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when i see people against using the term transandrophobia its all "just men trying to steal the spotlight from women again" "trans men just keep bandwagoning on things trans women are already doing" "they dont experience things as badly as trans women do" "terfs focus more on trans women so we should be talking just about that" "theyre just using this to say that TRANS WOMEN are their opressors!! its just transmisogyny!" "a bunch of TME people and theyfabs trying to say they have it worse"
then i see people that actually talk about transandrophobia and theyre just. in their own communities discussing the problems they face, trying to get people to not completely ignore their issues, and that they deserve to be treated decently and not as evil or that theyve become worse or betraying women for transitioning into their proper gender.
i think yall who hate these discussions are just falling into queer terminology discourse and oppression olympics and infighting (and radfem juice for sure), all of which we say again and again does nothing but help people that want all of us dead. this shit is stupid as fuck
#btw im not a trans woman or trans man nor am i cis. im genderfluid#and as a bi lesbian who was making informative and positive posts for bi lesbianism at the height of the hate towards that#please ! calm the fuck down! stop infighting! this shit is ridiculous!#transandrophobia#anytime i see people post an article or something explaining against transandrophobia#its just FILLED with just dismissive and insulting shit#like damn yalls ''incredibly good reasonings'' against the term#feels one moment away from just saying ''trans men are just a bunch of whiny babies''#its gross as fuck#yall have GOT to stop treating your fellow queers as punching bags and lesser than you and never experiences Real Problems#btw if you use the term ''theyfab'' i hope you break your neck#you are a transphobe flat out if you use that. no matter what identity you are
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thank you trans men
#genuinely most of the strongest and funniest guys I know are trans men#seeing masculinity embraced in a non toxic way is so incredibly refreshing and wonderful to see#especially seeing how the patriarchy pressures men to fit into very specific molds and how yall completely shatter them#like yeah keep pushing against the patriarchy kings go off#I know multiple cis guys who have been able to explore masculinity in a variety of different ways#all bc trans men showed them that they could while still being a man#but yeah thank you trans guys#I love you all <3
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"what are you" a cognitohazard. a co- do i really have to explain the SCP foundation to u rn. on tumblr dot com be so fr.
#i'm a binary trans man but i realised this was probably too niche for the instagram comments section#but i feel like an adventurer who just discovered a new species rn so i had to document it#u didn't hear? yeah they actually make u post it to tumblr dot com whenever u discover a new response to “what are you”#slash “what's in ur pants” slash “what's your gender” slash etc etc etc#idk if the term cognitoharzard exist outside SCP i feel like it might but that's where i know it from so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯#i also disclaimer don't know much about SCP stuff. i listened to readings of heaps of stories for like a few months#shoutout SCP Archives ily#it's funny SCP actually reminds me a lot of The Magnus Archives#some of them were just so incredibly the flesh. or the spiral or the desolation or the extinction etc etc etc it was really cool#i gotta start listening to them again#just maybe during the day this time lmao#scp foundation#scp shitposting
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Need more women who are bears I don't just mean butch women, nor do I mean exclusively butch women. I mean we need more women who are bears. I want a hairy mildly chubby lady who could deadlift me, regardless of their position on the butch/fem axis.
#give me this concept in femme bears as well as butch tbh. Pretty woman with long hair and eyeliner who looks incredible in a dress#but also doesn't shave- could bench me- and is soft#butch#femme#lesbian#pining#gay pining#transfem#shitpost#shit post#trans girl#butch lesbian#lesbian bear#femme lesbian#femme4butch#femme4femme#dykeposting#dyke
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biggest pet peeve is when people try to police the way queers wanna identify like we have bigger fish to fry i fear
#re an ig reel where people were being annoying about a trans guy still relating to the term sapphic in regards to his relationship with his#gf . with people saying shit like ‘ermmm you know you’re misgendering yourself by saying that buddy 🤓’ infantilisation asides i Promise u#that guy is more aware of his own complex relationship to gender and love than random ig user who despite being queer themselves seems#incredibly limited by made up binaries still#i think if these people took one look at old queer magazines or articles they’d shit themselves seeing the amount of ‘contradictory#identities’ within them#jay rants#idk man i relate a lot to that liminal queer space of butch and transmasc despite not being a lesbian . like let people relate to what makes#them feel good
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Finding out Pete wrote the lyrics for Baby Blackout by Daisy Grenade and going insane. She was a teen girl writing about a breakup your honor. Anyways, here's Pete on the cover of his own shojo manga because he deserves it and I think he'd like it.
(more webweave-y gender truthing type shit below the cut)
#okayyyy hiiiiiiiii it is my very sincere hope that pete would like this even tho i know he wouldnt touch my account with a hundred foot pole#pete#fem pete#peterick#art#girl out boy#girl out world#trans#this took so incredibly long actuallylike just putting everything together#i cant stop viewing the song theough a trans lense im sorry it fits insanely well#if i put this in the pete wentz tag will i be hunted for sport#safe to reblog#the gender of it all#thinking about pete specifically wanting this song to be sung by a girl makes my head explode what do you mean new face#I was born in my skin im just waiting for it to kick in HUH#pete why are you so so so so so sure you wint make it into heaven pleaee answer my calls#i know the social rule is that the boys arent ever ever ever allowed to see my art but genuinely i think pete would find this cute and fun a#ans i just need to know if he likes it and if i got the vibe right#also big thank you to my insane friends who help3d me build all of this#like okay even if you feel that pete is 100 percent cis..the song is SO girl going through the messy breakup Pete was when he wrote this#this is about that#deviltrick#commissions are opennnnnn
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remember when andrew garfield presented michaela jaé rodriguez with her glaad award and he said "i wish i was half the woman that she is" and then got down on one knee to give her the award because it's been over two years and i haven't stopped thinking about it
#icons both of them#i miss the tick tick boom era so dearly i'll never forgive the academy for such an egregious snub#ALSO everyone and their mother was talking about who should play mj in a hypothetical tasm 3 back then#and how did i never see anyone mention her?? her name is literally mj!!!#michaela jaé's acceptance speech was also really powerful#and it makes me sad watching it back knowing how much worse the state of trans rights in the us (and the whole world) is rn#she's incredible i love her#michaela jaé rodriguez#mj rodriguez#andrew garfield#how to be cringe 101
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Kevin/Andrew | Explicit | 1.3k
Summary:
Andrew gets a strap-on and Kevin sees god.
#Back on my t4t Kandrew bullshit#To the irl person who follows me: we ignoring this one too!#Kevin Day#Andrew Minyard#kandrew fic#Kandrew#Aftg#Aftg fic#all for the game#the foxhole court#Decided to write this as a birthday gift for myself and then fell asleep before I finished lol#They're always on the mind#And then someone was incredibly kind about jealousy and undid my mental block abt writing them#trans kevin day#trans andrew minyard#<didn't know those were popular tags huh.#I just wanted to write Kevin Day crying and moaning on it y'all.#Gotta be real smut writing is mostly academic for me.#But this one got me a lil ngl
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what if I said renarin kholin is trans coded
#autistic coding 🤝 trans coding#“there is something deeply wrong with me i am fundamentally different from all my peers and i cant fit in the role that was assigned to me”#renarin transitioned in kholinar and dalinar just forgot he was ever a girl bc he was incredibly uninterested in a child who couldnt fight#am i projecting? yes. next question#stormlight archive#cosmere#renarin kholin#kal.txt
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I don’t post much non Sims but I want ppl to know about this
I’m not a state where I can directly donate so I decided to spread the word. Feel free to share if you can’t financially contribute, I’d really appreciate it.
#transfem#trans#transgender#gofundme#drag#drag race#pls support drag queens they’re more than just men in outrageous clothes#they’re people who are incredibly talented and creative
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and i would still transition even if every cis person was nice about my gender pre-transition
#noticing how many ppl seem to think of trans people's transitions as like#a socially imposed burden and not like#an incredible source of joy for vast majority of the people who undergo it#i feel like when we talk about gender as a social construct people forget that social constructs dont just exist to say no#if they only said no#who would participate in them lol#gender is also a language one can express themselves within#transition is part of that expression 4 me#mayb i should promote these tags. idk#lgbtq#.txt
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did u know. they might be giants are very very very good live
#tmbg#they might be giants#music#lyf laugh love#seriously incredible#i was right up at the front by the speakers so my ears were fucked but it was worth it#also if youre the cool girl who talked to me about doctor worm being a trans allegory hi youre so cool#godddd. dead by tmbg is SO good live#and like yeah they're touring flood ofc theyre gonna play it BUT STILL#plus when will you die. yupppp
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its really specific and kind of petty but I hate being able to do something cool but because I'm not a conventionally attractive cis woman if I posted a video of me doing it it'd get like ten notes but if I was 5'4" with a full chest and a slim figure it'd be at like 140k notes. Part of me is like yeah Idc I don't want the attention but another part of me is like well I'm mad that if I did it wouldn't go anywhere bc of that.
#smokey talks#like the rope dart video or the girl blowing out candles with swords and stuff#i know that most of the viewership on those things are like... gross dudes who r like oooh yeah girl do thing....#but the fact that i cant share my skills or take joy in my hobbies publicly without being seen as a 'violent man' bc im trans is#incredibly frustrating#and also maybe its just the depression talking but. it really does not feel good when its like. doing the same thing and ppl r like#ew no one cares#but then a pretty cis lady does it and everyones like ooooh tell me moreeee#'shes so hottt not to be a lesbian but omg'#and it also feels like. ppl r being reductive of the talent displayed in the videos bc they always have to qualify:#like. 'i bet u didnt think a GIRL could do this.' when u should be like. wow this person is skilled#idk im just rambling i just wish someone would take interest in my hobbies#but the only community in my hobbies is wildly transphobic. so i cant even go there really#anyway ignore this im just rambling
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My little girl's birthday is on 8/15. In just two days, she will be three full years old. She lived ten months of her life between fear, illness, terror, shock, displacement and deprivation. She was deprived of everything: the affection of her father, which she needed from her simplest needs, diapers and milk, even clothes, her toys and clean water. She was deprived of a good bath. She lived through great suffering and was shocked by the killing of her beloved father in front of her. She saw all the events, so much so that from the severity and enormity of the shock, she could no longer speak anything. Her beautiful steps, which I used to look at with happiness, she could no longer skip. She loved to look at ballet dancers and stand on her feet and start imitating them a little. I was waiting for her to grow up a little so that I could register her in ballet dance education centers and see her achieve her dream. But after everything that happened, how can her dream be achieved? It has become very difficult, but everything can be changed with your help. Please do not abandon my little girl. Donate for her, please.
Hello! I sincerely hope you and all of your family are doing as well as you can today; especially Almas.
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Today is my friend, Hadeel’s, daughter’s birthday. So please allow me to tell y’all about her.
Almas is turning three years old today (August 15), but has spent the last ten months of her life in this genocide.
During this time, instead of being able to learn and grow as any child has the right to, Almas has witnessed horrific atrocities, including her own father’s death, directly in front of her. These traumatic events have led her to regressing developmentally, being unable to speak when previously being able, and returning to uncontrollable urination, meaning she requires diapers every day. This isn’t even to speak of other basic needs those of us outside of Gaza take for granted, such as food, water, and secure shelter.
Before everything, Almas was a happy little girl, who loved her family and loved to dance. Here is a photo of her with her mother.
With the occupation increasing the intensity of its attacks, it becomes harder and harder for Hadeel, Almas’ mother and sole provider, to find the things that she and the rest of their 13-member family require for their survival.
So today, I ask all of you out there with the means to help: PLEASE consider sharing and donating for Almas, and for the rest of her family. Let us give her the gift of life and hope for her birthday.
€4,932/€20,000 goal vvvv
(reblogged by 90-ghost)
#gaza#palestine#free gaza#free palestine#gaza genocide#artists on tumblr#art#trans#transgender#family#family fundraiser#(personal tags:) listen y’all. hadeel has been working INCREDIBLY hard to provide for her family. their tent was destroyed and she had to#build another from blankets. i’ve seen the footage. almas has been through so much at such a young age. she is a beautiful child who#deserves life. having to beg on tumblr is no one’s ideal scenario.#and about the ‘spam’ tags: i just want this to get more reach and attention#i don’t normally do this (spam tagging) but this is important to me. my frustration doesn’t even hold a candle to what they are enduring#idk who to tag. i’d do the whole ‘mailing list’ thing but it feels redundant#please help#help my friend
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we've talked about wyll's bit and we all know about astarion's bit but let's talk about gale's bit. let's talk about his presentation as the Ideal of what it is to be an archmage. the man wears purple velvet pajamas with an embroidered collar to camp in the underdark. he wears a gay little earring with mystra's symbol on it. its all fun and games to joke about his jammies but let's be clear: those things Fuck. he dresses well, he dresses richly, he is a wealthy lavish man who, in a world where things like long hair are not traditionally associated with femininity, is not what I would call gender nonconforming, but I think he does have a very interesting presentation.
robes and jewellery are traditionally associated with wizardry and femininity - or, if not femininity, at least nonmasculinity. theyre the garments of monks, eunuchs, and nuns, people who stand outside of the typical sex/gender binary for socially accepted reasons. traditionally most archmages are men (karsus, mordenkainen, elminster, etc) who perform this exact presentation. the doylist explanation is, of course, that dnd canon is inherently misogynistic, but the in-universe implication would suggest that to present in this way is not regarded as gender non-conformation but as class conformation. so our options are:
wizardry is for gayboys
'wizard' is its own gender
gender presentation is less important than getting that sweet sweet +1 spell save dc and everyone knows it
class is a gender modifier. this has interesting implications for the other classes - particularly ones like clerics, which might have prescribed uniforms or vestments - but given that faerun does have a not-insignificant classless, non-adventurer population- how does it work for them?
regardless, I think it's fair to say that gale's bit - like wyll's is the Blade of Frontiers and astarion's as the seductive rake - is The Archmage. he presents himself, from the start, as an academic, as a wizard. he's a friend of elminster, the (ex-)chosen of mystra, gale of waterdeep - he's everything a Wizard should be. even when he's tadpoled, camping in the woods, he carries a stack of unread books, wears mystra's symbol, wears his purple velvet jammies. he's presenting himself with care and thought, and giving a highly specific impression. I think it's really interesting that, as much as wyll and astarion, he's putting on a front, and it plays into his story. do you encourage the side of him that's ambitious and daring, the archmage, the man who pushes the boundaries of power and knowledge - or do you try to break that down, and place the value on the man who just wants to sit in front of the fire with his cat and read a book?
#gale dekarios#bg3 meta#bg3#gale 'dress for the job you want not the job you have' dekarios#and yes I know the speculation on wizard gender really just boils down to#'those guys can blow you up with their minds so really who cares'#but. play with me#play toys with me#i think this plays well with hcs about trans gale as well like....he's not performing Masculinity he's performing Wizardlinity.#but he is doing it in a concerted way he is emulating people who are the pinnacle of what he wants to be:#academic learned men who wield incredible power over reality itself#bc for gale 'god of ambition' ofwaterdeep it's not enough to appear as a wizard#he has to WIN at appearing as a wizard#I think they're all soooo interesting. is the thing#and I think it's fun how all the boys are doing their little Bits<3
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I may end having to watch Interview With The Vampire against my will and better judgement, because I just love mess, and BOY does it seem like it's just about messy, toxic, shitty gays, which is the representation i crave
#oh man i forgot I had that ask about Michiru and Lestat in the same coven#God give me the talent to live up to that ask someday#someone on tumblr: I want relationships that DON'T end in death with GOOD people and WARM endings#I love that for you I want everyone damaged or dead#I want lesbians to watch each other die#I want gay men who need a fucking dirt nap#I want trans women who blame other people for their fuckups#I want it all baybee#I like my GIBLET fic like I like my straight fic: incredibly emotionally manipulative#I want to be disgusted enraged overwhelmed by sorrow#I want to bit hit with a sledgehammer#I want to love someone and engage with thenm#and then watch terrible things happen to them and/or become terrible#(this is an oversimplification of my position but basically I do not want stories that are cozy or safe)
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