#tagged as mine for the addition

[newsfromstolenland]

This is really important, a lot of white trans people don't seem to understand that misgendering doesn't only occur because of transphobia.

A full decade before I started identifying as a non-binary woman, I had white kids misgendering me and calling me a man or a boy because as a brown girl I didn't fit their idea of what a woman or girl is supposed to be.

European standards of beauty and femininity often lead to women and girls of colour being viewed as "too masculine" and often lead to misgendering.

And I think that the reason that white trans people refuse to acknowledge or accept this is because they don't think and/or care about the experiences of women and girls of colour.

I also think that there's an idea among white trans people that misgendering is an experience that somehow belongs to the trans community, and by saying that cis women of colour get misgendered, we are saying that trans people don't. But it doesn't belong to you. And we aren't saying that.

An important part of recognizing that trans women of colour experience higher rates of transphobia and misgendering is recognizing that they are misgendered both for being trans and for being women of colour. Which in turn requires recognizing that women of colour, including cis women, are often misgendered for their race and ethnic features.

No one is trying to take the experience of being misgendered away from you, or claim that you don't experience it. It's just that racialized women experience misgendering for our race too.

Caption: [A stitch with user @/sapphicyuji. The text on screen reads, " "you can't misgender cis people!", you have never had your gender questioned outside of your transness and it shows. sincerely, a trans poc".

I'm actually super glad we're having a conversation about this. The masculinization of black and brown women, because for years I felt like I endured this unique form of trauma until I realized other people went through the same thing too. And if there's one thing that I'd like to add to the conversation, there seems to be this misconception that this is something that starts at puberty. Like boys tell you you look like a man to hurt your feeling when that's so far from the case.

The first time I was purposefully misgendered was in kindergarten. I was constantly referred to by the masculine variant of my name, I was chased out of the women's restroom, and I had grown adults questioning what my biological sex was before I even knew what the difference was. And those behaviors persisted into adulthood because now if I present as anything less than 100% feminine, people will either compare me to men or animals.

And for myself and for many other brown and black women this is a life long act deliberately intended to humiliate, shame, and other us for the features we were naturally born with and I'm glad we're having a discussion on how harmful it actually is.]

[egg24108]

i want a fic about them on my desk by thursday. capiche? /j

[darkdragon768]

Various doodles of the Dorito Twins.

I just like to play with them like dolls and put them into situations.

[logicpng]

...at least that's the link order that made most sense to me

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Clownillustrations' Welcome Home fanart. Wally Darling is drawn at an angle slightly from below, lacking his mouth, and the eyes wide open and bright white looking the viewer. In front of him, along his height through the middle of his face, a long stripe made of the blurry Welcome Home website screenshots, glowing. Behind him is a vinyl record with a plain red label.

The background is littered with text, a wall of repeating "Let me in." from top to bottom to the left of the image, Wally's dialogue behind him, and the text on the foreground, slightly corrupted, says "I will help you understand neighbor I will find a way soon"

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[newsfromstolenland]

Foreign Affairs Minister Mélanie Joly's announcement Tuesday that Canada has suspended 30 permits to export military materiel to Israel may have been meant to placate pro-Palestinian activists demanding an arms embargo. But without more transparency, it remains a political muddle.

One week out from a byelection in a previously safe Liberal seat in Montreal where New Democrats (and their pamphlets) are pushing Canada's response to the ongoing violence in Gaza as a ballot question, Joly proactively used her scrum at the governing caucus's retreat in Nanaimo, B.C. to rebut claims the Trudeau government isn't doing enough.

"Our policy has been clear," she said. "Since Jan. 8, we have not accepted any form of arms export permits to be sent to Israel."

Accepting her claim that the government's policy has been "clear" means forgetting the mess last spring when a New Democrat MP introduced a Commons motion calling on Canada to "suspend all trade in military goods and technology with Israel" that had to be watered down at the last minute so more Liberals could support it.

Activists point to the many millions of dollars in defence trade that may continue to flow Israel's way under previously approved and still-valid permits.

Joly told reporters she asked her department to look into Canadian companies' existing permits.

"We are asking questions to these companies. Following that, I asked my department to look into any existing permits of arms or parts of arms that could have been sent to Israel," the minister said.

"Following that, I suspended this summer around 30 existing permits of Canadian companies and we are asking questions to these companies."

She did not say what her questions were.

A suspension is not a cancellation. Last spring, Joly was among those warning that sudden, arbitrary or politically motivated terminations invite legal action by firms that hold the government responsible for their business losses. Supply chain disruptions also cause problems for Canada's defence procurement relationships with allies.

There may be over 200 valid permits to ship to Israel right now, so 30 suspensions falls well short of the total arms embargo activist organizations — not to mention 22 Liberal MPs — have demanded.

(emphasis mine)

Full article

[torchlitinthedesert]

It’s weird how narratives stick around, even after they’ve been debunked. Philip Norman’s Shout!, hugely influential as the first “serious” Beatles bio, is now seen as biased. Norman himself has climbed down, admitting that as a John stan he was unfair to both Paul and George. (I don’t think he’s apologised to Ringo yet, but no doubt that will come when he needs the money and decides to do a Ringo biography.)

So when Norman writes Paul joining the Quarrymen, he’s bitchy about it: carefully deploying quotes to say that Paul was big-headed, he was catty, he bitched about how the others played, he was a Machiavellian plotter. When you compare it to interviews or memoirs from the surviving Quarrymen, it becomes clear that Norman was cherrypicking; they’ve got good and bad things to say about John, Paul, George, and each other, including plenty of positive memories of Paul. I’ve certainly seen posts debunking Norman by comparing sources (or just by giggling over his image of Paul as bossy baby diva.)

But that still frames the early days in Norman’s terms: it’s still asking Precisely How Annoying Was Teenaged Paul McCartney? The story you don’t get, and which is surprisingly rare in Beatle narratives, is this one: Paul joined the Quarrymen, and transformed its musical standards (not least by bringing in George). He joined a ramshackle skiffle group whose lead singer couldn’t tune his guitar and whose two guitarists could only play in banjo chords. Next thing you know, they’re the kind of band whose members will go on multi-bus odysseys across Liverpool in search of a new chord.

Acknowledging that isn’t belittling John. Just the opposite: it shows just how exciting and inspiring he must have been. Paul and George were music nerds, and Liverpool was full of baby skiffle and rock’n’roll groups. They had plenty of other options. But no, John’s was the band they wanted to join. John’s charisma was enough to make Paul rebel against family expectations, and George accept a leader who was quick and slapdash about things that George would devote long, hard hours to getting exactly right. Paul and George’s talent and dedication were enough to make John buckle down and rehearse. And they all thought it was worth it.

It also set up a pattern for how they would work together. Just as they’d sought out that B7 chord, George and Paul went right on exploring new sounds - Indian music for George, electronic music for Paul. And having found them, they offered them to John. So George’s sitar first appears in Norwegian Wood, Paul’s tape loops in Tomorrow Never Knows.

Later still, when John’s insecurities kicked in, he was uncomfortable with that. He insisted to interviewers that he’d written the Norwegian Wood riff, or complained that he should have stuck with his original idea of chanting monks for Tomorrow Never Knows. But again, it doesn’t devalue John to recognise the others’ contributions. It shows how he inspired them, how the Beatles worked as a unit, how they made each other better. (Can you imagine George offering the sitar to Paul first, or Paul suggesting the tape loops made their first appearance on a George song? I can’t.) Ignoring what Paul and George gave John is to ignore a big chunk of what made John special.

Anyway, I’m almost tempted to read Shout!, just to see how often Norman’s spite is a distraction tactic to stop you noticing Paul, George, or Ringo doing something important.

[megabuild]

enjoying the progression of "i wish ao3 filtered character and rpf tags for minecraft youtubers separately so i could filter out the nasty rpf shippers" > "i don't care about the filtering system but wish i didn't have to see real streamer names etc." > "i wish ao3 filtered character and rpf tags for minecraft youtubers separately so i could filter out the characters and get right to the irl infidelity porn"

[lietpolski]

you'll NEVER guess what my favourite eurovision 2024 song is

[newsfromstolenland]

The U.S. and U.K ambassadors to Japan will sit out the annual memorial ceremony marking the atomic bombing of Nagasaki on Friday after the city decided not to invite the Israeli ambassador in what has become an increasingly politicized peace ceremony.

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A number of envoys to Japan — including those from Canada, France, Germany, Italy and the European Union — have voiced concern over Nagasaki’s decision, sending a letter to Mayor Shiro Suzuki last month stating that not inviting Israel would be lumping the Middle Eastern country in with countries such as Russia and Belarus, the only countries not invited.

Gosh, I wonder what all the countries deciding not to go or "voicing concern" have in common 🤔

And I wonder why people might "lump israel in with russia and belarus"...it's not like they're all invading countries and killing people right now or anything...

But seriously, all these envoys from majority-white western countries skipping or complaining about a memorial to civilians being bombed (many of which countries supported said bombing, one of which actually perpetrated it) because an envoy from a country known for currently killing civilians in an act of genocide wasn't invited? Ghoulish fucking behaviour.

hey i can't make it to Sorry For Visiting Wanton Destruction Upon Your Populace For No Reason Day yeah uhm its just that like you didn't invite my war crime friend and i think its kinda fucked up that you did that

[huellitaa]

of course i still believe in santa. where is your childlike joy and wondrous whimsy

[xxplastic-cubexx]

what is your favorite thing about charles and your favorite thing about erik? separately, as in what you like most about their characters :]

a devious question this one is, my friend!!! it's hard enough for me to explain my thoughts cohesively, but having to pick ONE thing i particularly love is difficult. with characters like charles and erik, theres been so much done with their characters over the decades and so they have so many components to them that make them so interesting and fun to observe. BUT I TRY FOR YOU TODAY. under the cut i kinda ramble and the size of this text box makin me anxious

i think if i were to be simple and broad, what i enjoy most about charles is his determination to help others, even if he isn't really thanked and/or if people don't even like him. ofc, this isn't to say he hasn't done wrong- to be honest, the fact he does wrong/questionable things at times is another aspect of him i really enjoy, maybe because- broadly speaking- he's meant to be altruistic (intent vs outcome and all that). i don't know if that's super exciting to most people, but it is for me

as for erik, my reason for liking him is easier to explain tbh. To Be Simple And Broad, his progression from villain to antihero over the decades has been fun to observe (as much as i have so far anyhow) and analyze. i think to be a bit more specific, him using his rage and pain as justifications for his villainous actions is definitely what compels me the most: hurt people hurt and the sort, an idea i've always found interesting (something something vicious cycles and the like). yet now, he recognizes this wasn't really. A Just Thing To Do and is beginning to change that, which i enjoy

[spacepunksupreme]

Blorbo Poll Tag Game

Tagged by @nitewrighter thanks Nite :D

Rules: make a poll with five of your favourite characters and then tag five people to do the same. See which character is everyone's favorite!

Taggingggggg: @psygull @despairoftheendless @emerald-truth @hobbitdyke @brimstone-cowboy

[softness-and-shattering]

Saw/shared a post that mentioned 'youtube grammar' yesterday and I checked the tag and

Its basically the thing where people mishear words or phrases and then say it wrong. Some examples are

'manner of fact' instead of 'matter of fact', 'eck cetera' instead of 'et cetera' 'I could care less' v 'I couldn't care less'

And the poster blamed this on lowered education standards, lack of education, and basically people not learning grammar rules and not being able to break down what language a word is from to figure out pronounciation. Im not saying thats wrong, I dont know.

But I also have a running joke/recognition with friends who are bilingual or speak multiple languages, about how sounds get mixed up your head, and sometimes you'll even think of the right word but your muscle memory will write or type another. The example that started the conversation in earnest was me spelling the word 'pneumonic' instead of 'mnemonic'. (If you're going ooh this is his tumblr, hi! :D).

In a comment I was just writing, I wrote think instead of thing. I knew the word I wanted was thing, its the word I thought, its not the word I typed.

Also today I wrote 'mood' instead 'move'.

Its not a lack of education, or a misunderstanding of grammar, or mislearing a phrase. My fingers just mess it up sometimes, because somehow the link between thought and typing has to do with the sounds, not the root or the spelling or possibly even the language. Because, pneumonic.

I dont know if this holds the same with the spoken word, I dont know what those pathways are, and to begin with Im neither a linguist nor neurologist. Im just noticing patterns with myself and my friends.

If anyone does know facts or science about this, please do chime in!

[gordonsicedcoffee]

EMMANUELLE VAUGIER Winner of the Most Thrilling Killing award for SAW II at THE FUSE FANGORIA CHAINSAW AWARDS (2006)

[orioofthestars]

Hello again, FUA nation

from an Aggie I did with @cannedsam102 my beloved 😚❤️

[thefiretailedweasel-rewritten]

I've found that most ppl that genuinely hate kids actually do understand this, but were never allowed that space to learn and grow safely during their own childhoods, so they're taking out their jealousy and anger on innocent children. Same energy as ppl who say "well i was beat as a kid and I turned out fine!" No, No You Absolutely Did Not.

i feel like a lot of the 'i hate kids' crowd would be more tolerant if they understood that due to a kid's limited experience of the world that 4 hour flight might just be the longest they've ever had to sit still for or that trapped finger might literally be the most pain they've ever felt in their short life or they might not have ever seen a person with pink hair ever so of course they want to touch it or nobody's told them yet that they can't run around the museum and they only just learned cheetahs are the fastest animals so of course they want to put that to the test. how were they supposed to know etc etc.