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Perhaps predicably the radfems found my previous post about the 4B movement... And suggested that us trans people should just shut up and not center ourselves in a matter of life and death for people with a uterus.
Well fuck that. Lots of trans people have a uterus and a majority of those who don't are still impacted by misogyny. Also, don't fucking use the fight for rights for one demographic to silence or harm another minority demographic. That's really shitty behaviour.
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btw your homophobic republican grandma is not a radfem. no, the conservative woman talking about âwomanly brainâ & being explicitly anti-abortion isnât a radfem, either. no⌠the spiritual woman telling young girls to âreturn to their divine feminineâ & selling out cheap dating instructions & âtipsâ & promoting the idea of âfemale-specificâ emotions, thoughts, and feelings, most likely isnât a radfem. your radical christian mom that disowned you for being trans isnât a radfem. please. PLEASE LEARN what radical feminism is. i am BEGGING you.
#these people are insane#like no you cannot use the woman you saw promoting otherwise extremely misogynistic rhetoric & saying mean things about trans people#as a âgotchaâ against radfems#because that is NOT a radfem#conservative women calling themselves gender critical & co-opting our terms is a worthy thing to talk about#but they arenât some âmagical proofâ of all radfems = bad#because they donât know fuckshit about radfeminism#women who use our terms & call themselves feminists only when they get to shit on innocent trans people#are despicable and do not belong in our spaces#they arenât radfems#radical feminism#gender abolition#gender critical#radblr
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Do people think the phrase "not all men ___" is inherently misogynistic regardless of the context?? I just got treated like that for saying "not all trans men identify with masculinity." Hello??? What is going on here????
#people are so blinded by their hatred of men that they say the goofiest things for real#got another complaint that I'm not-all-men'ing today too but it was by a literal self-identified radfem so :/#transandrophobia#intracommunity issues tag#rb
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I love it when women hate men. I love it when women are allowed to vent to each other about how horrible and creepy men are. I love it when women form friendships with and prioritize each other over relationships with men(whether they're attracted to them or not). I love it when women put men dni in their bios and on their nude photos and on posts on their blogs. I love it when women refuse to mollycoddle and accommodate entitled male feelings with "but this doesn't mean I hate all men, I know a few men who are great, I love my father/sons/brothers/uncles/male cousins/guy friends" I love it when women complain about men WITHOUT "not all men" being a disclaimer. I love it when women avoid socializing with/refuse to be around/befriend/get close to men because they know men can't be trusted. I love it when women make "kill all men" jokes. I love it when women offer absolutely no concern or care for men's feelings and if their misandry offends men whatsoever because why should we, men are the oppressor class who have raped and killed and abused us and kept us as subjugated as second-class citizens for millennia, they regularly mistreat us and the women in their own marginalized communities still every single day and make this world so much harder and more awful for us to be in, and if we choose to hate them and not spare them any sympathy then so be it, and I don't just mean "men as a class" either, you can be a woman who doesn't want to have anything to do with any man on an individual basis and completely cuts off men from her personal life too and ykw I will love and fucking support you in that because men deserve absolutely NOTHING from us. If they're so tough and strong then they can handle it just like they can handle being lonely. If you are a woman who hates men, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE A LESBIAN AND/OR A TRANS WOMAN, then just know that I love you. I love you, I support you, and you are safe here.
#was going to make a post about how much i hate that women aren't allowed to hate their oppressors but i decided to spin it into something#positive instead#this is supposed to be the feminist site that makes reddit mgtow piss their baby diapers so let's go back to despising men and not coddling#their feelings and let's dye our hair blue while we're at it#i am so tired of this new wave of guilt-tripping and gaslighting women who hate men and don't trust or want to be around them#i hate how we're made into villainesses or the problematic ones for not valuing them in our lives or for wanting to guard ourselves or be#safe from our oppressors#and i'm tired of people who don't know the first thing about feminism being like 'BUT THAT'S TERF RHETORIC WHAT ABOUT X MINORITY MEN'#guess what women can also be x minority that you're trying to protect the men of and we get to hate men too#trans women are included when i say women btw and trans men are included when i say men#if anyone has the right to hate men more than anybody else it's trans women esp trans lesbians because they put up with so much shit#from men that even cis women do not and they especially know how vile men are behind closed doors#so#terfs fuck off#radfems fuck off#and if anybody tries to make this post more appeasing to men or 'not all men's this post you are getting blocked and hit with a hammer#feminism#misogyny#sexism#patriarchy#tw men#tw rape#tw abuse#misandry#terfs dni#radfems dni#feminists need to go back to being scary and unpalatable for men none of this 'but some of them are good!' bullshit#men are entitled to nothing from us#and if you try to prove me wrong then you are just proving my point if you have nothing good to say then simply keep scrolling#ok? ok.
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"girls support girls-" okay but are you normal about queer women? are you normal about BIWOC? are you normal about disabled women? are you normal about autistic women? are you normal about fat women? alternative women? unattractive women? are you normal about women who choose not to shave their legs and armpits and faces? are you normal about butches and tomboys and masculine women? are you normal about trans women? are you normal about trans men? are you normal about nonbinary folk and people who lie outside the gender binary or renounce gender all together? are you normal about women who absolutely despise and detest the latest trends? are you normal about weird women who unsettle you with their interests? are you normal about women who don't wear makeup, who will never wear makeup, who openly dislike makeup and the makeup industry?
#ive seen a LOT of (usually white cis het) women and girls on instagram say shit like girls support girls and then turn around and shit on#women who dont follow trends#i really hate it when a woman posts about how they dislike [insert trendy thing here] and all of a sudden shes a pick me who doesnt like#other girls#ESPECIALLY when it comes to things like makeip#*makeup#its really pissing me off#this and the rise of the 'im just a girl' 'girl math' 'girl dinner' 'girlhood is-'#SHUT UP!!!!#WOMEN HAVE MANY DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES!!!#if i have to see one more 'normalize femininity' post again im going to LOSE IT#alas i need instagram because i contact people from my school on there#me posts#edit: something else ive seen is just how prevalent white feminism has become#white feminism and blatent radfem rhetoric has just started being spread EVERYWHERE#like holy shit we are regressing
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I kinda wish all women stop saying "bitch" a lot đ˘
#its a degrading word and i could also say the same thing with other misogyny terms#misogyny#radfem#radblr#radical feminism
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If you feel threatened or upset or angered by a complete stranger having a positive relationship with men or masculinity, remember: that's a you problem.
#idk why im making another post about this.#i just keep remembering how fuckin often i see edgelord radfems commenting with their disgust on random mlm or transmasc positivity posts#like this isnt about you lmao#spitblaze says things
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radfem help !!
2 of my little cousins (14yrs and 15yrs) are both girls dating boys right now, and together we are coming up with a "dealbreaker list" of things they will never put up with from their bfs! and also we are including positives, like so they aren't just looking for the absence of bad things, but actual positive things
what do yall think are the most important things to add? (i put extra info in tags)
Thank you so much!!!
#I dont want it just to be âhe doesn't hit meâ as that's super important but they could end up with awful boys who don't hit them and still#mistreat them. there are certain vulnerabilities that make me worry the most for them. Ive been writing under the deal breakers like exampl#of how it would manifest like things they might say or how they might behave so that way in the moment there will hopefully not be as much#time spent questioning if it counts as a deal breaker. we want to do positives too so like I said in the post it's not just like "he doesn'#put me downâ but also âhe roots for me and encourages me and verbalizes itâ.#they are 14/15 so I'm less focused on stuff related to like splitting domestic labor for example but I think a good translation could#be like âhe spends as much time as I do planning datesâ and âit's clear to me that he put a lot of thought into my birthday giftâ or the li#anyway I know they are safer without dating boys (and for the record they both know I do not date men (and only one knows I am SSA) but#they ARE dating and it's much more practical and realistic to reduce harm here since they are doing it!#also this is obviously not the extent of my effort in making sure they are safe and well and not reliant on boys/men;#this list is just one small part!!!#thanks so so much! and if you don't know please share bc maybe someone else has advice! ty!!!#radfem#radical feminist safe#radblr#sex based oppression#mvawg#question tag
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People never go on these kind of hate campaigns for men lbh
#you type in hated woman Hollywood you get things like these#you typed in hated man Hollywood thereâs a bunch of video essays on how Hollywood allegedly hates men#despite most of the hatred clearly aimed towards women#(when they say Hollywood hates men they talk about a couple of blockbusters that donât cater to the male gaze 100%)#which is hatred ofc#radfem safe#misogyny#rachel zegler#amber heard#blake lively
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Men will never understand how heartbreaking it is to realize as women that we love men who can never really love us, because they are raised in a culture that makes them unable to. That culture have made them internalize such an entitlement that it doesnât even cross their minds that they donât empathize with women. They feel entitled to everything, even to those womenâs love whose mere well-being, safety, and basic rights they donât even care about. And it is seen as normal that we give our bodies and souls to these men. And it is not normal: it is violent.
#i'm not saying anything new just so you know#we fall in love with our oppressors that's a basic thing in the female heterosexual experience#feminists have known this for decades and hundreds of years and men have hidden feminist theory for a reason#they don't want us to realize how we are being used while we live in a patriarchy#radical feminism#feminism#radfem#rad fem#feminist quotes#dark academia#level up journey#high value woman#high value dating#high value women#high value men#female hypergamy#hypergamy dating#political lesbian#lesbofeminisn#leia katraud#lĂŠia katrĂ ud
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Well. At least the radfems are showing their colors very clearly. I'm sure they hate that I'm deleting their comments, and will claim that I'm silencing them. But there has really been very little of substance. Just a lot of very crude language and insults. "Shut tf up you kweer mofo." and the like...
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interesting how little it takes to be dogpiled by hetfems
#a bunch of white OSA women twisting my words and lashing out at me for saying theyre demonising other women for no reason#worst thing i said is theyre not radfemsâŚ.
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Look you can't bridge the gap between Radfems and trans people because you let so many radfems be aggressively and violently transphobic. By siding with them you're siding with people who want me dead or as good as dead. They aren't good people. They're violent aggressive and bigoted.
i am sneaking into the territory and reforming it from the inside <3
TIRF SUPREMACY!!! NUANCEFEMS WILL CHANGE DA WORLD!!!!!!!!
#asks#listen man it is better to go in it and improve it than let it fester on its own without nuanced voices in it! it is not irredeemable!!!#radical feminism can do amazing things for all female/afab folks and all people directly experiencing misogyny irl <33#and gnc people in general too!#yes conservative women sneak in and say really unhinged stuff and yeah some bigots r floating around who we NEED to call tf out#but holy shit mainstream tra/qweer spaces have RAMPANT homophobia (esp lesbophobia) & misogyny like it's INSANE#the abuse that goes on in there is fucking horrifying#so yeah both sides have huge issues and i'm so sorry to anyone who's been harmed by toxic radfems. but we shall improve things!#i refuse to give up! i'm making a crazy amt of progress already#nuancefem#tirf
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hi so just a bit of clarification
I noticed recently a radfem account liked one of my posts (i love radical females), and that it was also a terf account. Iâm not here to police who likes my posts, because even if we disagree on some issues we find the same meaning and agreement in a specific post. Eg: I believe in climate change, you donât, but weâre both here to plant a tree so who cares kind of thing, but I do want to make it ABSOLUTELY CLEAR right now that my account and my blog is and will continue to be, without a shadow of compromise, supportive of the rights of transgender women and men. I do not like to put my beliefs or opinions here in a non satirical context, but I just want to make it absolutely crystal clear right now that anyone who is not harming or restricting the rights of others (and that means trans folks) is 100% welcome here.
#transgender#trans#I thought radfem meant radical female#But these chicks are saying some bogus things about other babes#If you guys have seen that meme#trans rights#lgbt rights#lgbtq#all women are beautiful#equal rights#womens rights#Cearta na mbean#politics#feminism
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Depressing seeing blogs who claim to be 'all about loving trans people!' and 'omg totally t4t' etc reblogging and making memes claiming yet again that believing that the intersectionality of being a man and trans (or masc and trans) causes unique forms of bigotry to emerge targeted at both those things - is inherently transmisogynistic and ofc indicates that the person loves to harass and bully trans women and blame them for everything.
Instead of, you know, it being coincidental that some of the people who talk about their own oppression with their own word which just happens to be controversial (because some trans feminine and even trans masculine people have a bee in their bonnets due to critically misunderstanding the way the world works) happen to be shitty people.
Maybe it shouldn't be if everyone grew up a bit and learnt that the world is more complex than they think and nothing is black and white.
(also tagging it as transandrophobia to make sure we see how much you hate us is cruel and unusual btw)
#do you really think bigotry only targets trans women or have you just been told to believe that#have you wrapped yourself up in the cis radfems 'we are the most oppressed therefore nothing bad happens to you ever' blanket by mistake?#who are you helping by generalising a whole group of trans people?#are you really trans positive/supportive or only so if they fit your group?#are you trying to justify your own suffering by making it seem to have a point and therefore exclusive to you?#are you doing the cis transphobes work for them?#do you feel isolated and weary of those outside of your niche group and over trusting of those within it?#do you say things jkr would agree with?#congratulations any kind of trans person reading this - you have been radicalised!#time to actually listen to each other - end the oppression olympics and actually start to uplift each other!#trans masc people don't owe you silent suffering just because you can't see past your own victimhood
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Ok let me be serious for a moment. If you have this carrd as your "basic dni criteria" or support it I do not want you on my blog. Also please remember to read it thoroughly because I constantly find that the people who use it are in violation of it.
#leo.says#obviously this isn't talking about the racism/right wing/radfem bit if you are those then get fucked#I'm talking about the toothpaste flag and all the âpro ficâ âcom shipâ things (and the self diagnosis one)#specifically the toothpaste flag actually. if you don't like how it looks that's whatever#but if you don't like it/think it's âchildishâ/think it shouldn't be used? kindly leave and block me#let me make it very clear that i am a man who LOVES men and don't tolerate any jokes about how we're all bad/aggressive/violent/fetishizers#this blog and my writing come from a place of love and desire for men and boys. the overly feminine trans men that you think are cringe#the big buff hairy burly men that you think are scary#all of them.#if you say âall men suckâ âmen ain't shitâ and other things like that even in a joking manner i am very wary of you#i am sick and tired of seeing people who say they're accepting hate/dismiss/belittle mem#sorry. silly hours will resume shortly
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