#woman-beater

[watermelonssmile]

Hey woman-beater, I haven’t posted about you in a very long time!

So they told me you’re saying you’re being mistreated,

You’re saying she’s taking your keys and locking you up, that she's jealous to a crazy degree,

Funny how that's what you did to me!

Are you lying to try and make people pity you? Are you trying to have people forget what you did to me, and to her?

You’re so vicious and manipulative, I wouldn’t be surprised. I didn’t think you could get more pathetic but here you go again…

If it is true however, there’s only one word that comes to mind; karma!

I have found the best relationships I’ve ever had, while you’re getting the shit you deserve.

You will end up bald, bitter and in a pointless job hating on your wife and future kids.

No excuses -> no forgiveness.

It’s easy to understand - but you’re not as smart as I thought you were back then.

Anyways, I got a good laugh when they explained everything to me. So thanks, I guess!

[love-marimo]

HAHAHAHA OMG i agree tho

[i-prefer-the-fictional-world]

This is something I'm very hesitant to talk about but it's constantly on my mind, it has been for years now and I feel the need to let it out somewhere.

We live in a very, very deeply mysogynist world. Misogyny is something every woman (and trans/NB people) regardless of race, ethnicity, nationality, sexual orientation, wealth, power or privilege experiences almost on a daily basis. Some are harmed by it far more than others but no one is completely un-harmed. It is horrifying and cruel but also normalised, and there are so so many people out there who are looking for any and every excuse to justify the misogyny.

Some of them stick to the old tried and true wokeness ruining stuff narrative, but others have started adopting something far more gross. It's the 'women can be abusers too' narrative.

Let me be clear yes of course I know that women can indeed be the abusers. What I'm talking about here is the weaponization of this phrase. Men use this narrative to hide their own abuse and use DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) to make their victims look like the bad guy.

We (and I'm not excluding myself from this group) so desperately want to believe that if a woman has enough wealth and power and privilege she could become immune to the harm misogyny causes, because if people like taylor swift and Blake Lively are not immune to it then what chance do rest of us stand?

So we are sometimes a little too eager to believe that women are indeed lying for fame and fortune. Actually feminist make lots of genuine efforts to be as considerate and as inclusive of men as possible. We desperately want to believe that any man we like is a good feminist man. And the bar is so low for that. So many men will say and do a fraction of what most women do and still be praised for being feminist. I can't help but think that 'women can be abusers too' often gets used as a replacement for 'she's a gold digger' or 'she's making false allegations to ruin his life'.

There is an assumption that it's just natural for men to be a little misogynist at the start so we are far more accepting of their change and growth. But God forbid a woman comes across as mean in an interview. Also while we are on the topic how many times do we hear men being mean in interviews? Is it just me or the word mean is used for women far more than it is used for men?

White feminism is another term I've seen being used a lot in the USA and western world in general. Most of the times I've seen this phrase pop up is when a rich white woman is talking about various forms of misogyny she has faced. I'm well aware that white feminism is indeed a real harmful thing but even this term is used as a weapon to dismiss misogyny rich white woman faces. It always sounds like what you been through is not a big deal, misogyny is not a big deal, there are more serious/ real issues in the world so stop complaining about this non issue. Someone has it worse so you have no right to complain.

I've personally seen this argument I've seen used against Taylor Swift a lot. I'm not American or white or straight and yet I find myself relating to her experience so often. So it always baffles me because how is her talking about her personal experiences alienating to women of colour? The reality is all women face misogyny in all sorts of ways and pointing to a woman's privilege to dismiss the misogyny she faced is just one of many many tactics. I guarantee you that your favourite non white, non straight, non american female celebrity or you know literally any random women that you know, (and most likely you yourself), also has their experiences dismissed only the wording of it was a little different.

My point is saying all of this is please don't fall for it. Even if the woman is the richest, whitest, meanest, most privileged bitch, take everything negative said about her with a grain of salt and if she is talking about abuse or sexual assault put your feelings aside and believe her.

[lostreverb]

"if i were you i'd get the hell out of dodge before i get those new hands" WOAH WOAH WOAH WOAH WOAH JIMMY???

[benjingler]

Brokeback Mountain fujos piss me the hell off

[coochiequeens]

For all the younger ladies watching news coverage of O.J Simpsons death don't let the media constantly repeating he was found not guilty of the murders of Nicole Brown and Ron Goldman gloss over the fact he was an abuser.

[martyrbat]

action comics #1

(ID in alt!)

[manny-jacinto]

novax losing to cute carrot guy: 😁

med losing to woman beater: 🙁

[hidesalvation]

i need my tumblr mutuals to know the ins and outs of my work place dynamics so that everyone can know how fucking stupid this shit is. i feel like i work at a circus

[oasisr]

Narcissists are like cockroaches. If you have one in your family, you probably have an infestation.

My parents, siblings, and nieces are all narcissistic. And, being around them is so draining. My mom literally just yelled at me and told me off because I told her that my brother shouldn't beat and cheat on women or let his daughter steal from the store.

She even accused me of being jealous of him! Why would I be jealous of someone addicted to alcohol and cocaine? Who hits women and drives drunk with his kids in the car? Wtf?

[aloysarrow]

I want to be able to remove Yuanwu's hat SO BAD. SO BAD. I HATE HIS FEDORA. I actually don't hate anything else about his design or his fighting style. He works out. He drinks tea. He likes cats. His suit with his glasses and his gray facial hair gives silver fox. Like bro is a 10/10 but for me his fedora brings so much ick that he's at best a 5/10 but for me he's a -10/10. It's so much ick. Please, Kuro, just make an alt skin where nothing has changed except he no longer has his fedora and he, idk, does anything else in his Idle Animation 3. Make it cost money, too, I'll spend $10 to change him into a different skin lmao

[salirophiliac]

not watching smackdown yet but. fuck jd mcdonagh

[sancastarcs]

just came to say that if you still support that woman beater and rape apologist after the recent information you can go fuck yourself and got to hell with him

[thenewbornseer]

[There’s a knock at the door]

[the door opens to a tall older man]

What is it?

[m-jay-gee]

marlon brando had no reason to be so fine playing stanley kowalski

[stracciatellala]

“He was perfect except he was lowkey a woman beater so I told him he was exactly like our dad” 😭😭 shit my sister says