#transms

[vocalux]

Hello!

May I have flags of transMS (multiple sclerosis), CisMS (multiple sclerosis), and TrisMS (multiple sclerosis)?

I understand it’s a lot, okay if not! Thank you and I luv ur flags :3

— transms [ trans-ms ]

when an individual wants to have / identifies with having ms !

— cisms [ cis-ms ]

when an individual is cisms !

— trisms [ tris-ms ]

when an individual is cisms and transms !

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

what happened

[bubblegum-bros-sys]

Some types of switching for us

[tinylambnursery]

until i see more love for trans men who don’t bind i’m not going to shut the fuck up about it

[redditreceipts]

"we like young women because biologically, that means they're fertile"

then why do you find periods disgusting? those are the single most indicative sign of fertility. by that logic, you must be incredibly attracted to a women who speaks openly about her period, right?

[lazylittledragon]

detransition is something that should Absolutely be talked about but the idea of going into this tag terrifies me beyond belief

[1nky-quill]

I love the diversity of trans people

I love how each and every one of us has our own unique experience with our queerness

It truly inspires me every time to think about it, because even if all of us are different in one way or another we’re still part of the same community, we’re still a family in a sense.

That’s why is saddens me when I see so many other queer people cast people from the community because their experience with their gender and sexuality doesn’t align with their own experiences/what they expect that person’s experience to be.

Please love other trans people, all other trans people, because we only have each other, and I think it’s very special that we all have a different experiences with expression and sexuality.

[astral-wings]

Friendly reminder that

You don't need to be dysphoric to be trans

You don't need to medically transition to be trans

Neopronouns are real and valid

Non binary people are real and valid

Alterhumans are real and valid

Furries are amazing people

If you claim to be Christian but shit on others for harmless things, then you're not a Christian because that goes completely against Jesus' teachings!

Transmeds, queerphobes, etc. are NOT welcome on my page. If you see one, block and ignore! They are not worth your time!! My page is a safe space!

[textk4kira]

I've noticed a trend behind the use of the label "transsexual" vs. "transgender".

Oftentimes transmedicalists use transsexual to differentiate themselves from the rest of the trans community.

It's disheartening and quick frankly, appaling.

You will not achieve acceptance in a cisheteronormative society by distancing yourselves from the "bad" or "confusing" trans folks.

Transsexual is a wonderful label, and we cannot allow transmedicalists to take ownership of it.

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

"real trans men want to go on hrt" "real trans men want surgery" "real trans men only present masculine" shut uppp omfg literally the only requirement to be a man is that you must be swift as a coursing river, with all the force of a great typhoon, with all the strength of a raging fire, mysterious as the dark side of the mooooon

[unlimitedbutchworks]

The only like particularly reactionary group of transfems ive ever really seen or encountered were almost all "femboys", who usually deny they have any commonality with trans women anyway. Other than that the most "right wing" transfem i've ever interacted with was basically a (in the american sense) socially liberal libertarian who pretended to be alt-right to get more money from men while doing sex work. Literally every other transfem I've interacted with has been no further right than milquetoast democrat. I guess maybe you could call anti-civ/posties reactionary, but as it manifests in trans women I'd argue its not really an especially right wing ideology, just a silly one. Where are people getting this idea of this wide spread phenomena of right wing trans women from?

the specter of the racist nazi channer transfem is just a focus-group’d, custom designed way to plug into social justice types transmisogynistic anxieties and connect with bias in community most effectively. it’s usually obvious you’re being insane if you call the trans women you don’t like degenerate shut in incels, so they just talk around it and use different words to construct the same transmisogynistic end point in your head. people on here are primed to think of trans women as universally white and see 4chan as the antichrist, so it’s minmaxing to scandalize and turn peoples brains off to get them to nod along with transmisogynistic othering, regardless of what any of the aforementioned trans women are actually doing or how many transmascs are allowed to do the same stuff without getting killed

[bubblegum-bros-sys]

Some of us just come pre-labeled idk man lol

[adams-r1b]

Sometimes I want to give up on nuance, buzz my long hair, and go stealth. I'm sick of people treating non-binary like diet girl.

(detail from 'Dante and Virgile' c. 1850 by William-Adolphe Bouguereau)

[tinylambnursery]

it’s crazy how i went through my whole middle and high school life pushing away being a trans man because of horrid content creators like blaire white and kalvin garrah, who, yes, i used to be fans of waaaayy back in the day.

even after becoming more open minded, the idea of being a man still never crossed my mind, and when it did, i would once again push it away because “no, i just don’t fit that.”

and why was i pushing it away? because i’m feminine and don’t bind. that’s it. and it’s not like i ever chastised other feminine trans men, i loved them and cherished what they brought to the world. it was only MYSELF i ever criticized.

identifying as fem nonbinary for years did nothing but hurt me. i always felt like something was wrong. what was wrong, was me suppressing my manhood. allowing masculinity and femininity to exist within me as one has greatly improved my wellbeing.

i sincerely hope any other gnc trans guy or gal who’s struggling to come to terms with their identity because of their nonconformity can find comfort soon. it took me until adulthood to find it.

[redditreceipts]

did you see the /actuallesbians drama with /justunsubbed? this lesbian was like "trans women are valid uwu but like it's weird to post about loving penises in a lesbian subreddit" and people in the comments lost it.

yeah, I was there live :)

THE GIRLS ARE PEAKINGGGGGGGG

well maybe I wasnt live there, but when it happened and it honestly made my day

<3

love her analysis

(for everyone who doesn't know, the "lesbians" subreddit is a porn subreddit, so the lesbians made a second subreddit called "actuallesbians" to discuss issues that actually concern same-sex attracted women, and it was taken over by men (again))

WOHOOOO

[deandraxon]

Not to be that guy, but saying “I hate all men, including trans men because I’m not transphobic.”, doesn’t make you less hateful. Nor does it make you less transphobic.

You’re essentially saying “if you choose to express yourself in the way that makes you most comfortable, I am going to hate you. I hate you for a core part of your being that has very little to do with whether or not you are actually deserving of hate.”

Discouraging trans men from actually being men because they do not wish for you to hate them, is transandrophobia.

Being a man and/or being masculine is not inherently evil, nor is it worthy of hate. Men are not a monolith and treating them like they are is only pushing them into the “well, you hate me so why should I help you?” camp.