#tumblr please add colors to the aroace tag

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Look what came in the mail today!

Please ignore my very dirty desk.

When I found out that we would be able to get physics versions of @bloggingboutburgers comics, I immediately went to the kickstarter and ordered one! It will have to remain hidden because I’m not out to my family and I don’t want them to accidentally find it, so right now it’s in the cubby on the side of my bed that no one ever looks in. But I love it so much, and I love having a physical reminder that I’m not alone.

Thank you so much for making this, I love your comics, and I’m so excited to read this and see all of them in one place.

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I’m kinda in between. I’m very open about my queerness with my friends, but I’m not out to my family yet, so I can’t actually buy any pride stuff without them asking questions 😢

But online? Whooo boy you best be ready for my pride because it will smack you in the face. I literally have a tag #i’m aroace and making it everyone’s problem that I use on every single lgbtqia+ post I make or reblog.

Love wins 😌

And a version for my aro/ace/not interested in kissing for whatever reason siblings:

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Bracelets I made today. The one on the left has pink, red, and white beads, just because I like those colors, and the one on the right has orange, yellow, white, light blue, and blue beads because I’m aroace.

🧡💛🤍🩵💙

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I’m rewatching Heartstopper because I literally cannot wait until October 3rd and I need more of this show pumped directly into my veins. It comes out two days after my seventeenth birthday, which is kinda exciting. But I digress.

I literally watched the whole first season today, which is quite impressive considering I actually did a lot of other things and didn’t start watching it until about two in the afternoon. And I finished it at like 10 pm, so it’s not like I stayed up super late to finish it either.

Rewatching this show I was giggling and kicking my feet and also yelling at the screen because sometimes the characters make kinda dumb choices and even though I already know how everything ends I still get way too invested. I just love this show so much, it’s such a comfort show for me.

My friend got me into the graphic novels right after season one released on Netflix, and after reading the whole series in two days (at the time there were four books, and soon after I found the WEBTOON and sped through that as well), I binged the entire show that day.

Heartstopper is such a pure show, and it just shows that representation is so important. I’ve heard so many stories of people realizing their sexuality (ME!) or finding the courage to come out to their parents or their friends or at school, and I think there’s just something so magical about this show.

Minor spoiler here, but Issac’s arc in season two was one of the things that kinda helped me realize that I was aroace because when I was watching the show and watching how he interacted with James and romance it made me think “huh, that’s kinda how I feel” and then I did some research (mostly comprised of scrolling the aromantic and asexual tags on tumblr, but a bit of googling as well) and realized that I’m aroace. So this show, that I already absolutely adored, suddenly became the catalyst for realizing my sexuality, and it just has such a special place in my heart. Whenever I’m sad I always rewatch the show or reread parts of the WEBTOON because it never fails to make me smile. To give me hope that there are others out there who are like me, even though all of my friends are straight and cis. And there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that, I love my friends, and they were all very supportive when I came out to them, but they just don’t understand sometimes. They don’t really understand what it’s like to be a part of the LGBTQIA+ community. To be different. It’s not like I’m out publicly, only a few of my close friends know, but it’s still hard sometimes not having anyone to talk to about all this (besides all my wonderful aspec moots of course). My irl friends just don’t understand that sometimes I feel broken, or like there’s something wrong with me. Because, even though I’m very comfortable with my sexuality, I’m in high school, and romance and sex are such a big thing, and it can sometimes be a little overwhelming or isolating when you don’t feel those forms of attraction. Especially when two of your best friends have boyfriends. And I’m very happy for them, but sometimes it stings a little knowing that I can never have that. Obviously queer platonic relationships exist, and that’s definitely something that I want for myself in the future, but it’s just different.

My mom watched the first season with me after I wouldn’t shut up about it, and then again when season two came out we watched it together (it was like my third watch through both times lol). Once season three comes out, and we see more of Issac’s arc of self discovery and figuring out his sexuality, I might end up using it as a bit of a starting point to come out to her, but I don’t know. I know that she and my dad are very supportive of the LGBTQIA+ community, but it’s just so different and scary. Any advice?

P. S. I did not mean to write this much, if you read this whole post, thank you. Thanks for taking the time out of your day to read about my ramblings.

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(Referencing my previous ask) whoops, uploaded the wrong version! This is the one I meant to send you. You can choose which one you like, or use them both. I don't mind

Previous ask 👆🏻

Ooh, I love it!

The aroace flag colors, the pink, the dog, it all feels very me.

Thank you so much! What is the name of the side log gonna be?

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This comic is so good!

I especially appreciated the hunger analogy because I’ve never thought of it that way, and it was very helpful for trying to imagine what sexual attraction even feels like and what it would be like if I wasn’t asexual.

IT IS ACE WEEK!

So let's talk about asexuality! This is an introduction trying to cover as much as possible in a little format, so its mostly surface level stuff. You're gonna have to dig on your own :P

For more information, I recommend checking out aceweek.org or acesandaros.org ! You can also read up on ace history through the Asexual Manifesto by Lisa Orlando !

Edit: Here are some links for more information:

Aceweek

AcesAndAros

An article about the Asexual Manifesto that links you to a transcript

An article about Asexuality's history

[aluria-sevhex]

why the fuck are we having a-spec discourse in 2023

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Gotta love amatonormativity.

I’m aroace. Me, my dad, and my sister are at my grandma’s house for the week, and I’m not out to anyone in my family, just some close friends, so literally no one in the state knows I’m aroace. Yesterday, my grandma’s neighbor came over (they’re besties) and one of the first things she said to me and my sister was “do either of you girls have boyfriends?” and then proceeded to be surprised when we both told her no and said “well I guess your dad wouldn’t let you date anyway”.

Like?! Excuse me ma’am, I get that you’ve known me my whole life, but did you ever think that maybe me or my sister just don’t want a boyfriend? God forbid two teenage girls just want to be single. It must be their father’s fault.

People baffle me sometimes.

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Thanks for the tag!

Well, better than censored by Disney lol

@thekingofworems @bippityboppityouch @kingofdandelions @aeolianmusic @sushi1056 @theghostnamedspecter @rubbercrowy @donutsalami @theoneandonlywinnie @rosegoldenatlas @the-decapod @chaoticrei @cherrytea556 @harley-the-pancake @thatstevenuniversegay @forest-city @chaotic-agender @fallenrain40 @shamelesswolfstarshipper @magicalmyths @a-fucking-tornado @poppitron360 @theconfusedbookshrimp + anyone else who wants to join in!

Have you ever wondered whether or not you’d be canonically queer if your life was a story? Look no further. This quiz will tell you your canon queer status. 

[bluemoon160]

【IᑎTᖇOᗪᑌᑕTIOᑎ】 💙🌌

Hey everyone! My name is Rosalind but I also go by Ross or Ros. OR you could call me by my internet names Blue or Bluemoon if you’d like! (It’s a lot of names I know lol sorry. Just pick whatever).

I’m a 20yo artist, writer, and editor who will be mostly focusing on fanart, self ship, furry content, and maybe some cosplay on this blog. I do have a business focused on my published books, OCs, and editing services which you can find here if you’re interested. I’m more active over on those accounts since I work on that stuff almost full time now but I try and post fan/personal content when I can. This blog specifically will be a place for all my self indulgent interests. I may not be super active here but will try to anyway :)

【ᗪIᔕᑕᒪᗩIᗰEᖇ】

Skip ahead to read more about me, my, interests, and who I ship with, etc. But in the meantime, I need to get this out of the way and say that I really wanna make new friends here but I’m also hesitant to rejoin any sort of self ship and/or fan communities because of how many horrible experiences I’ve had with them before. Perhaps Tumblr is different but I wanted to put this out here for my own peace of mind lol. So please be patient with me. I grew up in fandom and self ship spaces that had constant arguments about literally everything. I didn’t even know what half of these discourses were even about and everything I’ve learned has been against my will. So no, this is not me “taking a side”, I just don’t want to be apart of drama anymore. My morals are this: live and let live unless you’re supporting/romanticizing anything immoral. If you have genuine critiques about how I portray certain things then definitely let me know since I’m always concerned about how I represent stuff, but aside from that, this is just a blog to talk about stuff I like so let’s keep it chill please. 🧍‍♂️

【ᗩᗷOᑌT ᗰE】

⭐My full name Rosalind B. Sterling (or you can call me by the other names listed above)

⭐I’m 20 (covered that lol)

⭐I’m bi and aroace (I also sometimes use the term procul but I don’t identify with it as a sexuality. Just an add on term for my asexuality to explain how my sexual attraction fades away once my relationship with someone becomes real).

⭐I’m genderfluid and my pronouns are she/he/they

⭐I’m mixed race/Puerto Rican

⭐I’m neurodivergent (OCD, MaDD, and a few other things) so tone tags would be great to use around me but they’re not required

⭐I currently live Ohio (yes I’ve heard all the jokes and they’re honestly pretty accurate lmao)

⭐My favorite colors are aqua, bright purple, hot pink, and neon green

【ᖴ/O's】

Note: some of these characters might come from controversial media. I just like them for personal/creative/self indulgent reasons so don’t interact if these make you uncomfortable.

“Main” f/o’s

(Putting this in quotes since I hardly ever talk about these characters nowadays. They’ve just been my main for a while and I feel too attached to take them off the list)

⭐Dan {Dan Vs.} (Started shipping 7 years ago)

⭐Gary {Final Space} (Starting shipping 6 years ago).

Current main:

⭐ Alastor {Hazbin Hotel} (Started shipping 4 years ago) And before anyone comes after me with the “but he’s aroace!” comments, I know that and I don’t erase it. I’m aroace too and kind of imagine him and my S/I being in a possible QPR type thing. I still have developing to do. I just like the thought of two aroaces hitting it off and bonding closely. I take a lot of comfort in him as a fellow aroace so leave me be please 😭

⭐The Narrator and Stanley {The Stanley Parable} (This one’s a polyship and is pretty recent. Been shipping for about 7 months now)

Other f/o’s:

⭐Pinkie pie {MLP}

⭐Reagan {Inside job}

⭐Jinx {Arcane}

Other characters I like but don't consider f/o’s:

⭐Connor {Detroit Become Human}

⭐The Warden {Superjail}

⭐Andre {Inside Job}

⭐Ken {Barbie Movie}

⭐Mike {fnaf movie}

⭐️Rarity {MLP}

⭐Reigen {Mob Psycho 100}

⭐Archer {Archer} (It's always the walking red flags that get me 😔)

Familial/platonic f/o’s:

The only ones I can think of rn is Angel Dust from Hazbin Hotel. I kinda see them all like family tbh but specifically Angel Dust. Also maybe Kirk from Star Trek. Like we’d definitely be besties I’m so fr.

There’s probably more but I’d have to think about it.

【KIᑎs】

⭐Reagan {Inside job}

⭐Brett {Inside job}

⭐Moxxie {Helluvaboss}

⭐️ Millie {Helluvaboss}

⭐Tina {Bob’s burgers} (This one’s so funny to me but it’s so true. She’s literally me in every way possible😭)

Am I comfy sharing any of my f/os and kins?

Yes! I’m fine having doubles. I used to hate it a few years back but now that my mental health is a little more in check and I don’t have to rely on self shipping for major comfort like I used to, I no longer feel bothered by that. It was unhealthy anyway. Not to judge anyone who hates having doubles. I understand folks have pretty valid reasons for it. I just realized the attachment I had to these characters was turning into an unhealthy kind of obsession and was hurting me more than helping. I’m out of that place now luckily. I still self ship for comfort reasons but it’s not as in ease as it was before and mostly just for funsies now. If you're comfy sharing and we have doubles, totally message me so we can gush and ramble together! I love doing that 🫶💖

【ᗰY ᖴᑌᖇᔕOᑎᗩ】

Putting this here too since I'll probbaly be sharing furry stuff whenever I get the chance. So here is my eyesore of a fursona which is a wolf/fox/bat hybrid with a scene kid aesthetic who looks like every middle school edgelord oc deisgn vomited into one character. But idc honestly. I’m not doing anything serious with her and am just having fun. I also might use her for self shipping if I end up F/Oing any anthro characters but idk.

Art credit goes to coral-kun

【IᑎTEᖇEᔕTᔕ】

⭐Anything sci fi, crime, or comedy

⭐Any time era from before the 2010s. Though I specifically love the 20s-50s, and 80s-2000s the best :)

⭐Cartoons. Specifically for adults. Adult swim is literally my go to channel lol

⭐Reading, writing, art, crafting, etc

⭐Space, science, dinosaurs/paleontology and history

⭐Animals and zoos

⭐Conspiracy theories and mysteries

⭐Anything horror, paranormal, or creepy pasta

【ᑕᒪOᔕIᑎG】

And that's it! I hope I can meet some new friends and stuff but also predict that my reach won't be all that huge since I've never had massive luck with algorithms. Especially as of late. But if you're seeing this, don't be afraid to message me or interact! I love meeting new folks :3

[lex-n-weegie]

I posted 1,528 times in 2021

403 posts created (26%)

1125 posts reblogged (74%)

For every post I created, I reblogged 2.8 posts.

I added 1,227 tags in 2021

#green warrior - 417 posts

#lexi rambles - 233 posts

#wahoo bro - 121 posts

#friend's art - 87 posts

#ask - 84 posts

#friend's selfship - 84 posts

#leigi - 52 posts

#admire aesthetics - 50 posts

#peachy pal - 50 posts

#superstar buddies - 49 posts

Longest Tag: 140 characters

#(i actually hc luigi as autistic like me so i'd find him a couple of smooth rocks and he'd rub his fingers over it a lot as a comfort thing)

My Top Posts in 2021

#5

The Adventures of the Mario trio

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40 notes • Posted 2021-01-18 01:31:04 GMT

#4

You ever think too much about your friend's/mutuals OCs or s/is and you come up with cool stuff or questions for their characters and world but you never ask them because you're nervous? Yeah.

41 notes • Posted 2021-09-19 20:55:44 GMT

#3

My Super Mario LGTB+ headcannons post still gets notes from time to time, but I've actually changed some of my headcannons so I'm remaking it, and adding everyone's pronoun headcannons!

Idc if you think some of these are cringe I'm projecting and having fun

(also, consider these "cannon" for my own little Mario universe with Lexi)

Mario: Asexual and Bisexual (he/they)

Peach: Pansexual and demiromantic (she/her). Her and Mario are in a qp relationship :)

Luigi: Non-binary, Bisexual, and Ghostgender (he/they)

Bowser: Bisexual, Demiboy (he/they/it)

Daisy: Bisexual (she/her)

Rosalina: Lesbian (any pronouns, but prefers she/her)

Toad(s): Most are Non-binary or agender (and usually go by he/him)

Toadette: Transgender Lesbian (she/her)

Yoshi(s): Agender (they don't mind any pronouns besides it/it's, they don't like them)

Birdo: Transgender Bisexual (she/her)

Kamek: Gay (he/him [he also like xe/xem but is kinda afraid to ask people to use em)

Wario: Aroace questioning and agender (doesn't mind any pronouns, but tends to use he/him the most)

Waluigi: Pansexual (he/him)

E. Gadd: Aroace (he/him)

Gooigi: Agender and asexual (he/they/it)

King Boo: Aroace (he/they/it)

Pauline: Lesbian (she/her)

50 notes • Posted 2021-10-30 22:49:12 GMT

#2

Alright selfship community, here's the little art challenge thing I came up with! (If it's not really a "challenge," I apologize)

Draw your f/os in their pride colors! (Aka, what YOU think about their gender and sexuality!)

You don't see them as anything other then cishet? That's alright, you can just draw them being an ally! (There is actually an ally flag, look it up). You can do this with f/os of any type! Romantic, platonic, familial, qp, any of em! I figured this would be fun for everyone to do!

Edit: forgot to add that moodboards and stimboards are also allowed in this! I know someone only do them instead of drawing so I'm including them :)

If you do this, please tag/@ me! I'd love to see it (and reblog it too if that's ok!)

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61 notes • Posted 2021-09-04 16:00:54 GMT

#1

Am I the only one who absolutely loves imagining their f/os in different outfits? (Whether that be casual, formal, lazy wear, etc.)

It's like my favorite pastime, imagining them in a nice suit/dress to go outside where, or them in a tank top and shorts because it's hot out and they wanna relax gosh darn it. Highly recommend

(ok to rb!)

292 notes • Posted 2021-07-17 16:23:28 GMT

Get your Tumblr 2021 Year in Review →

[shoujo-manga-ayu]

I've not really tried to do fandom for awhile, but since there's pinned posts, I'll make an about!

I may have a tag for lewd or inappropriate posts that is "minors dni". If you don't have a visible age or are under 18, please don't like, reblog, or comment on those posts!!! My posts I make myself are going to be tagged with "ayu talks to the air again". For each fandom I dabble in, I will make a separate tag for them so you can choose which posts you aren't interested in by filtering out tags. If you want to filter in advance, "ultra maniac ayu" for example. Though I'm not sure why you're here if you don't wanna see the main theme my blog has 😅

🛑I don't want these interacting with me: people who harass others for any reason, people who want to bully me over my emotional support kin, racists, LGBT exclusionists, MAPS/NOMAPS and whatever else you're calling yourselves these days. I just don't want harmful people following me. Very specifically, I don't want you to follow if you don't believe in aro or ace people because I'm on the aroace spectrum myself.

🌸Call me Ayu! I have been hoping to change my name to hers for a couple years now because it fits right! Not changing my hair or eye color though. I think black hair looked nicer on her on the manga pages anyway, and black is my natural hair color.

🌸The two people I will mention the most are my cousin Hyacinth, and my childhood friend Chocolat! Chocolat named herself after Chocolat Meilleure, and kins her like I do Ayu! Hya is a cosplayer and goes by She/he/they pronouns. All three of us plan to make these our real names one day because it makes us happy 🥰 neither of them want a Tumblr, so I guess you could say they both "have lives". I'm a little happy Chocolat doesn't want one because she's 16, so....

🌸April 19th is my birthday and I'm 19, but I'm not really into the signs and stuff. But I respect you if you're into that sort of thing!!

🌸Experimenting with my gender right now! They, maybe she... I'm not so sure anymore.

🌸I'm pro ship! If your fave isn't problematic, it will be by the time I'm done with it!! Anything could be posted to this blog. Anything. So block tags or block me if things trouble you!!

🌸All fandoms go here. All of them. There will be NO side blogs. It will start off with Ultra Maniac, MeruPuri, and Ouran likely, but it's gonna get chaotic SUPER FAST.

🌸List of tags to block if you have trouble with these things: (will upload in a bit!)

🌸My fanfics (will add AO3 when I can!!) I like to write and draw, but I usually don't actually sit down and do either 😅

🌸You can have my Discord if I trust you 🥰

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Please tumblr.

There are so many tags that need to be rainbow tags!

Imagine

[userpoe]

I was tagged by @fisforfulcrum thanks sweetie 😘

Why did you choose your URL?

I was really getting back into my sequels spin and wanted something short and snappy to change to, but I also wanted it to be connected to Poe in some way. Since all the good Poe urls were taken, on a whim I checked to see if zoriis was available. It was, so I changed to it and it...just sort of became my brand? I don't ever wanna change from it I don't think...unless a really good Poe url opens up anyway, which I doubt. And I get a serious seratonin rush whenever anyone refers to me by my url in the tags idk why.

Any side blogs?

I have my x reader fic blog @luminouspoes where I use to reblog all my recs + post my fics before I decided to move all my bullshit here. I'm also co-mod of @thedamereynetwork because I love my babies.

How long have you been on tumblr?

Since 2011/2012. I didn't really get active on here until late 2013, though.

Do you have a queue tag?

the classic and very original "queue". I use to do the snazzy quotes thing but I can never stick to one for very long. I've debated here and there making a new queue tag, maybe with a sw quote, but eh who has the spoons for that.

Why did you start your blog in the first place?

Initially back when, it was meant to help me with my nonfiction writing. Instead, Tumblr ended up being instrumental in me discovering fanfic and honing my fiction writing craft through that. I remade my blog a shit ton of times as a teenager, though, and the thing that kept me coming back was all the pretty content and my friends. Plus, where else am I gonna be this weird on? Twitter? Hell no.

Why did you choose your icon/pfp?

Because I thought the Poe emoji on the Star Wars app was precious. Then, for pride month, I decided to add the aroace flag behind him because well. I'm asexual and dubiously aromantic, and I hc Poe being aspec, so I thought it'd be nice. Did you know his second X-Wing kind of has the same color palette as the aroace flag? It's pretty damn cool still not Black One but cool

Why did you choose your header?

Because @abelmorales and @michaelperry are responsible for me falling head over heels with Michael Perry and I wanted to include (1) soft perfect angel teacher man on my blog somehow fjsjsjskss so soft af flannel clad grading papers Michael it was.

What’s your post with the most notes?

This Poe gifset here, which astonishes me given how many braincells I had to rub together to figure out how to phrase the captions (the irony, I know). I guess we have a thing for competency and forearms in this fandom?

How many mutuals do you have?

A few! Dunno how many dunno how one would know that.

How many follows do you have?

Too many, in my opinion??? There's almost 1.2k of you now and I don't know why you're all here but I appreciate it nonetheless.

How many people do you follow?

Little under 200 and most of those are inactive anymore. I'm pretty picky abt what I follow cos of my anxiety and also idk if you've noticed but most of my interests revolve around shit that's been over for several years. And a lot of blogs are really ship-oriented, and I just...don't vibe with shipping communities so I try to stay on the outskirts of all that.

Also I'm pretty guarded about who I follow due to years of casual aphobia being thrown around this site, and now wariness about how blogs act abt neurodivergent folk and characters

...but if anyone knows of any more active Oscar blogs that are nice abt Poe and the sequels or moffat era dw blogs...please let me know fjdksks my dash is always dead

Have you ever made a shitpost?

With my brand of humor I think most of my jokey posts kind of teeters on it. But I don't think I've ever outright done a shitpost.

How often do you use tumblr each day?

*coughs* pretty often. I'm a slow scroller, so it takes me awhile to get through the dashboard to start with and I also like checking the edit tags and then if I go through a blog I can end up going down a rabbit hole of looking through their posts or their tag about a show or movie or character I like and then whoops where has the time gone. But I'm kind of pulling myself away from scrolling so much on Tumblr, if anything so my dashboard is a little more active when I do hop on, and also so I can get some other hobbies in like writing or reading (working through the second to all the boys book rn!)

Did you have a fight with another blog once?

*laughs my ass off* no. I stick to my lane, if someone posts something that I'm uncomfortable with or I disagree with, I just... unfollow? I'm not interested in vague posting people either, I don't see the damn point. This is my little internet cottage and I don't see the point in fighting the village when I can just ignore them and care for fellow wanderers, ya feel?

Though, come to think of it, I have told off a fair few anonymous asks who were trying to bully my friends or mutuals but. I don't know if we can really count that or not.

How do you feel about “you need to reblog this” posts?

[wibbles hand] I think some can veer a little too closely to guilt tripping the readers, but if it's something really important, I understand the urgency.

Do you like tag games?

I do! They're a lot of fun, I just wish I had the spoons more often to do them. I also tend to freak out because I never know who to tag because I'm simultaneously worried I'll be annoying if I do tag someone, and if I forget someone I'll make them feel left out.

Which of your mutuals do you think is tumblr famous?

First off, Laura's answer to this question is so damn precious I'm going to cry, love you babes. Second of all, I genuinely think all my mutuals are Tumblr famous. Like in my head I'm just like "that person is so fucking awesome oh my god they're so cool I bet they have so many followers they deserve it all their posts are exquisite". I love my mutuals and there's a good chance (see: yes) that if we're mutuals I consider u my friend in my head I'm just too shy to admit it out loud yet jdjdks

Do you have a crush on a mutual?

I literally get hearts in my eyes everytime I go down my dashboard. I am platonically kissing you all on the cheek and giving you cocoa. I love you.

no pressure tags: @bee-dameron @djarinsbeskar @michaelperry @abelmorales @starryeyedstories @misterrimpossible @exlibrisastra and @princedimitris and anyone else I may be blanking on

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Disclaimer: Please do not ask me for money/donations. I’m a minor who has no way to pay for them or know if it’s a scam. I’m very sorry for whatever you’re going through, but I can’t help you. Any and all asks requesting money/donations of any kind will promptly be deleted.

Hiya, welcome to my blog! This is gonna be all over the place, I can already tell, so you’ve been warned.

About Me Personally

Name: Lily

Pronouns: She/her, I’m also fine with they/them

Sexuality: Aroace 🧡💛🤍🩵💙 (specifically I’m cupegoromantic [meaning you want to feel said attraction and like the idea of it, but don't actually feel said attraction] {coined by @/aroacesafespaceforall} and sex-indifferent asexual)

Relationship Status: I’m in a queer platonic relationship with my wonderful partner Alix, who uses he/they pronouns, is transmasc, asexual, and panromantic. We made it official on December 5th, 2024, but we were friends for a while before that

Zodiac Sign/Birthday: Libra, October 1st

Country: United States (it’s a shitshow get me out of here please)

Likes: Pink, animals in general but especially dogs, literally anything sweet but especially chocolate, potatoes, cuddles, my partner, autumn, reading, watching movies, swimming, cooking, baking, card games, board games, and spending time with family and friends

Dislikes: Spiders, peanut butter, spice, being cold, sand, stupid people, waking up early, and horror books/movies

Personality: I’m an introvert and a Mediator (INFP-T)

Fandoms

As the name would suggest, I’m part of WAY too many fandoms, but I will do my best to list them all. In no particular order they are:

Percy Jackson 🔱

Harry Potter 🦉

Marauders 🐺 (yes I consider that a different fandom than Harry Potter)

Heartstopper 🏳️‍🌈

The Hunger Games 🏹

Marvel Cinematic Universe💥

Disney 🪄

Wings of Fire 🔥

Life Series SMP 💚 💛 ❤️ (mcyt)

Empires SMP 🌎 (mcyt)

New to Hermitcraft SMP 💎 (mcyt) thanks to smallishbeans

Currently obsessed with Epic: The Musical ⚔️ Please go listen to it if you haven’t already, Jorge Rivera Herrans is a genius!

Pretty much any fantasy or sci-fi book 📖 I’ve been a pretty avid reader my whole life, so there are a lot of standalones, small series, or underrated stories that I really like.

I’m also a theater kid. My favorite musicals are

The Sound of Music 🎶

Newsies 🗞️

Hamilton ✍🏼

Wicked 💚 🩷

The Lightning Thief: The Percy Jackson Musical ⚡️

Six 👑

Mean Girls the Musical 📕

Fandom Related Info

Hogwarts House: Hufflepuff 💛 🖤

Godly Parent: Apollo ☀️ Athena 📚 or Poseidon 🌊

District: District 4 🎣

My Tag Lists

This is my list of mutuals that I tag in whatever tag games I get tagged in or stumble across.

All Mutuals:

@sushis-mylifeee @ivys-garden @thekingofworems @the-stars-are-ineffable @bippityboppityouch @kingofdandelions @aeolianmusic @sushi1056 @nyx-of-darkness-1620 @aaronofithaca05 @livelaughlovechai @ik-kudi-da-khwab @theghostnamedspecter @ponkssponk @rubbercrowy @imobsessedwiththeatre @donutsalami @my-castles-crumbling @azoperoa @theylovewinnie @rosegoldenatlas @aballedofbookworms @halltastic @chaoticrei @moutainrusing @cherrytea556 @harley-the-pancake @imabookloverandafangirl @thatstevenuniversegay @forest-city @chaotic-agender @alphabetical-az @doghowto @swagchaosdinosaur @janru-writer @fallenrain40 @shamelesswolfstarshipper @jarondont @magicalmyths @a-fucking-tornado @poppitron360 @neilarissa @crazyinspirationaldreams @theoneandonlypatches @theconfusedbookshrimp @dreamer0903 @shellywith2ls @yourlocalbadgerscales @g0blinm0d3 @stargazing-with-friends @bookisposts @lezberrycake @nyx-taylors-version @codexnuminois @sevsalio @little-goblin-in-the-forest @whimsicalwordsmith53 @spiderboi-parker @acespecasf @nyyx-xoxx @scarlet beast @samsaragalasinzaraxazeal

General Tag List (this is the one I use for pretty much everything, the exceptions that were common enough I was constantly having to sort through my list and find who was who are below):

@sushis-mylifeee @ivys-garden @thekingofworems @the-stars-are-ineffable @kingofdandelions @sushi1056 @nyx-of-darkness-1620 @aaronofithaca05 @theghostnamedspecter @rubbercrowy @imobsessedwiththeatre @donutsalami @azoperoa @theylovewinnie @rosegoldenatlas @chaoticrei @moutainrusing @cherrytea556 @harley-the-pancake @thatstevenuniversegay @forest-city @chaotic-agender @alphabetical-az @janru-writer @fallenrain40 @shamelesswolfstarshipper @jarondont @magicalmyths @a-fucking-tornado @poppitron360 @neilarissa @theoneandonlypatches @theconfusedbookshrimp @shellywith2ls @yourlocalbadgerscales @g0blinm0d3 @stargazing-with-friends @nyx-taylors-version @lezberrycake @codexnuminous @little-goblin-in-the-forest @whimsicalwordsmith53 @spiderboi-parker @nyyx-xoxx @scarletbeast

Queer

@thekingofworems @kingofdandelions @sushi1056 @theghostnamedspecter @rubbercrowy @donutsalami @azoperoa @theoneandonlypatches @rosegoldenatlas @the-decapod @chaoticrei @cherrytea556 @harley-the-pancake @thatstevenuniversegay @forest-city @chaotic-agender @fallenrain40 @shamelesswolfstarshipper @magicalmyths @a-fucking-tornado @theconfusedbookshrimp @yourlocalbadgerscales @g0blinm0d3 @nyx-taylors-version @lezberrycake @codexnuminous @little-goblin-in-the-forest @nyyx-xoxx @scarletbeast

Epic the Musical

@thekingofworems @nyx-of-darkness-1620 @aaronofithaca05 @theghostnamedspecter @imobsessedwiththeatre @rosegoldenatlas @decapodsrandomfandom @alphabetical-az @jarondont @magicalmyths @a-fucking-tornado @shellywith2ls @g0blinm0d3 @stargazing-with-friends @codexnuminous @nyyx-xoxx

If you see your name in the moot list but not the tag list and want to be on the tag list, don’t want to be on my tag list, you’re not on a list you should be on, you’re on a list you shouldn’t be on, or have any questions, comments, or concerns, feel free to message me, send an ask, reblog this post, comment, or use any way of communication on tumblr to let me know!

[twomanyfandomshelp]

When I watched that video for the first time I literally cried with joy because I had just figured out that I was aroace, and it was really comforting and affirming for me to see someone that I looked up to and really liked shared my sexuality.

Here is the video if you want to give it a watch. Highly recommend, she explains it very well and talks about a lot of experiences that I personally very much related to.

Today I came out to my brother as aroace and he said: "Oh, just like Jaiden!"

The relief of immediate understanding... I've never had that before. That's what why good representation is important, you guys. I'm so thankful for that video she made.