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hiraeth-daydreams · 1 year ago

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I'm sorry Rudy my dad is a what

#i cant fucking believe toby fox put this here. theres no way he wouldn't notice the implications right #RIGHT #the bouquet of roses and now that... i cant fucking believe this. holy shit.#old man yaoi real #*Not kin related #*My post #deltarune #utdr #toby fox #rudy holiday #rudolph holiday #asgore #asgore dreemur #kris dreemurr #asgorudy

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hiraeth-daydreams · 1 year ago

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Wait, you guys actually don't relish every second of the time your friends spare just to be in your company? Do you actually see friendship as a means for a destination instead of a joyful voyage you have been blissfully bestowed by the people who genuinely believe you to be worth their time? I thought it was a joke.

It's like we all collectively forgot as a society that friendship and just connection in general takes effort. Even if you meet someone you immediately click with, it takes hanging out about 20 times (!) to become friends. And guess what, some of those 20 meetings might be awkward or unimpressive.

We all want to reap the benefits (having a friend circle, having a partner, getting married) without doing the work (going to events, interacting with people, learning to handle conflict maturely, dating). Myself included. If I could, I'd never leave the house or go on another mediocre date again... except, that's part of the process.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, the cure to the loneliness epidemic is touching some grass and building tolerance for tedious in-person interactions.

#it boggles me that friendship can be seen as a transaction in which you heap benefits from and not an inherently joyful experience #awkwardness and boredom are of course inevitable but when they come by you can just. Do something about it.#tell a joke or a fun fact you know. make weird sounds. propose a fun activity for you to partake in. show them a trick #my favorite party trick to impress people personally is to put their hand on my side and dislocate my hipbone #also i dont date so im not sure it would work on that context but go for it if you want to #anyways. just do what makes you happy. be whimsical. talk about weird shit. you'd be surprised how many people are drawn to peculiarities #this tips are for people who want friends btw. if you feel the most fulfilled when you're in your own company then! by all means!! do it!!!#*Not kin related #*Personal #*Reblog

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chloesimaginationthings · 1 year ago

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This is basically Michael in FNAF Sister location,,

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fraternum-momentum · 1 month ago

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marcille kin makes so much sense. in the nicest way ever

shes just like me frfrfr

#OUUUUU THATS A RELIEF #making that rlly short kin list got me thinking #bc sometimes i would go omg this is me and im afraid the personalities would not match at all LMFAAJNF #iirc correctly there was a particular episode that made me relate to her a lot aughyh i forgor which one but it rly resonated with me so #YIBBEEEEEE #fribbles #franswers

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i-collect-shiny-stuff · 4 months ago

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33, unsorted

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hiraeth-daydreams · 2 years ago

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I was slapping some dozens of AO3 tags onto this site and this was the only sentence in which all of the words were in the Bible. What the fuck.

Brand new sentences in the discord tonight

#*Not kin related #*Reblog #*My post

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sunanthrope · 7 months ago

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Being genderfluid with pronouns that arent fluid is so infuriating

"Feeling feminine today." "Oh OK so she-" LOUD INCORRECT BUZZER wrong its still he/it

Wish more people understood that feminine is not woman is not she/her

Just bc I feel girly today doesn't mean I want you to refer to me as a girl??

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meli-mouse · 5 months ago

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siffrin but like with a nose

#isat siffrin #isat #in stars and time #ngl at the beginning of the game i was like eh about him #but like now im 1 weird life event away from kinning #This lil dude is so relatable which is kinda weird to say if youve beaten the game but #Like he’s going through a lot of the same feelings i have been lately #so like lil dude had me tearing up over like random books and leaves and stuff #lol ty sif for uhhh making me feel better but also worse but likr productively lol idk how to explain i just like him a lot

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hiraeth-daydreams · 1 year ago

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Me going to work everyday as acting Chief of the police department while I bulge out of my skin-tight, eye-straining faggot *#FA6607 orange leather suit (I'm a 60 year old man with severe psychological issues)

how am I supposed to tell people that this is my favorite color specifically because of the funny hex code?

#im deeply sorry for all non-ace attorney enjoyers out there who had to see this #and for the ace attorney fans too #no im not hight youre high #*Not kin related

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hiraeth-daydreams · 2 years ago

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Living well with your aromanticism, not despite of it, gets easier when you notice that this world wasn't made for you. You are not restricted by expectations, you don't have to follow a pre-planned course of steps to what happiness should be at; being aromantic can bring upon you the will to mold your life to whatever shape you want, because you know fully well what's expected won't fulfill you. Instead, you have the power and time to find what does.

You can live alone, unabashedly happy, surrounded by the little things that give you comfort.

You can build meaningful, long-lasting relationships that have not even a hint of romance.

You can have fleeting relations with people that make you feel good and not deepen your bond.

You can have one-night stands and leave before the morning comes if it feels right for you.

You can be present in your family or community, helping and being helped by people you trust and feel like a gift of being part of.

You can hear stories from the mouth of your companions and elders, and tell your own.

You can find beauty where people don't usually care to look at, revel in how much wonder is within you.

You can do what people usually feel like they need a romantic partner to do, without the limitations or complications one would need to fit themself around; ranging for dates to caring for children.

You can pursue hobbies, engage with art and craftsmanship, explore nature, do research, fill your days with the joy of creation all by yourself, just because you can.

The world was not built for you, but it doesn't mean it can't fill your days with joy, or that you can never belong in it. There is so much more than romance.