#theres so so so so so so so many other examples

[thescreamcorner]

Some various ramblings around CDDs and the internet to welcome in the new year.

> you will not split an alter just because you like a character or fixated on a show/game/etc. Either you've gone through some kind of stress/trauma during the time of the split (and may not be aware of it given, yknow, its a DISSOCIATIVE disorder), or you're bullshiting to excuse roleplaying in regular places.

> while there can always be exceptions (given this aspect of the disorder isnt a focus for study), I personally feel it's much less likely for a "fictive's source" to be a fronting trigger than people act like online. Its also more likely to be an uncomfortable and upsetting experience than people portray it. See example of: "fictional alter split because an abuser heavily used the media in question within that time/abuse, therefore alter is triggered out by exposure to it".

> I don't give that much of a shit about if "source separating" is or isn't needed to heal, but some of yall are way too content with treating alters like characters and not parts/alternate states when online. Putting them on display and making the "DID is so funny bc (insert fictive doing normal behavior)" jokes will never not piss me off a little bit as a result.

> on the subject of that joke mentioned above its just objectively not funny, and doesnt even work as a joke without the prerequisite of painting the alter like a Character In Your Head. Alters that arent introjects of (popular) media doing normal ass behavior isn't remotely funny, so what about it being an introject is supposedly a joke?

> some of yall take "disabled people dont owe you misery" way too far in the other direction. Believe it or not based on the literal criteria, if you aren't in some fashion debilitated by the experiences around having a system, then you don't have a CDD and dont belong in those spaces. And also, disabled people dont fucking owe the internet being all sunshine and rainbows and radically inclusive either. Disabled people aren't all "suffering internalized ableism" for recognizing and complaining about the debilitating and distressing aspects of their fucking disorder.

> DID is in fact rare, and no amount of comparisons and twisting the statistics will change that. 1% of the general population may be a lot of people, but it's still a very small cluster compared to how many people are on the planet.

> The literal worst comparison I've ever seen is comparing it to being ginger and saying "you wouldnt walk up to someone with red hair and say its fake, so why do that to people with DID?" Its almost like someone dyeing their hair red doesn't affect anyone, but also doesn't make them a ginger. Being ginger isn't a disorder. There isn't some grand community for natural gingers that people with dyed hair are insisting they be included in. Theres not strict conditions in which someone stops being considered a ginger if their hair is naturally red. There's a laundry list of reasons why this is a dumb as shit comparison.

> overt DID is not nearly as common as covert DID, and neither involves how you choose to act online. Overt DID doesn't mean everyone could clock it or you have dramatic visible switches ("*no one in the body*" tiktoker im looking at you), it means that an outside party would have an easier time catching on to the fact that you are mentally ill. Covert presentations are difficult to pinpoint because even the person experiencing it doesn't immediately catch on that something is wrong.

> personal anecdotes on how a disorder works stop having credence the second they go against the diagnostic criteria, with the only real exceptions being when comorbid disorders are the cause for that discrepancy. (Anecdotes on how it may *feel* is a different story, but should always be taken with a grain of salt when coming from randos online).

> if you can't handle the idea that someone online for any reason might not believe you about your disorders, then dont make a public fucking social media profile about it. Ive said it before and I'll say it again - fakeclaiming from strangers is not the absolute crisis I see it getting treated as and some of you should be showing your blogs to a therapist and getting legitimate help instead

[a-blip-of-billdip]

we need more ford haters in this fandom. this dude is a fucking loser. it has nothing to do with him being a nerd, and everything to do with him being a borderline narcissist who has ruined the lives of every single person he's come in contact with

[jingerpi]

meaningful work: transgender experience in the sex trade

[gejnialnie]

hi I don't think this duo gets enough love, so here are my fave screenshots of Raph and Leo mirroring each other! :D

+bonus:

look at this frame! don't their poses look similar, even though they're in totally different places?? well, there's a simple reason for it! we can see raph in the driver seat, his left hand on the wheel, while the other one's searching for someting, it's symbolising his active role as leader, while leo stands alongside him, his left hand on a handhold while he gestures with the other, showing him being less active and more of a passive presence, but he's ready on his feet, it's symbolising his potential as raph's co-leader but also him not yet being ready, still gripping the safety rails instead of the driving wheel-

(nah i'm kidding- like, was it just artists drawing similar poses in one scene? oh yeah most definitively! will that stop me from over-analysing? nope! :D this basically wrote itself!)

[mbat]

WHY DO SO MANY OF THE SHOWS THAT GET TO HAVE ENDINGS AND NOT GET CANCELLED FUCK UP THE ENDINGS BY BEING SO DEEPLY OUT OF CHARACTER AND HAVING REALLY BAD MESSAGES

YOURE GETTING WHAT SO MANY OTHER SHOWS DONT EVEN GET TO DREAM OF. WHY ARE YOU FUCKING IT UP!!!!!! HOW ARE YOU FUCKING IT UP!!!!!!!!!!

[binvibin]

we need more about petunia and lily because they are just like tahani and kamilah al-jamil

[kelocitta]

Tangentially related to some of the discussion i posted earlier but quiet literally the first RW Art Month i participated I did it completely on whim like, one day before it started. And I mostly did it because I hadn't drawn a ton of rain world and wanted to draw more. Fandom presence was a lot smaller than and I was one of a handful of artists who did the entire thing. Fast forward and I still do Art Month and I've gotten to work with VC directly. But it was quite literally something I decided to do completely on whim that set the ball rolling, and for something a lil more niche and certainly with a lot more dev/fandom art involvement than most. It's really random how and why you might get noticed more than usual, especially with the "toss it into the search and hope it pays out' mechanism of Socmed

[colorful-horses]

My review of Miraculous Ladybug S5 so far is that it has a lot of scenes that I like in theory, but in action just end up being very silly and way over dramatic

[sonknuxadow]

remembering when the covers for the issue where amy and surge first interacted were coming out and people were saying they wanted surge to fall in love with amy at first sight and immediately decide to change so she can be with her . as in actually wanting that to happen in the comic not just as a fanfic thing . and sorry not to be a hater but i can't be the only one who thinks that surge suddenly becoming good because romance kind of would of sucked right .... like idk that just doesnt sound like a very good direction to take the story . sorry .

[puppppppppy]

footnotes arent enough I need you to talk to me like im fucking Amelia Bedelia

[luna-loveboop]

I am resisting. SO HARD. The urge to stay up until one am and write fifteen different Lu analysis posts because I NEED SLEEP but there's SO MUCH and SO MANY DETAILS and I need to rant about these things but sleep??!!!!!!!!!

[themyscirah]

Reading shit comics kind of sucks but at least I get the satisfaction of proving my own point w this

[youredreamingofroo]

people on simblr who make fullblown story posts, like dejasenti, stellarfalls, moonsims4, tricoufamily, rebouks, cinamun, and so many others are genuinely like my modern-day television (ik we still have tvs, i js dont watch tv much anymore LMAO), albeit they're not motion pictures, its just... pictures (except for gifs), they're always so well-done that they FEEL like im watching a show, like yes I will be watching (reading) this proactively, I will be that one person who likes your post five seconds after you post it (even tho im usually never that early LMAOO) and my entire day will not continue until I finish reading this post

[lovelyrotter]

yknow i love transmasc/tboy dirk always and forever but the way some ppl treat transmascness vs transfemmeness in HS's narrative........kinda sucks. like the whole thing about how being transfeminine is a literal transient experience and lets the character in question (any character) truly escape the oppression of HS's narrative-as-a-character which is patriarchal and toxic (lord english, hussie-the-character to an extent. i guess. idk ive seen a lotta ppl lump SI-hussie in w/ this), which is great and does hold weight as an analytical lens esp with how hussie irl is nonbinary. but where does this leave transmasc characters. why are we treating (headcanoned) transfemme HS characters like this and then tbh gleefully dooming (headcanoned) transmasc characters to eternal narrative suffering brought by LE and then mocking them for being ''gross tboys'' full of ''icky testorerone'' so its their fault theyre in this perpetual torment really? because they ''''chose to be a man''''? dunno man its starting to feel bad. especially since some bnf's who are really into this fan theory do actually kinda treat the general idea of transmasculinity like somthing to hold with tongs at arms length away from them. as if its alien or infectous or something and then get really mad when equally dysphoric transmascs do the same with feminity. why are we dooming dirk strider to eternal toxic-masculine suffering and what does that say about how we treat real life transmasc folks both in and outside of the fandom

[sparring-spirals]

uhoh empire sib meta time.

Courtesy of that last rb by @iinfernal thinking very hard (very affectionately) about love in the form of, we are going to work to keep each other on track. Especially with Caleb and Beau. Because like. its not just about newfound acceptance, people who will give you the benefit of the doubt and help you improve, people who see your worst and love you anyway, people who will forgive you.

Like its about that! But its also about- i trust you to drag me back if i stray. i trust you to call me out, to push back. i am putting my back to you- you will protect it, and you will also pull me back if i wander.

The first big backstory reveal between Beau and Caleb was an exchange, not a kindness. it was, tell me why you are afraid of fire, and ill get you into the library. Caleb laid out some of the corners of his guilty conscience, to Nott, with all of her faith in him, (he is my boy), to Beau, with her skepticism and brusque curiosity, and it was not meant as a soft gesture. It was not a call for forgiveness, or absolution- it was an item for barter, a warning, an admission of guilt.

and Beau- still unsure, still rough around the edges and rude and defensive and angry, shell-shocked and out of her depth did not provide forgiveness, or kindness. She said something along the lines of- good god, you know thats fucked up, right? i didnt ask for this, what the fuck.

She said something like: you know what you need to do now, then, right? prevent this guy from hurting more people. This is what you've gotta do now, I think- this is what we'll do-

And Caleb gets into the library, and casts haste on Beau in a bar fight, and there is something to be said about love shaped like a willingness to disagree, to push back, to say things wrong but try to say it anyway.

Caleb, and Beau, arguing. Beau is suspicious and Caleb is ready to run, and "the problem with friends is you have to care about them". Running into old injuries and boundaries, working to learn them, to fight to communicate. Apologies that are awkward but sincere. Kindness that is misshappen but intentional.

Caleb and Beau, butting heads, poking fun, trusting the other person to be suspicious of them, when it really counts.

"Can we keep each other straight?"

Some fifty episodes apart: have faith in us, just a little bit? dont run.

follow your own advice. don't go.

Caleb, vision and hearing gone and flung out ahead, placing a hand on Beau's shoulder. Lead me well, lead me straight, bring me back if I stray. Caleb and Beau, going in circles about what to do as the world ends, ambition and magic and time and guilt, and entities at war. Worried about evil, about going wrong, needing the clear vision of someone who loves you and will not eternally forgive you.

"I'm worried I am exactly what he said I was."

"Not yet."

God just. Love as keeping each other on track. Beau and Caleb, as the only ones to get the eyes, afflicted by searching too hard for knowledge. what a horror, to have you and your tether tossed into an unknown spiral. what a comfort- if it was any of them, at least it was both. The Mighty Nein, making contingency plans, Yasha sticking close to caleb and cooing over his animal forms and ready, ready, for the worst. What a nightmare. Thank god. "Im glad it was us."

"You drove me insane."

"I hated you. You sucked."

What love. What immense care. Years on in, and it all still comes back to:

"You got my back?"

"What's the play, Beauregard?"

[hiveswap]

If i remember correctly the nov16th streams ended before/around midnight in my timezone, but i stayed up late into the night. I remember how everyone was buzzing with excitement for HOURS. (there has truly never been anything like that era to me ever since, i can't imagine i'll ever feel like that again) When i woke up in the morning i was still in shock, first thing i did was sit down and crochet a bee i have still not finished to this day