#terf ment cw

[coulsonlives]

So ummm, yeah, this person might have made some good posts in the past, but this is NOT okay.

They've also revealed themselves to be a TERF/radfem (their alt blog is balkanradfem).

[pyreshe]

truly wild how many of us were gaslit into believing the world-building in h*rry p*tter was good.

[coulsonlives]

This one goes out to all the ppl with 'terfs/nazis/etc have no rights' and other shit in their bios

You're not clever or woke, you just look like an edgy 13-year old who doesn't understand the implications of what they're saying, or how quickly your own exceptions to it can become someone else's own exceptions

Human rights are inalienable for a reason, it's to protect all people, including you

Also: I see too many people read, 'everyone deserves human rights' but interpret it as, 'i endorse the actions of bigots criminals etc and nobody should be accountable for their bad deeds'. But that's completely wrong!! Just bc someone has human rights (which are important to have), it doesn't make them immune to criticism, or needing to be held accountable for their actions. Having human rights doesn't absolve someone of being taken to task for horrible things they've done, it just means there are certain rights they have as a freakin person. If you're against the idea of every person having human rights solely bc you think it means they can get out of jail free or that they can't be criticized, you gotta unlearn that belief, because it's not true

Unpopular opinion but literally not one person in the world should have their human rights violated

[companionplanting]

We've been debating on how to properly tackle this kind of subject without coming off as ignorant, contradictory, or belittling to others. So if our words come off in that way, please reach out to us and let us know.

With the rampant scene of various mental illnesses being painted as malicious (ASPD, NPD, Schizophrenia, etc.), TERF/SWERF ideology being mainstream as well as on the other side of that same coin of "Alpha" males, it has clearly been shown to us what we had speculated for a while.

People don't want to confront their pain, and blame their trauma on anything but the truth.

I'm gonna go more in depth with this so hear me out.

We had (and still have) gone through a multitude of confronting our trauma, processing it, then eventually having to accept it and move on. It's challenging to say the least. But it's necessary. We have a lot of trauma, so we have had to do this song and dance multiple of times. None of us can say it gets any easier each time, but it has always lead us to getting better.

Each time we are confronted with the same question,

"Why did this happen to me?"

Of course sometimes it goes deeper with other questions, but we always circle back to that same one. A lot of people have asked that, honestly it's not new. We also acknowledge the outside factors that lead to moments of abuse or trauma like systematic oppression of various groups, indoctrination of ideologies, generational trauma, as well as lack of different kinds of support and community. Of course those are explanations, not excuses.

So we then go back to that question after learning what we know about the world and it's harmful systems. "Why me?". What we ultimately came up with was

"It just happened because."

It's anticlimactic and frustrating, we acknowledge that, but true. You can point to all the outside influences, you can dissect people's personhood down to their very core, you can label them with whatever would fit best but none of that is going to answer why it happened to you.

And it won't. But that's okay. There wasn't a grand scheme, it's no one culprit, it's not a big master plan, it's simply just happenstance. You were in the wrong place, at the wrong time, and it's awful, but it had nothing to do with you specifically.

It's easy for us to create a big boogyman to blame our problems. It makes it simpler, easier to digest.

For one example this comes in the form of vilifying people with mental disorders. Maybe it's to excuse their parent's or partner's selfish actions, sudden and aggressive bouts of unexplained violence, or simply neglect in every field.

For TERFs and SWERFs, it's anyone one that doesn't prescribe to their definition of 'womanhood'. Maybe it's to excuse the way past partners would twist and violate their romantic and sensual attractions. Maybe they feel hurt and scared in a patriarchal society, constantly watching and judging. Perhaps even just feeling scared and lost in a world they have very, very little control over.

For 'Alpha' males and their ilk it's to men not prescribing to their definition of 'traditional values'. Maybe it's an excuse to direct sadness and anger that has built up for so long towards society's lessers. Maybe it's an excuse to feel powerful and important in a sea of random unimportance.

I cannot say for sure what these people have been through or desire. Even still it's simply, again, explanations and not actual reasons. But it all goes back to pointing the blame at something, anything to make the world less scary.

The truth, the much more scary truth, is that there is no reason. The world is random, and that includes pain. Those people didn't hurt you because of their mental disorders, their gender, their occupation, none of what that person was.

It happened because.

Of course more awful things happen to various minority groups (LGBTQIA+, disabled people, POC, etc.). Even still, that is again an explanation not a reason.

But there is no one singular monolith you can tear down to make the world freer and happier.

It's just the many complicated and absolutely random layers of the universe.

That's okay, and you will be okay. It makes the world more unpredictable, but you'll find your footing. We're sure of it.

-🖋️, 🌲 & 🍂

[alounuitte]

this was put on my dash to drag this person but (uhhhhh needs a cw but idk what. terf rhetoric + all men evil nonsense. abuse/rape ment. idk)

“removing men from kink also removes the abuse” UHHHHHHHHH????? UHHH??????

[provider-of-pronoun-checks]

hi y’all reminder terfs fuck off I don’t want you here

[butchdykekondraki]

the difference between axel and editor violently posting about things and then niki coming on to talk to people and be reassure is a VAST difference. love it here/pos

don't forget jay fighting with terfs for a day and a half on the old blog because they called him a woman, he called them out by saying that he does infact bodily have a dick, and then they got pissy and the actual quote of "so you just wanted us to call you a woman so you can play the victim card against terfs" was said and jay, the ever-coniving bastard he is, told them, to their face, that they wouldnt have that problem if they were respectful

[the-gayest-sky-kid]

fucking ew the terfs found my post

[izzyliker]

knocked flat on my back by the sheer amount of things to process here

[coulsonlives]

When an artist you really love decides to platform a terf 🥴

[pyreshe]

my hot take of the day is that just bc r.ick r.iordan jumped over the literally under the ground bar of not being as bad as joke ralphing, doesn't mean his work can't or shouldn't be critiqued bc it's got its issues too and so does he.

[meanya]

I never really put up any DNIs on this blog or any of my sideblogs, and now one of my sideblogs posts has been circulating through ✨TERF Tumblr✨ aaaaaaaaaaa 🙃

I mean, it's on me for not putting any DNIs, my blogs are a free-for-all because of that

But... Woooow these blogs man. It's like a car crash I can't look away from.

I mean, it is certainly sobering to be reminded that these people are people, like you or me, who join fandoms and watch shows and all the normal human stuff,,, but wow every TERF post I'm reading as I scroll through their blogs... It makes me so sad

I've been scrolling through the discourses for almost 2 hours now, throwing in my 2 cents here and there, but I gotta say I think my brain has begun to rot

[wish-ful-thinking513]

Yesterday in class, one of my classmates made us cake. There was a few pieces left, and this one guy was going to take two.

I told him I should get one because I’m asexual and I deserve it.

He laughed, said I was right, and gave me the last piece.

[momma-mogai-sphinx]

Don’t interact with my posts if you’re a radfem/TERF or you agree with radfeminism/TERFeminism what the fuck

[johnradams]

She literally rapes a woman and then ends up with a man at the end. that is literally the plot of the book

do you like follow me or something why are you so invested in this lol

[eyecicles]

Ah yes, I forgot about all his quotes about wanting to either kill himself or a bunch of women because they just won’t sleep with him! My bad /s

In what world is Light an incel... the most attractive women want him + he couldn’t give any less of a fuck about love and sex