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I've connected the dots...
#we have veen primed from a young to like red devils with nice assess#this isnt our fault#“and when hope has been whittled down to the very marrow of despair#that's when you'll come knocking on my door.#*leaves by bouncing on his ass*#bg3#baldur's gate 3#baldurs gate 3#raphael#bg3 raphael
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🎶✨️when u get this u have to put 5 songs u actually listen to, publish. Then, send this ask to 10 of your favorite followers🎶✨️
....oh so we just want this to be clown time? Just honk honk times?
Goddamnitall - The Wonder Years
Curitiba - Circa Survive
Pendulum - Spanish Love Songs
Heaven Help Us - My Chemical Romance
Sword - Sufferer
#yeah all these songs make it seem like I need help too#this isnt our fault#I CAN DEFEND ALL THESE#I refused to put more than one song from the same band on here
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when your main characters start dating after years of writing so they finally get to be like this
#rare WIP preview from me#this is in like. 10 episodes. lmfao#its been really hard working this far ahead#my editor isnt giving me any feedback and my friends are very busy so it's felt quite lonely#which is fine! for my friends I mean. but its my editors job to give me feedback...#but the webtoon editors are extremely extremely extremely overworked and my series is set to end so I understand its low priority#its not her fault its webtoons fault. however. its still demotivating...#oh well l m a o#I should be much further ahead ngl LMFAO I want like 12 done but I come back in 2 weeks.#we'll see#when I get really stressed out I go full gamer mode#and usually I'll sink like 60 hours (like 5 days) into a game and then I'm good and move on#but this recent game that grabbed me is. its too much actually#bit uncontrollable ngl I think its an ADHD thing I mostly have just quit playing videogames at all#cause its like yeah being stressed cause theres too much work to do is not going to be helped by losing a week and a half to a game...#and yet.#anyways the game is satisfactory#my friend bought it for me and we've been playing together#and our shared file has. 100 hours on it. and we still havent beaten the game#we're close to beating it and it's not like we're rushing or anything#cause its fun to fuck around and zap eachother or whatever#but it's got me doing math. the exact kind of math I love to do. optimization#and its reminding me yeah in another life id have been an engineer#I'm glad I'm an artist but its always weird like yeah this is easily a path I could have gone down#'artists hate math' speak for yourself doing math calms me down! I love math!#I love math and I love business. I'm almost the perfect artist but I hate advertising so. we can't have it all#anyways theyre so fucking cute its sickening. I love them so much. I could cry#WIP#lineart#time and time again
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listen guys i have my criticism of season 2 but the ed&izzy aspect does appeal to the part of my brain that likes angst
#ofmd#izzy hands#ed teach#ofmd blackbeard#blackhands#ofmd2#ofmd season 2#our flag means death#ofmd fanart#i dont even really ship them? but their dynamic.#like theres SOMETHING#that tickles my brain#what do u think of them??#okay so in my head#ed wants to apologize in this pic#but he cant cause he isnt yet emotionally developed enough to actually admit fault#especially to izzy#but i wanted it to look like hes like..#conflicted#you know?#idk pls tell me your thoughts if youre reading this thaaanks!!
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Okay challenge mode. You are a therapist and Eridan Ampora from Homestuck has just walked right out of his intro page into your office. How do you fix him?
put him and karkat in a room with a pile of stuff and tell them they can't leave until they've jumped into it and talked about their feelings
#realtalk therapy doesnt work unless the person getting the therapy puts in the effort to make it work#eridan starts the comic in complete and utter denial that he's in need of help#so there's really nothing i nor any stranger could do about that#HOWEVER he does talk to karkat often about his feelings (and vice versa) and#the reason they didnt hang out during the game seems to be#1) they were on separate teams and didnt realize the teams were the same team until later on#2) by then it was too late and eridan had aggro'd all his angels#3) gamzee was deliberately keeping eridan away from karkat and vice versa (likely bc gamzee had a palecrush on kk)#4) karkat was too busy falling victim to his own insecurities abt being a leader to pay attention to his actual friendships#4a) eg. it shouldve been the time player doing the frog hunt with kanaya & not the blood player#like im not saying moirallegiance with karkat would have fixed all of eridans problems but i am saying#what eridan really needed was a friend who took his problems seriously and could see past his bullshitting#and karkat already WAS that friend - they just never hung out#so by the time the meteor rolls around eridan has spent WEEKS feeling abandoned anxious and alone on his death planet#and karkat has gotten used to not thinking about eridan too much#so karkat - who is basically eridans only actual friend at that point - isnt able to get through to him & eridan snaps#like the thing about sburb/homestuck is that it really stresses the importance of friendship and working together#letting each other help with each others' problems#thats why the smallest viable game is still two people by necessity#so when we see things like gamzee snapping or eridan snapping or vriska snapping#as much as these are the 'fault' of the person snapping they also need to be viewed as comprehensive team failures#the people who should have spent the game together didnt and the people who shouldnt have spent the game together did#vriska was allowed to bully tf outta tavros and nobody intervened#eridan was left all alone and nobody tried to help him#and everybody was mean to gamzee and nobody tried to connect with him#and you know whose job it is to make sure the right people are hanging out together? the blood player#and unfortunately our blood player was so insecure that he was doing jobs that werent his to do#im not saying pale erikar would fix homestuck but i am saying pale erikar is a symptom of things being fixed in homestuck
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I dunno, maybe everyone on here saying how much they hate men even in little funny Tumblr speak might be damaging for all the trans men trying to escape reality on the "we love gays" site.
Like I'll be scrolling and see so many m/m ships and in the same scroll see "imagine men, ew." "At least I don't like men."
I know it's hehe funny site, but maybe we could also love men and not cringe at their mere existence.
Trans men, cis men, and masc identifying I love you, I support you and I hope you are loved by those around you.
#men#being male isnt a sin#why dont we love men when they arent our gay blorbos#i try so hard to follow people who are supposedly for equal rights but its starting to look like misandry runs rampant here#this isnt to say men can be without faults but just being male isnt a bad thing#hate speech is fucked up when its about literally just a person existing#I'm just so tired of it all
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can i be fr for a minute?? sending abuse to people online for holding different views than you is not activism and in fact actively hurts your cause. most people are not extreme in their viewpoints, you can give them a new perspective if you're willing to spend some time explaining shit. if someone is saying something you disagree with and you rush in there to condescend to them and call them disgusting and subhuman and dont even TRY to explain calmly why their views are harmful, they're going to shut you out instantly and double down on their views.
most people are simply genuinely ignorant to the issues they're talking about - they just pick their views up from the news and the world around them and express opinions because that's what every person does. if you run in there and tell them they're scum for it, what then? if someone does that to you, are you going to think "maybe i should do some research" or are you going to think "this person is an asshole, im blocking them." a lot of you think you're activists and then refuse to do any kind of actual WORK to support your cause.
#this is not about the isr*el thing even tho thats obviously a huge issue rn#its just a pattern ive observed online#im not saying you have to be kind to people who oppress you dont twist my words#but if youre trying to support any cause and you think calling people names is going to help#youre a fucking idiot lol#people call themelves activists and pro-X cause because they called their opposition dirty c*nts online#how the hell is that meant to help anyone? theyre just going to retreat into their propaganda chambers because you proved what the leaders#of those spaces have been telling them#you can obvs block people if you dont want to deal w them but thats a neutral action. sending abuse harms ur cause.#text#like educating ignorant people is hard work! yeah! its also the entire fucking point of activisim#and if you think its too much effort then just stop pretending you give a shit tbh#like my parents managed to change our neighbour's very xenophobic stance on migrants with a calm conversation#some people will listen and some wont and shes not exactly going out to protests for migrants rights but shes not hostile anymore#and a lot of yall think that isnt good enough but let me tell you it IS good because these things take time!#unlearning things is MUCH harder than learning them in the first place and a lot of people grew up in environments that taught them#very discriminatory and conservative views and its actually not their fault. and its hard to educate yourself differently on something you#have no idea is not true. where do you start w that?
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Just a friendly reminder, we will happily delete your inbox message if you want to curse us out and get upset at us.
Block us and move on if we trigger you. We wont listen to you rant in our inbox about how much you hate "our kind" or how horrible we are for having tags that we use to find others like us.
Im sorry if its a bother to take not even 3 minutes of your day to block all of it. (we apologize for our nasty attitude, we do what it takes to get people to back off if they are getting too ballsy with our boundaries.)
#we are done with these people tbh#we dont read it LMAO we just delete#we arent really gonna roll over and let you spew your hatred out on us#it isnt our fault you have a problem#check yourself and ask yourself why you have an issue with something that has nothing to do with you#we can be really nice but we wont handle this bullshit#to those who mean us no harm or just steer clear#thank you for your respect#we really appreciate it /gen ^^#this is a reminder#we are allowed to use tags that are related to the confession 💀💀#it gets annoying and gives us REALLY bad anxiety seeing this sort of stuff#physical shifter#p shifting#physical nonhumanity#physical shifting#physical shifting community#p shift#physical shifters#nonhuman#p shifter#p shifters#*this post is about physical shifters#please block if you are anti or are triggered*#again we apologise#back to our regularly scheduled confessions :D
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lan xichen is not a perfect human being. he is an older brother who is Going Through Some Shit by the end of the novel. did he always make good choices?? no!! have you????
#i’m having a supremely difficult time with the Xichen haters commenting on wi3.#like all mdzs characters i feel that he’s an incredibly nuanced character#the idea of hating xichen feels so fucking foreign to me because ultimately he just care he brother#no matter what shape that brother takes#lan xichen#mdzs#deep breath#WE ARE NOT OUR MISTAKES AND WEI WUXIAN IS THE BIGGEST MOST GLARING EXAMPLE OF THIS#AND THE FACT THAT YOU CAN RECOGNIZE THIS BUT NOT THAT XICHEN SAID A MEAN THING WHEN HE WAS UPSET AND HIS WORLD WAS CRUMBLING#SAYS A LOT MORE ABOUT YOU AND YOUR SKEWED POV#IF WWX ISNT UPSET ABOUT BEING CALLED LWJS MISTAKE BECAUSE HE REALIZES THERES MORE IMPORTANT SHIT TO HE WORRIED ABOUT#RATHER THAN XICHENS ANGY REMARKS THAT CLEARLY HAVE NO BASIS BECAUSE WWX OBVIOUSLY DIDNT REMEMBER#THEN WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU SO MAD ON HIS BEHALF#seriously the narrative puts SO LITTLE FOCUS ON THIS#laughably little#xichen wants his brother to be happy he doesn’t WANT to push wwx away#he wants wwx to recognize the fault he has and the blame he carries so that he will TREAT WANGJI APPROPRIATELY#so that he’ll stop being a dense motherfucker about his own feelings long enough to realize that wangji has been irrevocably in love#since the very beginning!!!#xichen ignored crimes that sucks#that’s a valid reason to critique his character#‘xichen ignored jgy’s crimes but not wwx’s and actively tried to sabotage wangxian’#no you’re wrong#xichen did not lead the lan to the burial mounds#stop confusing xichen for qiren#if wangji had successfully convinced wwx to return to gusu with him xichen would’ve done the shrug emote#sorry uncle! i have a new brother again!#foh with your xichen hate#i’m gonna be late for work bc of this rant but it needed to be said
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Aemond claiming Vhagar gets a little more layered when you realise that her and Caraxes are the only dragons those girls have known properly when it comes to dragon bonds. Like Baela has moondancer, but Rhaena specifically is being ignored by her father for the most part because if she didn't hatch a dragon egg, that means she could claim a dragon which would mean going back to Westeros.
Which is something he's clearly avoiding. Laena has to comfort her saying there are many ways to claim a dragon because Rhaena thinks they'll abandon her for not having one.
So when the dragon her mother has had her entire life is 'stolen', the exact meaning is that that was her mother's dragon, she doesn't have the understanding that Aemond does of going to the dragonpit and looking for dragons to claim.
To her, Vhagar was a family dragon, her family specifically, and the best chance she would have to claim one like her mom said.
Again, her dad ignores her and makes it seem like there's some hierarchy when it comes to hatching dragons and claiming them and not hatching them at all simply because he doesn't want to go back. He doesn't want to help her claim a dragon in King's Landing because he's a selfish bitch.
Aemond does not see it that way because of a similar inferiority complex, that the world's largest dragon could help absolve, and because he has the understanding that dragons aren't inherited. He is also aware that he's at a funeral and that the reason Vhagar is unclaimed is that Rhaena is mourning her recently dead mother.
I think my point is to blame Daemon and Viserys for being evil little men really and giving their kids or facilitating environments where their kids feel inferior based on their own targeted perceptions based on nothing over dragons and dragon bonds. They are responsible.
#anti daemon targaryen#anti viserys i targaryen#rhaena targaryen#rhaena of pentos#aemond targaryen#aemond one eye#rhaena and baela deserved so much more#laena i miss you i dont like the way they sideline our girls#i hate daemon so much#but viserys isnt hated enough#maybe i just hate Baelon#house of the dragon#hotd#in reaction to anti baela/rhaena sentiments#i say we can always blame these men for most of the issues we have#why are you fighting a 9 year old when its clearly their dad's fault
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Another disadvantage is working the hellish job that is Retail Healthcare which shouldn't even be a thing bc you should not have to pay for medications but. Also.
Help.
#also we get blamed for everything#doctor didnt call in a script? thats our fault#the medication is on backorder? yeah thats us apparently#the insurance company isnt covering it? clearly my doing because i personally hate you. of course
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I am so fucking scared for this next Canadian election the conservative guy wants to strip protections for queer people in the military and my brother is in the reserves and he's gay (he is very left he's doing it bc it's the only place that's actually hiring) and dating a trans guy. I'm scared for him and I'm so scared for whatever else that right wing fuckhead will ruin.
#canadian politics#cause trudeo is NOT getting in dude our only hope is the NDPs and the guy running is sikh and a lot of canadians hate indians right now so.#which is fucked its not their fault the government left loopholes theyre choosing to exploit for a chabce at a better life#i just god fucking hope that we will be okay#i have so many queer friends#nova scotia is like. the nost queer province#we have a conservative jn government and he like sucks yeah but at least he isnt essentially killing people#the pcp is more like the american right than the conservatives#or it used to be#god dude this sucks so bad#the polls are looking like the conservatives will win too dude#im voting ndp and i hope its worth it and they get in im so so scared
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warmups | 5.6.24
#sergei bobrovsky#florida panthers#2324#playoffs 24#saw a bob so gorgeous i broke down into tears#this is how im coping w the loss#bob this isnt your fault youre too pretty to have 4 goals scored on you#blaming our sloppy d and the rust curse
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guys what if i told you ive been thinking about dess and actually i think dess/chara might be able to work out in the drkau...like ive been doing some thinking into dess and her reasons and why she does what she does and how she cares about people and im starting to nail down the role i want asriel to play, and. and.
guys i think dess is actually going to be able to change. i think dess figures out how to change but asriel never does....
#chatter#its about like. okay azzy's big thing is normality right.#ive decided hes our monster representative for the prophecy#(which i could make a whole post on but these tags are not the place)#which means dess ISNT which means dess isnt stuck by that#which means like. god this needs so much context i dont have time to give but.#in order for asriel to change he has to come to terms w the fact that a lot of things are his fault#like if he had reacted differently dess maybe stays#or at least doesnt take kris with her#and DESS comes to terms w this. dess is aware that she sorta fucked kris's life#and no shes not their mom but she does love them and care for them#and eventually would start to realize like. i have to be there for them#it wont be perfect but i can TRY even if trying is really really scary#and its this idea of like. what dess-chara-kris-frisk have#is family that could NEVER fit into what society sees as 'normal'#but they have each other. and they want to try. so they make something good#vs asriel chasing normality and pushing everyone away and at the end of it all like#that cant make you happy. all it does is make you Alone. and i dont know if he like#changes. cause hes so deep in he cant admit he was wrong cause then what was any of this for?#anyways let me remind you that noelle is our main character--#(though tbf since azzy is her brother and has a huge impact on her life its fair he gets a focus too)#I LOVE MY OWN AU <3#drkau
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this is not new to say but i feel like the internet and social media and instant gratification have absolutely destroyed people's will and understanding of being uncomfortable. sometimes it's good to be uncomfortable. sometimes it's necessary. refusing to ever engage with ideas that make you uncomfortable will never get you anywhere but complicity and moral laziness
#its been really clear regarding the way people are using like#therapyspeak and overly cushy language to soothe people ignoring an active genocide#there's a difference between 'managing your emotions' and 'ignoring that ethnic cleansing is happening'#also a lot of the 'anxiety' white people have regarding big events like this or the blm protests is just. white guilt.#knowing you as a white american are responsible in some ways for the suffering of people of color both in and out of america#and its like. yeah it can feel shitty but. good. it should. you know. like. idk man.#the united states is funding a genocide with the tax dollars of its citizens. even if it isnt our 'fault' the LEAST we can do is feel remor#and do what we can to support the people who need our help#it is unimaginably cruel and so blatantly the wrong choice to cover your ears and shut your eyes. and if doing that makes you feel bad#it should. and you should live with that guilt.
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2014 🤝 2023
hunger games movie
guardians of the galaxy movie
john green novel adaptation movie
#olivia talks#marvel cinematic universe#guardians of the galaxy#gotg 3#john green#tfios#the fault in our stars#turtles all the way down#the hunger games#thg#mockingjay#a ballad of songbirds and snakes#tell me this isnt wild as hell rn haha#maybe there is music overlap like this ?? idk yet
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