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The beauty of the pumpkin head joke is that the true joke is TELLING the joke to people.
For those who donāt know it, this is the joke:
A man with a pumpkin for a head walks into a bar. The bartender exclaims: āMy god, Iām sorry, but WHAT happened to your head?ā
The man sighs and says, āSo I found a genie in a bottle who granted me three wishesā¦ā
Bartender: āOk, well what were the wishes?ā
Man: āWell, my 1st wish was for 100 million dollars. AND I GOT IT!!ā
Bartender: āWOW! Okayā¦what was the 2nd wish?ā
Man: āFor the 2nd wish, I asked for the most beautiful woman in the world to fall in love with meā¦AND I GOT THAT TOO!ā
Bartender: āIncredible! So thenā¦what was the 3rd wish?ā
Man: āNow seeā¦thatās where I really messed upā¦
I asked for a giant pumpkin headā
#trust me if you tell the joke to someone#you will understand why it is so funny hahahaha#or youāll think Iām crazy#BUT WHATEVER HAHAHA#hazbin hotel#alastor#hazbin hotel fanart#my doods#charlie morningstar#Vaggie#angel dust
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we were sitting on the floor and i was cutting out tiny pictures to make a collage for a friend's birthday. you were on your phone and you laughed about something, and i was still in love with you then, so i asked what had you giggling.
"sorry. i was just..." you took a moment and went back to texting. "i was telling someone about how you're afraid of the dark."
i'm afraid of the dark because something bad happened. "oh." i felt a little slinky of shame crawl down my throat.
you glanced up, and maybe it showed on my face, because you rolled your eyes and held the phone to the side casually so i could see the group chat. "what? was it a secret?"
i looked down to the scissors in my hand. "i just..." no, it's not a secret. it just felt like something private, something serious. saying why would you tell someone that just feels like an accusation. it's unfair. i honestly am not even ashamed of it, it's just a fact about my person that i don't usually share.
what a strange experience. is this a human thing or a generational thing? for our grandparents: did they need to worry about how quickly someone can just... share your personal information? again, i didn't even really have a true objection. what could i say? i want any person in my life to feel they can be honest with their friends. it's not like i said don't tell anyone this.
i cut out another letter to complete the rainbow happy birthday, started hunting for the exclamation mark. i heard you sigh dramatically.
"don't make a big deal about this," you said.
this entire conversation was a pattern for us, and this was when we got to my least favorite part of the pattern. i would get my feelings hurt in some oblique not-technically-terrible way, and then it would be making a big deal about something. you'd get frustrated for me for being soft, but i was born soft. you knew i was soft when you pierced me. it's one of the things that made controlling me so easy.
"i'm not," i felt my voice crack. the question came without my wanting. "why are you guys talking about me?" and why are you saying that thing? why not like - i'm telling them how you're generous and kind and pretty.
you let out this low, tragic groan. "oh my god." you tossed the phone away from your body. "there, see? i just won't talk to them if you don't like it."
the rest of the hour went the way it always went, between us: i said i don't actually mind if you talk to your friends but -, you found a way to call my minor expression of discomfort "being dramatic." you got upset that i had been offended. i ended up apologizing, even though i hadn't actually done anything.
afterwards, you picked up the phone again. after texting for a little bit, you snorted. "okay," you said, "but it is kind of funny you're afraid of the dark. i mean, when you think about it."
#spilled ink#writeblr#i'm trying to write about this really specific and wierd new experience#that i think is specific to the internet generation#where people you trust can just... say whatever??? and while most people are trustworthy#sometimes they'll just like... put ur shit out there????#and the thing is that sometimes it's GOOD - i want you to tell ppl if ur partner is being cruel!!!!!#i want u to be like ''hey is it normal if xyz happens'' ... but stuff like ''she's afraid of the dark''#PARTICULARLY when it's CLEARLY making fun of me....#what is the point of that.#this is huge and complicated and happens outside of romantic relationships too btw#like someone u thought of as a friend will be like . oh did u know she's scared of heights and it's like.#girl why are u fuckin doing that tho?#it's not a SECRET i just ...???????????????????????#and i think that gross feeling of like -- ''i can't REALLY be upset bc there's not a TRUE RULE about this....''#it's just not something talked about. bc it's so specific and yet so complex#bc how could i say like '' this is a violation of trust'' when it... technically I GUESS isn't????????????#idk maybe im just like super sensitive but please tell me in the comments/tags/etc if this is#something u have experienced (a trusted person like spreading ur shit) and if u were cool with it
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I love Nikita Gill and the splendid sense she makes and this statement resonated:
My home situation involves none of the financial burden- but I have been looked after by two parents who were abused as children
One who cannot speak of his past, or even remember
Who needed control so badly last year that he took to feeding me less when he was struggling or picked up on something.. Even kindly. Who in anger at not knowing where he was going drove recklessly , and who appeared to be trying to scare me at the time(he lost control and we all do).Ā
And a woman who is ashamed of her mental illnesses and refuses help, but who is irrationally angry, delusional at times and has always needed us to predict her every mood. She tries her best and is so hurt and is kind. But we apologise for actions we didnāt make, mistakes we made that all kids make, for spilling things and for playing in a way which triggered her to think we didnāt love her enough.Ā
There are always lies, a lack of knowledge of what is true, no ability to predict the level of anger, conversations about the other which you have to support them with and never diss the other even if there is reason to. Never arguments only tears, passive aggression and apologies.Ā
Their abusers demand complete love and obedience and have since we were small- and we used to be looked after them 3 hours a day.
My parents cannot be wrong or misremember because there is hell on this earth.
Confusion, aggression and losing control to the point of hitting out isnāt okay
And you can love them and know its wrong
You can know someone is ill and still ensure your safety first
It isnāt selfish
And if you like me are mentally ill and do stupid things, thank people for helping you when they donāt remember, share traumatising things, show you are ill, ask for forgiveness because you are told you hurt people and show you need help-in my case
... that isnāt the same as being aggressive or evil or abusive
Thatās trying and failing and growing and being alive
You just have to try to be kind and look after yourselfĀ
respect peopleās boundaries+ learn from your mistakes rather than shutting up and never ever ever believe you are painful- you are just in pain and need to get helpĀ
( or get let someone you trust help you- tell them what you need not why you need if they or you believe they might feel the conversation too deeply)
though i struggle with these things everydayĀ
and I am still fighting to be treated
I know its true
and tomorrow is a new dawn and there is always something you can do
Help:Directory of International Mental Health Helplines - HelpGuide.org
United States
Emergency: 911
Non-emergency essential local services: 211
Suicide prevention
988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline: 988 orĀ Lifeline Chat
Crisis Text Line: Text HOME TO 741741
Abuse and domestic violence
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233
STAND! For Families Free of ViolenceĀ crisis line: 888-215-5555
ChildhelpĀ National Child Abuse Hotline: 800-422-4453
Darkness to LightĀ Child Sexual Abuse National Helpline: 866-367-5444
Stop it Now!Ā Prevent child sexual abuse helpline: 888-PREVENT
National Center for Missing and Exploited ChildrenĀ Hotline: 800-843-5678
RAINNĀ National Sexual Assault Hotline: 800-656- 4673
Eldercare LocatorĀ (a public service of the U.S. Administration on Aging) to report elder abuse and neglect: 800-677-1116
National Center on Elder Abuse (NCEA)Ā directory of state helplines
Mental health
National Alliance on Mental IllnessĀ NAMI HelpLine: 1-800-950-6264 or text NAMI to 741-741
Crisis Support ServicesĀ national helpline: 800-273-8255
SAMHSAās National HelplineĀ (substance abuse and mental health): 800-662-HELP (800-662-4357)
Teen LineĀ for youth in need of support: 800-852-8336
National Runaway SafelineĀ for runaway and homeless youth, teens in crisis, and concerned family/friends: 800-RUNAWAY (800-786-2929)
Self-harm
S.A.F.E. Alternatives (Self-Abuse Finally Ends)Ā self-harm helpline: 800-DONT CUT (800-366-8288)
UK
Emergency: 999 or 112
Non-emergency: 111
Suicide prevention
SamaritansĀ 24/7 helpline: 116 123
Crisis text line: Text SHOUT to 85258
Papyrus HOPELINEUKĀ for those under 35: 0800 068 4141
The Campaign Against Living MiserablyĀ CALMĀ helpline: 0800 58 58 58
Abuse and domestic violence
National Domestic Abuse HelplineĀ in the UK: 0808 2000 247
Womenās AidĀ online chat
Respect PhonelineĀ for perpetrators of domestic violence: 0808 802 4040
Respect Menās Advice LineĀ for male victims: 0808 801 0327
ManKind InitiativeĀ for male victims: 01823 334244
National LGBT+ Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0800 999 5428
NSPCC helplineĀ if youāre worried about a child: 0800 800 5000
NSPCC ChildlineĀ for under 18s: 0800 1111
Action on Elder Abuse: 080 8808 8141
Rape CrisisĀ National Telephone Helpline in England and Wales: 0808 802 9999
Rape Crisis ScotlandĀ helpline: 08088 01 03 02
Addiction
Frank helpline: 0300 1236600
DrinklineĀ national alcohol helpline: 0300 123 1110
National Association for the Children of AlcoholicsĀ (NACOA) free helpline: 0800 358 3456
Alcoholics Anonymous (AA)Ā National Helpline: 0800 917 7650
Al-Anon HelplineĀ for family and friends affected by someone elseās drinking: 0800 008 6811
Narcotics Anonymous UKĀ helpline: 0300 999 1212
Scottish Families Affected by Alcohol and DrugsĀ helpline: 08080 10 10 11
DrugFAM HelplineĀ for those affected by someone else's drug or alcohol use: 0300 888 3853
Families Anonymous (Famanon)Ā Helpline for those who care about someone with a drug problem: 0207 4984 680
Release helplineĀ for help and legal advice about drugs: 020 7324 2989
Dan 24/7Ā drug and alcohol helpline for Wales: 0808 808 2234
NHS SmokefreeĀ helpline for stop smoking services in England: 0300 123 1044
SmokelineĀ for stop smoking services in Scotland: 0800 84 84 84
Help Me QuitĀ helpline for stop smoking services in Wales: 0800 085 2219
Gamcare National Gambling Helpline: 0808 8020 133
Mental health
MindĀ Infoline: 0300 123 3393
Rethink Mental IllnessĀ advice line: 0808 801 0525
SANElineĀ national out-of-hours mental health helpline: 0300 304 7000
NHS: 111
Find a local NHS urgent mental health helplineĀ (England only)
Anxiety UK: 03444 775 774
Breathing SpaceĀ (Scotland): 0800 83 85 87
SupportLineĀ for emotional support on any issue: 01708 765200
Self-harm
MindĀ Infoline: 0300 123 3393
Self Injury SupportĀ Helpline for women: 0808 800 8088
ZESTĀ (N. Ireland): 0287 126 6999
The MixĀ support for under 25s: 0808 808 4994
Republic of Ireland
Emergency: 999 or 112
Suicide prevention
SamaritansĀ 24/7 helpline: 116 123
Crisis Text Line: Text HELLO to 50808
Abuse and domestic violence
Womenās AidĀ 24hr National Freephone Helpline: 1800 341 900
Menās Aid Ireland: 01 554 3811
Childline Helpline Ireland: 1800 66 66 66
ISPCC Teenline: 1800 833 634
Age ActionĀ HSE helpline: 1850 24 1850
Rape Crisis Help IrelandĀ 24 Hour Helpline: 1800 778888
Addiction
HSE Drug and Alcohol Helpline: 1800 459 459
Al-Anon HelplineĀ for family and friends affected by someoneās drinking: 0800 008 6811
Mental health
Mental Health Ireland: 01 2841166
AwareĀ Depression & Bipolar Disorder Support: Freephone 1800 80 48 48
GrowĀ mental health support: 1890 474 474
ShineĀ supporting people affected by mental ill health: 01 541 3715
you can always call your emergency services if you need help (or your doctors if you need non-urgent help)!!!
Your children arenāt meant to be therapists for your bad marriage. Your children arenāt meant to be the adults in the house if your partner isnāt home. Your children arenāt supposed to parent their younger siblings. Your children arenāt supposed to fix your financial woes. Putting these demands on children from a very early age is actually a form of abuse.
#mental health#mental illness#tw emotional abuse#i don't believe they are in the wrong most days even now#end the cycle#they need help but so do you#tell someone you trust#look after yourself#get them help#if they refuse create distance#and let someone that loves them look after them and try#you are beautiful#you are loved#tw parents mental illness#tw gaslighting#tw food#tw abuse
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Part two of the reverse verse is here! The reverse boys meet the original boys. They're not really getting along as well as I had hoped...
Again, this was a commission for @i-am-as-normal-as-you-are and they asked for angst/funny vibes... I think it's mostly just angst though. Oh, well...
Part one
#dead boy detectives#dbda#payneland#edwin x charles#reverse verse#there's a lot i could say about this one#the idea of someone telling edwin he's go to hell is absurd as it is#edwin telling edwin? lmao#the charles... oh they hate each other#reverse charles is angry (he always is) because this other version of himself was spared hell... in exchange for edwin going there?#obviously it doesn't work like that. og charles hadn't even been born when his edwin was sent to hell#but anger is not a rational thing. especially not for this boy#og charles? you don't want to know what he's thinking#i'm telling you anyways#he... kind of agrees. if someone had to go to hell#why edwin? why not him? there is an universe in which that happened#so why not this one? unfair#then again... look at this charles who did go to hell#he's explosive. he's DANGEROUS#he shouldn't be near edwin#if og charles had gone to hell would he be the same? would he be too angry to be trusted? would he be like his father?#and if so would that really count as saving edwin at all?#if this is the kind of best friend poor edwin would end up with?#on a happier note though#physical contact!! reverse charles loves it#i don't have all the details but his hell was on the rage ring so it was different to the dollhouse.#and it was a very violent place so boy loves gentle touches#luckily edwin is more willing to give them to him with each year#i think what the edwins are feeling is a lot more clear#but still would love to hear your thoughts
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You can feel how you feel about this but do not give way for cynicism or hopelessness. Thatās how the fascists win. You have to fight and you have to organize and you have to do everything youāre able to so Harris can win in November. The people of this country depend on that win and the entire world depends on it as well. If you are eligible to vote you need to vote blue and you need to tell everyone you know to vote blue. There is no other option that will not in calamity.
#i think this is the right decision and iām glad he made it#iām worried about a lot of things#but iām not giving up hope#as a non american living in the us for now i can only tell you that if you think your small choice or action doesnāt matter#it does#trust me as someone from a country that is also slipping into authoritarianism but we probably escaped that by the skin of the teeth#you need hope and that hope will inspire action
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merlin (immortal) giving arthur (pendragon) the only blade that could kill him
#they make me SICK#i hate them so much#if arthur had found out about his magic earlier and took it poorlyā¦heād be the only person able to kill him#merlin handing over the sword as a symbol of his utter trust in arthur#god imagine arthur finding out (au everyone lives) and being torn between wanting to cast the sword away but also wanting to keep it on him#he hates the weight of merlins life that now seems attached to the blade#he doesnt want it#but he cant cast it away bc what if someone gets their hands on it?? then merlins life is in their hands#he is BAFFLED that merlin would give HIM - uther pendragons son - the only thing that could kill him#he asks after days of fitful sleep and consideration and merlin is just like#āits /you/ arthur.ā he says like its painfully obvious#NCJGSKSNSDIBSKSB TEYH MKAE ME VIOELTNT#bbc merlin#merlin emrys#arthur pendragon#excalibur#immortal merlin#merthur#im just thinking of percabeth when percy tells annabeth where his mortal point is and she is the ONLY person who knows#and she has to carry that tidbit of information around like its not the heaviest burden shes ever carried - more so than the sky#that one quote 'love is giving someone the power to destroy you but trusting them not to'#idk you get it#arthur and annabeth being the only people who can destroy the one they love#merlin and percy having unwavering trust and faith in their other half that they place their life in their hands#literally#sorry im done
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Rook: I'm really worried about Davrin and Lucanis, they keep arguing with one another... Its very bad Varric, what if it effects them in battle?
Varric, remembering that one time Fenris broke Ander's nose then took a knife in the back for him in the same night: I'm sure they'll be fine kid. They're barely even arguing if you ask me
#dragon age#dav spoilers#sorry its so funny to me#varric hearing the veilguard talk about their problems like adults instead of fucking/drinking/fighting their way out of it:#'wow my kirkwall friends really were fucked up losers huh:#'* whoops#i wish veilguard cast was a little bit toxic... i need them to be mean#lucanis should hate me so much more for choosing minrathous over treviso#i was counting on the yummy character drama...#he does trust rook a little bit less cause of it though so ill take that#i do feel bad about treviso im already planning a crow rook to save it and romance lucanis#sorry to compare these two to fenris and anders again i just think its funny#they should let me stick anders in the middle of the lighthouse#his sheer inability to cope with shit in a healthy way would be like setting off another bomb#someone tries to applogize and anders starts on his Bullshit you know what I'm talking about#can you guys tell i miss him. hes so bad at coping babygirl come back to me...#crow rambles
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Vettonso complaining about each other not respecting schrondinger's track limits on the radio compilation + Seb's commentary that made me a bit feral
Must include these sexy ass pics okay, it makes me feral how hard they race each other.
Also SO upset that we got this vid and there's also pictures(and presumably a vid out there somewhere) of Fernando, back then, ALSO debriefing this race. And yet we never got them together?????? Evil. Fucked up.
Imagine seeing them complaining about each other but also having to (begrudgingly if you're Fernando) compliment each other IN FRONT of each other. Maybe its a good thing it doesn't exist, bcs then I'd have a heart attack.
#this is just a supercut of the f1 vid in the source so you should watch that as well :)#thank you boo to inadvertently pointing me towards this moment cause man it makes me insane#like the added context of knowing seb was just being bratty cause he KNEW fernando was heated on the radio is SO funny#fernando's radios....actually so feral#'give back the position IMMEDIATELY'#fernando i dont have the position but i will do my best to give it to you anyways#grrrrrrr theres smth about getting to see seb discuss such a vettonso hard racing moment#he clearly respects him š„¹#but even years on you can tell hes SO pleased abt how much he was irritating fernando#this is the kinda clip that makes me wish f1 had proximity chat#them both on the radio like 'does that idiot EVEN know what hes doing'#also the annoying confidence of seb on the radio saying its fernando's fault if he gets a punctuee#and not even mentioning the fact that he could get a puncture š#but again. to hear him complimenting Fernando really kills me#just about his spacial awareness and how seb feels like he can always race him to the limit bcs he TRUSTS him#like that is the true f1 romance to me. racing someone hard and complaining on the radio but +#admitting that you never rly felt in danger bcs you TRUST the other driver!!!!!!!#i love sassy angry radios. they both sound so........yeah. im unwell#f1#formula 1#sebastian vettel#fernando alonso#we do a little bit of f1#2014 british gp#vettonso
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maybe its just the cptsd talking (its always talking, Help Me) but i cannot help but continuously think about anya mouthwashing and that fucking scene between her and curly in the cockpit. i cant think of anything more devastating for an abuse survivor ta go thru. to know that people care so little for you and how you feel and the ways that you have been hurt that they will allow someone who abused you to stay on board a ship when you tell them that you want them gone. if i had been in anyas shoes i would have been pissed. and you know what!! i am pissed!! because the same fucking thing happened to me!! anya was driven to the point of fearing for her life because curly couldnt grow a fucking spine and tell an abuser ta beat it. thats what happened dude. and its so. ohhhh its such good story telling. and it rings so true as someone who has survived exactly this situation. and the way anya talks in this scene...."i know you're not going to protect me, so i might as well protect myself" (paraphrasing here) said thru gritted teeth. said thru tears that threaten to spill from her eyes. spat with venom, anger, hatred, even. and the abuse did continue. and she was right. but nobody will ever listen because anya will let anyone and everyone walk all over her because its what she feels she deserves. deep down. and she realizes that the only one who really has her back 100% is her. because everyone else who claims to care is fucking lying. and it was proven to her when curly said that he would "talk to jimmy" its rage enducing. i cant imagine what she was thinking nursing curly that whole time. the rage. the fact that his life was at her fingertips. it must have felt good. to have all that. to be able to decide if someone like him lived, died, suffered, the same way he did to her. there is absolutely no shot that she thought about killing him. she thought about it, and was probably so fucking angry and pissed, but then. as she always did as she learned to do redirected the hurt and anger at herself and took her own life. and makes me feel seen in a way that i have never felt seen before.
#HOLY FUCKING SHIT#i did not go thru the same exact abuse as anya for clarification#but oh my god#begging someone you trust to protect you. someone who has authority#and they tell you in too many words ''no i wont''#that fucking *happened* to me#mentions of suicide#mouthwashing#I HAD ANOTHER THING BUT I FORGOT#I SHALL COME BACK LATER IF I REMEMBER#spacie spoinks
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all the tme intersex people i used to know suddenly jumping on the newest transmisogynistic bandwagon and immediately spewing all the same āur just overreacting, you call everything transmisogyny, stop being hysterical!!!ā bullshit really puts into perspective how the intersex community on here gained any traction to begin with, yāall are not immune to pulling the same bullshit perisex people do and youāre calling the intersex transfems arguing against you perisex??? just to let afabs pretend to be us so you have that idealized quiet trans woman again, like iām sorry but this is a strawman on par with āwhite trans womanā nothing has changed and at some point you need to realize that your conception of what these terms mean just doesnāt reflect their actual rhetorical use in real conversations about queerness
#itās just so fucking gross to get called perisex by someone i used to think i was in community with#the moment i was outspoken as a transfem#they hide me in one of their boxes and tell me i talk about transmisogyny too much#and like i donāt want pity i shouldnāt have trusted tme people further than i can throw them but like#i didnāt get the confidence and pride to put intersex in my url from nowhere#and yeah i had their same misconceptions at some point i understand how you get there#but i just canāt feel anything but devastatingly sad about yet another community turning on us just cuz a few transmisogynists#made an argument that flattered their egos#intersex transfems never mattered to these people#cuz the only intersex transfems they like are the afab ones that steal our culture and history and strip it of any of its meaning#and then stay quiet so they can be pointed to as āproofā#as if dressing up your friend as a made up animal makes it real as long as the costume stays on
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Will never get over how Starscream and Skyfire's relationship is always doomed. There's never an iteration of them where they both stay on the same side at the end. They always end up being against each other, tearing each other apart (whether intentionally or not). They always end up losing each other, be it by a snowstorm, by the war, or by death itself. They never receive a happy ending together, one if not both of them is doomed to suffer.
Skyfire is doomed to be an Autobot, by forces out of his control. Starscream is doomed to be an Decepticon, by his own self destructive tendencies. They are both doomed, because of who they are. They always try to save the other, in their own way. But it never works. They are doomed to fail, whether they stay together or not.
#Starscream and skyfire are parallels of optimus and Megatron. do you understand me.#believing in someone when no one else did. seeing something worth supporting when no one else did. being the one person they trust.#they both ended up being torn apart by the war and their own ideals. losing each other because of their conflicting views.#one became an autobot and the other became a decepticon. one of them must fall.#i have lots of feelings about them yknow.#doomed yaoi shit going on here#will never get over how much g1 starscream cared about skyfire. like. he kept trying to have skyfire stay by his side#he was still a shitty guy and treated skyfire like shit but there was genuine care and emotion under it all. he still cared#i need a universe where they get to reconcile. where they get to be happy. pull an earthspark and let them be friends again#i need a skyfire who learns to love and accept post-war Starscream. i need a Starscream who despite everything still want skyfire with him.#i need them not to be doomed but rather learn and grow. accept the flaws and faults of the past and learn to move on#can you tell i love skystar#can you tell i love them#skyfire#jetfire#starscream#transformers#transformers g1#g1 transformers#the fire burns#skystar
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Maybe its just me but I think its really fucked up that the only way teachers can "help" a child is with cps and the fucking police. I think its really fucked up that they're constantly talking about "tell a trusted adult" when sometimes you just don't fucking have one. Because all of them were bad options. I think its fucked up that my, and many many many children's only fucking options have been tell someone and put everything in danger or do nothing and continue on in silence. I think its fucked up that even without saying it I had to start understanding that no matter how kinda a teacher, or counselor, or school staff member was to me at times, that they would never put me over them being held liable or their job. I would never be that important. They get to pat themselves on the back while I get put in handcuffs and put treated like an example of what not to do as if im not even there. I think its really fucked up that at a certain point it will never matter how nice a teacher is, no matter how many "I know it sucks...." or "I'm sorry but it's my job..."s or "I don't want to have to do this..."s you get, because its always the same fucking thing. Your a liability, and no adult is going to risk their job with a child that they could easily just hand to someone else more 'qualified' to handle.
#how do i tag this#kinda a vent#Kinda a rant about the system in general#all cops are bastards#fuck cops#Teachers can be fucking assholes#education system#Cps is also shit#Fuck psychiatry too#I know they're important but like#Mandated reporters can be fucking assholes#'Tell a trusted adult'#Ok then give me an adult to trust bitch#Give the a child someone they can actually fucking trust#God people are assholes to kids#youth liberation#Oh yeah this also has to do with child abuse#And neglect#And being mentally ill as a child#Like the moment your situation crosses the threshold into abuse then you actually have zero trusted adults#And no matter how nice they are you have to train yourself to never talk to them#Because then everything goes bad#Because in the end your nothing more than a liability.
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I canāt believe a boyfriend made a silly sex joke to lighten the mood after both partners had a moment of vulnerability. The audacity. The horror. The normalcy! Unbelievable. How dare a conversation about feelings turn to levity. How dare a couple have a light chat about trauma-related things over dinner that doesnāt turn into an incredibly deep heart to heart instead of a joke and moving on. Unbelievable. Iām never watching this show again! šš»
#911 spoilers#bucktommy#Evan buckley#Tommy kinard#look#as a queer person in a relationship with another queer person#both of whom have major familial trauma#trust me when I say you generally DONT WANT ever reference to your feelings and trauma to turn into a huge deep discussion#sometimes you just say something vulnerable#and the other person does too#and then you joke about it and move on#humour is powerful coping mechanism as well#one that is pretty common especially among guys#people need to freaking relax ffs#Tommy is not a horrible person for making a flirty joke#things were said and feelings were acknowledged#and then they moved on#this is all perfectly freaking natural#Buck is not some sensitive flower that canāt handle a silly joke about daddy issues#please I beg you all to look at this at a distance with some common sense#rather than the ābut Buck is traumatized and must always be treated delicately!!ā lens#and I am saying all of this as someone who really doesnāt give two fucks about the joke itself#Iām not into daddy kink idgaf#but if the idea that a queer couple isnāt allowed to insert a flirty joke to lighten a moment of vulnerability#then I donāt know what to tell you#you personally finding something innapropriate does not mean itās actually innapropriate#please just chill out ffs#no one wants to hear about how evil Tommy is for hitting on his boyfriend for months and months to come
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Donāt think I ever quite said what my LGBTQ+ headcanons are for the boys, so these are my current thoughts! Always changing of course but this is what I feel most strongly right now.
#rottmnt#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#rottmnt headcanons#rise donnie#rise leo#rise mikey#rise raph#donnie and leoās sexualities being practically swapped was unintentional but it works way too well#same with mikey and raph tbh it was a happy accident#anyway I kinda hc raph as the type who doesnāt care about physical appearance just if you fight lol#Mikeyās more than happy with friends and family#Donnie is a BIG romantic but he needs time to sus a person out fully before he gets the hots for them#leo meanwhile isnāt keen on romance unless itās with someone he grows to really really REALLY trust#I could go on and probably will later (knowing me) but it is late and I am tired haha#turtle art tag#curious as to what everyone else headcanons#the only one of these Iāll defend forever is Bi (female-leaning) donnie and trans leo#all the others can change over time but I really like where theyāre sitting right now#I hope these are the right flags too because it was kinda hard to find them#went looking for transmasc flag in particular but I couldnāt find a solid agreed upon version š#ngl a big part of why I hc mikey as aro is because of a pun#my phone often misspells aromantic as aromatic and- and you get it- because aromatic herbs and- and Mikey is a chef do YOU GET IT#note that while I hc leo as bisexual (male-leaning) I still think heās prob closer to demi in that as well just not as far into the spectrum#if that makes sense#headcanons are fun and hard to narrow down at the same time alas#I made this in like an hour can you tell djjdjd#I drew them all from memory so if thereās anything wrongā¦shhh#and if youāre wondering for April and Splinter#Both are Bisexual (female-leaning) but April is also Panromantic#I almost wanna make Splinter demiromantic too so Big Mamaās betrayal hits just a bit harder
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like the important thing you must keep in mind about ten when you see him do literally anything is that he's soooooooooo so so so bad at actually isolating himself from other people. so TERMINALLY bad at it. he thinks to himself "i don't need human connection because everything i do causes pain and destruction to those around me :(" but then he experiences a crumb of human connection and his heart starts to spill out of his chest
#tenth doctor#dr who#doctor who#yeah i say heart singular cuz he said 'i suppose they break my heart' in the next doctor and i have perma brain damage over it#btw. this is why him and martha in the first half of series 3 are Like That. he trusts her deeply but he also doesn't want to form#another deep emotional connection bc look what happened with rose! right! i think partially the reason why he#has his moments of opening up about his past is because he thinks 'well she isn't going to see me again after this'#'i might as well tell her if she asks. it may even scare her off'. this is INSANE. he is INSANE. and he is so fucking STUPID#fool! you are developing a connection with someone!!!!!!! not pushing them away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#look at what you are doing to martha's self esteem bro!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#10 era
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Larry's random conversarion lines š
PokƩmon Masters EX spoilers ahead!
Random conversation 1:
Ever since I met a certain individual, I now find myself gazing up at the sky every once in a while. There's scenery you'll never even notice if you stick to flat, well-trodden paths. Just something I've observed. I don't dislike the vast, clear sky... But I don't think I can reach it. It's nice to know that there's something like that out there, though.
Random conversation 2:
Pasio seems to have many good restaurants. Ah, I'm not asking for specific recommendations, though... I actually enjoy walking around and looking for a place I might like. That's part of the experience. I seek the exceptional only when it comes to food. Pasio has a variety of cuisines to choose from, so it's hard to stick to just one.
Random conversation 3:
(Player), which do you tend to favor: the exceptional or the average? I was thinking of inviting you to have a meal sometime. Casually figuring out your client's preferences is a special skill that you learn as a salaried employee.
Random conversation 4:
Lunchtime is one of the few things that a salaried employee like me can look forward to at work... We can decide whether to spend that precious time eating something familiar or trying out a new restaurant. It's not just about the meal. The decision-making process leading up to it is also something to look forward to.
Random conversation 5:
People, PokƩmon... There's no need to overcomplicate things. Nowadays people only seem to want a shock factor. Something weird, something bizarre. When all's said and done, simplicity is strongest.
Random conversation 6:
You don't necessarily have to follow every instruction from your boss. But I pretend to follow them, at least, so I can avoid hassles later on. That's a technique you can use to get by in the workplace. Keep it in mind.
Random conversation 7:
I'm here in this famous tourist spot, but I can't really spread my wings while my boss has her eye on me. I guess I'll do what I usually do on my lunch break and find a spot to Roost...
#entering that time of the year where my phone gets full so i'll archive some stuff here š«” feels like this could be useful for my writing!#anyway you guys. the first convo line... is he talking about kabu. tell me that i'm not hallucinating or reaching here. is this him talking#about their different values... that he knows he can't match kabu's passion but he's happy to know that someone like him exists?! ššššš#pokemas said old man yaoi and gave us a FEAST apparently... aokabu/silverstreakshipping fans we keep winning š£š£š£#also not larry telling you how to ditch your boss' orders lmaooo šš¤ what's next my king? gonna tell us to read fics during company time?#his love for food is sooo endearing though... mayhaps the way to his heart is a good home-cooked meal š„ŗ i think he'd appreciate that!#also the roost reference... the sky reference... more larry alt is coming. elite four larry is coming. trust#gym leader larry#elite four larry#pokemon#pokemon larry#pokemon scarvi#pokemon scarlet and violet#pokemon masters ex#pokemas#pmex#pokemon masters ex spoilers#pmex spoilers#pokemas spoilers#scarvi#paldea#pasio#larry pokemon
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