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i just remembered how messed up the ovid telling of hades and persephone is . god
#theres no consent#persephones last words before being dragged into the earth are calling for her mother#iirc aphrodite was mad that persephone wanted to stay a virgin and she didnt want the ternal virgin list to expand#so she deliberately made hades smitten to which he fully kidnapped her#when i was younger i read about gaea not liking demeter? and working with hades to lure persephone down#and persephone was starving down in the underworld she was despairing until she heard of her mother again#theres the disney themed version of controlling parents and happy peaceful willful love#but theres also the horrifying picture of petty jealousy tearing a child from their parent and hurting that innocent child#i feel like since hades usually takes the backseat they arent talked of so often and its easier to draw an appealing interpretation#but oh man its screwed up#it really does run in the family#what if she really did just wanna hang out with her mom n her friends and pick flowers what then#and now shes running a country called dead people ville#auugu#soup talk
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i think that one of the most obvious things wrong with me is that every time i get a visible injury i get the urge to post it online for people to look at. like a selfie.
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tfw you, as a mind reader, have to team up with a man who thinks too much
Slight spoilers in tags
#wednesday spoilers#marvel spoilers#your honor they're my emotional support dysfunctional couple#as everyone should know#i love tony stark#hes baby girl (derogatory)#and I also love emma#I feel like they're great foils to each other but I dont want to talk about that#theres so much controversy around their wedding#however#people do not realize how funny their friendship could be#tony “i think a mile a minute” stark#Emma “Worst time to be a telepath” Frost#you could not tell me the shenanigans that would happen if the situation was not so dire.#if it was not life or death#emma would be flooded with Tonys nonsensical ideas against her will#she is being held hostage send help#yes i know emma wont read his mind without consent but also mindreading would be smart now#especially since they're kind of alone in this#I have so many thoughts on them#AND THEY SAID MRS. AND MR. EMMA FROST#Literally called Tony malewife#Also Feilong is terrifying as an Iron Man villain#The Invincible Iron Man (2023)#I know this isnt how Tony looked in the comic but this is how I draw my tony#tony stark#marvel 616#diddlydoo#emma frost#irondiamond
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little notes fr my Manic design + a Thalia deisgn fr the character Manic mentions in this one post since ppl were asking about her heehee
#sth#sonic underground au#manic the hedgehog#sonic oc#thalia the mouse#mydoodles#not necessarily one of Manic's partners(tm) they're just doin whatever#I like to think relationships and definitions are open fluid and just not AS important in their circles#but obv consent and knowing where you are with a person is important so he did have to say and ask if she felt like it too#theres just way less pressure around the whole dating thing compared to how Sonia grew up yk#i dunno I'm talking out my ass HKGFH#anyway enjoy
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random omegaverse thought:
There must be people who experience specific instinct things with indifference or boredom.
Procreative cycle coming up? "Crap, I've got plans this weekend...stupid skip weeks."
Caught an intriguing scent while walking? "But I need to get to work! Shut up brain."
Had a snap response to a distressed sound? "Who was it?! ...right, it's my day off, I can go back to sleep."
Somebody growled at them? "Kid, I'm not a rival, that's my sibling."
Super cozy cuddle session happening nearby? "I'm gonna pass tonight guys, no social battery left, maybe next time."
Group of friends heading out to flirt and check out other singles? "I'm coming with you but only to make sure you all get home safe."
Setting where fated mates or soul bonds or permanent marks are a thing? "Meh. I don't really want one or care if I ever get one."
People in the actual omegaverse would get as bored of their stuff, as we do of ours, you know? It could be interesting to see that kind of vibe in fics. Biological demands faced with all the excitement of paying bills or doing laundry or tying your shoes.
Even if that kind of energy might not drive a plot, it could be interesting to have as a contrast to the people who do have big feelings about them - good or bad.
There's the friends who can't wait til they have a pack of their own, and the one friend who isn't against it but couldn't care less. There's the group in the office who are all about scent compatibility tests and figuring out one's best match and what sprays most highlight it, and the coworker who has no intentions on putting that much effort in. There are parents who hover and protect their offspring by scenting them multiple times a day, and others who don't see what the fuss is as long as it's done in the morning.
...also: packs with introverts who show care by giving each other space. So often, closeness is depicted through physical touch and tactile affection, but comfortable silence is meaningful too. Knowing people are near, but not having to interact until you're ready. Sitting in the same room doing different things, knowing that all it takes is a "hey, look at this" to share what you're up to. People understanding and accepting each other's differing or fluctuating needs for how and when to recharge. Seeing somebody reaching out or sharing space, beyond what's their norm, as a signal of the fact that they care.
#omegaverse worldbuilding#a/b/o worldbuilding#a/b/o dynamics#kinda#not gonna tag sfw though it mostly is#heat/rut mention#twovvie chatters#hi its me im introverts#a version of me in omegaverse would love to live in a pack house#as long as i could have a space to myself#people nearby? good! people around all the time? uhhhh#even my family knows that after so many hours of fun family party#i'm gonna disappear to whatever room has the fewest people in it#or find a random corner and start reading#“oh! i didnt know you were here” yes that was the plan#also i just find the idea of someone#who couldnt care less about pairing up#to be funniest in a setting where that's a big deal#“too bad you havent found a mate yet” “no i already know who it is”#“congrats! when do we meet them?” “oh i didnt mean that i'm going to date them. i just know who it is.”#“but i thought you were single?” “yup.” “don't you want a mate?” “nah too annoying.”#cycle day? nice i get a free day off work#cycle day? ugh not this again#the duality of man (a/b/o edition)#granted i hc heats/ruts as heightened libido and greater fertility#because i dislike elements of heats/ruts that (imo) mess with people's ability to freely consent#if the only non-sexual options are pain or solitude and the species needs compaionship as much or more as regular humans#then not being able to or being unwilling to is like a punishment for those people#sure stress or other needs can short circuit it (irl) but theres plenty of reasons to not be interested that arent “you have a problem”#surely i'm not the only person who reacts to various body requests with “later i'm busy” right?
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Everyone talks about how shitty it was that Michael and Adam were cut short in s15 and how they wanted to see them go on cute dates and move in together and like. Sure. But I wish they'd been expanded in a different way. Imagine Adam being around for Michael's "betrayal" of Sam and Dean. Or maybe the angels welcome Michael out of the Cage and presenting him with the throne and Michael just...not knowing what to do. Or maybe God commands Michael to kill Jack and Michael needs to seriously grapple with potentially making the same mistake twice. And maybe all this is happening while Gabriel or Raphael is alive which adds extra archangel family drama to the pot.
All these hypotheticals just to say that I would've loved to see Michael be a part of a genuine conflict in s15 especially with Adam. They had each other for 1000+ years but now things have changed, and in the grand scheme of the Universe, what is 1000 years anyway? Maybe this was God's plan all along. Okay, so maybe all humans aren't all literally maggots, but is the fucking archangel Michael going to throw away everything he lived for for the angels' Plan B Adam Milligan?
So imagine Michael actually going back to and listening to God or Heaven and Adam being so offended not on the Winchesters' behalf, but just on principle after everything God's done. Adam gives him an ultimatum and tells him he needs to wise up or get out of his body, and Michael goes...you know what? No. I'm an archangel and you're my vessel. Why would you get a say here? So maybe Michael takes Adam for a ride, stuffs him to the back of his consciousness and gets on with his business like the Cage never happened.
Eventually Michael does leave Adam, either by halfway coming to his senses or getting kicked out by force and obviously that experience would be very traumatic for Adam who would just...not know what to do with himself after being betrayed and violated by his only friend for 1000+ years.
But whatever, right? Michael is an archangel. His Father is back. He doesn't need Adam or a vessel. (Except he sososososososo fucking does.)
So imagine Adam tagging along with tfw for some mission that goes wrong. Everyone is surrounded. It's game over. But then whatever demons or angels or whatever are about to kill them get smote like it's nothing. The ground trembles. The windows break. Absolutely blinding white light spills in. Everyone has to shield their eyes and there's this ear-grating noise that only Adam seems able to be able understand. Everyone is writhing on the ground, clutching their ears and Adam is just standing there casually like he's having a depressing and slightly tedious conversation. It goes back and forth between the most ghastly noises anyone has ever heard and Adam saying something like, "I don't know if I can trust you anymore" and this goes on for some time. We never actually hear what Michael says, but it seems to have a major effect on Adam who eventually does decide to forgive him and let him back in.
I also like the idea of Michael taking his throne back with Adam?? Like I know we're not necessarily rooting for Heaven on this show but yesss king make John's secret third son your Heavenly consort 💞💞 I do like the domestic potential Midam has but it doesn't just have to be domestic you know???
#so i hate romcom hallmark stuff but theres something rly funny to me about the potential for trueform michael to be#doing the “im sorry i messed up pls forgive me 🥺🥺🥺” speech#for adam fucking milligan#heavy bonus if cas and gabe and raph are there for this and are just like ���️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️👁️ okay#im aware this is word vomit rn but whatever#supernatural#midam#tw consent issues
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THATS WHAT HYPNO IS ABOUT??
dhofkgosg oh. Yes. Well, hypnosis/hypnokink is a very malleable fetish, and one that can vary in intensity. But like,,, corruption kink, dubious consent, cnc (consenual non-consent), bdsm, petplay, intox kink and even monsterfucking are all things that can weave into hypno as a kink very comfortably.
The inherent draw of hypnosis to a sub is the loss of control. It's a guiding into a headspace where you are/let yourself be suggestable, and by that suggestability you let yourself be controlled. It means the worries about making decisions, or even thinking, can be taken away by someone who'll do it for you.
And thus, like, with a foundational appeal like that, it's really common for hypnokinky fantasies/porn to be heavy-handed with the way the sub falls into it. Into the control, into the pleasure, why would you ever want to leave, you have no space in your head to doubt, etc. The reward at the end is to be controlled and used (to be looked after). And the idea that that can just Happen to you is hot. The idea that your free will can be Taken from you is hot. The idea of falling into trance and having your mind rewritten/influenced and your body used is Hot. The idea of giving in is Hot.
So the idea of concepts swinging dark, into more of what i once heard called 'erotic thriller' is appealing.
Though it's not to say that's all hypnokink is, by any long shot. It fully depends on the relationship and negotiation between sub and dom. It can be sweet and gentle and just to take the stress away. It can be temporarily playing with your ability to speak or remember things. Or. Yknow. It can be making the sub think they're a horny little robot drone destined only to serve their master. Trance is a very cool, interesting, and potent thing.
Like, in the real world, all hypnosis is self hypnosis. You're being guided into a suggestable, empty state, that moment your head is clear of thoughts, like when you're engrossed in a book. I've seen it described as intense focus.
In fantasy, there are drugs, there's magic, there's special technology, there's vampires, there's things that can Make you fall and influence you and control you and that is, in fact, part of the Point. People get off to that.
It's like 2am rn... i hope this like helps and makes sense. Other, more experienced hypnokinksters are welcome to add on and give their thoughts but yeah.
I belieeeve it's @/h-sleepingirl who has really good explaining hypno for beginners stuff? (I dont wanna annoy with a tag >.<) but yeah, if you actually want to learn more. If also recommend Mesmerotic, they produce amazing video content and like, the minute-long snippet previews available on their site give a really good snapshot of the things people can use hypno for. House of Hedge is good too! And The Secret Subject is also really popular (and she's a fellow kiwi so i trust her).
So yeah. I guess... when i tag my work with hypnosis, corruption and dubcon, this is what i mean.
#asks#hypnosis#hypnokink#hypn0k1nk#More experienced kinksters feel free to correct me!#If theres any here#But yeah. Yeah.#Thats why siren doesnt wait for consent. Bc it's fiction and a fantasy and the part where patton falls for it anyway is the hot part.
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random bullshit I've been drawing while waiting for comms
#lloyds meowing#lloyds art#dsaf#harrysport#self ship#dsaf old sport#old sport dsaf#harry dsaf#dsaf harry#i dont give the most flighty of fucks if im put on a block list for the harrysport art btw#OH NO TWO CONSENTING ADULTS RAAHH you bitches will whine about ANYTHING.#oh and. Me i fuckin guess im not notable enough to have a tag for irl me but Yeah.#theres a version of the tie drawing with him shirtless it isnt good by any stretch of the imagination#but im not posting it til someone gives me at least 5 bucks.
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lmao so imma just gonna throw it in that during my abscence I might have acquired a third godly husband like.
like. like.
Dionysus can get it honestly. holy heck his version in Hercules is so cute and friend shaped im gonna implode
anyways i scrolled through his reported love interests in greek mythology for oc inspiration, and the male love interest part is SENDING ME
"sorry babe that I didn't return quick enough to fuck you and you mcfreaking died. anyways take this wooden cock with you to the underworld i hope that can compensate"
#ALL OF HIS MALE LOVE INTERESTS END UP DEAD SDDKJDJDKDA CHILL WITH YOUR MANWHORE VIBES#there was satyr dude Ampelos though who kinda makes me wanna make an oc based on him when i get time between work and school!#and of course theres Dionysus' girliepop wife Ariadne#tho the two of them apparently had an open marriage#both actively and with consent participated in bisexual activities with other people which is king shit honestly#nsft text
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Literally no other way I could describe it right now.
#there are some serious feelings attached to all thats happening#im saddened. im mad. at the end of the day this is how i cope so im sorry if you dont feel like humor is your way out#im disappointed and digusted#personally#neil gaiman#is innocent until proven guilty and my heart goes out to the victims of this whole situation.#i know. i KNOW the right is gonna make it about trans rights and the left is gonna make this about zionism and how these results are#unsurprising due to him being 'either' of these (which im not going into)#because its NOT about those. its the disgusting behaviors he did w those women. consent or not he actively sought out rlly young women.#i hold out a tiny bit of hope but if all things go to shit I dont rlly have anything to fall back on in terms of fandom.#good omens got me through shit. it got me through hell and some my worst times ever.#ive made irreplaceable IRL friends#idk#just some feelings im putting out here. im still gonna 100% support all GO creators (unless they outright excuse NG's actions esp when hes#not yet proven innocent)#but yeah#i havent spoken about this in my other accs and I think this is the only coherent thought I can manage from all of that.#again. really upset. but we got this. were all in this together yk? theres no one side or another to SA but to support the victims.#thats all im rlly gonna say. just remember that Im sending uou guys lots of love. lets get through this <3#[EDIT: I MEANT TO SAY NEIL IS GUILTY UNTIL PROVEN INNOCENT FOR ME !!!!]
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Anon should hit up my inbox if they want to talk to me so bad. 😘
Mizora tag has 3 regulars and they're angels except me. Fandom wants to kill or turn Mizora to stone, so let's be real who you're talking about.
But this submission makes me realize that people are mixing up female manipulators ™, with actual gr*omers. Which is mindboggling.
A female manipulator makes you think its a good idea to give her everything just because she wants it. This is the behavior of wrapping you around her finger. And on the flip side, you can get wrapped around her finger without her even trying. At that point, its up to her to put up boundaries, but that's another story.
In Mizora's case, yes, she deceived Wyll and took his soul. She maintains control over him through the sending stone. She turned his dad against him, and arguably uses his ties to the Duke for jockeying for power under Zariel. It's a business decision and to stroke her fragile ego. Wyll fell prey to her manipulations and got tethered to her larger machinations.
But at no point is she doing all this to make Wyll s*xually available to her at all times. In launch version, they were never intimate. And in EA, she was clearly using s*x as a tool to seduce - not because she wanted that from him.
#mizora#mizora is a scumbag and a terrible woman and i love her for that#but shes not a gr*omer#theres a special place in hell for gr*omers#as for wyll being 17#i dont put it past belgians to think 17 is “as good as” 18 for consent#thats a writers flub#for my headcanon - wyll was duped and deceived but not naive#there was more to this post but it got way too serious about cartoon characters than was necessary
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Learning against my will about ozempic and actually got a little pissed off when the lady describing it said once you take it youre basically on it forever to maintain results. Like i wonder where all the "concerned" people that have been fearmongering about hormones for years are now. Why are we not concerned about the potential side effects of lifelong use of these specific drugs, or is it fine because theres an outcome society considers favorable
#Genuinely irked me that all of the reactionaries and tphobes and self described feminists have been medically abusing trans ppl#But the second theres a drug being passed around like candy marketed especially toward insecure women its crickets#Like ohhh so you guys werent actually worried about 'side effects' or 'being a lifelong patient' if that werent already obvious#Blows my mind that i have to entertain these peoples nonsense on a legal level threatening my access to healthcare#emf#And before anything else: I am a firm believer in informed consent and tailoring your body to how you want it to look in any way#However i think the same arguments to dissuade trans people can be thrown back tenfold at literally any other surgery or form of care#Especially those in reference to 'social pressure' and 'social contagion' like lol#Also btw ''lifelong patient'' shit is a deeply fucked up and evil mindset that discourages people who need meds from getting them#Im just focused on that argument specifically because ltierally everyone in my life used it to try and tell me i shouldnt transition
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this close to calling myself "radqueer critical" instead of "anti-radqueer" because "anti/pro radqueer" has basically no nuance in beliefs and id rather not be lumped in with the tons of genuinely shitty people in the anti radqueer community
#like i genuinely agree with a lot of radqueer stuff#mainly the non-harmful transids (and harmful transids w/out transitioning) and atypical dysphoria and mad pride stuff#i just dont agree with the use of the 'trans' prefix for a lot of it and think that theres a big problem with pro-cs in the community#which on tumblr yeah it seems like theres only a couple pro-cs#but thats just because theyre very good at hiding themselves#and they usually stick to private discord servers#or hide their actual beliefs behind labels like 'pro-consent'#but it honestly does seem like the problem with pro-cs has improved a lot so good on yall for that
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im such a strict judge judy ass bitch when it comes to interpretations of my faves like. actually yeah yk what. i am NOT making myself power thru this literal smut fic bc i keep cringing every ten seconds bc EVERY ten seconds they got my girl doing some shit she would Never do 😭
#the girl in question is amber freeman#the thing in question is asking for consent like (3) times during a makeout session BEFORE she even put her fing-*i am shot*#like this just irks me w most of the ghostfaces in general like man do wtv you want i mean i cant stop u#but u think amber satan freeman would worry enough abt ur comfort to whip out the traffic light system?#she kills people man. she broke her bestie lesbian situationships leg by stomping on it. bc why not.#my gripe is primarily her being x reader uwuified but the fic im on abt is tamber so!#theres that!#like im sorry this just is not a woman w anyone elses best interests at heart#i cant suspend my disbelief on that.#ceci speaks
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Am I the only one noticing the weird theme of like,,, non consent stuff with Rafayel??? Like I'll compile it more as I find it in my own game but I swear I've seen like at least 8 different scenes or conversations or situations where he tells MC to stop or don't or mentions how she isn't going to stop even if he tells her to and alot of other weird stuff and like idk how I feel about it. Idk if it's a translation thing or a literal CNC kink thing but I swear it's a pattern and I feel really super weird about it. He's so hot and cold with her too idk it really just makes me worry. What the hell happened between them
#rafayel#love and deepspace#rafayel love and deepspace#lnds rafayel#lads rafayel#lnds#lads#cw: SA#cw: non consent#not saying that theres anything wrong with dubcon stuff in fiction or that the writing is wrong for having it i just want some kind of idk#confirmation?#that im not crazy and it is a pattern#or maybe i am just crazy idk#just feels weird#am i reading into it#who knows
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Apparently my job incorrectly changed my state on my W4 without my knowledge or consent last year and now I owe a LOT of money in unpaid state taxes since they weren't withholding them from my paycheck like they were supposed to 😭
#i hadnt filed my 2023 taxes yet bc there was some stuff i had to figure out with my old college#(they didnt send me a 1098-t and they werent responding to my emails and they changed systems after i graduated#so i wasnt in their new systems and when i called the treasurers office they couldnt figure out how to find me#so they sent it to their manager but the manager never responded and etc etc)#but i wasnt too worried bc i knew with the withholdings that i put on my w4 that i should be receiving a refund#and theres no penalties to filing late if youre receiving a refund (you just. dont get your money until its filed)#but now ive got that figured out (turns out they actually didnt need to send me a 1098-t bc i dont have any exceptions to claim from them#bc something about how my expenses were handled? idk. which i didnt even learn from them btw. bc they never got back to me 🙃#i had to consult a tax expert. but anyway)#so i was trying to finally file them. and uh. it turns out i owed like $1000 to my state. and i was like. that. cant be right. what?#checked my w2 and for some reason on one line it had my state listed with like a small portion of my earnings#and then on the next line there was the rest of my earnings under a different state name#a state that doesnt fucking have state taxes 🙃 so nothing was withheld from that portion of my income#so apparently i did NOT pay the majority of my state taxes last year. and now im 6 months late filing. and im worried im fucked#and we are also 11 MONTHS into 2024 with my w4 incorrect and no state taxes withheld all year 🙃 fuck. fuck fuck fuck#they cant even change it back until my manager proves i live in this state apparently 😭 what the hell man#i live in this state i work in this state my companys fucking headquarters is in this state#WHY would they change it to a different fucking state. WITHOUT my knowledge or consent#i didnt even realize they had stopped withholding my state taxes until now bc it happened at the same time i got promoted#so the increase on my paycheck just blended in with my raise 😭#i just submitted it but of course theyre going to take what i owe for my state taxes weeks before they refund me for my federal taxes#payments process within 48 hours but refunds take up to 21 days#rambling#so. im gonna have to figure out how to make rent and bills next week#and then im ALSO gonna have to pay however much it costs to be 6 months behind on a payment of nearly $1000#FUCK
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