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eevylynn · 1 year ago

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Nope, I agree. I have kids, and I can't stand that mentality.

I have one cousin who will dress her two little boys (1 and 8) in nice clothes to go to a family event and try to not let them play outside with the other dozen cousins running around outside. The other kids will enjoy soda with their meals, and she'll force hers to have water even if they're to the point of crying because the feel left out. Then, she'll yell and get more stubborn about it, claiming that their grandparents are spoiling them and that's why they "act out like that".

Bitch, no. They just want to be kids and enjoying running, getting dirty and sweaty, and enjoying junk food at their great grandparents' house like everyone else.

I don’t have children so take this with a grain of salt but I hate when you can tell people like the concept of their children more than their well-being. Parents like the concept of an all-beige nursery that’s photogenic more than they care about the development of their kid’s brain. They like the concept of a cutely dressed kid in designer clothes more than they care about their comfort and personal desires. They like the concept of a child who never eats poorly more than they care about the happiness that can come from a child eating some candy now and then. People need to stop treating their kids like little dolls

#this is the same cousin that hates me #because I'M the problem #even though her kids love me bc i play outside with them #oops

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334iwatchshit · 2 months ago

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what the fuck are these gay doctors doing on my screen

WHY ARE THEY DOOMED I CANT

#after they run away wilson does an experimental drug over seas and they move to the same island that thirteen is on to watch out for her #while she goes thru her stuff #they are happy and they open a private practice #house uses a fake name and sometimes people quint and say *hey aren't you that doctor who was in the new for blowing up* and he says #*nah that's my cousin*#they have a dog that house pretends to hate #i hate them so much holy shit #this what the fuck #my gays dads the anxiety riddles cancer having oncologist and the absolute sociopathic lipping fugitive he married #james wilson #gregory house #greg house #hilson #god i hate them #release me!!!#they literally get so fucking gay in the last five episodes of the show it's crazy #like wow are y'all about to kiss?

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vani-ash · 5 months ago

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Idk if this is a controversial opinion but I low-key hate when people make Kim and his brothers distant but decide Kim is besties with Vegas at the same time

Kim had no problem walking into a random warehouse and immediately shooting at Vegas on sight

Like idc if it's just that Vegas and Kim are friends/friendly but it's when they specifically add that they are friends and Kim hates his brothers/does not interact with them but he kept in touch with Vegas?

#I personally feel like in canon Kim is at best neutral on Vegas but more likely has the same #feelings as Kinn and Tankhun and heavily dislikes/hates Vegas/the minor family in general #Like I understand it probably comes from Kim doesn't want to be in the #in the mafia*#then Vegas also gets out of it when his dad dies but it feels forced to me #(forced isnt the right word but i cant think rn)#i really can not see any circumstance where kim is willingly and happily reaching out to vegas to become friends #this extends to when people make chay friends with pete #kim is a reserved person why would he ever reach out to a cousin he has been taught to hate for years #even if theyre family tensions got resolved kim is not going out of his way to be friends #and i can not see vegas doing that either #any reason kim has to not interact with his brothers would surely somewhat extend to vegas?#idk if this is just a me thing but the second i see kim and vegas are best friends it annoys me #kim is not going to vegas over his brothers idc how bad his relationship is with them #if hes too paranoid to trust his brothers why would he trust vegas?#kim theerapanyakul #vegas theerapanyakul #mine

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bittersweetresilience · 1 year ago

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say hi to me i don't know, i just remembered being so much brighter, i guess

cigarette ash like wildfire burning holes in the nighttime open scars feel like barbed wire white lies flying high like a ceasefire dropping flags on the shoreline this is as far as i can feel right 'cause what you don't know can haunt you

and all we ever wanted was sunlight and honesty highlights to want to repeat let's get away from here and live like the movies do i won't mind when it's over at least i didn't think for a while

don't drag it out living like that doesn't mean a thing

so let's, make a great escape and i'll be waiting outside for the getaway it doesn't matter who we are we'll keep running through the dark and all we'll ever need is another day we can slow down 'cause tomorrow is a mile away and live like shooting stars 'cause happy endings hardest to fake

and i wanna let you know i wanna let you go but i just can't bring myself to speak but this is how it goes the end credits, they roll this bridge was built over kerosene but we can watch it and all i ever wanted was sunlight and honesty highlights to want to repeat let's get away from here and live like the movies do i won't mind when it's over at least i didn't think

so let's run, make a great escape and i'll be waiting outside for the getaway it doesn't matter who we are we'll keep running through the dark and all we'll ever need is another day we can slow down 'cause tomorrow is a mile away and live like shooting stars you can wish away forever but you'll never find a thing like today

#miraculous ladybug #felix fathom #marinette dupain cheng #felix graham de vanily #🌃#ml amv #felinette felinette felinette FELINETTE #i'm shrimping so hard i'm gromping i'm making absolute tempura #yes the 2 am coco pops félix post was made while i was finishing this yes i am constantly experiencing inconsolable félix feelings #félings even. GOD GOD GOD okay listen #i could do a line by line analysis of this song and how i made the amv i have too many thoughts to put in the tags i am exploding #but in summary REPRESENTATION. REPRESENTATION. EMOTION. REPRESENTATION. EMOTION. REPLIQUE. FUCK ME #félix's trauma an open scar leading her to the art room as far as both of them will go to feel right #ALL HE EVER WANTED WAS TO KEEP ADRIEN AND THEN MARINETTE SAFE #it doesn't matter who we are we'll keep running through the dark huAHUAHHGAG I MTHRWOING UP it's how he doesn't care what she thinks of him #how she sees him whether she hates him he's Chosen her as someone to protect and he will DO IT he will TAKE HER WHEN HE RUNS #i don't care if you beat me i know i have this under control and i'm protecting you and everything is going to be okay EXPLOIDNGNIG #tomorrow is a mile away tomorrow where i find out who you are tomorrow where we have to come apart #this is how it GOES you're the hero i'm the villain adrien is the lover i'm the monster i'm the cousin #marinette and félix and Knowing each other is so #THEY DESERVE SO MANY OTHER DAYS THEY DESERVE TO SLOW DOWN AND BE WITH EACH OTHER AND NOT HAVE TOMORROW PULL EVERYTHING AWAY AND UAHAUHGAUGH #i'm not well about them. félix and freedom and escape #ALSO i have so many feelings about félix cherishing the people he wants to save so much he was willing to do the same thing that led to #his own trauma and use the peacock miraculous TWICE. ARE YOU KIDDING ME ARE YOU KIDDING ME #you can read it differently but right now come with me ARE YOU KIDDING ME #also ALSO i often think about how felinette standing in front of réplique is a reference to pv felinette #and me placing that directly before the wish is a nod to how the pv was rewritten into canon miraculous. a meta wish... felinette remains #but also in universe you can wish away the world that once was and you'll still never find another thing quite like félix #and who you were and could have been to each other today... cherish him marinette... please cherish him for me #i hit tag limit on this essay so i'm not tagging the episodes i used in the amv but i used all eight félix episodes as always

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uzi-x33 · 4 months ago

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mhm. alr. cool.

#my mom is making me call me cousin cus it’s his birthday #i hate him #i hate my cousins #they bullied me for no reason over stuff they also did #they were pieces of shit and I shouldn’t have to forgive them #js cus they’re family #it’s ridiculous #silly posting:33 #:333 #uzi posts:3 #vent ish #uzi vents !#they said “nobody asked” but when I say the same im a bitch w no friends??#kms!!#sigh

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melonthesprigatito · 1 month ago

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Man, I hate how causally mean the Pokémon fandom is sometimes.

"Oh no! 2% of 12000 people voted for a game I don't like! Must be something mentally wrong with them! That's the only explanation! It's not like kids also use YouTube and probably voted in that poll because the YouTube algorithm often shoves polls in people's faces as well as the fact that BDSP (and Let's Go) is the only remake easily accessible to that age demographic because all the other games are 10+ years old and they likely haven't discovered what emulation is yet!"

On an unrelated note, remember ten years ago when people would have said a comment like that towards people who enjoyed Black and White?

#pokémon #pokemon #time is a flat circle #This just makes me sad #My younger cousin LOVES BDSP #I hate how she's probably going through the same thing I went through with BW ten years ago

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anarchne · 7 months ago

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i wish i could remove the word “adopt” from kept peoples’ vernacular lol

#they constantly say shit about ‘adopting’ people and it’s so fucking weird to me #like it’s this cute and flippant thing and a sign of enjoying something #or whatever #and especially in fandom they use it for their blorbos and say they want to adopt fictional children and i hate it #adoption is not serious to people who are not adoptees at all and as adoptees we are taught to downplay the severity of our experiences #because if we say ‘hey that’s not funny’ then we get told told we are being too sensitive #we are a marginalized community that’s not even recognized as such and it absolutely fucking sucks and our trauma isn’t funny or cute l #joking about adopting people and characters is weird if u know what adoption really is #it is a LEGAL process that changes our identities and erases all biological lineage and seals our records (sometimes forever)#adoptees are 4x more likely to have mental health issues and substance abuse problems and we are more likely to be abused by our parents #and yet kept people wct as if we are not real people. we are constantly dehumanized in many ways #either adoption is romanticized or it’s a joke and either we are not human as our problems are brushed off #or we are not human and get verbally abused whenever we say something about how experiences aren’t always sunshine and rainbows #not to mention the fact that we are infantilized as well #it’s just… adoption is a different way of experiencing life. like my worldview is entirely different than someone who is non-adopted #there are things that have never even crossed their minds. they couldn’t imagine not knowing what their parents look like #or knowing their siblings or cousins or having multiple birth certificates or having a price tag over their head #yet adoption is just casual for them. it’s no big deal. YEAH IT’S NBD BECAUSE U ARENT ADOPTED!!!!!!!#keep our experiences out of your fucking mouth!!!!!!!#but someone will probably say im being dramatic or too emotional or whatever for being upset #like sorryyyyy. my bad! how overdramtic of me to be upset about not having the same rights as other people and not laughing along with them #god fucking dammit #adoptee voices #adoptee #adoption #adoption in fandom

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unproduciblesmackdown · 5 months ago

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omgg lol [guy who won't stop going "more like scapeGOATED" voice] now hold! on!! lmao [same guy just saw encanto voice] Hold on!!!

#& [it might be 5am but i'll still see if i can draw some] trackpad homemade reacts. inhales & hands to head/face x9 then walking off #site giving pretty random Suggested assortment there where i was like oh right sure. prob not tumblr keywords captures lmaooo #(plus happened to have it open in firefox) but my god Not the scapegoated literal seers lmfao. whoooo. my god #also it was just really good anyways like right nice. damn #the (queerrr) seerrr the perceiverrr the truth tellerrr the ruinerrr the scapegoat be-errr the internalizerrr the neurodivergerrr #& now i Know there is 0% chance ppl weren't putting ''always a gay cousin or it's you (avuncular edition)'' in that thing #family tree design not even leaving space for the hypothetical kids of this relative we mostly pretend is nonexistent hmm #also that necessarily. it's giving all intents & purposes Disability abt a dozen ways & it's saying [accept that] vs [we'd better fix him]#you don't cite said [it's giving disability] as part of the We All Hate The Horrible Little Freak scapegoating justification & then be like #''actually we don't have to do that anymore b/c he's sooo normal :)'' or not if you're serious about [don't scapegoat your family] anyways #which like oh ok they Are serious so The Weirdo's scapegoating / casting out / lack of support Isn't justified #so he's still weird & you just gotta get over that b/c otherwise. bye. having a natural rat affinity is such a slay btw #& we've all been there like ''you NEVER want two scapegoats talking it's Over if they do'' + littlest kid is like um. they're the best #plankton voice Correct! inhale i'm so impressed like. getting to go ''finally someone Normal'' (serious abt letting someone Be Weird(tm))#which also always counts as like mm hard time suggesting someone's Not queer & also autistic for a start lmao. an award #adding in suggested layers like talking to oneself; talking Oddly / w difficulty; physical uncoordination; rituals ; acting; animal friend #the layer of ''& all that's fine? like?'' again rather than him ever suppressing or even changing it so far as it's suggested #besides that it's observed as Weird like but so? or else what? nonrhetorical: hostility / rescinded support & driving someone off is what?#& that Truth like the [worse treatment / exclusion / scapegoat] oft recipe for someone giving the support they're not getting themself #again Never let the [ppl both experiencing this] talk oh it's So over. or the child who's all i like family support & kindness actuallyy...#obviously also like the complete opposite of billions. knowing what they're about & letting this Just As Beloved crucial guy be So Weird #but billions Also [hmm feels right for our scapegoated guy to Perceive / Tell Truths / openly want/need & then be hurt] now get his ass #anyway [guy who could always go way on could go way on but only has thirty tags & it's 6am & i still mean to try some drawing] voice #remarkable amt of So True & ''it feels like ppl on the same page w/exactly what they're doing are all behind this''#remarkable amount of concentrated My God That Is So A Slay located in bruno all at once. what a gift #sticking to ''sometimes someone In Your Group is Weird. Disabled. deal'' firmly enough there's no ;) oh u can bet we'll Fix Him in the end #everyone always assumes the worst so....me when i'm [always as a kid yearning for Living In Secret Passages]. emile gtmpota?#oh congrats to whatever rando who will be having his dramatic gay reunion w/bruno just out of frame obviously. i perceive #now imagine if That rando was....emile gtmpota! what a crossover event. haunting4haunting. do i have enough tags for this lmao. yea #& having 1 more tag to say: as though the [endless serving] isn't enough bruno's also as close to gender envy as it gets. incl rats; sure

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folkloregirlfriend · 1 year ago

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why did i leave dance classes

#i did not like it but mom forcefully got me into one of them when i was a kid okay those classes were bad i admit #because she also got me into singing lessons at the same academy and that was. not good im sorry i do not sound good it was a nightmare #but then in seventh grade i again started dance classes and the exercises were ruthless but i had so so so much fun once i adjusted #because i got the hang of it and i was kinda good #it was so fun atleast something out of the house #but then we had one show and i left the academy or maybe the moved but i did not go back and i miss it so much #the two guys who taught us were so. idk weird and now that i look back at some things also kinda inappropriate 👁️ maybe idk #but other than that i had so much fun going out for practicing on the stage etc etc socialising too i miss it so much #it was mostly contemporary and western #dad used to say i should learn khatak too but then i used to hate it #if only i had given a chance to kathak and continued with contemporary atleast i'll have something 😭#and yesterday i was thinking about that dance performance in school and i remember i did not want to do it because i was scared i had lost #that whatever. idk #i miss it now i'm the awkward dancing cousin at weddings because i hate everyone there and i lost the practice 😭#they moved**

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theres-whump-in-that-nebula · 8 months ago

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Oh grandma I know why you were never without your trusty penny loafers, even lying in a hospital bed. Floors fucking hurt, that’s why.

#If you think we’re members of the same giant family shhhh no we’re not you’ve never seen this post I am an illusion #your cousin totally isn’t a gay disaster on Tumblr with gender envy for dead British guys wdym shhhhh you never saw me here #We’re Irish we hate the British; it can’t be me! I’m not your cousin!#I’m not a shoemak— [gUnshot]#Well to be fair one of the dead British guys I have gender envy for wanted to be Irish and is therefore an honorary Irishman so #I’m not a traitor #Yeah… that works #You don’t see me. I was never here

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thelastspeecher · 8 months ago

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apparently one of my cousins was just accepted into a master's writing program at an Ivy League school

and that's why I almost never go on Facebook 🙃

#look. do I even think I could handle a master's in writing at an Ivy League?#.....I mean. I think so. I managed a master's in geoscience at one of the top geology schools in the nation.#(....''managed'' is doing some VERY heavy lifting there lnjasdknf)#but do I want to do that? no.#do I still feel weird and like I'm wasting my life and everyone else is more accomplished than me? yes.#it does help a bit that the cousin in question has outright told me her success is in large part from her father pushing her v hard #(he did the same thing to her siblings)#and that she kinda fucking hates how she was pushed to succeed so much #like I don't wish that on anyone but it does help me to put into context her success. it comes at a cost. like everything else.#and to be frank it's not a cost I'm willing to pay at this point in my life.#I still feel weird and uhhhhh incompetent I guess would be the best word tho #also like I'm wondering why she's going to an Ivy League when she's already at one of the top writing schools #maybe distance from her family....in which case. godspeed cuz.#ANYWAYS I have a v accomplished family that I at times feel inferior to despite my own accomplishments #and no that has no influence on my OC Angie's own similar feelings why would you think that #(my family would be upset if they knew I felt inferior btw no one makes me feel bad other than my own brain)#(I have a v loving and supportive family and am v blessed to have them~)#whine whine whine

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orcelito · 3 months ago

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Like I think peak Naruto for me was the episode after Asuma died where we followed Shikamaru around as he processed and grieved. It was all just daily life, but it was so heavy and GOOD. And then afterwards, with his plan to counter Hidan. Just. It was the Peak.

Meanwhile here we are, the ten tails summed (despite the fact that it's supposed to require the eight tails and nine tails too?? But it only has a portion of their chakra??? But that's enough for some reason???? Idfk the logic does not make sense) and everything is so high stakes and there are world shaking explosions over and over and over again and Honestly the kyuubi is fuckin carrying them through this fight, they'd be Absolutely Fucked without him, but even he's gotta have a limit right??? He said the ten tails is much stronger than him. So what the fuck are they supposed to do???? I'm tired of the huge stakes and the constant increasing of power (this isn't even including Kaguya, which I'm Really not looking forward to for how bullshit it is)

I'm watching it anyways. Because I want to finally be able to say I've finished naruto. But God I can really feel why I never finished it throughout all these years. Ugh!!!!!!

#speculation nation #fanny watches naruto #getting preemptively pissed about neji even tho i said id wait #just bc i saw an article saying kishimoto killed him primarily in order to push naruto and hinata together #and the opening sure does reflect that. has naruto holding her hand and whatever. her crying over neji. whatever #and im trying to withhold judgement until i see it for myself but it just makes me so ANGRY #there are a million other ways he couldve had them end up together. hinata literally confessed her love like 200 episodes ago #but noooooo kishimoto has to not understand how women's feelings work or how to write romance #so we have to shoehorn it in (because of ???? reader satisfaction?? literally why) by killing her cousin as a plot point.#effectively erasing neji's entire arc of working to be free from the main line. by sacrificing himself for the main line.#and you can say it's his choice bc he cares about her. but see it's the exact same thing that happened with his dad.#it was fucked up then and it's fucked up now. UGH UGH UGH UGH.#for a show i love with my whole heart i really do hate it sometimes. ugh!!!!!!!!!!

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canni-killer · 10 months ago

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finish drawing. feel proud! see three pieces of art. i want to kill myself.