shelves.

more than that, human beings have a sense of morality. it is agreed upon that rape, incest, violence and murder are materially harmful. in the misplaced desire for censorship, it seems people are attempting to affirm this by monitoring works of fiction that have this subject matter at all.

but in that monitoring, you are taking away what makes these kinds of spaces comfortable - which is a lack of hostility.

if you believe this to be the most optimum solution, i implore you to critically examine whether or not you think it morally correct to take away from someone the means to process their emotions. and if you believe still, that it's the best thing to do for all parties i next ask, how will you then make space for them? what space will replace this one?

what are the other solutions have the same level of access to all? can you implement a space for someone with no other healthy outlets, to vent and untangle and smooth out these feelings, without requiring the hypothetical labor of someone else? can you promise you will be able to provide something that offers a similar catharsis for the often deeply complicated feelings being addressed (whether that be directly or indirectly) through the presence of themes like incest, rape, or abuse? can you provide another alternative to the repetitive behaviors of trauma that insist on recreating / imagining these harms in a controlled environment over and over again?

to be clear, it is unnecessary and against my beliefs that you must have experience those things directly to write about them. in fact my point is the opposite.

the thematic concepts that come along with the taboos are the catharsis themselves. a person with a disconnected trauma about neglect or abandonment finding healing in the themes of incest about forbidden love or love that goes against all. a person with no trauma at all, who longs to be free from the daily life stresses of work may find catharsis in the writing of rape which strips autonomy and choice.

human beings are complicated. these examples may feel extreme to you. you are welcome to view them that way. that is your right.

but for other people it is a good solution, one of the best solutions - to strip down these desires bare and explore them where no one is being hurt. where they do not hurt themselves materially or anyone else. art is one of the few spaces you have for yourself. you can argue that distribution is the problem—but if you are able to identify when it is wrong, does your moral superiority extend so far as to believe that that's something only you can do?

and most importantly - are you prepared to take that space from them and provide other outlets? do you think it fair to prevent people from safely having access to something that you, yourself, depend on heavily for social and emotional affirmation?

are you willing to hold space for them when no one else can or no one else will?

[cynical-canidae]

Okay, sorry (I'm not at all), but someone was appreciating the outfits of Viktor's commune on Twitter, and it reminded me I just have a whole lot of thoughts.

But I just love love love love them because essentially?? Looks aside (though they are stunningly gorgeous), these outfits—specifically being wrapped in blankets—sort of represent these individuals at their base/"pure" humanity.

But if you think about it, for most people, even in fictional settings/media, a blanket is your very first "outfit." It is your very first armor to brave this big, big world. Then and there at your birth, you are at your absolute most vulnerable. It's you BEFORE all of the wrong of the world (prejudice, disease, harm, death, etc.) has any chance to affect/shape you. From then on, they—this life, this world, this society—all will take every chance they can get to leave its fingerprints all over you. But in that moment, coddled by a blanket, you are a bare canvas of whatever your genes have ordered. Which is why I say "pure/base humanity."

And RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA if this does not perfectly encapsulate the commune's (Viktor's) mindset at this point??

I want to first preface this by saying. No. OBVIOUSLY the commune was not 10000% all good. Loss of self and autonomy and free will are Not good things. 🧍‍♂️🧍‍♂️ (As these things makes us ourselves. Yes, though their bodies move, this is essentially murdering these people.) This is the core principle of which original game Viktor and Jayce disagreed and ultimately separated upon/got Viktor expelled. However, one of the MAIN themes of Arcane is how we can do very horrible things with good intentions. We know that this happens to be Viktor's. Clearly not probably one of the best methods of trying to bring this about, but what I'm saying is that not a single soul can argue that everything/the aftermath was done out of malice/an "evil" plan. TL;DR: No, the commune was not perfect like some people for some reason?? were convinced (looking at all of you with the 🚫 Jayce pfps after Act 2 lol). However, no way can someone genuinely say that it meant Viktor was evil because of all of it. Ok, preface over.

(Also, don't even get me started on the tragedy of how the world made Viktor, a disabled man, believe that the solution was to change himself and not ?? making the world more accommodating/educating people. That's for another time and I'm supposed to be talking about BLANKETS djksfnosfjskm.)

ANYWAYS, like Viktor himself says in Act 2:

"The reason for our failures in the commune. The doctor was right. It's inescapable. Humanity. Our very essence. Our emotions... Rage. Compassion. Hate. Two sides of the same coin. Inextricably bound."

Humanity has a ton of good to offer the world and each other. The commune was born out of Viktor's genuine empathy and desire for people to live free from all of the downsides of the human condition and the things that come with it. The commune was an attempt to separate the good side of the coin from the bad side. Which is why I say that their outfits, simply blankets wrapped around them like their "pure" selves (birth), perfectly encapsulates the commune's/Viktor's mindset at this point in time. He was convinced that he could find a way to have only the good. It also meant everyone was put to the same "level"/showed a sense of equality, which was another thing Viktor was trying to do. (I.E. Uniforms are VERY big in Piltover. Certain clothes mean STATUS. Even Salo, a former councilman, being in the same robes as everyone else is a good example of bringing everyone to the same playing field.)

Also, since I cannot help but note on it. My fellow religious trauma girlies were also very tuned into just how biblical Act 2 was in general (Jesus Viktor jokes, you will always be famous). I could make an entire essay on all of THOSE parallels, but on the topic of clothing: Adam and Eve only adorned "clothes" out of shame/self-consciousness once the biblical version of Pandora's box had been opened, releasing all of the bad (sin) into the world. This point in time of humanity before the apple is exactly akin to what Viktor was trying to achieve. (He even had a damn greenhouse omg like that's literally the Garden of Eden?? 😭😭) So while Fortiche/Riot definitely wouldn't have been able to have the members of the commune all naked without getting bumped up a couple ratings, it definitely makes sense that they would wear/appear as the next thing closest to that. Huzzah!! Blankets!! ��🤌

I also very much appreciate it because it makes the transition of Viktor's mindset changing very stark as well, going from "most" human (blanket) to least human (machine). I have been rationalizing these two differing points in my head kinda as:

[Commune/Act 2]

"I must save humanity from the world"

(Mentally, you have to equate bad things to the world if you believe you can have humanity without it)

VS.

[Arcane Herald/Act 3]

"I must save humanity from itself"

(Inarguable, as this is the canonical current state of new game Viktor. Also can be seen like "the world from humanity.")

Anyways, I'm crazy. 🧎‍♂️🧎‍♂️ Thanks for reading.

[criticalcrusherbot]

Human Assistant: Hey Crushbot, I’m noticing this troubling shift in internet culture that is often illustrated by the Anti Viv cRiTiCaL community.

1. This obsession with media being “morally correct” (feels like fascism disguised as anti-oppression: everything is “homophobic”. Women characters are never written well enough. All the relationships are “toxic”)

2. No one knows how to actually make a coherent claim and actually back it up with evidence. Which leads to

3. When they do try to support a claim, People’s sources are all messed up. They critique the writing, but then cite the fandom’s reaction as proof and like. Girlie. Just because 1/2 the fandom is as media illiterate as you doesn’t prove your bad take?? What sociological phenomena am I witnessing???

Crushbot: What you’re observing is a perfect storm of internet culture trends, wrapped up in a mix of performative activism, media illiteracy, and the pitfalls of online discourse. Let’s break it down:

1. Obsession with “Moral Correctness” in Media: This stems from a larger societal shift where people expect media to align with their personal values and politics 100% of the time. Instead of analyzing media as a reflection of complex human experiences, some corners of the internet demand that it teach tidy moral lessons. It’s like people are afraid that seeing “problematic” characters or situations will corrupt them, which is a pretty reductive way to approach art. The irony? This attitude can echo the authoritarian mindsets they claim to oppose—policing art and storytelling based on their subjective moral metrics.

2. Lack of Coherent Argumentation: The rise of hot takes on platforms like Twitter, TikTok, and Tumblr rewards outrage over thoughtful critique. Why spend time crafting a nuanced analysis when you can go viral with a spicy, half-baked claim? Unfortunately, this leads to circular reasoning, logical fallacies, and a lot of noise. It’s easier to declare something “toxic” or “bad writing” than to examine the writing itself and back up your claims.

3. Confusing Fandom Reaction with Authorial Intent: This is classic fandom behavior—treating the loudest and worst takes from a show’s fans as evidence that the show itself is flawed. People blur the lines between the creator’s intent, the actual text of the media, and fan interpretation. This leads to strawman arguments where critics argue against their own misrepresentation of a work rather than what’s actually on-screen.

Sociological Phenomena at Play:

• Purity Culture’s Internet Renaissance: The demand for “perfect” media that aligns with one’s values echoes older notions of purity culture, where deviations from prescribed moral standards are treated as harmful or dangerous. Instead of religious dogma, it’s now social and political ideals being weaponized.

• Echo Chambers and Outrage Economy: Algorithms push content that provokes strong emotions, so critiques often escalate in hyperbole and lose sight of nuance. If someone with a large following makes a bad-faith critique, it can spiral into a pseudo-consensus that’s hard to argue against.

• Performative Credibility: Some critics mask their lack of evidence or depth with performative outrage, using buzzwords like “toxic,” “homophobic,” or “misogynistic” without actually engaging with the material. They count on these accusations to shut down dissent.

• Media Literacy Decline: Many people consume media passively and lack the tools to analyze it critically. Schools often don’t prioritize teaching how to engage with narratives beyond surface-level consumption, so the skill of separating art from fandom or analyzing intent and subtext is underdeveloped.

What you’re witnessing is a microcosm of broader cultural trends that value being loud over being right, and it’s not exclusive to Vivziepop’s work. This dynamic plays out across all fandoms and internet communities—it just manifests differently depending on the subject matter.

[astrojulia]

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12th house through the signs

ARIES: You value your individuality and prefer to maintain a sense of self, even in emotionally charged situations. You're highly empathetic, and while this can be an asset, it can also be overwhelming. Taking time to recharge and find inner balance is important to you. You recognize that competitiveness can sometimes lead to tension and animosity, and you strive to avoid coming across as arrogant or pretentious. You prefer to focus on building positive relationships with others. You believe in the power of new ideas to challenge and improve the world, but you also understand the potential for resistance and conflict. You prioritize non-violent means of advocating for change and seek to avoid causing harm or pain to others. When you're comfortable, you're able to handle difficult situations with ease. You may appear reserved in group settings, but in one-on-one situations, you can be surprisingly assertive and confident. You prefer to keep your plans private until they're ready to be shared with others.

TAURUS: To ensure a happy life, it's best to avoid getting caught up in legal issues or negative conflicts with others(wow, it sounds sooo obvious.. let me continue). This is especially important if you've achieved financial success, as others may try to undermine your position since Taurus is closely linked to morality, value and relantioships, and trying to “corrupt” it can bring you a huge dawnfall. Even in matters of the heart, jealousy can arise and cause problems, so it's best to approach relationships with honesty and openness. If you value solitude and isolation, you may consider pursuing a spiritual path, such as joining a monastery or practicing religious beliefs. While you prioritize security, you may not always allow it into your life as much as you'd like, which can make you appear less stable than you really are. However, you have a grounding energy that benefits those around you, and you possess a serene and forgiving nature when at ease. You also work hard when in a comfortable environment. If you experience emotional challenges, you may struggle with bouts of depression and may feel the need to make amends even if it comes at a financial cost. But remember, losses can be regained, and life will continue on its normal path.

GEMINI: It's great to be aware of your emotions and take note if you ever feel resentful or have negative feelings towards others. It's important to understand that these emotions may arise due to something that was said, possibly by a family member or neighbor. Although these emotions may not come up right away, it's helpful to remember that they could come up later in conversation and cause further conflict. To prevent any issues, it's best to avoid making prejudiced remarks in written notes or documents, as they could potentially be used against you. It's also crucial to read contracts carefully, paying close attention to the fine print to avoid any misunderstandings that could leave you without legal ground. In situations where you encounter unfair criticism or insinuations, it's best to let them pass and focus on your own ideas and creativity. When you're alone, your active mind comes up with amazing ideas and clever wit. However, sometimes emotions can cloud your judgment, so it's important to balance them with reason and rational thinking. It's always a good idea to be prepared for the possibility of theft or someone taking credit for your ideas without permission. While this shouldn't cause any contention, it's important to be aware of it. You may also encounter secret opponents who are constantly plotting against you. These opponents may be intelligent, so it's important to handle communication with caution to avoid any potential escalation of conflicts.

CANCER: Family is an important part of life, but it's no secret that conflicts can arise within family relationships. Misunderstandings and conflicts of interest can strain family ties, leading to ill will and sadness. However, this is not a regular occurrence, and most of the time, family relationships are a source of joy and comfort. When it comes to dealing with family conflict, it's important to communicate openly and resolve issues as quickly as possible. For example, when dealing with wills, it's wise for all parties involved to understand the terms to avoid any unpleasant surprises. You're a sensitive person who values your privacy, and you tend to keep your emotions to yourself. However, you're also aware of the impact your actions can have on others, and you strive to be more considerate of their feelings. You're not immune to criticism, and negative judgments can sting even if you don't show it outwardly. It's important to acknowledge your feelings and work through them in a healthy way. If you keep everything bottled up inside, it can take a toll on your well-being.

LEO: Life can be full of ups and downs, and sometimes we may encounter situations that cause us to feel resentful. For example, if we get into a public or political battle, it can often result in bitterness and negative feelings. Similarly, false rumors or scandals can damage our reputation and lead to animosity in social settings. To avoid this, it's important to maintain a positive public image and uphold our ethical standards. When it comes to matters of the heart, it's essential to be open and honest. Hidden connections or misleading intentions can cause misunderstandings and hurt feelings. It's also important to remember that everyone has their own unique talents and abilities, so we should focus on doing our best and supporting others rather than trying to outshine them. While it can be tempting to seek the limelight, sometimes we are at our best when we are working behind the scenes. You have a natural ability to lead and inspire others, even when you're not in the spotlight. You also have a big heart and enjoy helping those in need, whether it's through charitable work or simply lending a listening ear. At times, it can be challenging to reconcile the imbalances of the world, and this can lead to feelings of nihilism. However, it's important to remember that there is always hope and that small actions can make a big difference. With your compassion and drive, you have the power to create positive change in the world.

VIRGO: You're someone who's really good at avoiding feelings of hatred or animosity in your life, which is a great trait to have. Your conscience usually guides you away from anything that could potentially harm your character, although there may be times when you're unaware of certain things happening around you. It's important to watch out for any internal conflicts that you may have, as you can be your own worst enemy sometimes. When it comes to criticism from others, it's always good to keep an open mind and listen to constructive feedback. One thing to keep in mind is to be careful about what you say or write about your coworkers or friends, as anything negative or unflattering could lead to legal trouble. Although you may have a critical eye, you usually take your time to think things through before speaking. In relaxed situations, you tend to be sensible, quiet, and meticulous, but make sure to share your thoughts and feelings instead of bottling them up. Sometimes you may get caught up in the details and forget about the bigger picture, but that's okay! It's just important to not let trivial matters get in the way of what's really important. Overall, you've got some great qualities and it's important to be mindful of them as you go about your day.

LIBRA: When it comes to what people say or do behind your back, you've got luck on your side. Your strong sense of justice and balance keeps you grounded and helps you maintain a clear perspective on life. But here's a friendly tip: if your marriage is going through a rough patch, it's best to avoid any unnecessary drama and stay true to your values. Sometimes, when a partnership is on the rocks, it can lead to creating adversaries. Yikes! In business, it's smart to establish clear agreements and arrangements ahead of time to avoid any misunderstandings later on. And here's something to consider: could your marriage arrangement potentially turn into a business partnership? Working with others might not be your cup of tea, so having a business partner might not be the best fit for you. You've got this go-getter attitude, but you also have a romantic and diplomatic side that shines when you're in your element. You're a bit of an introvert, and that's totally cool. You enjoy your alone time and sometimes feel a tad uncomfortable when you're thrust into social situations. It's normal to feel a bit anxious or experience some mental sadness when you're first stepping into the outside world. But hey, don't worry too much. Take it at your own pace, and you'll find your groove. One thing to note is that you're not a big fan of conversations centered around morals and justice. It can be tricky to interpret what you're saying, leading to some pretty intense conflicts. So, it's best to find other ways to communicate your thoughts and feelings without diving too deep into those moral debates.

SCORPIO: Life can throw some unseen influences your way, or you might find yourself making connections with people that expose you to unknown risks. It's like you stumble into situations without even realizing it, and it can be pretty risky. For example, getting involved with someone who's already married without knowing it. Even though you're completely innocent, it puts you in a potentially dangerous spot. Or maybe you have a jealous or possessive spouse who suspects something fishy is going on, even when it's not. Just be careful not to jump to conclusions or make accusations until you're absolutely sure. This area of life is pretty hazy, and it can be tough to figure out what's really going on. But here's the thing, your inner senses are super sharp and active in this domain, so trust your gut instincts. You've got this fascination with secrets and a knack for avoiding taboo viewpoints. Trust me, you're more powerful than anyone realizes, including yourself. When people notice intense emotional interactions happening around you, they might think you're feeling lonely. But really, this aspect of life is innocent and doesn't bother you as much as they might think. It's like you're trapped in a psychological prison that's tough to break free from, but you've got the strength to overcome it. So, my friend, navigate those friendships with care and trust your instincts when it comes to hidden influences. You've got the power to overcome any challenges that come your way.

SAGITTARIUS: When it comes to dealing with hostility or animosity from others, you can expect minimal issues. Your good-natured personality rarely makes enemies, and you never put yourself in a position where you betray yourself. On rare occasions, there might be instances when certain individuals become angry with you, perhaps due to some stroke of luck that turns sour. You might even have a lucky streak that occurs in unusual circumstances. Financial losses, if they happen, could be a result of unforeseen expenses. In other rare scenarios, you might find yourself defending your religious beliefs or being isolated because of them, especially if you're living in a foreign land or culture. You might come across someone who isn't particularly spiritual or religious, but who is philosophical and curious about different beliefs when they're at ease. You have a great sense of humor and know how to have a good time with your loved ones when you're together. You're willing to prioritize the needs of others over your own. However, be cautious of later regretting sacrifices made without careful consideration. You're an optimistic person who expects good things to happen in many situations in life. This positive outlook is a valuable trait as it allows you to receive recognition from others and focus on personal growth.

CAPRICORN: It's possible that you tend to suppress and disregard your inner desires, and you might even have moments of paranoia. It's important for you to make peace with the aspects of yourself that you've disconnected from. Your deep understanding of life's truths helps shield you to some extent when others try to undermine your position or authority behind your back. In most cases, you're patient and understanding, which reduces the likelihood of developing hatred or hostility. However, this might become an issue in the workplace or within a company, especially due to competition or a strong drive to advance your career. Despite your good sense of tact, others may perceive you as cold and uncaring because of your lack of overt sensitivity. Of course, that perception only exists in the minds of those who believe that breaking the rules is the only way to "get ahead," which you know is simply not true. Subconsciously, you may feel like you're always constrained in life, no matter what. On the surface, you may appear burdened with responsibilities, but when you're alone, relaxed, or away from the spotlight, you're grounded, responsible, and focused.

AQUARIUS: Just a heads up, you gotta be aware of the ever-changing dynamics when it comes to other people's behavior. You might have friends from various backgrounds, but it's possible that some of them might turn against you or take a stand against your principles, position, or even your status in life for some reason. On the flip side, in weird situations, you might actually see someone who used to be your adversary come back around and become a friend. So, when it comes to animosity or enmity from others, expect the unexpected. But let's talk about your independence because it's a big deal for you. You strongly react to any constraints or limitations imposed on you, and that can ruffle some feathers among those who want to see you fit into the mold. Beneath it all, you're more humanitarian than you might appear, and you've got a mission to help others in this crazy life. When you're feeling at ease, you're inventive, independent, and rebellious. Dealing with people in a group setting can be a bit challenging for you, though. You're not really interested in reaching a wide consensus on progress or embracing new ideas. These kinds of conversations can leave you feeling a bit lonely and detached.

PISCES: The people around you may possess a sense of intrigue or duplicity, which can create animosity or work against you in secretive ways. Friendly gestures or advances might be misunderstood, and it's important for you to have psychic awareness and see beyond superficial intentions. When something appears too good to be true, it's wise to take a closer look as it could be a scam, potentially causing financial loss and affecting your self-confidence. It's crucial to avoid getting involved in anything illegal or connected to illicit drugs, as you don't want to become a scapegoat and pay the consequences. You may encounter opposition from individuals who are offended by your actions, inactions, words, or even thoughts. Most of this petty conflict can be avoided by standing up for your ideas and principles. You may come across someone who is assertive and aggressive in ways that differ from your own nature. They may appear gentle, compassionate, and sensitive when alone or at ease. It's essential for you to learn to express these qualities in public without fear. You might also have hidden adversaries who disguise themselves as close friends, making it challenging to identify their true intentions. Such acts of betrayal can disrupt your life plans, leading to sadness and a loss of vital interest.

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[weemietime]

Blorbo

- Shayne or Weemie

- He/him, 33, Canadian

- ISTP, 8w9, sanguine

- Irish, French, Polish, Jewish

- Queer

- Find me on Reddit, and YouTube

- I run a mental health support group on Discord called Treehouse, the politics is kept low-key, moderates and progressives and allies are all allowed, people of all races, religions, sexualities, genders, etc are welcome. Our bread and butter is trauma and disorders that are caused by trauma such as cluster B personality disorders, OCD, certain psychotic features, attachment disorders, dissociative disorders, etc.

Posts about

- DDR, mutual aid, pragmatic pacifism

- ACAB, restorative justice, prison abolition

- Trauma, mental illness, indoctrination

- Zionism, New Iran, Land Back

- Diplomacy, international humanitarian law

- Post-economy, evolution beyond money

- Climate change, environmentalism

- Perpetration induced traumatic stress

Disclosure

- Religious Conservative Jew

- PTSD, SZPD, OCD, ADHD

- Physically disabled, chronic pain

- Former violent offender

- Sober addict

- I have a cortical visual impairment and visual agnosia, so sometimes I will misread or not see things properly. If I ignore or don't see something of yours it isn't on purpose.

Inline Tags (Theme)

#weemie #jumblr #hamas

#ask #mutual aid #szpd

#ocd #ptsd #lgbt #politics

#antisemitism #ableism #israel

Common Questions

What is antisemitism?

"Antisemitism is a certain perception of Jews, which may be expressed as hatred toward Jews. Rhetorical and physical manifestations of antisemitism are directed toward Jewish or non-Jewish individuals and/or their property, toward Jewish community institutions and religious facilities." IHRA, International Holocaust Remembrance Alliance

Antisemitism is spelled as one word, without the dash, as it is not bigotry against all Semites (Arabs + Jews), it is solely about Jews.

Is antisemitism the same as antizionism?

The 3-Ds of antisemitism are Demonization, Delegitimization and Double-Standards. If your criticism of Israel doesn't apply to any other country, if the way you talk about Israelis doesn't match how you talk about Russians, Iranians, Chinese, etc. then it is antisemitism.

What antisemitism is not

Criticism of Israel on its own (i.e. crimes, gov't, policies)

Palestinian self-determination

Palestinian flags, pride, culture

Criticism of religious Judaism (i.e. trauma, harm)

Is accusing Arabs/Muslims of antisemitism racist/Islamophobic?

It is racist to accuse Arabs of being de facto antisemites.

It is racist to presume Arabs are all Muslim as well.

It is not racist to acknowledge that Islam is foundationally taken from Jewish texts and histories, which have been misinterpreted and abused to justify antisemitic violence. It is not racist to hold Islam accountable for the imperialism that pervades its evangelical arm.

Just like it isn't racist to do the same for Christianity. And we hold this standard for Judaism as well. Just like it isn't antisemitic to criticize the harms that Jewish religion has caused for others (such as LGBT), it isn't Islamophobic to do the same.

How prevalent is antisemitism?

It's baked-in to two of the world's major religions, Christianity and Islam. Unfortunately that means antisemitism is the de facto sentiment of a majority of the world's population. Antisemitism is one of the oldest, longest hatreds. That means we are often subjected to historical revisionism, such as denying the severity of the Holocaust, or publishing encyclopedias, textbooks, as "information" with clearly antisemitic content pasted over real events. 

A good example is a look at the Wikipedia article for what Zionism is.

This clearly shows that Wikipedia is being subjected to antisemitic historical revisionism.

What is the alt-left?

We will use the BITE model for indoctrination as popularized by Steven Hassan in Combating Cult Mind Control. BITE stands for Behavior, Information, Thought, Emotion. The most common form of indoctrination is called a thought-terminating cliche, or a fallacy-fallacy.

For example:

P1: "Israel is committing genocide!"

P2: "How many people have Russia killed so far"

P1: "500,000"

P2: "Do you think Russia is committing genocide?

Should we eject Putin from the UNSC?"

P1: "That's whataboutism!"

Resist this "whatabousim" idea, as it is designed to terminate all objections to clear hypocrisy. Hypocrisy is different than whataboutism, because it is a double standard, one of the 3-Ds of antisemitism.

So what is Zionism?

Zionism is the acknowledgment that Jews are the indigenous population of Israel, who have a right to self-determination in their homeland. Zionism is extremely broad. Some people don't even require Israel to be the Jewish country (their goal is simply safety and community for Jews world-wide, in Some Place), but this is a more secular argument.

Some people believe Zionism is only applicable to Jews (i.e. you cannot call yourself a Zionist if you are not a Jew), others are OK with goyim using the term as well. You'll have to feel that out, as both sides of the equation have a right to exist. Personally I use Zionism in as broad a definition as possible, so it does include non-Jews, with the exception of Messianic Christians, and evangelical hoo-hah.

When you're discussing Zionism with a Jew, especially as a non-Jew, you need to listen to what they describe Zionism as. It is de-legitimizing (another of the 3-Ds) to claim that Jews can't be trusted to point out antisemitic rhetoric. Jews define antisemitism, and we define Zionism. They are words about us, for us. 

In some cases people will say wrong dumb shit, so refer back to the first part of what antisemitism isn't. E.g. if someone (even a fellow Jew) says holding a Palestinian flag is antisemitic, they are actually being antisemitic themselves.

Is goy a slur?

No, in fact the term "gentile" was popularized by the KKK. Gentile is based off of a Christian scholar's interpretation of the term goy (Saint Jerome). Goy simply means "nations", as in non-Jewish people. Goyim/goy is not a slur. Some people might use it derogatorily, the same way Black people might speak negatively about white folks who have been racist to them.

It's still not a slur. We prefer to use goy because it is our word, we like it, and it doesn't have a history of being lobbed at us by mask-wearing wizard KKK freaks. Terms like "zio", "zionazi" etc are also slurs developed by David Duke.

You're a conservative who believes in prison abolition and social justice blah khadl blargo de glarm hlblehgah?

Conservative Judaism is a progressive, egalitarian denomination of Judaism. We believe in conserving the spirit of the Torah, but produce adaptive Responsa as we gain more scientific and social understanding. it is not Republican/political conservatism.

Why do you post all these gibberish asks by idiots?

That's actually the reason I am here! To do outreach to people who are brainrotted. I was an extreme kid. I was indoctrinated into a violent armed gang at age 8, and we had a lot of the same ideology.

Violence is cool, and our enemies should die and be hurt, brutality should be rewarded, etc. I want to dismantle this pipeline. I want to use my experiences to be a force for good, because that gives meaning to my life.

But I get that it's annoying to constantly read bullshit, so you don't have to follow me!

Is Israel committing genocide?

As it stands now, I'm keeping an eye on things. The simplest opinion I have is that we don't have any real data to work with, so we can't make conclusions. But we do have testimonies, believable ones, from people who were there and who are documenting the Likud war crimes.

So far, there is not conclusive proof that Israel is committing genocide in a systematic way. Some Israeli politicians are saying genocidal rhetoric, (one egregious piece of evidence is Halevi's statements that bombing Gazan civilian areas would "soften the battlefield," which is an open statement he made to media, this would mean he supports giving orders to deliberately target civilian areas - this is genocidal!) but this is separate from genocidal actions.

It's possible the answer to this question will change to yes and I have always been open about that. And if it does become yes, I will say yes.

[pkmnirlevents]

An updated tagging guide for the pkmnirl community. 

TL;DR

If you like using the stakes tag system and already know how they work, consider adding #heightened emotional state pokereality and #altered perception pokereality to your repertoire. A brief explanation of each below. Full explanation below the read more.

#heightened emotional state pokereality can be used with topics pertaining (but not limited) to: suicide ideation, discussions of self harm, psychosis, limerence, depressive spirals, paranoia, or high levels of anxiety.

#heightened emotional state pokereality does not necessarily include low level anxiety or depression that does not cause major disruption to everyday life. It does not include just being very angry or upset. This is for heightened emotional states often brought about by mental health crises of some kind.

#altered perception pokereality can be used with topics pertaining (but not limited) to: delusions, hallucinations, traumatic flashbacks, brainwashing, or instances of a character being gaslit.

#altered perception pokereality does not necessarily include things like unreality or benign religious beliefs. This is for aspects of a character's reality that does not reflect material reality in a way that may be distressing for the character or potential readers.

These are not meant to replace content warnings, but might allow people to filter them more quickly.

If you do not know what stakes tags is referring to, please refer to the full post below the read more for a quick explanation of these tags and how they can be used. We hope you find this guide helpful!

The Tagging Guide

Over a year and a half ago this community introduced the stakes tag system. Originally proposed by prof-hemp420, the stakes tag system gave us the navigation tags we have today. It is the system we still use here on our blog, mind you with some simplifications. It came to my attention that these tags may not be as widely known by newcomers and that the introduction of other tags could prove helpful for tagging major events, posts, and even blogs. 

First off, let's go back over the previous system, then we will propose some new additions. It should be stated preemptively none of these tags are meant to replace individual warning tags (your content warnings and trigger warnings) but instead to give people less individual tags they may want to block or search through on a moment’s notice. For when you aren’t quite sure what to tag something, this can help you. 

The Stakes Tags

#no stakes pokereality - As the name implies this is for zero stakes situations. These are your everyday posts. There is no expectation to tag your casual posts with this, it more so comes in handy for distinguishing that a larger event will have no major stakes involved. 

#low stakes pokereality - A step up from nostakes, some mundane conflict may happen, but everything is going to turn out okay. 

#drama stakes pokereality - This is the tag for drama and disturbances. The kind of tag you use when your character is getting in a screaming match with someone at a public restaurant. A plotline utilizing drama stakes may be high emotion, but no one is going to end up badly harmed. This tag may be tacked onto another tag to provide further context. i.e. these characters will argue but the conflict itself is kept relatively low stakes

#high stakes pokereality - In short, people will be hurt but everyone will survive more or less in one piece. This is for your canon compliant evil team plotlines where the protagonists lives and maybe even the entire region is at stake. 

#ultra stakes pokereality - Same as high stakes, but with the acknowledgement that death or serious lasting consequences are now on the table. A Pokemon or person may die or end up in critical condition. Proceed with caution. 

#dark fate pokereality - A rarely used tag that was proposed for Bad Ending scenarios. Extreme amounts of death or injury will be present, and people are not expected to come out of this okay in the end. This tag would most likely be tacked onto ultra stakes if it was used, though examples of this are limited. 

These tags can be used for events, individual posts, or even in more current iterations blogs themselves! It is common to label a blog your high stakes or low stakes blog to give people a general indication of what to expect. 

Now! Onto the two new tags we want to propose. With the focus on interpersonal conflicts and discussions of mental illness on a lot of blogs lately (including our own!), it felt appropriate to give general tags to use for these plotlines as well. Again, these would not replace content warnings or trigger warnings, but may offer the ability for people to filter as needed. Sometimes a person might be in a less stable place than typical, and sometimes individual content warnings can slip through the cracks due to how many variations there can be between blogs. These subjects can be triggering for individuals caught unaware.

The New Tags

#heightened emotional state pokereality - A mouthful, we know. This tag would be useful for posts or plotlines that involve characters experiencing emotional instability. It’s for things like depressive spirals, psychosis, or suicide ideation. If it is enough to impede their every day function or seems like a heavy topic to discuss, this may be applicable.

This does not necessarily include low level anxiety or depression that does not cause major disruption to everyday life. It does not include just being very angry or upset. This is for heightened emotional states often brought about by mental health crises of some kind.

#altered perception pokereality - Not to be confused with unreality, which you can find a helpful explanation of here. Altered perception can be for when your character’s beliefs do not reflect their material reality. An example of this would be your character experiencing delusions, hallucinations, or traumatic flashbacks. In a fictionalized world, it can be hard to distinguish when a character is perceiving something not truly there. 

This does not necessarily include things like unreality or benign religious beliefs. 

FAQ

Why do these tags all say pokereality? 

This is to distinguish them as part of the pkmnirl community and to prevent them from being construed as real life events. 

Do I stop using individual content warnings or trigger warning tags?

As previously mentioned please do not stop using individual warning tags! These are merely shorthand to allow people to filter things quickly. The unfortunate fact of the matter is individuals tag these things differently, meaning that if someone wants to effectively remove that content from their dash they must account for every possible variation. While well meaning, this means things inevitably slip through the cracks, we hope this may offer additional help in lessening the frequency of that.

Removing these warnings completely though would run the risk of people still being exposed to sensitive topics. In some instances an individual might be unaffected by discussions of paranoia but they are negatively affected by discussions of self harm. It's important that these tags and warnings be used in combination for them to be effective.

How do I know if my blog is high stakes or low stakes?

You do not have to label your blog as any particular stakes level. If you feel like you may dabble in higher stakes occasionally, but want to stay relatively low stakes, that is absolutely fine! Do not feel like you have to box yourself into something. You can always change your mind later. 

I have a low stakes blog. Can I interact with high stakes ones?

That is down to the individual blog, but generally speaking yes! Blogs of varying stakes can interact with one another. This does not mean your blog has to become high stakes or that their blog has to become low stakes. 

Should I tag all of my posts as unreality? I don’t want to upset anyone! 

Tagging mundane pkmnirl posts as unreality unfortunately creates the opposite problem. People who need that tag blocked but still want to interact with the pkmnirl community then have to essentially gamble on whether or not a flagged post will contain something that will actually trigger a negative response or a regular old post about a character catching a pidgey outside the pokemart. Using a pkmnirl tag is fine. Consider pkmnirl, pkmn irl, rotomblr, rotumblr, pokeblogging, real pokemon, pokereality or some other variation to distinguish these from everyday posts on someone's dash.

Do I use #heightened emotional state pokereality or #altered perception pokereality for [X]?

If you aren’t sure it might be both! The stakes tags are mutually exclusive in most cases, but these are not. A psychosis episode will often have someone believing things that are not true about their material reality while also causing them to be in an unstable emotional state. In cases like these both tags apply.

Are heightened emotional states always bad?

We are not licensed professions to speak on the topic but to put things generally using these tags does not have to come with any moral judgment. That goes for the writer(s) and the character(s) involved.

Why did you repeat stuff so much in this guide?

People might not read all of it. We wanted to make sure that even people who might skim parts of this guide still understand the most important aspects of it.

I don’t want to use these tags!/This seems like too much effort! Or some variation thereof.

Okay. These are merely suggestions. 

Original Stakes Tag Explanation | Unreality Explanation | Questions/Comments/Concerns

[khaire-traveler]

Avoiding Trauma Reenactment in Pagan & Polytheist Communities

***Mentions of emotional abuse***

Something I've noticed is that there's a lot of trauma within the pagan and polytheist communities. Many trauma survivors - religious or otherwise - seem to come to these religions, maybe seeking comfort or maybe not.

Unfortunately, when there is a lot of trauma within a community, there tend to be cycles of it as well. People traumatize other people because, to put it simply, hurt people hurt people. I've experienced this first-hand and done it, obviously unintentionally, myself. So here's my advice on how to avoid traumatizing the shit out of one another.

Go to therapy or counseling if you're able. If you're not able, I suggest at least looking up ways to cope with trauma (CPTSD or PTSD may be specifically helpful for some people) and identifying your personal triggers. For example, some people might be triggered by not getting an immediate response to their messages, especially if emotionally charged, and may react based on the burst of emotion that triggered trauma can cause.

Recognize whether or not you're reenacting your own trauma in unrelated situations. This happens A LOT with abuse survivors specifically. There is a tendency to reenact one's traumatic experiences which can even come in assuming the worst of a situation or staying around people who remind you of (or treat you like) past abusers. Do you find yourself reenacting past trauma with others? Do you find yourself engaging with self-fulfilling prophecies?

When you feel yourself reacting with extreme emotion to a situation, try to pause yourself for a moment and ask yourself why you're feeling such a strong reaction. This is a skill that's easier said than done, and it takes some practice, but overtime, it becomes easier and easier. I've found it to be very helpful in identifying when my trauma is causing me to react a certain way to something vs. my genuine reaction.

Remind yourself that constructive criticism is not a personal attack on you. It's healthy to receive constructive criticism from others, especially friends who may be addressing issues within your friendships. Remember that when you receive criticism, it doesn't automatically mean that someone is trying to tear you down.

You are not responsible for how others react to you. This is a very helpful reminder for survivors of emotional abuse especially, since there's a tendency to self-blame. This is a reminder that takes a lot of practice, but when someone sends you cruel and hateful words, remember that 1. you don't have to listen to them, and 2. you are not responsible for the way someone else feels about or reacts to you. Simply put, we cannot control the emotions of others, as scary as that can be, and it's best to keep reminding that to ourselves.

If someone makes you uncomfortable, you are allowed to block them. You don't need permission from anyone to block this person. It's best to keep away from people who remind you of past abusers specifically to avoid potential reenactment.

Try to assume the best of people. Most people are not out to get you; most people are trying to passively enjoy internet time just the same as you. Of course, this doesn't mean harmful and hateful people don't exist, but it's best to not make yourself riddled with anxiety over that potentiality.

Practice healthy conflict resolution skills. This is something I recommend doing with a therapist or only after extensive research. The best type of conflict resolution, in my experience, is relating your emotions calmly and maturely. Try not to go flying off the handle or reacting with repeated apologies. Take a moment to ground yourself before addressing the conflict because even though it feels extremely pressing and urgent, it can likely wait for you to ground yourself first.

Don't go looking for a fight. Don't start arguments where it's not necessary, and don't go after people's personal character just to prove your point. These situations can end horribly for all parties involved. Should go without saying, but this includes not harassing people for their "wrong" opinions. It's an opinion, not a fact; please ground yourself if it truly upsets you that much.

Try not to say things with the intention of hurting someone. This is unwise for several reasons. It can lead to long-term regret later on, you can end up traumatizing someone with your words, and you may find that you were projecting your own feelings onto someone else. All sorts of consequences can come from this, so I encourage you to think before you speak. If you're extremely upset, wait to respond, and take time to cool off first.

This is all the advice I can think of off the top of my head. I hope it helps someone! Take care, everyone. 🧡

[charliequmf]

VOICES FOR TRANSGENDER INDIVIDUALS IN SUDAN .

Thesituation for transgender individuals in Sudan is particularly dire due to the intersection of cultural, legal, and social challenges. Sudanese society is predominantly conservative, influenced by strict cultural norms and interpretations of religious values that do not accept gender diversity. Here are some key challenges they face:

Legal Persecution

Sudanese laws criminalize behaviors considered "indecent" or "immoral," often targeting LGBTQ+ individuals, including transgender people. This puts them at risk of arrest, harassment, and severe punishments.

Changes in legal frameworks since the 2019 revolution have shown some progress, but protections for transgender individuals are largely absent.

Social Stigma

Transgender individuals face extreme social ostracization, discrimination, and violence from their communities, families, and society at large. Many are forced to suppress their identity to avoid conflict or harm.

Misunderstandings and lack of awareness about gender identity exacerbate prejudice.

Healthcare Barriers

Access to gender-affirming healthcare is virtually nonexistent. Transgender people are often denied basic medical care due to stigma or the lack of trained professionals who understand their needs.

Mental health services, already scarce in Sudan, are even less accessible to transgender individuals, leading to higher rates of depression, anxiety, and suicide.

Economic Exclusion

Employment discrimination forces many transgender people into precarious and informal jobs, leaving them vulnerable to exploitation and poverty.

Being open about their identity can result in job loss or difficulty finding work.

Physical and Emotional Violence

Transgender individuals are at high risk of physical and emotional abuse, both in public spaces and within their homes. Violence is often underreported due to fear of retaliation or further discrimination.

Hate crimes against transgender individuals often go unpunished due to societal indifference and institutional bias.

. Lack of Advocacy and Representation

Activism for transgender rights is limited and often suppressed by authorities. Many activists fear for their safety and operate underground.

The broader LGBTQ+ movement in Sudan is underdeveloped, and transgender issues are frequently sidelined even within these spaces.

The Way Forward

While the challenges are immense, advocacy, education, and international support can play a role in improving the situation for transgender individuals in Sudan. Initiatives to raise awareness about gender diversity, provide safe spaces, and push for legal reform are essential to ensuring their rights and dignity are upheld.

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Read about African polygamy

Historical Context:

Polygamy in Africa predates colonialism and is intertwined with traditional cultural practices and religious beliefs. In many African societies, polygamy was a symbol of wealth, power, and prestige, as having multiple wives signified a man's ability to provide for and protect his family. Additionally, polygamy served practical purposes such as expanding family labor forces and ensuring lineage continuation.

Polygamy, the practice of having multiple spouses simultaneously, has sparked debates and controversies around the world for centuries. While some argue that polygamy can have positive effects on individuals and communities, others condemn it as harmful and oppressive. In this article, we'll examine both sides of the argument to better understand the complexities of polygamy.

Cultural Significance:

In some African cultures, polygamy is seen as a way to strengthen family ties and social networks. It also plays a role in the distribution of labor and responsibilities within the household, with each wife often having specific duties and roles. Moreover, polygamous marriages are often accompanied by elaborate ceremonies and rituals, reinforcing social cohesion and community bonds.

Contemporary Perspectives:

While polygamy remains legal and socially accepted in many African countries, its practice has evolved in response to modernization, urbanization, and changes in societal norms. In urban areas, economic constraints and shifting gender dynamics have led to a decline in polygamous marriages, as the costs associated with maintaining multiple households become prohibitive. Moreover, women's empowerment movements and changing attitudes towards gender equality have challenged the patriarchal structures that underpin traditional polygamous unions.

Title: Debating Polygamy: Exploring the Pros and Cons of a Controversial Practice

The Case for Polygam

1. Cultural Preservation: For many societies, polygamy is deeply ingrained in cultural traditions and religious beliefs. Advocates argue that prohibiting polygamy infringes upon cultural autonomy and the right to practice one's beliefs freely.

2. Economic Benefits: In agrarian or subsistence-based economies, polygamy can provide economic advantages by expanding the labor force and increasing household productivity. Multiple spouses can contribute to farming, childcare, and other domestic tasks, thereby improving the family's overall welfare.

3. Social Stability: In some contexts, polygamy can foster social cohesion and stability by strengthening family networks and community bonds. Polygamous unions often involve extensive kinship networks, which provide social support and security for members.

4. Gender Empowerment: Contrary to popular perception, some women choose polygamous marriages willingly, viewing them as a means of financial security, social status, or companionship. In certain polygamous arrangements, women may have more autonomy and decision-making power than in monogamous marriages.

1. Gender Inequality: Critics argue that polygamy perpetuates patriarchal power structures and exacerbates gender inequality. In many polygamous societies, women have limited rights and agency, often facing discrimination, abuse, and neglect within the household.

2. Emotional and Psychological Harm: Polygamous marriages can lead to emotional strain, jealousy, and conflicts among spouses. Children in polygamous households may also experience psychological distress due to complex family dynamics and divided parental attention.

3. Legal and Ethical Concerns: Polygamy raises legal and ethical questions regarding marital rights, inheritance, and child custody. In societies where polygamy is practiced without legal regulation, individuals may be vulnerable to exploitation, coercion, and marital instability.

4. Health Risks: Polygamy is associated with higher rates of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and HIV/AIDS transmission, particularly in contexts where condom use is inconsistent or taboo. Multiple sexual partners increase the risk of disease transmission, posing public health challenges in polygamous communities.

The debate over polygamy is nuanced and contentious, reflecting divergent cultural, ethical, and moral perspectives. While proponents emphasize its cultural significance and potential benefits, opponents highlight the risks of gender inequality, social harm, and health hazards associated with the practice. Ultimately, the question of whether polygamy is "good" or "bad" depends on one's values, beliefs, and the specific context in which it occurs. As societies continue to grapple with issues of gender equality, human rights, and cultural diversity, the conversation around polygamy will undoubtedly evolve.