#sugar tips

[richarlotte]

How I get whatever I want.

- Journal. It’s important to plot out what you want before you begin doing anything new. Sit down, concentrate, and take the time to visualize what you want for yourself. Journaling is an extremely effective tool, and it’s important to be able to write about what you want instead of creating a concept in your mind. 

- Make goals less abstract: Find or make a path to the goal, then zone out (networking, reading, research). Your goals should not be abstract or difficult for you to understand. They should be clear, planned out to the best of your ability, and reasonable enough to achieve in 90 days. If you have a long-term goal, set up a series of short-term goals that will set you on the right path. 

- 3 month hiatus and just fixate on work. Be strict with time and money, keep a schedule, don’t allow minor distractions to sway you from your path, and use the next 90 days to bring yourself closer to the finish line. Can your hiatus be longer than 3 months? Yes, but if it becomes necessary to extend it, be sure that you’re engaging with the real world and not isolating yourself.

- You have to be sure of what waiting and a little bit of luck will do for you. So much of it is a waiting game, and while I believe that it’s important to work hard instead of being hard on yourself, knowing that luck plays into your success is imperative. If you don’t see immediate results, keep going until things fall into line. 

Plan, prepare, and then put your whole soul into action.

[thatsbelievable]

[bleachblondeambition]

“I’m not impressed”, “be respectful of my time and my efforts”, “no”, “apologize”, and “do better” are all parts of my vocabulary, and I’ve dated a lot of men who have needed to hear those words. I’m strict in my relationships; I don’t put up with much, nor am I interested in hearing excuses, and if a man can’t follow through on what he’s promised me, he can find another woman who’ll listen to him and fall for what he can’t follow through with. I don’t pity the overindulged or feel the need to roll out the red carpet for men who’ve never been put in their place by a woman.

I’m also not easily swayed. It takes a lot to impress me, and 9 times out of 10, men don’t have what it takes to blow my mind. I believe that if men are comfortable holding women to unbelievably high standards, I should be comfortable with setting my own high standards and sticking to them. I’m the sort of girl who’ll sit around and read books and articles (written by women and I verify that) about gentle femdom and then turn around and use the tactics I’ve learned to kindly but firmly shut potential tomfoolery down.

It’s important to understand that if you want the best, you have to set boundaries with yourself and with others, and you HAVE to get comfortable with rejecting people who have not treated you well. I find that my love life is at its best when I’m making connections with people who understand and suit me, not allowing men to come in and out of my life whenever they please. Once a door has shut and a man has lost my good opinion, I allow it to remain closed instead of forcing it open again. High standards, no tolerance for nonsense, and not being scared to come off as strict will get you where you want to be.

[hypergamousangle]

[multiverselovegoddess]

some of my favorite archived stripperweb posts - hustle hut (pt. 1)

💗The full archived version of Stripperweb can be viewed here����

I'm going to make this a series in order to help sw'ers, especially those who may not have been around to experience Stripperweb. I'm also kick-starting this series with some of my favorite posts/threads from the Hustle Hut forum so we can all make some fat stacks! Reblog to fatten a hot girl's wallet tonite!!! 💰🤑💰🤑💰

Law of Attraction and Me being a Money Magnet

Putting customers into a trance & hypnotizing them

$2000/night advanced hustle tips

I've been giving men too much credit

Selling champagne rooms 101

Exteeeeend VIP

Helpful things

When they ask what you do in the VIP room

Selling more than a few dances

The Greedy Stripper/Spoiled Princess Hustle

Ice Queen Hustle

Trophy Wife Hustle

Being an Aggressive Money Maker

How to compete and make money in a club with heavy extras

Read this if you find it hard to believe you are worth large amounts of cash

Making the most of your time at the club

How high earners do it

That "one girl"

Hustling at a twerking club

Casting a Wide Net + Other Secrets

[stupot]

You know I've worked at coffee store for going in 4 years now and my current store (my 4th one) is the only store I've ever worked at where I felt the need to ignore a good chunk of our regular clientele because they always try to come on to me. They are all older conservative men who tell me to smile, ask if I'm married, ask if I live alone, call me pet names and shit. I'm really at the end of my rope with it and I hope that me being cold to them will get them to take the fucking hint. You lost customer service voice privileges, sorry

[milkiie]

manifesting win!! i had a lot of acne yesterday (period coming, neglected skincare for a few days, eating unconsciously)

i affirmed for clear skin while doing my skincare before bed, and woke up today, clear as water

no conviction. no belief. no embodying anything.

just saying few affirmations out loud while washing my face (no rebotic repetition either, just said a few differing affs and left it)

it is that simple

you can affirm from lack. you can affirm without expecting a result. as long as you let it flow, don't push it, and follow your intuition, it will work

[richarlotte]

More from Reddit?

You have to remember that you’re the prize, not a man.

I think it’s especially important for young black women who are interested in rising through the ranks, joining better social circles, meeting more people and doing more with life, and marrying well to know that doing our own thing gets us results. You can’t be following these gurus, influencers, and snake oil peddlers, stealing their whole flow (a flow they’re not even using), and live life expecting to be picked. I might just be sick of chronically online and single women giving bad advice to the younger generation, but know this: there’s more to life than being picked by a man who doesn’t deserve you and doesn’t know your true worth.

[bleachblondeambition]

I don’t believe you need to be totally dominant or spend your whole life cracking the whip, but you should at least be cognizant of how you’re allowing men to treat you, especially when you’re not in an exclusive relationship. I’ve found that having a no nonsense attitude when it comes to my relationships does more for me than passivity or indifference. I have no interest in wasting my life with someone I can’t stand or have to whip into shape, someone I have to carry on my back or force to be ambitious, or someone who can’t handle the realities that come with being an adult and interacting with women and the real world.

Strictness, standards, and self awareness are all essential; life and dating become so much easier when you’re willing to use all three to your advantage, and the right man will understand. If you don’t want to have your time wasted, you have to be willing to put your foot down and keep it down; women have been conditioned to be kind to spare the feelings of inadequate men and to deal with an endless onslaught of bullshit from partners who bring nothing of substance to their relationship. Men, on the other hand, have been taught that taking advantage of women and their kindness is normal; they’re shocked when things don’t go their way or they’re turned down by women they view as easy to manipulate or targets.

I was raised by a woman who brought me up to have no patience for men who were wishy washy on me, manipulative, childish, unable to hold a job, or careless with me. I swear by the way I was brought up, and I honestly believe that putting up with less, expecting more, not settling for any treatment I feel is unsatisfactory or demeaning, and cutting men off before they can start to play their games with me has done me a lot of good. Know that you shouldn’t be begging for attention, breaking your back to get a man to treat you appropriately, or going out of your way to get a man to see you and appreciate all of your efforts.

[rihnely]

Building wealth

So one of my biggest goals in life is to build wealth for myself and my legacy. One way I’m doing that in investing in stocks. I have been able to make thousands from simply doing my research and investing in companies. Here’s the newest one I’ve invested in yesterday and see the change of how quickly my gains came in. Overnight/ within minutes. Yesterday I bought each share for only $0.52 had gains of $1.33 and todays gains over $179 and I believe this stock will continue to have significant gains. Each cent that the stock gains makes a frantic difference in my personal gains, and my goal is to sell at $10,000. Ladies learn how to invest, choose the right investments create your own wealth.

[reality-detective]

This is a remedy for blood sugar control, so if you are dealing with high blood sugar try this to lower it!

Ingredients used: 👇

2 okras

1/2 cucumber

1/2 lime

1 teaspoon of moringa

1 cup of water

Try it 🤔

[milkiie]

𝐿𝑂𝐴 𝑇𝐼𝑃𝑆 𝐹𝑂𝑅 𝐵𝐸𝐺𝐼𝑁𝑁𝐸𝑅𝑆 (𝑜𝑟 𝑎𝑛𝑦𝑜𝑛𝑒)

from someone who's been manifesting with ease since they were 12

─── ִֶָ ๑˙ 🦩 ̟ !! number 1 : start small

if you have not yet manifested anything, start small. yes, you are already capable of manifesting big, life changing things. but a crucial part of manifesting is belief, and, even if you fully consciously believe you can, your subconscious might not; after all, youve been taught something else your whole entire life. so, start small. ease your subconscious into this new concept of how the world works.

when i first started manifesting, i did it this way. first thing i manifested was lip gloss. then i just upped the ante with each manifestation

─── ִֶָ ๑˙ 🦩 ̟ !! number 2 : use methods

use the freaking methods. yes, you can manifest without them. yes, the power is in you. but people invent methods for a reason. they are not limiting you, they are not bs, they are not "making things more complicated"

like a wizard's wand, a manifestor's method channels that power and points it where you want it. a method is your conscious mind's way of calibrating your subconscious mind to focus on the things you want it to focus on. they also give your subconscious mind a relief from confusion. your subconscious has it engrained that work must take place in order to receive. using a method gives your subconscious what it needs - it tells it "see? we did work. we can receive now"

─── ִֶָ ๑˙ 🦩 ̟ !! number 3 : work on your self concept

self concept really is the end all, be all. seriously. everything is so much easier with a good self concept. having a good self-concept, and knowing you are worthy will absolutely change the game, i promise you

─── ִֶָ ๑˙ 🦩 ̟ !! number 4 : there is no pushback

the 3d is not resistant. it doesn't have a mind or a will. don't think of it as an enemy, think of it as a canvas that you can fill with anything you like

─── ִֶָ ๑˙ 🦩 ̟ !! number 5 : oversimplify

oversimplification makes it harder. i'm not kidding about this. the way this community has oversimplified loa is actually to our detriment. let it require things. please just let it require things. it will make it so much easier and so much faster for you if you just let it take its course instead of stripping it to the barest of bones

─── ִֶָ ๑˙ 🦩 ̟ !! number 6 : be patient

in the same vein, let it take time. just let it flow in. don't rush it, don't expect it to be instant in your perceived reality. the more you push it, the longer it will take, because you're second guessing yourself and your manifestation when you stress about it or try to hurry it up. trying to make it instant in your 3d will make you waver because 3d, by its nature, needs time to load

─── ִֶָ ๑˙ 🦩 ̟ !! number 7 : stop overconsuming

stop overconsuming. stop reading posts all day, you are filling your mind with convoluted, confusing information mostly made up of jargon and buzz words. it's not your subconscious' fault that you struggle to apply the law after reading disorienting paragraphs on it that contained no substance. it's not yours in general. its natural to become unsure when there is seemingly so much. relax, step back, cleanse your mind. you already know what you need to know. go, apply it, live your life, be free

─── ִֶָ ๑˙ 🦩 ̟ !! number 8 : make your own rules

make your own rules. make a mind map, write a blurb about what you know about manifestation, write them out in bullet points, whatever. keep those rules, return to them when you feel the need. when you feel you have overconsumed, or are becoming uncertain, or even as a part of your daily manifesting routine if thats your thing, having your rules just written down somewhere is honestly an incredible affirming and grounding tool

─── ִֶָ ๑˙ 🦩 ̟ !! number 9 : stop comparing yourself

don't compare yourself to anyone. not your moots, not any influencer, not irl people you know who are doing loa. loa is a part of spirituality. it is a personal journey to reclaim your power. and it works different for everyone. keep your eyes on your plate

─── ִֶָ ๑˙ 🦩 ̟ !! number 10 : follow your own lead

follow your happiness. just do it. do not worry about anything, do not question yourself, just do what makes you feel good. understand that from the moment you decide what you want to manifest, the universe begins to shift itself to accommodate your wish, and you start to align with receiving it. your intuition and your heart are leading you down the right path. so just do what will make you happiest in a given moment. you do not have to ignore the 3d, you do not have to robotically affirm, you do not have to do anything but that which you feel drawn to do.

if you made it this far, thank you so much for reading this long thing. i love you, have a candy 🍬

[richarlotte]

What’s helped you most in terms of looks?

Thick mid back length hair and it has to look healthy.

Getting my nails done weekly in a clean/natural style.

Soft makeup with glossy lips and lots of bronzer/blush.

Knowing exactly what I’m doing with my aesthetic.

Natural makeup unless I’m doing black smoky eyeliner.

Flexirod sets, bouncy blowouts, and Velcro roller sets.

Never wearing heavy perfumes OR thick essential oils.

Thick but natural looking brows and long wispy lashes.

Extremely moisturized, hydrated, and very glowy skin.

Being confident in my height and weighing under 165.

Keeping all of my clothes clean and investing in pieces.

Buying high quality jewelry and other fun accessories.

Investing in all of my makeup and skincare products.

Making sure to both wear, and enjoy, bright colors.

Loving the color of my skin and styling with it in mind.

[bleachblondeambition]

A lack of intelligence, whether that be emotional or otherwise, will stop you in your tracks. If you don’t know how the real world works, and you have not put in the time to learn, you will find that you will fail easier than others who have made an effort to fill their lives with knowledge.

I’ve been on Tumblr for years, read many an anecdote, and seen a number of blogs come and go. The one thing I’ve noticed in recent years is that people just don’t try as hard as they should with some things; they prefer ignorance to asking or uncertainty to being momentarily uncomfortable, and that’s why they’re failing. If you’re not actively attempting to educate yourself, you’re going about things wrong and stunting your own growth.

You’ll have more success if you’re inquisitive, genuinely enjoy asking questions and listening, and are actively looking to learn. Too many people are set in their ways and think that they can do it all on their own, use TikTok or whatever biased social media source they want to get a full view of the world, and isolate themselves without any consequences, and it simply doesn’t work like that. You can’t level up unless you’re willing to be an active and engaged participant in your own life and you’re willing to put some real effort into research and learning.

[rihnely]

Money

I have been able to make thousands of dollars in passive income because I learned how to buy & trade stocks. I’ve been learning about stocks for a few years now and have gotten really good at trading. It even saved me one time when I was low on money I day traded to make some more without having to do anything. Here’s some stocks I selected that absolutely are paying off and I think will continue to significantly pay off in the next 10 years. Look at those gains. Just because I learned how to select good stocks. If you have any extra money I would say invest. I’m so serious. Don’t waste money On stupid stuff when that money can be used to make more money for your future.