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ok now make bpd jake
okay anon here's the alternate comic or wtv . so obssesive Jake!!
#dirkjake#dirk strider#jake english#toxic yaoi#homestuck#bpd jake#ive been informed this isnt actually bpd tho#which like. okay. its based around my own experience dude so idk what to tell u#but if u dont think its bpd then its not#label it as whatever u want#godlessyaoi
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Do you believe on the new theory that dan now wants to be a trans woman
dude like i did my part in theorising about dan howell's identity years ago i'm over it dbsjchdjf we know he dgaf about pronouns and from everything he's told us it's pretty safe to say bestie isn't binary, but if he wants a specific label then he can share that with us when he feels comfortable, i'm not really interested in debating it
idk i've said it before but as a nonbinary person myself i think it's very freeing to use "contradicting" "gendered terms" for yourself as you wish and preferably without someone immediately labelling you anything specific for it
that's not to say i have any ill will towards anyone who's very passionate about the subject, i totally get it and of course it would be exciting to hear dan share more thoughts on gender, but for me personally i'm not gonna go any deeper on it y'know?
oh one thing though! i do see some people sometimes be weirdly um. binary about it? like i get you mean well but i really don't think being like 'dan wants to wear more skirts so he's a woman' is very productive 😭
#im also just soooo tired of labels in general atp#like who even cares#but yeah if anyone wants to talk at length about this there are plenty of great blogs doing that u can discuss it with them#i'm sitting this one out and cheering him on whatever he decides <3#answered
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yes a sense of unity and collective “You” is good for systems to have but why are some people on this website acting like letting alters have individual sense of selves is going to tank your chances of recovery. denying parts their selfhood would involve not listening to them, accommodating or helping them feel happy (which is really hard to do as part of a system!!! for obvious reasons!!!!!)
forcing them to consider themselves just one person when their lived experiences do not match up with that is literally making things worse. some systems feel like they have been just one person their whole life, some don’t! some systems are very differentiated from each other, some aren’t!!
systems are as uniquely individual as literally every person on earth! everyone on this planet has lived different lives from each other and in turn will experience the same things differently from one another. that is like a very simple thing to grasp. it is very easy to not be ableist.
#bashing my head against a wall#I hate seeing people talk about systems on here and having the worst takes known to man#my block list increased ten fold when I started interacting with sys content#forcing members of a system to label themselves as something is ableist!#not every system is working towards being a singlet. not every system is going to stay separate from each other.#That’s literally fine. why can’t people accept that what they want isn’t universal#you should not be holding up your own experience as the only right way to experience it#yes the fact that people are systems suck because it meant they went through something horrible.#but maybe the reason we survived was because we had our system??? you can heal without pretending you are only one person#you don’t have to pretend to be a singlet. you can’t force yourself to be a singlet. it’s okay to function as a system#god. whatever Man U guys all kinda suck. except the ones who don’t#rambles#sys talk#system#actually dissociative#osddid#dissociative system
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qpr riz ppl are so funny. like riz does not want a relationship. his fear is that his friends will leave him because of partners, and he knows he doesn’t want a relationship like that. what do u think a qpr is btw.
#like whatever u want to explore in fanon is whatever. but like… canonically????????? mr all my friends r gonna pair off & leave & ill never?#like babe. it’s a relationship. it’s a ‘we sat down and defined our relationship & qpr fits us as a term’ kinda thing.#this is a shit explanation bc u can be poly or open w u relationship even in a qpr but like. it’s *exclusive*. *defined*.#it’s *different* than being friends/in a friend group. bc of the exclusivity#it’s like a ‘since we have a label for it it’s different’ kinda thing. like u can have multiple qprs/relationships/be friends/etc#but by having applying a specific label ur changing ur relationship into something different. and usually more exclusive#and that’s like. exactly what riz does not want/is afraid of bc he knows he doesn’t want that#it doesn’t make him less aro & u can do whatever u want in fanon#but like. you need to be able to recognize what is *canon* and what is fun to explore & think abt in fanon#like those ‘but what if qpr fabriz canon!!’ ppl. like girl we do not have evidence that riz wants a relationship like that#and in fact that kinda thing is exactly what he’s afraid of in his friends/afraid of bc he knows he doesn’t want it#the steady combining of fanon and canon is an absolute travesty. fanon is for doing whatever the fuck u want. *canon* is what is canon.#like ohhhh my god. is it canon or is it an idea/concept/hc u like and want to discuss/explore#like it’s not like u have to STICK to canon or anything. do whatever the fuck u find fun! but jfc at least know to urself what is canon/not#fantasy high#riz fantasy high#like tbh. to me it doesn’t matter if someone wants to put him into a qpr or even a romantic relationship in fanon.#it’s being able to recognize when u r just playing in fanon vs what is canon to me
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im feeling a little better today so i scribbled myself if i were in twst
#i forgot to label my loving trustworthy eyes. blinking so cutely at u. do u want to hear me talk At you about the housing market#me with my unstoppable brainrot over diasomnia: so anyways i am sooooooo deeply octavinelle to my core. i hate it here <3#its the Everything abt me. fun fact! i figured out when i was 7 that i could do whatever i wanted if i was willing to accept the price of th#e punishment for an action. it was a fair transaction! and thus started my whole life where i do anything i want without worry! wooooo!!!#thank u octavinelle for embracing my silly life-hack of a transactional mindset!! so fucked up!!#also bought a house at 21 and i know EXACTLY how the slippery slope to being a landlord would work soooo. sighs. i know too much#pls. i want to say id pull a rook hunt and switch dorms but i rly dont know if i would. the outfit is so snazzy. and i wouldnt get into dias#omnia so whatd be the point lmao#okay thats enough rambling lmao#hush catriona#for good measure <3#twisted wonderland
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When you get this, list 5 songs you like to listen to, publish them, and send this ask to the last 10 people in your notifs 💗
Little Flaws - Lady Lamb
Black Out Days - Phantogram
Too Precious - Em Beihold
Go-A shum x Maneskin Zitti e Buoni (mashup) - (artist names are )
The Water is Fine - Chloe Ament
these were off the top of my head study hall songs, so these are really random and i probably missed a lot that i like...still, these are super good :) plus this was a treat to get in my inbox, tysm!
#i have no real taste in music so no need to feel like you need to listen to these#except for little flaws#you have to listen to little flaws idk man always gives me the feels for whatever lovey dovey reason#songs ig? i can't tag i'm better at existing than talking to people and believe me you'll see no difference between me and a train wreck#i label myself as aroace (and believe i'll be so for as long as i live#mostly) but that song aaaaaa#if u r bothering to read these i want to know that u r cool and i baked cookies today and i would give one to you#because you are just that amazing#unless you don't like cookies i made biscuits too a few days ago#and if neither are to your taste/ just no then here's a virtual hug 4 u#and have a great one :)#how did i manage to ramble in tags? dunno but i do it every time i add them so most reblogs are w/o them
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As the resident Jaime expert, do you have thoughts on Jaime explicitly comparing himself to Brandon Stark and saying he was a lot like him (unlike Ned) and later famously saying “There are no men like me”?
Is he just being self-contradictory?
i just think that can be attributed to jaime’s whole outlook and feelings of isolation at that time. ofc there is the lannister exceptionalism deal w lannisters or whatever but as a result of the aerys situation (everything about it: those two years and the aftermath of it as well) jaime feels like the rest of society doesnt understand how things are and how he sees and feels about things and him as a whole. so in addition to the arrogance in “there are no men like me” there is kind of a layer about that bitter feeling of isolation too. and in terms of contradicting that, brandon isnt the only one he compares himself to. brandon aside, which i do think is more about just a wilder personality especially in juxtaposition to ned (and him wanting to get on cat’s nerves lol), jaime contradicting that pretty often as his arc goes on and being able to relate to and connect with and see himself in others in general is a pretty important aspect to developing as a human being and getting out of his stasis. “there are no men like me” just isnt really a fact. u can understand and be understood by others
#ask#tho again with these things feel free to interpret whatever u want#resident jaime expert is a funny label but again i really dont wanna be the ultimate voice on this man lmfaooo ik u r just being playful#‘there are no men like me’ except loras#the smiling knight brandon brienne ilyn unnamed guard 14 and
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#okay so i am going to say this once and we’re all going to be on the same page#i find tommy boring#okay? i find him uncompelling as a character outside of the fact he helped buck realise that he was bi#other people love him for some reason - this is fine and i cannot relate#whatever#BUT my problem is that there seems to be no way to express my -tommy is dull - beliefs around those who love him#without being labelled homophobic#(this does include not caring if he dies - because i dont care what he does truly he’s Such a nothing guy to me. whatever)#and I am not homophobic#and well see it just so happens that there’s a loophole through which tommy hate is. well. not ‘allowed’ but morally justified#This exists because tommy used to be racist#is he still racists now? idk. who cares.it’s a tv show.#but if im not allowed to dislike tommy for being boring - surely im allowed to hate him for being racist right?#Anyways literally i couldnt care less if he is or isnt racist still or about anything he does#I think there are wider implications involved with how this guy who is like if a cardboard brick couldnt act is suddenly compelling people#to go to war for him#I also think anyone who believes his actor’s twitter was hacked is actually stupid but that’s unrelated#U m yeah well i think everyone needs to calm down#yes everyone yes me yes you reading this#And yeah idk. it doesnt matter if tommy is or isnt racist#(well…)#rather it matters that the ‘first stone’ was -you’re homophobic if you dont like tommy’#so the retaliation became ‘actually you’re racist if you do’#and because everyone wants to ascribe a moral value to liking/not liking a stale weetabix of a man#now we’re here#do you understand? do you get what im saying#can anyone hear me?#oh wow#did you guys know there’s a tag limit?#it’s 30
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small brain: ren is the husband and stimpy is the wife
average brain: theyre both husbands
huge brain: they take turns being husband and wife or sometimes theyre both husbands or wives or both individually husband and wife at the same time or simply neither and just are spouses
galaxy brain: gender roles do not apply to them they are beyond any shred of a comprehensible gender identity they just do as they please without any labels they simply just are ren and stimpy
#ren and stimpy#rempy#ren hoek#stimpson j cat#ren#stimpy#personal posts#hope nobody takes offense to this btw im just rambling abt gender stuffs with them being transgender myself n all#my stance on labels just boils down to whatever u feel fits u better go for it. only u get to decide what is right for u.#if u find labels fit u and u wanna have vague ones or maybe more specifc labels or even very hyperspecific ones then do that 👍#or if u find labels simply dont fit u and u dont want to use any at all bc thats what youre most comfortable with then that also is good 👍#<- just explaining myself here bc this is a bit more of a public blog so i wanna make myself more clear than have my words be twisted 👍#anyways um yea. ren and stimpy t4t.#im personally more for them being t4t with more specific labels but them also just having no labels i fuck w/ as well.#might make a post abt that soon
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not a crush not an aesthetic attraction but a secret third thing (i'm gay and his genderfuckery has bewitched me body and soul)
#this post is about#david tennant#but you know. i throw it like a bone do whatever u want with it#sighs in lesbian (but fuck ebvery label when it comes to that man)#marcela talks#personal
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My batfam gender sexuality hcs 🥰🥰🥰🥰:
Bruce: cishet he/him
Dick: cishet he/him
Jason: cishet he/him
Tim: cishet he/him
Steph: butch lesbian to ME! She/her but she’s trying out she/they and doesn’t know how to feel. Might fuck with neos but she’s not ready to take that step yet.
Cass: think early on in accepting that she’s a human being she’d psychoanalyze the fuck outta herself to see where she fits in and be super super super pressed about the entire thing to a detrimental point but as she progresses she’ll be fine. Lesbian, and she’s pretty sure she’s a girl most of the time sure 😄.
Duke: I think he knew he was not straight since he was young (moonlight opened his eyes and broke his heart) but he never really questioned his sexuality at all. The problem is that he doesn’t question it because the idea of gender roles (girls do this. Boys do that.) is so engrained in his mind that it’s not even something he thinks can be changed, if that makes sense? Anyways I don’t think he’s the type to get dysphoria he moreso experiences euphoria when exploring his gender identity. I think he would realize he has different views on his own gender when he sees other people expressing their own differently. Like genuinely he goes to school and sees another boy wearing lipstick and his brain blows up. As of this very moment he’s “exploring” but he’s actually a lil scared to genuinely confront himself about this and uses “there’s bigger problems in the world” to get out of it. End goal is non-binary but for now he’s at the veeeeeeery tail end of questioning.
Damian: I think at the moment Damian’s just not thinking about any of that but it’s in the opposite of duke; he knows he’s probably some kind of queer, both in sexuality and gender, but it’s just. Not top priority for him at the moment. I wanna bring up clothes rq bc, extra hc time, in MY mind Damian does express himself a lot through his clothing and getting to the manor made him a bit shy when it came to skirts and dresses. Seeing the way boys, and especially black and brown boys, who explore their femininity are treated, he just doesn’t mention it at all and the scenario never comes up. He gets more comfortable as time goes on though and later on gets bold enough to wear a dress to an event. He’s stonefaced but slightly regretting it till some younger kid sees him and is awe stricken, like stars in his eyes and asking if he can do that too. Damian feels better about it and resolves to wear whatever he wants more often. I don’t think he ever comes out in big big way (he’d tell the people closest to him but everyone else can just figure it out) but he genuinely doesn’t feel the need to label himself at all.
#the way y’all do Duke and Damián in these hc posts….#Steph I wanted more for you truly but sorry ur unfortunately white#u get more than the boys but today ain’t about you 💔#I WILL say buzzcut steph true#and she’s black in MY mind so in MY mind stud steph true#Cass I have a lot of thoughts about#like for me early on in her lil suicidal era I think she’d find the whole labelling thing complicated and stupid#but surface level deep inside she likes that idea of community but she doesn’t think she deserves it and it burns her#post trying to kill herself with Bruce’s full support#she throws herself into the idea of this community but she kinda like. wants a good grade in being queer as opposed to truly exploring-#-herself. comes to head when she just breaks like crying screaming throwing up and Steph is like ‘why do you even wanna do ts anyways’#and cass doesn’t have an answer#she starts looking inwards and kinda. sets it up as a yes/no question tree for herself and lands with knowing she’s a lesbian but nothing#really concrete about her gender and she’s actually ok with that#imo she ends up with mirror pronouns#as in whatever you call yourself you can call her#I want it to be that earlier she was suffocating herself for others approval but now she’s allowing for vulnerability in a way that serves#her and her alone. this is in the tags and not the post bc y’all are actually pretty ok when it comes to cass in them hcs.#and I wanted the main focus to be on the black and brown boys since y’all always do them dirty 🙃#and just to be mean#Bruce wayne#tim Drake#dick Grayson#Jason Todd#Duke Thomas#damian wayne#cassandra cain#Stephanie brown#btw bringing back my Joey soft adopting damian agenda: damian absolutely made sure Damian knew he could do whatever he wants. Damian’s not-#-used to feeling hesitant about this kinda thing but he’s double embarrassed and joey says he’ll wear the damn thing with him. he does
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#i am reading some stuff in the agatha tags#i know not a great idea#i just thought since I've been enjoying the meta posts atleast some of them I'll just keep a lookout for it#but as usual#the bs comes through#i have not seen one person who is mad coz agathario not been the focus#so either I've blocked all the idiots#or more likely people are preemptively policing others#which i guese is bound to happen but boy does it annoy me#i really don't care about them being endgame or getting happy ending or whatever#i felt the fandom as a whole also understands that and are just enjoying the ride#it's still mcu#we can be cautiously optimistic but especially with a story like agatha's#and her and rio's relationship being actually labelled as romantic antagonists#i fail to see how people even think that it's going to end as them getting some sappy happyily ever after or something like that#seriously do people really think that's in the cards#or it's just some wishful fanon thinking#i just want to enjoy the show as a show with all these interesting women characters#maybe i am alone in it but from what I've seen atleast on tumblr it feels the same for most of us here#i dunno what happens on other social media sites and i also actually don't care#it's always been like that especially wlw queer ships so yeah it kinda irritates me#i think i need to filter better and try focusing on the artsy stuff#anyways i am wondering if they will release teaser for next epi or not#I'll prefer to go without knowing anything tbh it is kind of exciting to experience it fresh without any spoilers#lets see#in the meantime i am rewatching the show and getting evermore obsessed with agatha and to some extent rio ha ha!#i am posting too much u can tell i am very invested now ...anybody want to pull me out? no? okayyy..down the road I go...!#i am so gay dude...fml#tag ramblings#for ts
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Whether or not someone is queer is not your fucking decision nor business. You are not permitted to label a living breathing fucking person queer or not queer just cuz u think they "do queer things". Shut the fuck up you sound fucking stupid. That is none of your goddamn business. It will never be your fucking business. Back the fuck up. Jesus christ dude
#People can and will label theirselves however the fuck they want#because it is THEIR FUCKING RIGHT#IT IS THEIR BODY AND EXPERIENCE#YOU DONT GET TO DECIDE THEY ARE QUEER TRANS WHATEVER FUCKIN LABEL CUZ U THINK THEY FIT IT#skull talk#queerness#is decided by the person living it#lgbtqia+#lgbt+#queer#moo#vent tagging cuz im bein rude#but seriously#why am i seeing a post on my dash of a dickhead saying this bullshit?#no u dont get to decide someones queerness#and STOP TRYING TO SAY WHRTHER OR NOT KURT COBAIN WAS TRANS#THATS NONE OF UR BUSINESS!!!!!!!#LEAVE THE DEAD ALONE!!!!!!!!!
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love me he/him and butch lesbians but prev anon if someone identifies as a man they wouldn't be a lesbian. lesbianism is specifically about non-men loving non-men, but the term Sapphic could apply!
P sure lesboy is a nonbinary term and also used by he/him and butch lesbians. Could be wrong tho
#also. i personally dont rlly care about contradicting labels. or whatever. cuz its none of my business#if someone wants to say theyre a lesbian dude i genuinely dont have the energy to care. you go bro#p sure the label is also used in xenogender circles. so AGAIN. idc lol#xenos and neos? go ham wild dude. live your truth. if u want me to call you xae/daem/flower/it i WILL DO MY BEST.
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if labels are forced to confirm to whatever whims an individual wants, is it a label at all words have meanings you can't just make a word mean what you want it to be ???
#yes this is about the ace post i saw but people are so up in arms i didn't even want to touch it but like omw...if you try to make a term#inclusive for anything doesnt that just make the label nonexistant#like why r people getting mad about calling themselves a term and then not abiding by anything that the term represents#like people can say oh but i am this term but I have exceptions that go directly against what this label represents#i am personally not someone who likes to use labels for identification but like#as someone who leans on the spectrum of autism if someone said theyre autistic like a cutesy term to represent a quirk im not going to#take them seriously#but then if people get mad about it because everyone can call themselves whatever they want???#that just negates the whole purpose of the term in the first place????#and actually diminishes people who are actually categorized in such a way????#its like if you say youre a dog lover but you dont interact with dogs or like anything about dogs but your excuse is I PET DOGS SOMETIMES#bro that doesnt make you a dog LOVER you just pet a dog sometimes its not your favorite animal and thats okay but why are you insisting tha#you are a dog lover when all evidence points to that youre not#what clout do you get saying you're this label you could just pick a different label if u really wanted to
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[Blearily awake from critical fell asleep on couch incident] anyway i think ppl will always partially loose me in anything with regards to self care and amelioration if you do not acknowledge a persons inalienable right to hurt themselves and get worse.
#some shit#sounds suspect i realise. i am fine just had a badddddd day lol. which u can probably. tell. cause i blogged it#hrm.#well anyway not everyone can be reached and not every message is for everyone. but this issue does. stick to me. like a burr.#also in hurt and get worse catagory is the. not do everything good for them they can. you know.#likeeeeee idk i do want us all to survive and live good lives were. idk theres less hurt. me included.#this is more a rectorical/philosophical. smth. then a. strict call to action i guess.#like. not the classical ye olde tumblr its okay to blah blah blah detoriate smthsmth. but. oh man u do gotta look after ur teeth its sooooo#fucking expensive and dentists are mean to poor ppl [mine is anyway]#handwave. THE POINT.#i dream of a rhectorical style that can compell regardless. as a person in what i suspect is a sliding battle with some.#atypical hmm. conditions i gotta. monitor. or whatever. from my own doing.#hhhhh. and im out of floss. i didnt know that. i was at the store today. nary a beloved character printed on any label i saw. at least#and i did look
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