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Admiring big muscular dudes in a very aro-ace-and-also-disabled kind of way. Damn, boy, you look like you can go up the stairs really easily

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I think I saw a post like this forever ago but I don't wanna go thru the effort of finding it so. Reblog and put in the tags a major spoiler for a story you like, but (and this is crucial) keep it incredibly vague and don't say or hint towards what the spoiler is for. I'm gonna go first

"they're siblings"

"he's old"

"he's smart"

"old man in the house"

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Dismantling the relationship hierarchy is not about rearranging it so that sexual and romantic relationships are devalued while QPRs become the new “more than friends.” We need to completely do away with the idea that relationships exist on a fixed hierarchy. Some people will consider friend(s) or a zucchini/QPP the most important part of their life. For some people, their most important relationship will be a sexual relationship (and not necessarily one which includes romance!). And some people will still consider their romantic partner the most important person in their life, and that’s fine too.

Just as it’s harmful to tell an aroace person that romantic and sexual relationships are the most important ones, it’s also harmful to tell an alloaro person that sex is inherently less important than romance or to tell an alloromantic aplatonic person that friendship is inherently more important than romance. There is no way to rank relationships that will not devalue the experiences of at least one group of people, nor is there any reason why we need to rank relationships in the first place.

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Had to ban the phrase “tricky dick” from my classroom during watergate lesson because saying the word dick in front of 30 fifteen year olds is like lighting a bomb and throwing it through the doorway but now they’re just calling him Richard the Treacherous like they’re all medieval peasants. gonna lose it

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the first step to reading and understanding theory is relaxing your gag reflex

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why is this one question for my assignment written like this

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i think what bothers me about a lot of "girl power" narratives is that they function on the implicit idea on the idea that women can become worthy of respect. and i happen to think that really caring about women means believing they already are worthy of respect. that historical seamstresses and soccer moms and forgotten sisters and sweet polite little girls and someone's weird grandma matter just as much as the warriors and politicians, even if they, personally, never accomplish anything "cool."

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you can’t spell “smart” without “shart”.  i mean this not in the literal sense, but in the permissive one

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transfem t4t happens for any number of reasons not the least of which is that it's beautiful and wonderful and connecting, but the reality is that it also happens because quite frankly almost every transfem i know has had a horrific experience of a relationship with a tme transgender person who was viciously abusive and transmisogynist to them and happily and readily wielded transmisogyny as a weapon.

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Help Lina evacuate her family 🚗💨

Hey everyone! Thanks in large part to your donations, Lina (@linoomk) managed to get herself and her family through the past year. She's now trying to gather enough funds to evacuate her family--herself, her husband, their son Saif, and their little daughter Sidra--as originally planned. The total amount she needs is 15,000$--but she's only asked me to try raising 2,000$ for her. I know this is an achievable goal.

Lina expects the crossing to open in early March. We don't know how things might change in the future--the situation is unpredictable. So the sooner people can evacuate, the better.

Please help Lina get her family to safety!

✅ Lina was originally vetted here.

📸 Previous fundraising posts for Lina with photos, details, proof of donations received, etc.

😊 You can also reach out and speak to Lina any time if you have questions! She is very kind and responsive.

Donate here:

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yeah, we're having a natural orchi. no hospitals. no pain medication. the original way. it's a part of nature and i just think it's beautiful. the right way, you know?

she's a bit nervous about it. of course. haha.

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[Id. Alcohol marker drawing of Sakamoto hugging Gintoki very very tightly. end id]

(weakly) Tasumaaaa... I can't breathe...

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later: t-rex is all, “on the plus side i didn’t know i could make THOSE noises come out of THESE vocal cords” and he pronounces even more punctuation, working his way up to the full grawlix set

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Replace “what if I regret this?” with “what if this sets me free?”

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guy who's profiting from it: look, i don't like it either