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My family doesn't know that I love cooking and cleaning.
I avoid being in the common areas so much due to how rude they are that they think I prefer buying pre-packaged sandwiches.
They don't know that I'd love to clean everything and then make a fall soup and homemade bread and bake some sweet dishes.
They actually think that I'd prefer to eat food wrapped in plastic in my room for no reason.
No accountability, no respect for boundaries and no manners ever. My own family members have told me to my face that they "don't give a f---" and will say and "do whatever" they want to do, even if it makes me very uncomfortable.
#the things you miss out due to narcissistic family members#narcissistic brother#malignant narcissism#mental abuse#verbal abuse#toxic family#loner#hermit#lonely#cooking#cleaning#scapegoat
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Todays topic is Narcissism.
I dont what everyone is going though but this could be for you
Tip of advice if someone calls you a narcissist ignore them. They are trying to provoke you. I know personally speaking I need to do that more comparing someone in my family is extremely narcissistic.
#narcissism#narcissistic abuse#narcissistic personality traits#narcissistic family#narcissistic brother
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reblog if you have narcissistic eyes and dark energy
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“When my skin feels like a barrier between /Everything else in this universe and me / Then I try to remember / That there may very well be a link between us / That I can't see / Something underneath the surface / Buried / In among the weeds.”
ID: A watercolor painting outlined with ballpoint pen of a human heart. The heart has been colored brown, and the arteries have been drawn as the caps of Armillaria Ostoyae, a brown mushroom with speckled caps. the veins running over the chambers of the heart are dark brown. The painting has been titled, “Armillaria Ostoyae”.
Art that I made for @narcissistcookbook , who I saw in the flesh tonight :) they and their audience were very cool, soaring over the (low) bar set by the only other concert I have ever been to.
#the narcissist cookbook#I genuinely loved the crowd tonight so much#someone gave me a bracelet and someone else gave me a keychain that they both made themselves#I mentioned to someone that I had surgery recently and they saved me a seat by the bar (because it was standing room only for the most part#) for the rest of the night#I know I joked about it in That One Post#but tnc has such a kind creative fanbase and it was incredible to see#this was also my first time going to a concert semi-alone (as in#my brother had a different ticket so I was alone in the venue for an hour or so#and I was nervous but I felt really good#AND they played all of my favorite songs#so that was nice#I also haven’t painted in a hot minute so this was fun as hell#traditional art#art#painting
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Republicans are always on the same page and their latest talking point is government waste and (false) claims of federal employees not working. There were no studies done on this. One day they just decided to wrongly victimize federal employees. Their propaganda machine is the slickest and best funded of any in history. After a few days of lambasting federal workers the public now believes federal employees aren’t working.
The truth is federal employees are overworked and underpaid just like everyone else in America. The reverse only being true for CEOs. This is the same thing that Republicans did to teachers in the late 90’s into the early 2000’s. That was so successful that even progressive liberals like most of you believe without a second thought. The goal then was to reduce costs and privatize to enrich oligarchs.
So what is the endgame for Republican oligarchs now. Same as it always is. Remove regulations, and even whole governmental agencies, so there is no oversight over businesses. Without government oversight capitalism runs amok and saves billions of dollars per year at the expense of the consumer, the workforce, and the environment. Some of the agencies will be privatized allowing the oligarchs to gorge themselves even further on your tax dollars.
The oligarchs are the puppeteers pulling the strings of their Republican pawns. They are the enemy and it’s as simple as that. It’s all about money and everything else is a smokescreen to distract the masses from seeing money and power being transferred to the 1%.
The culture wars are just a tool to divide us and cover their. Look and dagger theft. The racists, the religious fanatics, the homophobes, the militias, the misogynists, the MAGA cult, are all just pawns to divide, distract, and ultimately conquer the country and turn us into powerless, voiceless wage slaves. It was always about money and power and will always be. At some point we as a people will have to directly remove the oligarchs or else forever be their serfs.
#doge brothers#Vivek Ramaswamy is a greedy narcissist#elonia muskrat has seized control of our democracy#doge#1%#tax the rich#depose the oligarchs#republican assholes#maga morons#corporate greed#money and power#billionaires see us as worthless subhuman pawns
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Y'know, ever since I stumbled across Epic: The Musical by Jorge Rivera-Herrans, I've been somewhat surprised by the fact that there's been a boon in fanfiction relating to Greek Mythology—even if only primarily focused on the events of the Odyssey. Considering that I'm long since over my Greek mythology fixation faze from middle school about half my life ago (I've never read the Percy Jackson series, I just liked how wild the mythos was), I'm mostly indifferent to the topic, but I do have ONE gripe with all the stories I've been coming across lately.
There's this popular interpretation that Athena is Zeus's favorite child, but when you actually get down to assessing all available (AKA surviving) historical accounts/myths regarding the paternal fidelity of Zeus, it's pretty obvious that his favorite kid is Apollo. That being said, I'm pretty sold on the notion that Athena is at least the favorite daughter, with Artemis perhaps being a not-so-close second.
Honestly, percentage wise, I'd say Zeus's love for his kids goes 55% Apollo, 30% Athena, 5% to Artemis, and 10% split in varying degrees between EVERYONE else.
Ares has like -2 points if we only look at his portrayal in the Illiad lol. The Athenian account of him in Myths is NOT kind to him, despite the fact that he's undoubtedly the most decent male Olympian (never raped women, a good father, surprisingly merciful to mortals who genuinely slight him if they manage to impress or best him, and he was the protector of the Amazon women). As funny as it is, while Ares might be Zeus's least-favorite kid, I'd imagine that despite the differences between the two, he'd be Athena's favorite brother.
#greek mythology#epic the musical#Athena#Zeus#Apollo#I also like to think that no one actually cares about Zeus's opinions on people#like oh Ares is your least favorite son? whatever you sociopathic narcissistic megalomanical rapist#vs Athena who EVERYONE values the opinion of#Everyone would be SO flummoxed to know that her favorite brother is Ares#especially Ares HIMSELF#meanwhile I'm sure Hera's proud that the only stepchild she actually likes also favors her beloved son
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I think that we should bring back Sirius angst in Jegulus fics because as an older sibling who played a large role in raising my younger siblings, if my best friend started dating one of them I would be fucking livid
#where’s the drama#where’s the spirit#Sirius is a dramatic narcissist he would NOT b e chill#and that’s COOL#I see everyone taking away the drama. by having it be a reveal that he doesn’t care and I sigh#also the narcissist comment isnt a dig it’s a headcanon.#regulus black#regulus arcturus black#sirius orion black#sirius black#the black brothers#jegulus#starchaser#sunseeker
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Narcissists are like cockroaches. If you have one in your family, you probably have an infestation.
My parents, siblings, and nieces are all narcissistic. And, being around them is so draining. My mom literally just yelled at me and told me off because I told her that my brother shouldn't beat and cheat on women or let his daughter steal from the store.
She even accused me of being jealous of him! Why would I be jealous of someone addicted to alcohol and cocaine? Who hits women and drives drunk with his kids in the car? Wtf?
#narcissistic#narcissism#narcissistic personality disorder#narcissistic abuse#abuse#narcissistic mother#narcissistic brother#woman beater#wtf#gaslighting#victim blaming#radfem#tradfem#domestic abuse#narcissistic family
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Ngl gumball is the type to not fuck around when someone says anything about his gf he's very obsessed with
the tags aren't letting me tell you how gumball literally brought an entire PERSON, probably a dead one of unconscious as a SACRIFICE to a fake cult made by his own teachers and classmates (they didn't take it well)
#this guy had the idea to rip in pieces his classmate uncle to fill a box for a BIRTHDAY GIFT#killed his classmate multiple times just to prove a point#tried to decapitate Leslie and in the most creepy way ever#burned his own gf house down to impress her#did give his own gf an allergic reaction multiple times#tried to choke his own bother because of a dream that didn't even happen#panicked multiple times about his gf nit loving him anymore and resulted in destroying the town more than once#almost killed rob with no hesitation#made his own brother feel guilty about eating potatoes in front of a potato while HE HIMSELF ate potatoes and didn't give a single fuck#sold somebody's parents to prove a point#framed people multiple times#did commit manslaughter before#created toxic and radioactive chemicals just because he didn't wanna admit he was wrong#his plan as a president us to literally bomb the entire country without a care#“we all know how things will go so let's just skip to the end” [bomb dropped]#he was dully prepared and committed to kill whoever was trying to fancy his mother#DID jumped into literal fire just for a stupid ass lucky hat#there's more but this guy.#this guy is not okay#tawog#the amazing world of gumball#tawog gumball#gumball watterson#also he proposed like 2 times in a row to penny#he mentioned to Darwin he was creepily obsessed with his own gf#is a narcissist but like#very slightly#he does have a HUGE ego though#his brother isn't safe either Darwin literally kidnapped someone's mom to get a videogame back and did chop somebody's head off#the last one was a mistake though
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"When he forgives Cesare at the end saying how they’re brothers and wants to be together, I think that’s genuine. That’s the first time you realize what he’s always wanted." — DAVID OAKES
#“I glimpse us cesare. two brothers in harmony. walking together.”#francois saying cesare refused to listen to juan because he *knows* he can change his mind about killing him still living in my mind#something about cesare humilating juan and making fun of him and even set him up to die at forli by not warning him about ludovico's army#and yet juan still loves him anyway because his jealousy of cesare is unserious unlike cesare's jealousy of juan which is a deadly hatred#ngl juan is so funny because he'd rather die than being sappy. he's too narcissistic and prideful to reach out for cesare or his family#but he only reached out to him in his final moment when he was vulnerable and going through it. it was too late rip#confessing to cesare that he's a fuck-up and he's always been in pain etc i missed you we should love each other wah wah type of speech#juan borgia#cesare borgia#the borgias#juan and cesare#david oakes#francois arnaud#theborgiasedit#periodedits#perioddramaedit#tvedit#cinemapix#tvarchive#by jen
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started watching heartstopper and i've been super careful because of the whole eating disorder. turns out that isn’t even the issue anymore. what absolutely blindsided me was the scene where their mum sends tori to get charlie before dinner. tori being so worried, tori noticing that there’s something wrong when their parents joke about the lack of seasoning. siblings being there for siblings because their parents suck at actual parenting or even worsen a situation at times...... seems like years of therapy can help you manage disorders but what's even harder to overcome is the feeling of absolute despair, being completely alone in the world with no one to turn to or even to trust
#heartstopper#sorry this is depressing i know#ep2 just hit me in the face and i wasn't prepared for this#my oldest sister has borderline#my older brother was addicted#then there's me with eds since i was 12 and anxiety and depression since i was 15 but diagnosed only in my 20s#and then my little sister who's trying..... i know she is but she's just as broken but won’t let anyone near her#my dad working 60 hours a week completely overworked narcissistic hothead leaning towards alcoholism#and my mum suffering years of generational trauma - a super nervous anxious perfectionist with an eating disorder herself#both parents reqlly hard working but no access to education and any progressive ideas such as how to properly treat your children's issues#mental health#what's that#talking to therapists???#nope that's for actually sick people#damn.......#i can't believe this triggered so much#charlie spring#tori spring#spoilers
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ANGST TIME!!
I feel like schnozmo and mama cosma would argue a lot growing up, and little cosmo is sort of caught in the crossfire :(
that feeling when the closest thing to a therapist you have is a ten year old who has no idea what is going on
#I don’t know if this needs a trigger warning#but it might hit close to home for people who grew up in dysfunctional families#joeys doodles#traditional art#artists on tumblr#fop#fop fanart#fairly oddparents#fop cosmo#fop schnozmo#fop mama cosma#tw unhealthy family dynamics#i know this term is used way too often nowadays#but i think mama cosma is a straight up narcissist#and the way i characterize her reflects that#schnozmo at least apologizes for the noise and genuinely cares for his younger brother even if he doesn't show it very openly#mama cosma just wants to use him as a soundboard and get him on “her side"#she doesn't care that cosmo might be negatively affected by hearing her say these things#she just wants a little puppet to agree with her
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I need that blond man to die. I need someone to grab that violin and smash it over the back of his head.
#luka. the bastard.#tried to wait a few hours before explicitly stated who won#alien stage#i was holding out hope that there would be a plot twist where he was redeemable#i dont care you'vw sacrificed your individuality and freedom in order to survive#you're a wee bastard#and i hope hyuna kicks ya ass#hyuna my queen please kill this poor circulation having; narcissistic; short; brother-killing; “look at me im the one you lost”; fake ass ho#hey siri snap this guy's violin strings in his face#also send love to vivimeng#love vivimeng#hate luka#never hate vivimeng
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i know im down bad because all those times will cried and acted sad as a manipulation tactic i really thought he was being genuine until i was explicitely told otherwise. and i felt BAD for him too like i was in my feels so hard, mans had me fooled he coulda killed me so easily
#“aww poor willy ilhsm 🥺” brother no hes a narcissist#i promise im not one of those people who wildly misinterperets his character i just like him too much#its the autism guys i swear#he is my achilles heel#hannibal#will graham#nbc hannibal#hannigram#hannibal lecter#hannibal nbc#murder husbands#hugh dancy#mads mikkelsen#hanniblogging#txt post#txt#hannibal meme#🫀
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lowkey i feel like a lot of men are gonna start self diagnosing adhd soon if it hasnt started already
They only care about diagnoses when those diagnoses help them evade the consequences of their actions.
#e.g. my brother getting an adhd to 'explain' why he tried to beat me to death that one time#obvs this is not all men but there's something about mental health that attracts the most insufferable narcissists#anon
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I really believe that my entire family has NPD at this point. And, everyone needs therapy.
My brother borrowed my mom's car last night. This morning, our enabler mom and I went in the car to go get coffee.
I immediately noticed that the car stunk. It had a horrible smell.
I found red solo cups in the passenger seat, and mom found fast food bags in the back seat.
My brother had taken his daughters and his girlfriend to get hamburgers, but they left the half eaten food in the car all night. It started to rot and smell odorous.
I told my mom that it was not okay that he let the girls trash the car, and that they should never be drinking and driving.
Mom said it's not a big deal and we should just go get coffee.
I said, "Aren't you going to call him and tell him that it's wrong? Why don't you have him clean the car?"
She said that I'm weird for being upset and that it's none of my business because it's not my car.
Last time my brother borrowed the car, there was a bottle of vodka in the passenger seat.
He has had two DUIs, and has had his license revoked.
I don't even understand why she would want him to drive the car in the first place.
She kept telling me over and over to mind my own business, and that drinking and driving isn't a big deal because she threw the trash away.
I told her that she could have lost her car if he were to get pulled over, plus his teenaged daughters were in the car too! (He also lets his daughters drink and smoke weed. That's a whole other story.)
I admit that my anger took over and I lost it. I started yelling at my mom to listen to me, and to stop saying that it's okay for him to drink and drive, and leave garbage in the car.
She kept saying it's not a big deal. I started screaming at her. I just couldn't keep calm. I felt like she had no common sense or common decency to stand up for him.
I can't understand why no one in the family has to face any consequences. But, if I say I don't agree with something because it's morally or legally wrong, then I'm the bad person.
I've been crying and hyperventilating all day long because she just seems so lost. My entire family is lost. I don't even know what to do anymore.
#dui#drinking#drinking and driving#narcissistic mother#narcissistic personality disorder#narcissist#narcissistic#abusive family#abusive mother#abusive brother#cptsd#c ptsd#npd#aspd#antisocial#narcissism#narcissistic abuse#raised by narcissists#narcissistic parents
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