#things radfems say

[theenbyroiderer]

Perhaps predicably the radfems found my previous post about the 4B movement... And suggested that us trans people should just shut up and not center ourselves in a matter of life and death for people with a uterus.

Well fuck that. Lots of trans people have a uterus and a majority of those who don't are still impacted by misogyny. Also, don't fucking use the fight for rights for one demographic to silence or harm another minority demographic. That's really shitty behaviour.

[dykeulous]

btw your homophobic republican grandma is not a radfem. no, the conservative woman talking about “womanly brain” & being explicitly anti-abortion isn’t a radfem, either. no… the spiritual woman telling young girls to “return to their divine feminine” & selling out cheap dating instructions & “tips” & promoting the idea of “female-specific” emotions, thoughts, and feelings, most likely isn’t a radfem. your radical christian mom that disowned you for being trans isn’t a radfem. please. PLEASE LEARN what radical feminism is. i am BEGGING you.

[trans-androgyne]

Do people think the phrase "not all men ___" is inherently misogynistic regardless of the context?? I just got treated like that for saying "not all trans men identify with masculinity." Hello??? What is going on here????

[aishabellasbigblogofeverything]

I love it when women hate men. I love it when women are allowed to vent to each other about how horrible and creepy men are. I love it when women form friendships with and prioritize each other over relationships with men(whether they're attracted to them or not). I love it when women put men dni in their bios and on their nude photos and on posts on their blogs. I love it when women refuse to mollycoddle and accommodate entitled male feelings with "but this doesn't mean I hate all men, I know a few men who are great, I love my father/sons/brothers/uncles/male cousins/guy friends" I love it when women complain about men WITHOUT "not all men" being a disclaimer. I love it when women avoid socializing with/refuse to be around/befriend/get close to men because they know men can't be trusted. I love it when women make "kill all men" jokes. I love it when women offer absolutely no concern or care for men's feelings and if their misandry offends men whatsoever because why should we, men are the oppressor class who have raped and killed and abused us and kept us as subjugated as second-class citizens for millennia, they regularly mistreat us and the women in their own marginalized communities still every single day and make this world so much harder and more awful for us to be in, and if we choose to hate them and not spare them any sympathy then so be it, and I don't just mean "men as a class" either, you can be a woman who doesn't want to have anything to do with any man on an individual basis and completely cuts off men from her personal life too and ykw I will love and fucking support you in that because men deserve absolutely NOTHING from us. If they're so tough and strong then they can handle it just like they can handle being lonely. If you are a woman who hates men, ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE A LESBIAN AND/OR A TRANS WOMAN, then just know that I love you. I love you, I support you, and you are safe here.

[weallpartyatybcpatricksfuneral]

"girls support girls-" okay but are you normal about queer women? are you normal about BIWOC? are you normal about disabled women? are you normal about autistic women? are you normal about fat women? alternative women? unattractive women? are you normal about women who choose not to shave their legs and armpits and faces? are you normal about butches and tomboys and masculine women? are you normal about trans women? are you normal about trans men? are you normal about nonbinary folk and people who lie outside the gender binary or renounce gender all together? are you normal about women who absolutely despise and detest the latest trends? are you normal about weird women who unsettle you with their interests? are you normal about women who don't wear makeup, who will never wear makeup, who openly dislike makeup and the makeup industry?

[grrrlwiththemostcake]

I kinda wish all women stop saying "bitch" a lot 😢

[spitblaze]

If you feel threatened or upset or angered by a complete stranger having a positive relationship with men or masculinity, remember: that's a you problem.

[uter-us]

radfem help !!

2 of my little cousins (14yrs and 15yrs) are both girls dating boys right now, and together we are coming up with a "dealbreaker list" of things they will never put up with from their bfs! and also we are including positives, like so they aren't just looking for the absence of bad things, but actual positive things

what do yall think are the most important things to add? (i put extra info in tags)

Thank you so much!!!

[the-land-of-women]

People never go on these kind of hate campaigns for men lbh

[subcoolture]

Men will never understand how heartbreaking it is to realize as women that we love men who can never really love us, because they are raised in a culture that makes them unable to. That culture have made them internalize such an entitlement that it doesn’t even cross their minds that they don’t empathize with women. They feel entitled to everything, even to those women’s love whose mere well-being, safety, and basic rights they don’t even care about. And it is seen as normal that we give our bodies and souls to these men. And it is not normal: it is violent.

[theenbyroiderer]

Well. At least the radfems are showing their colors very clearly. I'm sure they hate that I'm deleting their comments, and will claim that I'm silencing them. But there has really been very little of substance. Just a lot of very crude language and insults. "Shut tf up you kweer mofo." and the like...

[mithliya]

interesting how little it takes to be dogpiled by hetfems

[tirfpikachu]

Look you can't bridge the gap between Radfems and trans people because you let so many radfems be aggressively and violently transphobic. By siding with them you're siding with people who want me dead or as good as dead. They aren't good people. They're violent aggressive and bigoted.

i am sneaking into the territory and reforming it from the inside <3

TIRF SUPREMACY!!! NUANCEFEMS WILL CHANGE DA WORLD!!!!!!!!

[just-ray]

hi so just a bit of clarification

I noticed recently a radfem account liked one of my posts (i love radical females), and that it was also a terf account. I’m not here to police who likes my posts, because even if we disagree on some issues we find the same meaning and agreement in a specific post. Eg: I believe in climate change, you don’t, but we’re both here to plant a tree so who cares kind of thing, but I do want to make it ABSOLUTELY CLEAR right now that my account and my blog is and will continue to be, without a shadow of compromise, supportive of the rights of transgender women and men. I do not like to put my beliefs or opinions here in a non satirical context, but I just want to make it absolutely crystal clear right now that anyone who is not harming or restricting the rights of others (and that means trans folks) is 100% welcome here.

[sorin-sunchild]

Depressing seeing blogs who claim to be 'all about loving trans people!' and 'omg totally t4t' etc reblogging and making memes claiming yet again that believing that the intersectionality of being a man and trans (or masc and trans) causes unique forms of bigotry to emerge targeted at both those things - is inherently transmisogynistic and ofc indicates that the person loves to harass and bully trans women and blame them for everything.

Instead of, you know, it being coincidental that some of the people who talk about their own oppression with their own word which just happens to be controversial (because some trans feminine and even trans masculine people have a bee in their bonnets due to critically misunderstanding the way the world works) happen to be shitty people.

Maybe it shouldn't be if everyone grew up a bit and learnt that the world is more complex than they think and nothing is black and white.

(also tagging it as transandrophobia to make sure we see how much you hate us is cruel and unusual btw)

[theenbyroiderer]

Repost because someone just gave me the old spiel that by being nonbinary I'm "betraying my sex and the entire women's rights movement"... Yeah no thanks.