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lukah would feel mad dysphoric at robotics competitions
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Moral of the day is, don't threaten kids with jail time if they steal. It may just make them more sneaky in the long run, you literally showed this child that they cannot trust you with anything and so they will no longer go to you if anything happens.
A small action can lead to future consequences.
The government sucks ass anyways, never go to the cops for anything and keep your peace.
#this is based on my own experiences#basically my mom snitched on me for stealing a candy bar#thankfully the cop said it wasn't that serious despite my mom freaking out over it the entire time#the bitch then took that candy bar from me and ate it as we drove back home#so yeah she taught me two lessons that day#never snitch on yourself#and never trust anyone - not even your loved ones#a hard lesson for a kid to learn#and we were dirt-poor too so I was even more confused on why she snitched on me#like I was able to sneak the candy bar without getting caught#and I trusted her to keep it secret because I felt that I did good in that moment#maybe she should've learned to keep her mouth shut and steal some things herself instead of obeying the system#because come on if the system is keeping us in poverty you gotta fight back somehow#I don't steal anymore tho because I rarely go outside unless it's to do laundry#and I don't have the energy to spare for it anymore regardless#so yay??
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how to love a stranger
#warriors#warrior cats#thunderclan#sparkpelt#firestar#my comic#this comic is based on my own experience#with my grandmother who I never met#remember that wip I posted like a little bit ago of the comics I had planned#yeah hehehehe#I wanna add one more thing but hmmmmmm still deciding how to word it hmmm#if u see any grammar or spelling mistake... no u don't
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it's really hard figuring out your gender and sexuality when it's the 1970s and you can't just google "am I transgender quiz"
#gravity falls#fiddauthor#lab creations#hey guys. good morning#I feel like it's obvious from context btw but this isn't a g/nderbend or anything#mostly based on my own confusing experiences with gender#tfw you are both trans men in college before either of you totally understand that yet
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When math is not mathing
#based on my own experience#luffy was exactly how i was back then#it was hell#one piece#one piece fanart#monkey d. luffy#one piece luffy#mugiwara no luffy#straw hat luffy#monkey d dragon#dragon one piece#ace one piece#portgas d ace#op sabo#sabo#revolutionary sabo#vice admiral garp#monkey d garp#garp one piece
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Rafayel is for the ones who want to heal
Rafayel is for the ones who grew up so fast- an adult at age ten, a parent to sisters and brothers even younger, and a seasoned therapist your parents turned to for situations you shouldn't even learn until high school.
Rafayel is for the ones who want to heal their inner child, pushing and shoving each other over who gets to play next at the arcade, who gets to be stronger in a playfight, who ends up the least covered in paint after a tussle- tongues out and incomprehensible sounds coming from each others mouths to insult the other wordlessly, hands making inappropriate gestures before lunging to slather another color across skin.
Rafayel is for the ones who think they need a miracle to protect them- a God willing to step in and protect them from whatever might be harming them. Because a God should be able to fight any demon, right? Any terror that's threatening you? And he's safety in the pain, because what is the rage of a God compared to the quiet terror you've been experiencing forever at the hands of what harms you?
Rafayel is for the ones who want the love they never got to have, who want the man who waited centuries for you only to wait even longer. The man who chose you through every horror, every single bad thing you ever did and will do, and will continue to choose you over his people, his home, even fate itself.
Rafayel is for the unorthodox healing, for smacking his hand for cheating at kitty cards when you would never dare to anyone else. For raising your voice at him when you didn't even have a quiet one before. For dancing to yourself in the street because you see him swaying side to side and you want to join him, despite the people around you. For the ones whose younger selves would look on in shock at who the stranger was before them, doing every quietly courageous thing they may have dreamed of once before.
Rafayel is for the ones who want to heal.
#.writey#love and deepspace#lads#lds#rafayel x reader#love and deepspace rafayel#x reader#no i didnt base this on my own experiences and no im not crying writing this go away#sigh
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hope you feel better soon!
I am riddled with ailments, but I stay silly!
#ask#non mdzs#My health journey has been: Hernia -> acid reflux -> Vocal pain due to aforementioned reflux -> chest infection.#I'm terrified to know what's about to hit me next. Please let it be something kind. PLEASE.#The consequence of living with linguists is that you'll wake up with a wacked up voice -#suddenly you're sitting you down in front of a program called something like Praat having your shimmer and jitter levels calibrated.#They gave me a GRBAS of 33012. I have a fun thing called a pitch break where a whole octave just does not exist.#My vocal pain was bad enough I ended up seeing a speech pathologist and that whole experience was super neat!#I learnt a lot about voice - to be honest I might make a little comic on it after some more research. Fascinating stuff.#For example; your mental perception of our voice modulates the muscles of the vocal folds and larynx.#meaning that when you do have changes (inflammation = more mass = lower frequency)#your brain automatically attempts to correct it to what it 'should sound like'. Leading to a lot more vocal strain and damage!#And it gets really interesting for trans voice care as well - because the mental perception of one's voice isn't based on an existing sampl#So a good chunk of trans voice training is also done with the idea of finding one's voice and retraining the brain to accept it. Neat!#Parkinsonial Voice also has this perception to musculature link! The perception is that they are talking at a loud/normal volume#but the actual voice is quite breathy and weak. So vocal training works on practicing putting more effort into the voice#and retraining the brain to accept the 'loud' voice as 'normal'.#Isn't the human body fascinating?#Anyhow; Now I have vocal exercises and strategies to reduce strain and promote healing.#Which is a lot better than my previous strategy of yelling AAAH in my car until my 'voice smoothed out'.#You can imagine the horror on the speech path's face. I am an informed creature now.#I'm my own little lab rat now. I love learning and researching. Welcome to my tag lab. Class is dismissed.#I'll be back later with a few more answered asks </3 despite everything I'm still going to work and I need the extra sleep.#Thank you for the well wishes! And if you read all of that info dump; thank you for that as well!
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James: Hey Reggie
Reg: ...
James: are you...okay?
Reg: you said if im feeling stressed I should go on a run.
James: yes...?
Regulus: fuck you James
James: Reg explain please
Regulus: I go out run for the first 5 minutes but then I see people so I can't stop for a breath for another 10 and then I can't breathe, I feel sick, I taste blood James...BLOOD
James: ...
Regulus: and then I keep running, I still can't breathe and then i nearly slip THERES SO MUCH MUD so i can't even run properly without falling on my ass and I want to cry and go have a hot shower because it was freezing and i cannot feel my limbs but i'm also sweating I HATED it James.
James: ...well... Are you still stressed?
Regulus: ...THATS NOT THE POINT
James: ...
Regulus: ...no I guess not
James: so it did work
Regulus: ...you have 5 seconds
#did i base this off my own experience? maybe#marauders#regulus black#james potter#jegulus#fic ideas#dead gay wizards#james x regulus#why do people run genuinely asking
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Supersons playing in a creek.
Imagine Damian is staying over at the Kent farm, as he often does. Him and Jon have kinda gotten bored of the usual farm kid stuff like bale jumping, hanging out with the cows, and laying in the hayloft. Until Jon is like “I know! Let’s go to the creek!” And Damian is like “What’s so special about a creek?”
So Jon takes some life jackets and a few floaties and beach toys and marches them down to this creek thing. He drops everything but the life jackets and tells Damian to follow him upstream.
“You know I can swim, right?” Damian insists.
“I know. We just need these to float. We can’t use the floaties because they could get snagged and pop.” Jon explains.
They stop at a low bridge. Jon climbs over the railing, plops a life jacket down, and jumps on it. Damian follows after him. They float down the creek together, occasionally splashing each other, but mostly just talking or taking in the scenery.
Eventually they comeback to where they started, a little clearing where it’s apparent that the Kents have set up an afternoon here on more than one occasion. There’s a roped tied to a tree branch, and a little alcove where the water is shallow and calm. Minnows scatter around them as they drop off their life jackets. Damian looks around the shallow pool, to see if he can find any critters. He finds a huge crayfish and shows Jon. They hang out with it for a while before gently putting him back.
They take turns on the rope, seeing who can do the best trick. Jon cheats by flying to slow his fall, fitting at least five flips before he hits the water. Damian rolls his eyes at him.
Damian finds a leech on himself and decides to keep the guy in a bucket for the time being. He collects as many as he can. Damian dares Jon to stick his hand in the bucket, which Jon immediately does. He’s got skin of steel, what could go wrong? He pulls his hand out and it’s (predictably) cover in leeches trying to bite him.
They go back when it starts to thunder and make it back just before it starts pouring. They watch the storm with a cup of Meemaw Kent’s hot chocolate.
#shut up spicy#batman#dc comics#batman comics#damian wayne#dc#batman dc#Supersons#Supersons comic#Jon Kent#jon lane Kent#jonathan kent#jonathan lane kent#Damijon#Superdemon#cosmicbird#jondami#damian wayne al ghul#damian al ghul wayne#damian al ghul#based off my own experiences
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do you ever think tommy lashed out after exile in the hopes that he would get hurt again? that he bit the hand that fed him and kept fucking biting just so he’d get hit? that the quiet and the gentleness and being treated like a baby bird with a broken wing was the worse option? at least when he got hit it was over fast. at least the pain was quick and sharp and couldn’t stay forever. gentleness only brings sharper, crueler things down the line, so tommy would prefer the bloody nose or black eye or broken arm thank you very much. so he bites and bites and gnaws and chews up his relationships and waits for the pain that won’t come. because at least this meant it was his choice to be alone. no one could take away what he had willingly given up.
#c!tommy#tommyinnit#ctommy#dsmp#dsmpblr#dream smp#ok guys I’m gonna need you to hold my hand when I say this#I am not romanticizing trauma#this is based on my own experiences with abuse#ok#we got that?#good#my writing
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ok now make bpd jake
okay anon here's the alternate comic or wtv . so obssesive Jake!!
#dirkjake#dirk strider#jake english#toxic yaoi#homestuck#bpd jake#ive been informed this isnt actually bpd tho#which like. okay. its based around my own experience dude so idk what to tell u#but if u dont think its bpd then its not#label it as whatever u want#godlessyaoi
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your f/o would not care abt any 'abnormal' speech mannerisms you've got btw.
stutter? that's ok, they're more than happy to wait to let you get the words out, it just gives them an extra few seconds to appreciate your voice. Even if you get caught up on the same word a few times or the whole sentence struggles a little, they're not gonna make fun of you. It's you talking, what could ever be 'wrong' with that?
mix up your words? that's totally ok! whether you'd rather try again and say what you actually meant to say or just wanna repeat a few bits so they get the gist, they're not gonna make fun of you. even if you don't notice that you swapped around some words, they've gotten pretty good at deciphering your meaning, time together letting them hone their skills.
forget what you were saying halfway through it? that's totally fine too! whether they give you a few minutes to try and remember or just move past it till something jogs your memory again, they're fine to offer up some ideas on what it might've been about or a new topic to get your mind off of it.
use a lot of 'fluff' in your speech (ie. 'umm,' 'like,' 'uhh,' etc.)? they're not gonna rush the words out of you or interrupt your speech. They're more than happy to give you all the time in the world to talk, no matter how rambly and long-winded it might seem. They like hearing what you have to say and your thoughts are priceless to them.
#written for me myself and i because i started stuttering and struggling w/ my words on call yesterday#fighting for my LIFE!!!!!#also sorry if the wording on this is weird my words are still a little scrambled#also also this is all just based on my own experience. so. smiles.#f/o imagine#f/o imagines#imagine your f/o#self shipping#self ship community#self ship#f/o prompts#self ship imagine
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I have a hc that Tim has a growth spurt sometime after he turns eighteen,, Dick hasn't seen him in a while and is so excited to see him again
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Tim who has been shorter than Dick the whole time they have known each other is suddenly taller than him
Dick is inconsolable, he refuses to stand next to Tim and finches every time someone mentions Tim being taller now. Tim on the other hand is absolutely gleefull
#based on my own experience#I was working out of city for an month and when i got back my baby sister was taller than me#dick grayson#tim drake#red robin#nightwing#third robin#robin iii#first robin#dc comics#batman#batman and robin#robin#timothy drake#batboys#batfam
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yall ever think Shen Yuan went through like, internet withdrawal after being transmigrated into Shen Qingqiu? Like, he's canonically a NEET shut-in who did nothing but spend his time online, you can't tell me that for the first week or first few weeks of being SQQ he wasn't twitchy.
Like, reaching instinctively to his pockets for a phone that wasn't there, having an obsessive itch in the back of his mind that he should check and see if X or Y novel or webcomic has updated -- only to realize he can't anymore and being irritated by it. Wanting to go and see if there's new posts about this or that, but again realizing that he can't.
When he's bored or uncomfortable or just feels like wanting to escape he tries to go for his phone to distract himself, but oops! Not there anymore, and now he has to find a new and different way to distract himself from his feelings. And going through system notifications, quests, etc only does so much.
And there's that Tetris Effect too. SQQ makes a mistake while writing and instinctively goes to backspace on it except hey-ho that's not a keyboard and now he just dipped his pinkie into a bottle of ink or on a still-drying letter.
With him scrambling to fix his reputation and learn how to be a peak lord, I think his abrupt cold-turkey from all things internet would just be another straw on the camel's back that he promptly Ignores until it goes away on its own after he acclimates to his new surroundings.
#svsss#mxtx svsss#scum villain#scum villian self saving system#shen yuan#shen qingqiu#i think him learning how to be a peak lord and cultivation and everything else would help distract him from the internet withdrawal for the#most part. but the moment there's a lull in the day and his mind wanders or he becomes bored or stressed and he instinctively reaches back#for his phone and realizes it isn't there it just sends a spike of panic/frustration/irritation through him because its a familiar comfort#and now its gone. like this is all based off my own experiences from being Chronically Online but i just think its neat to think about#in that same vein i think it also pushes him into getting into the arts on QJP. Like as the peak lord naturally he would be doing this kind#of stuff but hes NOT the peak lord but to keep up appearances he has to know how to do this stuff. and finds it??? actually quite rewarding#even more than getting into an argument online or getting a new merch item. he's making or doing this stuff. he starts drawing and finishes#a piece and regardless of its skill level he feels something unclog in his chest. like sediment being scraped off the bottom of a creek and#being washed downstream. a weight that's been slogging through his veins suddenly untangled. physical proof of his efforts that feels great#starry is incapable of NOT giving her favorite blorbos more hobbies. starry is incapable of not giving her favorites artsy hobbies#this is probably NOT a new or original thought whatsoever but im throwing it out there anyways bc it fascinates me. i love transmigration#and albeit i've only read isekai manhwa/manhua there's a common theme of the people there assimilating into their new lives relatively quic#which i know is for ease of transition and getting to the rest of the story. but WHAT IF.#i have still not read svsss yet and idk when i'll be able to BUT have some thoughts anyways
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Genderfluid Abed doodles based on this ask. lmk if my handwriting is too poor to read or anything
#abed nadir#troy barnes#jeff winger#britta perry#abed headcanon#last one vaguely based on my own experience as a genderfluid person
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i don't know what to caption angst posts i feel too silly
+ base colours bc i rly like them
#my art#lego monkie kid#lmk sun wukong#lmk macaque#shadowpeach#in the toxic yaoi way#i wanted to experiment with base colours since i usually stick to colour picking from my own references#and i think it turned out good :3
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