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As a divorcée, I beg you not to give up on love. I don’t think I ever knew what love really was until I met Mr.Wonderful. He is everything that is love. . He is patient. He is kind. He is gentle. He is understanding. He is my safety. He is my partner. He is my heart. . He is everything, and he is the glue that keeps my children and I going. I never knew what love was until he wrapped me up and mended my broken heart. . Please don’t give up, not everyone is like your ex. Not every person will break you down and devalue you. Put yourself out there and keep trying. They are out there, and I can now tell you. . Love is real, and it’s out there. . #love #slc #saltlakecity #marriage #divorce #divorcedmom #blendedfamily #loving #iloveyou #stepmom #stepdad #remarried #secondmarriage #lovequotes #relationshipquotes #effyourbeautystandards https://www.instagram.com/p/B1PQDBGhEWb/?igshid=cdfl5i5jrqji

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No amount of guilt or regret can change the past. Let go of what has ended and accept what is coming with open, welcoming arms. Things get better, life gets better, and you will be okay. 
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Who else is excited for fall and winter lip colors?! 💋💄🍁❄️ 
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I am a HUGE fan of Vietnamese food. It is always so fresh and flavorful, I could just bathe in Pho broth. As anyone who knows me, I am an extreme creature of habit. I go to the same places, get the same order and everything. However, a few weeks ago my best friend took my fiancé and I to this wonderful new little Vietnamese place in Taylorsville by the name of Rollz. Was I skeptical? Yes. Was I reluctant? Slightly. Was I completely insane for being so? ABSOLUTELY. @rollzandbowls is THE BEST. Vietnamese food I have ever had. From the noodle salads with the tangy fish vinegarette to the savory pho to the scrumptious chicken spring rolls! Everything and I mean EVERYTHING was amazing. 🍲🍜🍚🥗 If you come to SLC, it is a place you must visit!! 
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Forgiveness is difficult. Forgiving someone else is difficult, but I think what’s more difficult is forgiving yourself. 
I have done so many things in the past that I fret and have anxiety over constantly. Most of my guilt comes from my prior marriage. I was not a good wife, I was not a good partner, I could have done more. He was no saint, but all I can do is reflect on what I did. How I was, my faults, my shortcomings, my attitude, my everything. While married, I went to counseling to be better. I tried to change how we treated each other, how we spoke to one another, everything between us. But it wasn’t enough, the damage was done. 
When I asked for the divorce, I was hurt, angry, and I was scared. I didn’t want our son to grow up around us treating each other like garbage. 
I thought I was doing the right thing for all three of us. Our son deserved a happy mom and dad. I didn’t do it maliciously, I did it to give him a wake up call. And that backfired. 
It wasn’t long before I realized how selfish I was being. I begged and pleaded for forgiveness, I wrote texts, letters, left voicemails, everything I could think of. I tried to save my marriage, but it didn’t work. And I didn’t blame him. I understood why he was done. 
I still haven’t forgiven myself for what I did to my marriage. I wasn’t the only one at fault, but I was a huge catalyst for why is ended. I am happier now, and I’m in a life I didn’t even know I needed. I have to work on myself daily to realize that I did everything I could to save my marriage. Even though it wasn’t enough, I tried and that’s all that matters. 
I hope forgiveness will come one day, and I will strive to be better everyday. But know that your words hold great weight, and forgiveness doesn’t come easy when the damage is already done. 
 
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Playing around with makeup. Love my @anastasiabeverlyhills palates and lipsticks! 💄💋 . Still learning eyebrows! Don’t judge! 🙈 . 
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Being a single parent was one of the hardest things I have ever done in my life. After my ex-husband left when I was 6 months pregnant, I was so scared. I had no idea what I was going to do and how I was going to take care of this baby alone. But I did it, and it made me a stronger and better mother and partner. I have been so blessed this last year. So much has happened, things I never thought would because I was a single mother. I worked in job I loved, became more aware of myself and the importance of self-care and mental wellness, met the love of my life, and became a stepmom to a little girl I love so much. I finally have everything that I have ever wanted. Please believe me if you are in a similar situation when I say, it will all fall into place. Everything will be alright, and everything will work out exactly like it’s supposed to. Keeping working your ass off, keep fighting to be the best in everything you do, take time for self care, take a minute and cry if you need to, just don’t stop trying. I see you. All of you. Man, woman, young, old. Doesn’t matter. You are doing a great job, just breathe, and remember to take care of yourself. 
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Fall in love with someone you sees the wars within you. Someone who wants to hold your hand and help guide you through the storms. Someone who won’t give up on you on your worst days. Someone who loves you for you, and still sees the best even when it’s hard. Find someone who not only loves you, but respects and values you. Someone who will fight with you, not against you when the war arises. Find a partner. Not a hinderance. 
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I look at you, and I can’t believe someone didn’t think you were enough. You are my everything, my love, my partner. Until the end of my days, I love you. 
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Toots & Squish love their “Gramma Grape!” 
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Toots loves his “gebby!” 🍝 . 
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When you’re in the middle of the storm that is divorce, it’s hard to see the brightness your future holds. Remember these things, even in the hardest times: You deserve to be respected.
You deserve to feel valued. 
You deserve to be loved. 
You deserve to be HAPPY.
 
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Don’t be afraid to love again. Not everyone is like your ex. 
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