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Do you ever read a post where op claims to not be a terf or a radfem but then you look at their blog and first you see the acephobia and then the arophobia and then the 'q slur' tag and then the comments about hating men and then transandrophobia and you're like hm. Right. Not a terf or radfem 🤔
#It's always the people who use LGBT as the acronym instead of LGBTQ+ or some variation that includes Q#sorry sir but if you tag things as q slur and make fun of qprs and make jokes about how you are a certified man hater...#then I think you are actually a radfem#ripple's thoughts#i'm just annoyed this stuff is getting put on my dash#i have a sixth sense for being able to pick up on aphobia#99% of the time when I investigate a blog for aphobia i find it. which is really sad.
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radfem question!!
i'm having a conversation with someone about female only spaces (this specifically pertains to bathrooms) and they said that the rule of having female-only bathrooms would "act more like an enforcement of femininity more than anything else."
I think their point is about butch lesbians and/or women who present "masculinely," and so because there is ofc no female identification at the door, and policy would likely just make it more acceptable for women and girls to report if there was a male in the bathroom (without having to determine if the male identifies as a woman), this could end up hurting "masculine"-presenting women (implying that they could be mistaken as male), and in turn just reinforce femininity. Thoughts? (mine are in tags)
#I understand that this has happened a few times before actually. i think my main point would just be that dressing masculinely does not#actually make you look male and like its evolutionarily advantageous for humans to be able to spot the opposite vs same sex#and so this i dont believe is going to be a huge problem based off of mistakenly seeing female ppl as male HOWEVER#because (from my very limited knowledge) it seems that the few times it has happened it has been lesbophobia#could this be a tool to enforce femininity on females? my last point is just that ofc ideally (imo) many single-stall bathrooms with like#complete complete privacy is ideal but also financially that is very hard to impliment and is not practical. but also! kathleen stock spoke#abt how TRAs cant simultaneously claim that TW being able to use the womens bathroom is so important and also not think its important enoug#to shell out money on?? so maybe the financial practicality COULD be possible?? but also maybe not idk.! im just curious what yall think#thanks!!#radfem#radblr#radical feminism#gender critical#radical feminists do interact#terfblr#rad fem#gender criticism#terfsafe#questions tag
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#gendie brainrot receipts#gender critical#radfem safe#we already know countless women (trans identifying and otherwise) often wish they men in order to escape misogyny#you really think actual women care about being validated as women? I think they’d rather not having to worry about walking alone in the dark
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I know the answer is "radfems and terfs poisoned the well" but I really wonder when the general direction of modern feminism went from "we can get men who otherwise wouldn't be on our side to change their minds by pointing out that men suffer under the patriarchy too, and that feminism isn't about switching the power balance or replacing the patriarchy with some sort of man-hating matriarchal society, but to destroy the system and harms ALL of us" to "actually I hate men and I think they should suffer and I should get to be a huge asshole to them 24/7 because I'm a woman and letting me be a horrid bitch to half the population with no regard for intersectionality is justice actually"
I just hate seeing how much terfs and radfems have completely fucked up entire branches of important conversations with their bullshit and knowing how it's not only hurting trans women, it's hurting ALL OF US and it's exhausting to constantly remind people of all the other radfem and terf dogwhistles only to see them getting spread around again and again disguised as progress
#Im so tired of immediately thinking 'that's probably a radfem' every time I see posts about misogyny and feminism#we need to have these conversations and we just fucking CAN'T anymore#like we gotta be good allies to trans women but we also need to remeber that they arent the only people terfs are hurting#and that terfs and radfems are very good at disguising their rhetoric as actual progressive ideas#that's why you see so many feminists who actually do care about women's rights#turn into terfs and radfems#bcs they're that good at indoctrinating people so long as they don't lead with the hating trans people stuff
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Regarding that whole terf being like "I can totes tell which is a real vulva just by looking at it" thing, people are covering the transmisoginy but I've noticed no one is talking about how anti-porn views are playing into how this terf views bodies
Like, their is clearly a reactionary "only bigger inner labia are real, everything is surgical" thing going on here which obviously stems from the (legitimate!) Complaints about lack of genital diversity in porn (and inner labia size was a huge point of discussion a few years back). And like, radfems being radfems, decided at the time that the appropriate response was to decide anyone with this more favoured-by-mainstream-porn kind of vulva are evil and should be mocked and probably got surgery (even if they didnt) which makes them a traitor to women etc etc
And this is not to say that this specific instance is actually an attack on anyone but trans women (though the "real vs fake women" narrative *is* something also applied to sex workers of any gender, including cis women, by radfems) but rather I feel it is something to be aware of especially considering how anti-sex work sentiment affects overly sexualised groups (trans women) and groups who engage in sex work more frequently (also trans women)
#word of god#also like kind of a dig#but this is actually very obvious and i feel the fact ppl arent noticing it shows again just how lacking most ppls knowledge of#the dangers of radfems is#its more than just terfs and transmiosginy people!#and even if you *only* care about trans women#its more than just terfs and transmisogoiny that affects trans women!#radical feminism is a plague upon us and ppl ignore it and fall for it too easily#but pat themsepves on the back amd think theyre safe cus they called out a terf engaging in teansmisoginy#thats not enough!
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Ok let me be serious for a moment. If you have this carrd as your "basic dni criteria" or support it I do not want you on my blog. Also please remember to read it thoroughly because I constantly find that the people who use it are in violation of it.
#leo.says#obviously this isn't talking about the racism/right wing/radfem bit if you are those then get fucked#I'm talking about the toothpaste flag and all the “pro fic” “com ship” things (and the self diagnosis one)#specifically the toothpaste flag actually. if you don't like how it looks that's whatever#but if you don't like it/think it's “childish”/think it shouldn't be used? kindly leave and block me#let me make it very clear that i am a man who LOVES men and don't tolerate any jokes about how we're all bad/aggressive/violent/fetishizers#this blog and my writing come from a place of love and desire for men and boys. the overly feminine trans men that you think are cringe#the big buff hairy burly men that you think are scary#all of them.#if you say “all men suck” “men ain't shit” and other things like that even in a joking manner i am very wary of you#i am sick and tired of seeing people who say they're accepting hate/dismiss/belittle mem#sorry. silly hours will resume shortly
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terf posts arent bad because they were made by terves theyre bad because the ideology is made up entirely of incredibly harmful and flawed ideas about gender and morality
#yea its always good to curate your space and control who you interact with but also#i think its more productive to analyze yours and others beliefs critically#rather than just mindlessly attempting to block out any information from a 'bad group'#NOT because they might have something of value to say#but because its just a shitty way to plow through life#you should align yourself with shit you actually believe not whatever your community deems good. thats poser shit#and besides that is EXACTLY how they rope you in#if you dont know the specifics of why you disagree with terfs and your community starts gradually integrating radfem ideals#starting with those that are a bit more tame‚ acceptable#you will get roped the fuck in
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One of the funniest 70-ies radfem ideology nonesense that's still making circles online is that strap ons are heteronormative and that true lesbians EXPLODE at the mere idea of penetrative sex. If not for the icky transgenders lesbians would never think of attaching an inserteable object to their groin area in order to sleep with women... This part I made up but honestly that's very much kind of the logical conclusion isn't it
#Nsft#//rambles#Just saw a post by a radfem lesbian questioning the idea (wasn't looking for radfem nonsense just looking up other keywords)#Which only proves that this is performative ass political lesbian bs#The same women were claiming that butch femme dynamics are heteronormative#They're so detached from what women actually find hot in other women it's mindblowing#Alright I've seen the point that there's no issue with straps on their own it's the fact that in media it's considered the norm or whatever#To which I'll tell you you're very fucking lucky to live somewhere where the usage of sex toys with lesbians is an issue for you#Ik there being worse issues doesn't derail from other issues. But that's a non issue to begin with.#Discourse#Now that I think about it
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hate it sm when someone tries to phrase my radical feminism/activism as "owe you are a good person! You want to help people because you are good! 🥹" ??? im a bad person i actively hate people. meeting the basic principles of human decency and respect isnt me being over the top with my moral goodness, in fact is less than half than bare minimum. "I dont want women to suffer bc they are women" is less than bare minimum of decency. "ideally you are right :) but you know that many people are not nearly as nice as you!" ok then those people are a menace to society and should be considered direct cause of modern evils. Dont try to emphatize my goodness by downplaying other people's bad moral compass - actively hold them accountable
#tired with this “nuance nuance nuance” everywhere#maybe sometimes we fucking need less nuance#maybe black and white type of thoughts can be good actually#like yea if you dont think that. Basic human rights are a granted given you are horrible and should know that.#i feel that by telling activists that they are “good people” we are shifting the focus#from the fact that “normies” who strictly adhere to the status quo are in fact bad people#doesnt matter if they dont realize or if its not their fault. still bad people#also will not argue abt this. this is a vent ill not change my mind#and im too lazy to debate#heart-felt#radblr#radical feminism#radfem#radical feminist community#radical feminist safe#radical feminists do interact#feminism
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I want botw/totk zelink to have kids, because it would be cute and Link would be an amazing father and malewife
#zelink#totk zelink#you'll have to take post-totk cute family zelink from my cold dead hands#I built the dream home with four-seat dining table for a reason ok#Honestly contrary to what people say I think it would actually help Zelda grow and heal from her past#You can't get over something if you just run away from it#I also want them to have a family again after losing everyone#maybe I'm just projecting because I grew up in a home without love#so I know what it's like to have no family basically#people take a loving family for granted or think it's boring ig but for me it's a dream to have a positive healthy family full of joy#Friends are wonderful but they have their own lives and obligations. It's not quite the same#I also think not EVERYTHING needs to be the found family trope#that's starting to feel very over-pushed to me#I also dislike how the arguments against Zelda having a kid ever feel very radfem
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It's completely okay if you don't fit into the category of "ordinary girls/women" and have interests that defy gender stereotypes.
However, some women in their 20s and 30s behave like preteens, desperately seeking the title of "I'm not like other girls."
While they claim to support women, their actions speak otherwise. Instead of uplifting and empowering others, they choose to criticize and hate those who live a different lifestyle.
It's ridiculous how some women criticize others who choose to be stay-at-home mothers. They constantly bring up negative scenarios and label them as unintelligent.
Don't fancy being a mother? Not interested in being a traditional wife? Awesome! You're under no obligation to be either! However, it's worth acknowledging that some women do have a singular goal in life: to become a mother, and that's completely acceptable as well!
It's so silly how some women criticize other women who wear makeup with the whole "I'm not like other girls" mentality. Makeup isn't just about hiding imperfections. Who says you need to impress anyone? Sometimes, all you need is a dash of your favorite sparkly eyeshadow to brighten up your day. It's not about trying to please others, but rather embracing your own unique beauty and enjoying the little things that make you happy.
Not a fan of makeup? No worries! You have the freedom to skip buying it and avoid wearing it altogether. In fact, why not take a break from the online world and step outside? You'll be surprised to find that many women embrace their natural beauty without relying on heavy makeup like those beauty gurus you see online.
Yes, some women embrace the "girly girl stereotype." But let's remember, there are women out there who genuinely adore dresses, cooking, baking, the color pink, cute things, cute clothes, and cute nails. It's perfectly okay for them to love looking feminine!
Hey, here's a little secret for you: you don't have to conform to feminine stereotypes if they don't resonate with you. It's completely fine to have different interests and hobbies that align with your own unique personality.
Many women have formed incredible connections with the men who hold a significant place in their lives. Whether it's their fathers, brothers, or husbands, these women cherish and respect them deeply.
It's absolutely insane how certain women have the nerve to claim that "you're nothing more than a sexual object for your husband," "men are incapable of loving women," "all men, including your own family members, are misogynistic," or even go as far as saying "kill all men"... darling, you're passing judgment on someone you don't even know. Yes, there are some men who can be terrible, but let's not forget that there are also some women who can be just as awful.
Ultimately, it all comes down to the kind of person you are. Your character and values define who you are, not your gender.
Sure, I've been guilty of speaking negatively about individuals with different life goals, but I was 10, 11, 12 years old... you are in your 20s, 30s and even 40s it's time to mature and leave that behavior behind.
It's time for women to practice what they preach and abandon hypocrisy. Rather than using the excuse of "wanting to help women," let's focus on understanding and accepting each other's choices. You're giving a negative connotation to the phrase "I'm not like other girls" with your offensive behavior.
#divider by fairytopea#it's really so crazy how#so many women hate on#traditional femininity#how they hate on women#who use makeup#and how they hate#on women who actually have#good men in their lives#i don't even want to be a tradwife#or a wife...#but still had to mention them#tradfem#because it's cazy how much#hate they get for simply existing#from time to time i see radfem posts#in “for you” category#these women don't help anyone#they just help spreading the hate#they also talk like women can do no wrong#but only women who are like them#women who think like them#they are the biggest hypocrites#it's so crazy to me that they don't see#how horrible they act#and they always play a victim when someone call them out#i know plenty of horrible women#women that lied about SA#women that are abusers#but ofc they always ignore that
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obsessed with how clearly terfy weird bitches on here will say shit when called out for saying terf shit like "um well ACTUALLY maybe you think i sound like a terf because you identify normal feminists as terfs?? 🤔"
and then make absolutely no effort not to use transmisogynistic rhetoric and say weird shit that very very obviously is transphobia, like using terms like "trans rights activists" and "trans identified" and think they're so sneaky and nobody notices?
yeah i don't support all women. some of you bitches are terminally stupid
#crow.txt#like what kind of stupid ass gotcha. you are actively setting any real feminism movements back#way to go genius. youre fucking annoying#mfs think because they dont actively put terf/radfem in their bio or use those tags flagrantly that some of us cant read otherwise#truly the dumbest cunts on earth. like actually for real. embarrassing#i wish the term terf would silence yall im sick of hearing anything you bitches ever say#it hasnt lately but every time someone saying some weird terf shit had followed me im like girl are you lost? gtfo.#*hasnt happened lately im not fixing that#got mad in the shower bc i remembered seeing a post like this like 12 hrs ago and its still on my nerves#like at least be honest with yourself and stop lying and wasting anyones time more than you have to#how are you gonna be so vile and not own up to it. dont you think weve got like trans cooties dont you want everyone to block you. go on
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I think it's funny when people say trans men don't experience misogyny. I experience it alot as an out and proud and obvious trans person. Most folks are good, they don't blink an eye (even in the rural south) but for some you can see it like a switch. The biggest tell in my experience is they start treating you like the world's biggest idiot. Like you couldn't possibly know more than them about anything. I also tend to get babied, people stop letting me do things I was doing previously such as lifting heavy stuff and outdoorsy type work.
I just think it's ridiculous that the most basic elements of misogyny, elements that have been defined and discussed for years, no longer count as misogyny because it's directed at a trans guy. How do people even claim it's "misdirected" (which is such a bullshit word irt oppression) it's all very clearly directed at me for having formerly been a woman*. And what of my time spent living as a girl? Does all that misogyny mysteriously disappear, all of my former experiences rendered moot by the fact I'm now a guy*.
I haven't even gotten into how cis men can be misogynistic towards each other but rad fems and people who pretend they aren't rad fems but boil misogyny down to "woman only oppression" like to ignore that. What do you call it when a cis guy shames another guy by calling him a pussy? "You hit like a girl" anyone? You can't explain this away as "misdirected" because the intended target is not a girl, is not mistakenly being perceived as a girl, it is a deliberate act of misogyny in order to enforce the patriarchal status quo.
#misogyny#transmasc#transphobia#im bad at tags negl but w/e#i bet if i sniffed out the origins of “misdirected” it would come from rad feminism#like i dont think people realize exactly how much radical feminism has invaded queer spaces its so bad its literally everywhere#its in the heavy separation of gender in the accusations that certain peoples (depending on your flavor of radfem) experiences dont count#its in the black and white view of the world#of misogyny being the only oppression that matters and everything else is coincidental the idea that men cant be oppressed at all ever#of the idea that theres one person who is the most oppressed and collecting and wielding identities like oppression points#except your points dont count if you are actually oppressed such as black trans folks who are regularly silenced#seriously though the idea that no man ever has ever faced oppression especially from a woman is so funny like i live in the rural south --#-- and i still learned in school that there were black men who were violently murdered bc cis white women accused them of rape#but yallre like wasnt misogyny wasnt a girl he deserved it for being a nasty stinky man uwu#which is disgusting racism but if you point that out youre a misogynist not allowing women to “vent” about their oppression#transandrophobia
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complaining about radical feminism bc even though it has a lot of good points, a lot are also very bad part idk what!!!
what the fuck is up with radfems literally seething when they learn that a member of their ideology has a GASPPPPP boyfriend!!! even worse A HUSBAND???? and oh my god can you imagine!!! A CHILD!!!! like what the fuck?? and yes i knowwww its bc blah blah blah inspirations taken from the 4B thing that came out of china and south korea, where the fundamental principles of their feminism is not having any sort of relations with a man nor having any children with one because marriage is a patriarchal institution (when it's a hetero marriage), and giving birth will systematically subjugate a women as mothers ar every handicapped societally and aren't treated fairly.
see im not denying that straight marriage has some dicey elements and that moms get a LOTTTT of shit from society. but why is it that women are shamed for their heterosexuality when it's not something they can control?? like i'm sorry but if a lady wants to marry a dude and have children with him it's literally her choice and if she doesnt thats fine too?? like they start calling her "male-centered" and justify the criticism she's facing which is nuts bc what the fuck do you mean she's male-centered do you hear the words that come out of your mouth?? what the fuck do you mean straight women need to be critical of their attraction to men!!! my brother why are you creating comphet 2.0 but for straight women!!!! this idea that women will be defiled with patriarchy germs if they come into any sort of romantic/sexual contact with a man genuinely feels like the flipside of purity culture but for "feminist" reasons and also it's like the cousin of political lesbianism which is the antithesis of "sexual orientation is uncontrollable".
"participating in male culture" and it's having a boyfriend BE FOR REAL!!! this is such a western concept to me as well bc in many eastern cultures young women have like little to no say when they're faced with the prospect of arranged marriage, and so the fact that you degenerates are complaining about VOLUNTARY marriage in modern societies whereas young girls in other countries don't have that kind of choice is!!! insane!!!! i have so much more to say about this but that's enough for today ig :333
#berry.rambles <3#“male culture” has to be the most insane term to come out of this echo chamber#what the fuck do you mean i participate in male culture and uphold the patriarchy by having GUY FRIENDS!!!#I JUST LIKE MY FRIENDS WHY SHOULD I BE CRITICAL OF THAT YOU WEIRDO!!!#im not male centered im not guy focused im not participating in patriarchal thinking im literally rawdogging life#speaking of purity culture it doesnt help that many girls grow up with 0 relationship freedom bc of religious families#and feel guilty for experiencing attraction to anybody really (usually guys)#and feel ashamed of it and think its filthy to genuinely be attracted to someone instead of simply seeing them as future marriage material#and so to have feminist thinkers say that yes you should be kind of ashamed of your heterosexuality is????#the amount of shit a woman has to do to conform and be fit for the “feminist” role is actually??? so???? annoying.#they (radfems) hear a lesbian used to think that she was into guys and has slept with them then all hell breaks loose.#its either “omg you're free yay” which is a nice reaction ig or its “wow cant believe you were male centered” please define “male centered”#freakazoid#weirdo#!!!!!#anti radical feminism#anti liberal feminism#anti western feminism#yes believe it or not im anti and pro feminism#funny how that works LOL
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Omg you know what I hate the most. Those stupid fucking posts that are just like men outright saying they're only interacting with you, listening to you talk about your interests or letting you share smthn with them, etc so they can fuck you. Like they're just boldly saying "yeah, dont believe us when we seem genuinely interested in what you're saying. We're desperate for pussy actually & just pretending! Make no mistake I couldn't care less! It's a facade! Just in it for pussy!"
#its like yeah.....i know.....wheres the joke#“”“babygirl he doesnt care about ur squishamallow names hes tryna blow ur back out!!!” “#“'she let me hit cuz i listened to the monster high lore'#“pretending to fw her shitty indie vinyl so i can smash”“#“”pussy so good got a nigga sittin here like ohh so serena and blair ARENT really friends???“”“#its just my number 1 ick#like yeah fuck me for thinking a man could simultaneously respect & fuck you but its actually legitimately impossible for a man to#see the full humanity in some(one)thing he considers HIS to dominate by nature#radfems do touch#radfems do interact#radical feminism#terf safe#terfs do touch#radfem safe#terfs do interact#but yeah men are the lonely ones :(#men are the ones w deep trust issues :(
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Actually insane how many transphobic people are on the trans website
#like i was just looking at the radfem tag just to see what was there#and actually wtf#and all the replies and reblogs are agreeing#why are you#this is literally the queer website#also people who think being lesbian/gay/bi is completely separate from being trans#i dont even know that much queer history but i clearly know more than you#“have you ever heard of a terf going after and hurting a trans person? no.”#um????? yes?????
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