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So like I know my childhood was a bit fucked up because of how my parents are/were. I started figuring that out when I was like 11. But for the second time this year I’m reading a book about an absolutely wildly fucked up family situation now that the daughters who ended up writers despite their parents are old enough and settled enough to write their memoirs. I expected to go “wow that’s fucked up! glad I didn’t go through that,” and I AM but a lot of it is also me looking at a page describing some of the most immature avoiding bullshit I’ve ever seen and seeing my own family’s words thrown back at me. Absolutely wild.
#Katie is rambling 2k24#me at past me: damn bitch you lived like this??#good work hun you got through a lot of stuff you shouldn’t have needed to#we can heal together now#currently reading: Windwaker by Suzanne Heywood#previously read: The Glads Castle by Jeannette Walls#it’s one of those things where I see a similar situation from the outside happening to someone else#and I’m suddenly like ‘oh yeah that is messed up isn’t it. I’m angry for this person. I should be angry for myself too’#*glass castle I swear autocorrect gets worse by the day
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Swapping tips on how to be a bestie in the bath.
#poorly drawn mdzs#mdzs#wei wuxian#dungeon meshi#marcille donato#It is going to take a long time for pd-mdzs to get to the bathtub scene. At least we can have another gay bathtub scene sooner.#I know everyone is hyping this up at the yuri episode but guys it does not even start nor stop at the bathtub scene.#Hey old danmeshi fans; you guys remember when the animated trailer came out in 2019 and we lost our minds?#Now we are on the cusp of getting a *second* animation of the farcille cuddle moment. It feels unreal.#I have missed drawing wwx so much by the way. This was so healing.#This week is for dungeon meshi and next week is for raffles. Wei Ying... I miss thee.#Marcille and wwx have more in common than just this but that's spoilers B*)#I'll be back Thursday with more Dungeon Meshi art. Wouldn't miss this one for the world.#DUNGEON MESHI SPOILERS: now that the anime has caught up to the scene��yeah this handshake was also about necromacy#and bringing back someone loved…wrong. It is also about being a prodigy who falls from grace#and they both opt to study something that is deemed ‘evil’ because society said it was. They believe their method can be used to help!#not to mention the toxic self-reliance qualities. And the dark outfit transformation moment. They should have brunch together.
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You know what @f4nd0m-fun I literally finished this last night, so here, have the lil baby hydra. From several prompts.
They're still mostly baby colors, which is all monochrome, but are juuust starting to get more colors like their underbellies and their heads are starting to lighten up, but will start shifting color eventually.
Which makes me wonder what kind of thing might happen if someone tries to study the realm hydras....
(Also have a prompt in the tags lol)
#the class pulls a tiamat#dcxdp#dpxdc#prompts#Jordan is on the left & Ellie on the right#Reminder for who is in the Ennead: Danny & Tuck & Sam & Val & Wes & Dash & Kwan & Star & Paulina#Unlike their parents the two of them are about the size of a big dog together#Like they are BABY baby in dragon age even if separated human forms are like 13 or 14#But can you imagine someone sneaking into the remnants of Amity and finding some sort of giant nest with an “egg”#*cough* Core *cough*#Big 9 headed parent is not pleased#Why yes the ennead are poly & destroyed a government branch together#And brought the ruins of Amity with them to this new world when people wouldn't stop bothering them#or bothering them in violent ways#the hydra was created out of desperation due to the GIW's actions#They've been in the DC world for a few centuries now and didn't have problems before#They've guarded every other core well until they healed and left back to the Realms- Halfas/Hydras just take longer apparently#Probably because they have to rebuild a fully physical form as well
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whoa! it's, like, symbolic.
#happy silverv week everybody#this is a jumple of things ive drawn these past few weeks#my art#silverv#cyberpunk 2077#c2077#my v is called vaya and he got so mad post sun ending that he spent the next few years refusing to die and hunting down johnnys body irl#and his mind in deep cyber space (probably with so mis help) and then resurrected him out of spite. no more tomagotchi era for john#and then fell in love also out of spite#v can have his sun ending and johnny can have his temperance arc god dammit!!! we WILL be sober and happy and heal together or ELSE !!!!#i could go on their dynamic has been rotating in my mind for like 2 years or so. they were two people at once but also one person together#and now separate but forever transformed?? koi no yokan moment but also soul mates in a literal sense and bonded by choice. anyway. then th#and then they kiss : )#cringe content warning ⚠️
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college au roachghost where ghost is an architecture major and roach is a communications major:
they meet as first years who are randomly placed in the same dorm and end up just liking each other a lot and move into an apartment together after a year and just hang out with each other all the time and play video games etc. as they've spent more time together over the course of a couple of years they've gotten more and more physical with each other. it started out with just little touches here and there but eventually progressed to leaning on each other all the time, sitting pressed right up against each other, lying on the couch cuddling (like lying on top of each other style) to the point people think they're an item but they remain woefully oblivious to/don't particularly care about what people say about them
one night they're just hanging out playing 1v1 katamari damacy and roach is beating ghosts ass at it bc its his favorite game ever and ghost keeps moving closer and closer to him to try and distract him until hes fully sitting in his lap, chest to chest. roach is distracted by the game and doesn't even question why it makes him feel so good to have ghost so close to him like that, too caught up in lovingly teasing the only person he's ever let touch him at all. no one's ever touched him, let alone this much, but he just laughs and half-heartedly tries to look over his shoulder to keep playing, he giggles when ghost does as he leans forward and starts giving him shy kisses on the neck, subconsciously tilting his head to the side to give him more space. he doesn't even think twice about kissing back when ghost makes his way up to his face, kissing over his cheek and finally starts kissing him in earnest; it feels like the most natural thing in the world to have ghost on top of him, hands on his thick waist pulling him closer while ghost pushes him back into the couch cushions, leaning even more of his weight onto roach, getting his hands into roach's hair and sighing softly against him when he feels his best friend hug him tighter, and roach is so happy to be sharing himself and his space with the only person he's ever trusted enough to let get close
#yes you can play pvp katamari damacy#and if youve never played katamari damacy YOU SHOULD DO IT NOW#WE <3 KATAMARI IS THE BEST VIDEO GAME OF ALL TIME SHUT UP#roachghost#ghostroach#also ghost is always chubby to me#his tummy flops over the waistband of his pants always#his face is round and his cheeks are squishy#chubby legs and butt that squish into his pants#hes chubby and i love him#gary roach sanderson#simon ghost riley#cod roach#roach cod#roach call of duty#call of duty roach#roast#roach x ghost#ghost x roach#thank you for enjoying my self indulgence#healing my inner 20 year old or w/e#romantic kissing or platonic kissing the homies? whatever you prefer#they just feel happy and safe together and thats what matters most#they just love each other
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The ed greed ling dynamic has me in a chokehold and tbh I'm not complaining they are everything
#IT SHOULD HAVE BEEN EXPLORED MORE IN CANON 😭 😭 😭 😭#like not even from a “i want to see more of them” angle but like to legitimately flesh it out#bc like. weve seen them all interact only a handful of times wdym greed does what he does in the finale for these two#we dont know how much they mean to each other (the answer is a lot but we dont see how they get there T^T)#anyway im writing fanfic fleshing it out bc i can and i think its turning into a 5+1 thing#but lifes coming back so i may be significantly derailed#but no they are literally my favourites ever i think they are all platonic soulmates and its healing at least two of them#(ling seemed to have his shit mostly together tbh. now hes just a goofy guy with the weight of xing off his shoulders for now)#edward elric#ling yao#greed the avaricious#greedling#fmab#fullmetal alchemist brotherhood#moss' madness
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I got a new tattoo!!
@naffeclipse so he can't come to the appointment, but he can look at the result <3
*self insert Aster is not a girl (he/ she)
og detective au by sunnys-aesthetic!
(tat pic under cut, warning for my bare, complaining about being shaved leg lmao)
I'll now go back to not including my tattoos in my doodles unless they suit me, because man that's a lot of lines lmao
#post let luce#dcamv#bloodstain fool#naffeclipse#menace4menace#my art#it looks best when the leg is straight which is. hard to photograph lmao#cant wait for this to be healed so i can color it in with my glitter tattoo pens <3#really went in like “hi ur gonna have to trace two straight; parallel lines with a tattoo needle” n the madlad did it#we also dissed german grammar together while speaking english which was honestly a highlight#i was propped up on my arm the entire time#by the end i was like “my hand fell asleep ):” n he was like “and your leg??” “that's fine you kept it busy” FGHDJSK#but yes new tattoo and i am now so so eepy#“you were stabbed many many times now your body wants to heal”#yes but i would like to opt out. will my way out of tired#at least i got the fool doodles out hehe
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BITTERSWEET REUNIONS
#Nevermore#Nevermore Webtoon#Webtoon#WOW WHAT A RETURN!! I KNOW THE HIATUS WASN’T THAT LONG BUT DAMNNNNN!!! ALSO RIP TO OUR 5 COIN STATUS#ANYWAY MORELLA SNAPPING ADA BACK.. IT’S SO CRAZY HOW HER PARTICLES WERE ALL OVER THE ROOM#CAN SPECTRES LIKE UPGRADE THEIR POWERS BC IT LOOKS LIKE ADA DID THAT#WILL BBY SORRY FOR CHOKING YOU AND DAMNNNNNN LENORE FOR FORCING HIM OFF AND TELLING 👏🏼 HIM 👏🏼 OFF 👏🏼 GODDAMN LOVED THAT#AND THEN ADA AND MORELLA FIGHTING!! MORELLA SHOUTING IS AMAZING! AND IT NEVER OCCURED TO ME THAT ADA DEFLECTS HER BLAME IT’S CRAZY#SICK OF PLAYING WITH PHONIES!! EPISODE 7!!! CALLBACKS!! AND NOW MORELLA COME TO THE MISFITS FULL TIME PLZZZZZ#OOP DUKE YOU GOOD? OK OH UH YEAH IT’S BEEN A BIT WITH YOUR SPECTRE ALSO UR POWERS MADE ADA GO OUT OF CONTROL SO 😬#GIVING HIM HIS JACKET AAAAAAA! THE COIN AAAA! EULALIE AAAAAAAA! DUKE CATCHING HER AAAAAAAAAA! PLUTO BLUSHING AAAAAAAAAA!#WELCOME TO ANOTHER EP OF EULA’S AMAZING FACTS#BERENICE! GROUP HUG!!! THEY’RE ALL SO WHOLESOME I CAN’T I’M SO GLAD THEY’RE ALL TOGETHER AGAIN! BACK AND BETTER THAN EVER!#wait just realizing something did duke’s spectre heal his bruises? interesting#PUT ME BACK IN THE WALL HAHAHAHAHA#And the two of them scoping out the mess#YESSSSS YOU GOTTA BEG SIR! BEG FOR YOUR PLACE AND YOUR LIFE! REAL TEST OF -FAITH- LIKE THE LAST EP ALMOST#DAMN WE BACK EVERYONE SO EXCITED TO MAYYYYBE FINISH OFF THE SEASON??? IDK WHERE WE GO FROM HERE I ASSUME EP. 100#BUT YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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penelope canonically retreating to her room and refusing food = she puts on some weight, the reason being both lack of physical activity as well as her body being on constant emergency mode (so what little she does eat ends up being stored away bc the body doesnt know when the 'starvation' will end). whats more her constant stress elevates cortisol levels which in and of itself leads to weight gain esp in the abdominal area.
tl;dr chubby penelope send fucking t w e e t
#that is it that is the post#cortisol is also known as the stress hormone#helps u wake up & regulates metabolism among other things#it helps you cope with stress but too much of it (much like anything else in life) is not good for you and your health#this has been on my mind for so long#no im not projecting#shush#thinking abt her naiad heritage too#like maybe she can get through long periods without or with very little food but her human body's nutritional needs prevail idk#and then midnight snacks maybe lol#away from the piercing gaze of the wretched suitors and judgemental looks of certain maidservants#chubby penelope for the soul#penelope of ithaca#my beloved muffin#with razor sharp teef#give the cinammon roll some tummy rolls!!#BONUS: when ody comes home they both heal together and side by side#coming to terms with just how merciless the years have been#ody gains healthy weight after years of abuse in ogygia (i hc he purposely denied himself proper food bc thats the only agency he had#as well as the making urself undesirable to the abuser)#and penelope goes for swims and perhaps bonds with telemachus in a new way like races and swimming competitions aw#as well as teaching him some naiad stuff he probably inherited#family healing yay!#:')#btw not saying they go back to their 20 year old physiques#what i am saying is they now take better care of themselves and each other#and one of the ways its reflected is in their frames#i think we need more middle aged odypen art#and age accurate content in general#esp post odyssey
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Multiclassed wyll into a warlock/ranger. Best decision I've ever made, live your Disney princess with a gun truth man
#he gains heavy armour proficieny and can handle martial weapons greatly increasing the damage he can do while still keeping the magic from#his pact#he finally has a chance of fully becoming rhe blade of frontiers#him and my tav can both be magical living weapons together qwq#wyll ravengard#but seriously the ranger knight tirle was made for him#theres also a mage breaker ranger title if yall knew i CHOKED#my tav is a sorcerer and i thought picking that would make for one too many jokess and coughs jsbdnsbdvdhej#too obvious too easily funny skbsdjbd#then i think my second option was ro make him beast master i think to summon scratch?#i thought of giving him sleight of hand but we hsve astarion for that and#he need to put his back into working and stealung for the team to make up for his anti gnoming and general evil doings#pet peeve i hate calling being anti orc anti goblin etc racism thwy are NOT different races they are different beings entirely!#each being has their own races within them im sick! everyones using the incorrect term!!#and i have to use the blasted inaccurate terms with them to get my points across! hate it!#lmao guess which background my tav has from this spiel sondkdjkdm#back to wyll take your gun your crossbow you4 axe your l9ngsword whatever you want#now youve multiclassed#you truly can have it all#yES he got his ass beat right after (we had just solved racism and hadnt healed then being nice to glut backfired)#ge got knocked out for a bit from an opportunity attack i didnt see whoop#s#glut got big hands#he coulda used them for something else if he wasnt such a bitch#burnt his corpse jic#back to wyll again truly a defender of the people now and not solely relying on mizsnoreahs magic#maybe hell stop missing so much!#still i actually remenbered to play wyll as a warlock in the ending slavery fight and it paid off#him killing off 2 people with a bolt spell was so cool i got draw him finger gun blasting people
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yknow based on freminet’s emphasis on being controlled & the director’s weapon vs making his own decisions, and looking at xiao’s everything, if one of the house of hearth kids is going to betray the fatui/join the traveler i’d kinda expect it to be him
#thoughts#they all have complicated emotions around arlecchino but. she directly saved the twins#and lyney’s got his whole responsibility thing & lynette & lyney will stay together#but frey… if he ends up in a place where he can make his own moves/decisions. id be very interested in what he’d choose#he was a child assassin for the previous director. arlecchino paired him up w the twins. i don’t think we know what he does now?#besides diving and fixing things. and we know he doesn’t like killing & that it’s stunted his emotional/mental growth/made him distant#and all. so i’d be very curious as to what’ll happen especially w xiao/frey living weapon/our master’s knife parallels#genshin impact#freminet#and w the traveler intersected. it’s not like xiao is perfectly healed. but freminet isn’t even out of the toxic environment yet#he seems to find a sense of comfort in not having to make the choice bc he offsets the guilt from murder through it#if he doesn’t have a choice and he’s just a weapon/windup toy then he bears no responsibility. and all#anyways save my boy from the fatui. get him outta there!!!!!!!#he’s already canonically su/c/dal if he doesn’t get out someday…..#anyways xiao freminet meeting when. self recognition through the other. i think xiao would dislike/be uncomfy w freminet.#frey take ur fate into ur own hands challenge#also someone get this boy some serious therapy.
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Good Omens was created by Terry Pratchett and Hatsune Miku
#sigh#we are living in the bad place man im devastated#like at this point im going to stop looking up to people#i dont understand how people can make shit and build something#that brings thousands of people together and inspires them to create love and heal#and then muddle it completely with their shitty and horrible actions#Good Omens meant so much to me and so many others and now its tainted forever by this sick reminder that it was made by a terrible person#let alone one so many looked up to#i too am waiting for more information to come out but at the end of the day there is no good ending to this
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if you or a loved one share a blorbo with me, you may be entitled to financial, emotional, spiritual, and physical compensation
#my art#LOOK AT ALL OF THEM#THEY ARE ALL SO IMPORTANT TO ME IN LIKE. A LOT OF DIFFERENT WAYS#i just started doodling some lil guys and then it spiraled into this#NOW I HAVE ALL OF THEM TOGETHER HERE AND IT MAKES ME REALLY HAPPY#look how different they all are in pERSONALITY BUT ALSO HOW SIMILAR AND !!! A AA ! !!! LOOK LOOK LOOK LOOK#i urge you all to draw your blorbos in a line -up . its healing for the SOULLLL#ill name them in order .#dexter grif... connor kenway...stanley uris... amir blumenfled(character)...matt(eddsworld)...vaughn (borderlands)... guillermo de la cruz#and the floating guy is beetlejuice FROM THE MUSICAL SPECIFICALLY!!!!#these represent my fixations for the past like 8-9 years SLDKGMSDLKMSDGSDG#try to “your type” me . i dare you#also if you share ANY of these with me . we can be friends. i will bite you (affectionate)#if you share 2 you are legally allowed to get free art from me . im handing you a coupon
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#get yourself a gamer boyfriend 10/10 can recommend#i spent the entire weekend with him#what did we do?#he watched me play elden ring for i think a total of 18 hours over 2 days#first time playing it for me and i knew basically nothing about it#and he has like close to 700hrs in that game#and i wanted to try it#so he let me and coached me through it#best backseat gaming 🫶🏻#i beat margit???? on my first try and it was very very exciting for me but i think. my boyfriend was even more excited about it than me#it was honestly such a cool moment the way he reacted#very sweet#we've dubbed finding graces with 'touch grass'#on that note i am a nintendo girl ive played on Nintendo consoles my entire life#but im playing on an xbox controller on his pc and its driving me insane WHY DID TGEY SWITCH THE ABXY BUTTONS AROUND#the amount of time i accidentally healed myself by pressing the x button when i wanted to press the y button is INSANE and a bit hilarious#anyway#i was like is this okay you just watching me play and he was like oh yes hes invested now#and i think the plan is for me to play through the entire game until june#and then to play the dlc together#very exciting#i am obsessed with this man#elden ring#personal#we've dubbed the FP dring thingy blue juice and every time i run out of FP and dont notice he just says blue juice#its been a fun weekend#also i once accidentally perfectly parried an attack with my shield and did some cool combo with my sword and he was so impressed#but i didnt even really notice i just accidentally pressed the wrong button and was trying to switch from my staff to my sword and trying to#block#i play as an astrologer for those who care lmao
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Hi pook 😢 ( sorry if u don’t like the nickname) but I’ve been reading your series and I am reading Into the Fire (chapter 8) and I’m just wondering why you made Sokka give in so easily when people tell him to control himself that’s not Zuko. Because I would imagine that he would be more stubborn and more focused on what he wants instead of being caring. Even though he’s a caring and kind person I feel like being in prison would make him more selfish and less understanding of other people if than makes sense 😭
Like it just aggravates me when I see Katara try to idk really baby him and control him a bit (not mentally) it just kind of annoys me. Because even though Sokka loves his Sister I feel like he shouldn’t listen to her for real.
But that’s just me because that’s my opinion coming from someone behind has anger issues/ gets angry easily 🤷♀️
I love love love this series btw!!!!
I added your other ask too so I could respond to both! Hiiii hellooooo I don’t mind nicknames it’s actually nice because then I can keep anons apart haha
as for your comment about sokka I gotta say you’re probably the first person to tell me sokka isn’t angry enough haha. Which is fine because everyone’s allowed to have their own opinions, but my thoughts on LIAB angry sokka is his intelligence is often battling his emotions. I think sokka is smart enough to know he isn’t supposed to be lashing out at people the way he is or clinging to Zuko so tightly to where they both can’t breathe. i also think he is desperate to be back to his “old self” without actually wanting to be his old self. I do think he is fighting his path to healing every step of the way but even with all the time spent in prison he is still SOKKA. He cares for people he loves his family and he knows from watching his parents growing up what a healthy relationship looks like - his codependency to zuko is probably not it. I doubt it will change much, but when people tell him ‘you need to chill’ Sokka is very much like I FUCKING KNOW BUT I HAVE NO CHILL!!! NONE! ZERO CHILL.
but I can’t imagine sokka wanting to hurt anyone who doesn’t deserve it. Or fighting his friends and family to isolate himself anymore than he already is. I have learned that writing a more emotionally triggering fic does stir up emotions in people and causes them to project onto the characters a bit which is fine but everyone processing trauma differently. & sokka is doing it his own way just like zuko is.
Also…. This is a fanfic and I don’t know if people wanna read sokka being a raging asshole for 50k… so some of the realism in healing gets lost to word count because unfortunately I can’t spend years and 1000k helping these boys overcome their trauma so some of it has to be rushed a little for word count / plot purposes haha.
Liiiiiiisten here pooki-anon you come yell at me anytime about liab I’ll be right here to soak up every word! Thanks for the ask I’m glad you’re enjoying the series!!
#I have tried to take my time with the healing arc#Because we spent SO MUCH TIME dismantling the boys#I wanted to give them the change to be somewhat put back together to where they can at least function#I do agree with you anon!#Sokka could be 10000x angrier he could close up and say fuck off to everyone but it’s just another hurdle to climb over#His anger has been a reoccurring theme because I do write liab sokka angry#He has a right to be angry too!!#But I don’t know if people wanna sit and read sokka going in circles with his anger anymore than he already has#I love love love a good healing arc and I’m trying to take my time with the boys but….#*word count and plot point and me eventually wanting to work on a project that isn’t LIAB haha*#I do think sokkas a mess right now#But damn it I want him and zuko to snuggle and him and Katara to laugh and his dad and him to pal around and toph and Aang to give him shit#And momo to pull his ears and appa lick him and idk all the fun sokka stuff we miss#I can’t do that if sokka won’t be open to healing and being less angry#Which is why I’m allowing him to progress haha#Ugh now we gotta work on zuko!! ->#Zuko: “why I’m fine??”#Boy is NOT FINE but he is damn good at acting fine haha#Thanks for the ask anon#Ill#give you the tag#Pookianon#Liab#ITF#ask
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I had a ring picked out for her...
#and now i'm waking up alone#i know i need to heal#i'm not in the right headspace for a relationship#theres so much i need to tape and sew back together#we keep moving#not sexy fun times#i've been working out#and painting#and writing#and filling the hours as best i can#i'll find who i am soon
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