#talking about family

[blueshykitsune-blog]

Do you got a good relationship with your father?

So normally I wouldn't answer personal questions here but this specific ask is gonna bother me if I don't answer it.

So generally I know that people who might be similar to me in a lot of things I like or dislike may have bad relationships if at all even having a living father.

My dad is alive yes. I have a bit of a complicated relationship. It's only really known by one side though.

So I'm in the closet about well basically all my identities and things I like/dislike. Especially for my family I live with. Mainly because they have conflicting opinions and also some of my labels/opinions could maybe put me in danger if I tell them. Actually heck, even some more factual stuff I know could.

Anyways as of right now it's a... okay relationship. Like we talk. He tells me about his work a lot. Tells me stuff I know may be false/manipulated to make people see something only one way. Stuff like that happens. He still considers me his child too.

I could say we probably had a better relationship when I was younger though.

I do know in the future I have the option to complete destroy the relationship. Not just because of my opinions on politics.

He would most definitely disprove of many of my labels or potential labels. I'm just glad I haven't slipped up with him when he was aware of things.

I will continue the rest of this on my other blog btw.

(My blog @goldshykitsune for those who are curious)

[bookslutskye]

so i recently got top surgery and this was on my discharge papers after a mild complication

[girlinafairytale]

i genuinely hate how people have to sit and write a post that stands out while boosting a fundraiser because most people won't bat an eye at the misery and inhumane conditions Palestinians are living in.

i see people making art and telling others to use it because fundraisers with art are generally reblogged more often. i see people using colored text in order to make the post more eye catching.

palestinians on instagram are using popular audios and stitch trending reels at the beginning to make the world pay attention to them. imagine having to make something look entertaining in order to survive.

they are living under constant threat of israeli airstrikes, bombing, scarcity of food and disease. many have lost a lot in the past few months.

palestinians on tumblr are posting their pictures and the horrible conditions in which they are living. they travel long distances for internet connection only to be called a scammer by some privileged ass who cannot locate gaza on a map.

here are some verified gfms. please share the linked posts. it's the bare minimum we can do from the comforts of our home.

@amjadshiltawu: link to the post

vetted

@dima96yousef: link to the post

vetted

@tamer200333: link to the post

vetted

@ahmed8311: link to the post

vetted (#161)

@saratahrawi: link to the post

vetted

[crow-caller]

as a child there's nothing cooler than a kid who gets subjected to evil experiments and gains special abilities. it's even cooler if these abilities also cause unfathomable suffering to use/against others. children love stories like this.

[noelledeltarune]

EVERY SINGLE DAY there are MILLIONS of characters in their late 20s who get falsely accused of being father figures to teenagers when in reality the description of "weird older cousin" or "step-sibling that moved out before you were born" is 1000000x more apt

[tallymali]

genuinely what is the reason for the internet becoming so prudish?? who can i fight about this

[kotse]

@hg-aneh fanart of fanart! i want them to be best friends in the rain and have a slumber party

[bli-o]

hey autistic people who get overwhelmed by large groups or noise or conversation or etc etc etc you’re not evil for wanting to leave a family gathering. just so you know.

[allyriadayne]

House Strong during the Dance of the Dragons

[akanemnon]

How to be an annoying little jerk 101

FIRST - PREVIOUS - NEXT

MASTERPOST (for the full series / FAQ / reference

[heyhanibee]

Kataang Week—Day 3: Parenting/First-Time Parents

[elliocrett]

Loid "talk bad about my wife and you're dead" Forger

[metanarrates]

I genuinely feel like an alien compared to my coworkers when they try to chat with me about things like dating and weight loss. like what are you SAYING about "oh you know it's just so hard to make your man understand the instructions you give him?" why are you trying to connect with me by complaining that you gained 15 pounds? is this how most people form connections in the workplace? i for real do not get it

[girlinafairytale]

for the past several months, palestinian men have shown a great amount courage and bravery in the face of danger.

they have dug people and children out of rubble, sometimes alive and sometimes dead. they have travelled miles and miles to provide food and water for their family.

they have come online pleading with everyone to help them. many travel long distances for internet connection. they have been on the frontlines for months, providing for their family, documenting the genocide, helping people and in many instances, dying.

in return, they have been dehumanised, their lives are not counted as 'precious' because they are men. people have been indifferent to their suffering and death. they have been called scammers, all while they face the dangers of airstrikes, food and water scarcity, and disease. they have been dehumanised to such an extent that people refuse to help their fundraisers.

i urge you all to share the linked posts and donate what you can spare to those who are suffering. we owe it to them, for we never talk about their suffering.

help siraj rebuild his house- @siraj2024: verified

help dr aldeed evacuate his family- @mohammedaldeeb: verified

help mohammed evacuate his family- @rasha-ibrahim: verified

help bilal evacuate his family- @bilal-salah0: verified(#132)- completed

help wafaa's brother evacuate- @wafans-blog: verified (#260)- completed

[lilislegacy]

percy, holding out his fist in his palm: ok wise girl. rock paper scissors time. if i win, i get to pick the movie for date night

annabeth, doing the same: fine, but if i win, we move back across the country to that house in westchester that i love

grover, looking over in alarm: what?! how is that even—

percy, nodding firmly: deal. rock pap—

[shinydoorknobs]

It's weird feeling like an outsider in my family home where I spent my early teens.

This house was built by my mother, solely thinking it would be just us for the rest of time. Then 3 years later she got together with a man, whom a further 3 years after she would marry.

That marriage led to me no longer being an only child at the ripe old age of 21. A beautiful set of twins whom I adore. They are now 5 years old. By the time they were born I was already moved out of the house, fully independent from parents.

Then to complicate matters my older sister/not sister moved in. This is the really complex part. We knew eachother since childhood. She is a Belarussian who has been spending summers here since 2003 and moved permanently 4 years ago. Soon after she became a live in nanny for my siblings and here she has stayed.

Here I sit, them talking as family and me on my phone feeling like an outsider in the home I spent many years calling my own.