#style advice

[weareravershq]

[femmefatalevibe]

Femme Fatale Guide: Simple Ways To Look "Effortlessly" Put Together

A fresh haircut

Maintaining a regular skincare routine 2x/day

Applying SPF daily

Exfoliating 2-3x/week

Moisturizing all your skin daily

Dermaplane your face

Do a skin/hair mask weekly

Flossing daily & using a whitening toothpaste

Filled in (but natural-looking) brows

Wearing mascara, light concealer, and a hydrating lip balm/"you lips but better" cosmetics shade

Cut, file, and polish your nails. Keep it clean & simple

Invest in seamless and proper-fitting undergarments

Wear neutral, monochrome outfits that incorporate tailored cuts in luxurious fabrics that pair well together

Use a steamer/lint roller on your clothes before heading out the door

Invest in high-quality, well-structured handbags and shoes that pair well with almost any outfit

Put on a precious or sleek statement piece (or two potentially in the former case) of jewelry to elevate your look. Don't overdo it

Applying a few sprays of a signature scent that suits the season/occasion

[toyastales]

A Cute Party Dress For The Spring/Summer Season

https://toyastales.blogspot.com/2024/05/a-cute-party-dress-for-springsummer.html

[oxfords---notbrogues]

Why Oxfords and not Brogues? Is it the fit or the look? Just learning stuff

The name, “Oxfords—not brogues” stems from this idea of dressing fashionably and appropriately, but in a way that is timeless and not overly ostentatious. I chose the name after seeing the original Kingsman movie in 2014 as I felt it captured the spirit of my style advice.

The Oxford shoe is a classic gentleman’s shoe, originally popularized by students at Oxford University around 1800. The closed vamp style is timeless, and continues to be a staple in today’s menswear. Brogues are a similar style of shoe with added decorative perforations, originally designed to suit the wet country terrain of Scotland and Ireland. They give off a more casual and ostentatious feeling.

“Oxfords—not brogues,” is not advice to avoid brogues altogether. One of my favorite pairs of shoes are my Allen Edmonds Fifth Avenues that I wear almost every day, and those have some brogue detailing on the toe. Trendy and decorative menswear items have a time and place in a gentleman’s wardrobe. If you have to own just one shoe or the other, though, plain oxfords are a classic shoe that will keep you looking great in a wide variety of settings. By comparison, brogues have gone in and out of style over the last few decades. They are a little more limited on what you can wear them with, as well. The goal of my blog is to provide content inspired by that theme: stylish, but versatile and timeless.

The Kavalier has a great video discussing the origin of the phrase, “Oxfords—not brogues,” and the difference between the shoes:

[skeppsbrott]

"True style means dressing like you know yourself, and having the confidence to wear things others might dismiss as uncool. At the same time, it requires cultural awareness and sensitivity to the social meaning of your aesthetic choices."

-- Derek Guy, How to Develop Good Taste pt. 2

[opalstonedyke]

Sorry if this is weird but I NEED to know if you have a curl routine because your hair always looks so gorgeous whenever you post it!!!

Anyway I hope you’re having a great day!!!:D

-curly haired femme who always looks slightly frazzled

Ofcourse!! Not weird at all! Hereby follows:

OPAL'S PERFECTED TRIED-AND-TRUE DAILY CURL ROUTINE !

Step one: shower

I shower daily, and use head & shoulders smooth&silky shampoo to wash my hair thoughroly, sometimes even double shampoo. I know, I know, it dries out your hair and stuff, but I cannot put on pj's and go to bed covered with outside germs. Ain't happening. Plus the daily product buildup is FIERCE so it's good to have a fresh start every night. After shampooing I use the regular head&shoulders conditioner. Out of the shower I dry my hair a little bit by sliding the towel gently over my hair and dabbing lightly. Just getting it to the point of not literally sopping wet.

Step two: product

What you're going to need:

This thing, which my mom gets from idk where. But shoutout my mom for helping me out here.

I take two pumps of the cream, spread it on my palms and use my hands to comb through my hair gently in a backwards slicking motion. At this point you should look like a a douche that slicks their hair back. Then I lightly shake my hair out with my fingers, take another pump of the cream, spread it on my palms, and squeeze it into larger clumps of curls.

Pattern strong hold gel. I get it off Amazon, and truly, this is the best hair gel I've ever used. It holds the hair firmly without leaving it sticky or crusty. I love it tons! I take a small amount (of course this is going to differ according to the amount of hair you have, this is for my neck-length mullet) about 2 fingers worth, and once again rub it into my palms and slick my hair back flat like a douche. At this point I shake my hair out to not be flat with my fingers and wipe my hands so I can brush.

Next, you're going to need one of those large-tooth curl combs. I use this one by fifi but they're all basically the same thing. What you want to do is a technique called "ribbon curling", which was the absolute GAME CHANGER on controlling frizz and getting bouncy, satisfying curls. You should definitely look up a video to get a better understanding, but the basics is that you're gonna want to grab a small section of hair, and comb it UP & OUTWARDS while "sandwiching" the hair with your finger, pressing it on the comb. I do that for my fringe, the top part of the back of my head, and the bottom part of my hair, but for the bottom part, I curl it DOWN & INWARDS, so it curls towards the neck.

Afterwards I just spray 4-6 spritzes of this amazing texture spray, it makes your hair look moist and soft, it's a subtle effect but I never skip this step. It's like a lucky charm for my hair.

step 3: hawt air

I dont do this every day, but if im going to bed (NVER SLEEP WITH WET HAIR) or going out and I need to get my hair dry quicker, I use a Dyson airwrap with the diffuser attachment (it doesn't come with a diffuser, you're gonna need to get it online, I got mine off aliexpress for 10 bucks) I use the lowest heat setting, and just "cast diffuse" which just means I let the airwrap hover 3-5 inches from my head, drying my hair without touching it. Then I cast diffuse for a couple more minutes with my fingers in my hair, lifting it up and drying it for volume. At this point, your hair is going to be kind of dry but not fully. If i'm going out, I let it air dry for another 40 mins- an hour, (I just do my makeup and get dressed and usually it takes me that amount of time lol) and then I use my fingers to ruffle out my curls gently and break the gel cast. If im going to bed, I don't break the cast, I just let it air dry a little bit more (20-30 mins) and then wrap my hair gently in a silk scarf, and go to bed! :) by the morning my hair is dry and I can break the cast and it looks the same as if I'd just done it this morning.

Step 4: enjoy being the sexiest mf in all of the land!!!!@!!!! Bounce and jump around to show off your amazing shiny curls and let all the dykes marvel at your crown, running their fingers through it and giving you their phone numbers.

Hope this is intelligible :) my dms and asks are always open for questions or anything else!!! Thank you for asking love you bye 😚😚😚

[stylishnunu]

How to find the perfect pair of jeans

The perfect pair of jeans can be hard to find, but it's definitely possible! In this post, we'll take you through the steps to finding your perfect pair of jeans. From fit to fabric, we'll help you find the jeans that make you feel and look your best. And don't forget, this is the first post in a series, so stay tuned for more!

There are 5 main types of body types;

Apple body type

People with this amazinggg body type usually have a large bust,waist,stomach and slimmer legs and hips

They would definitely look great with either a high waisted ,flared,or bootcut jeans.

These kinda jeans would make the waist look smaller

On to pear shape, my kinda body 🤓🤭🤭

We usually have a larger lower body including hips and thighs and smaller upper body

We look great in either skinny, straight legged and boyfriend jeans

These help to balance out our lower body.

We also have the rectangle body types

pretty hot if you'd ask me 🤭😻

People with these body types have a straight silhouette, no difference between hips and bust

I'd recommend Skinny jeans,flared jeans and boyfriend Jean's as these would help create an illusion of curves

There's alsooooo the hourglass body type 😛🤭 like that of Kylie Jenner 🤭🤭😻

These people usually have a small waist and larger bust and hips .They look great in high waisted jeans, skinny jeans, and straight legged jeans

And lastly the inverted triangle 😗

They usually have broad shoulders and a tinier waist

Skinny,bootcut, and flares jeans would look great on them 😊

They help to balance the upper and lower body😌

Remember guys these are just suggestions and guidelines - you don't have to follow them if you don't feel comfortable. The most important thing is to wear what makes you feel confident and beautiful, no matter what your body type is. Everyone is unique and beautiful.

Thank y'all for reading , like and follow please 😭🎀

[theprincientist]

We are all different in sizes, shapes, curves, and height. Body shapes were divided as – apple, rectangle, hourglass, pear and inverted triangle.

What dressing for your body shape does, is elongate your figure to make you look taller and more proportionate.

Knowing your body shape will help you figure out what works for YOU. It will help you find out what cuts and silhouettes work best for your body and how to work with them.

Right now, you spend a lot of time trying to imitate how clothes look on other people and their dimensions. What you should do is, adjust every outfit to YOU based on how YOU look.

If you want to improve your style, you can begin to follow styling recommendations for your body shape. Although it is only a suggestion on how to dress, it is important to dominate the basics before you break them.

Find your body shape and ask yourself some questions. How do YOU want to feel today? Comfortable? Chic? Sexy? What do you want your body to look like? What features do you want to accentuate? It is all possible with the right outfit. There are ways to achieve the look you want based on your body shape.

Download my free guide to help you take the first step in improving your style -

[uncloseted]

what kind of casual shoes can i wear that aren't sneakers? i have a pair of mini uggs and a pair of black lace up boots for winter and then in the summer i wear sandals, but i don't know which ones are trendy now

There are lots of options depending on what your style is like!

Ballet flats and "glove flats" are trendy right now, and are great if your style is a little bit girlier or classic:

Loafers are also an easy option, and work with a lot of different styles:

For sandals, flat sandals are having a moment:

The "fisherman sandal" is also everywhere:

Mesh, crochet, or fishnet styles are also popular, regardless of shoe style:

If you're looking for a new pair of sneakers, a sleek, minimalist style can be more versatile than a running shoe:

But in general, I would say go with what you like. I think shoes are generally less trendy than other types of clothes, and so it's rare that someone will look at your shoes and be like "those are dated" or "wow, those are super trendy".

[weareravershq]

[femmefatalevibe]

Femme Fatale Guide: How To Master An "Effortlessly Elegant" & Put-Together Look

Table of Contents:

Treat your skin like royalty

Take ample care of your natural hair

Dress in crisp neutral outfits that cater to your body shape

Choose your accessories wisely

Embrace feature-enhancing makeup

Keep your nails clean, filed, and simple

Regarding your signature scent(s)

Follow your dental & bodily hygiene routines religiously

Treat your skin like royalty:

Use high-quality skincare twice a day

Wear sunscreen every day

Remove your makeup every night before bed no matter what

Use makeup that doesn't clog your pores/irritate your skin

Change your pillowcases weekly

Eat plenty of produce & drink lots of water

Prioritize sleep

Limit or eliminate alcohol, cigarettes, caffeine, and processed foods/sugary drinks

Keep your skin exfoliated/derma-planed

Take ample care of your natural hair:

Use high-quality shampoo/conditioner combos that suit your hair type & don't cause build-up

Hydrate with a scalp mask 1-4 times a month

Use cold or lukewarm water to wash your hair

Apply shampoo to the roots/hair covering your scalp and conditioner only on the "ponytail" section of your hair

Use a specialty hair towel after getting out of the shower

Always comb wet hair and brush 1-3 times a day when dry

Limit heat on your hair when possible & always use a heat protectant every time you do

Use non-elastic or silk hair ties

Get regular trims at least 3-4 times per year (get your hair layered if it's very thick)

Try to limit how much you dye or, especially bleach, your hair and do elaborate styles with tons of heat & harsh products

Dress in crisp neutral outfits that cater to your body shape:

Embrace minimalist basics (tees, tanks, blouses, sweaters, jeans, trousers, blazers, leather jackets, coats, etc.) in high-quality fabrics (Pima cotton, Merino wool, Tencel, mulberry silk, etc.)

Choose options in black, white, grey, charcoal beige, navy, burgundy, or cream depending on your skin tone and preferences

Invest in a collection of sleek footwear options (black boots, loafers, black pumps, white sneakers, etc.) in minimalist, timeless styles that suit the color palette, hemlines & proportions of your go-to outfits

Ensure your shoes and accessories feel proportional to the weight/silhouette of your outfit, color-coordinate with the rest of your look, and have streamlined hardware from head-to-toe (all silver, all gold, or one piece that mixes silver/gold and another gold & silver piece each to balance out the color palette)

Keep all of your clothes steam and lint-rolled, so they look crisp & fresh all-day

Befriend your tailor to take in or let out clothes as needed when purchased off the rack

Choose clothes/styles that flatter your body shape and proportions

Utilize belts and bra tape to adjust the waist, keep shirts tucked in, and keep straps from falling down or create an impromptu cuff/hem on your pants

When in doubt, select a neutral head-to-toe monochrome outfit

If on a budget, consider choosing black, grey, camel beige items to hide fabric imperfections that could cheapen your look

Choose your accessories wisely:

Select sleek, simple neutral (& almost exclusively) monochrome shoes made with smooth (recycled/vegan) leather with

Pair almost any outfit with a shoe featuring a slight platform, block heel, kitten heel, and/or a sharply pointed toe to elongate your silhouette

Complement your outfit with structured, pared-back handbags with no logos (Focus on quality and construction, not the brand name) in a neutral shade and timeless silhouette

For jewelry, choose at most one statement piece and all others should be focused on different areas of the body (e.g. don't mix statement earrings with layered/bold necklaces or stacked rings * bracelets). When in doubt, choose simple diamond chains or earrings, sleek bangles or chainlink necklaces & bracelets, simple pendant necklaces, and minimalist rings in hardware that all go together

Embrace feature-enhancing makeup:

Cover up any dark circles, blemishes, or hyperpigmentation with a color-matched concealer

Lightly contour with a bronzer that complements your skin tone

Fill in your brows for a naturally full look (or get them professionally tinted)

Apply a light wash of rose, coral, or mauve blush

Use black mascara with a little bit of eyeliner and/or a subtle wash of brown eyeshadow on the lids

Apply a "your lips but better" nude shade or "just kissed' berry lipstick or pigmented lip balm for a subtle wash of color

Keep your nails clean, filed, and simple:

Maintain cut, cleaned, and filed short nails

Opt for a square or almond nail shape

Choose a timeless nail shade (pink, nude, red, beige, dark cherry, navy, dark purple, black) with no nail art

Hydrate your hands and scrub under your nails daily

Regarding your signature scent(s):

Ensure your body wash/lotion and perfume scents don't clash

Test perfumes for a trial day to ensure they smell divine with your unique pheromones

Choose a fragrance appropriate for the seasonal/occasion

Apply a dab on each wrist and on your neck/behind the ears. If the scent doesn't project well on you, try applying these small dabs on the cuffs and shoulders of your jacket/walk into it to get it on your hair (if it would stain your clothes)

Don't layer more than one heady perfume at a time or scents that don't have complementary and/or shared notes

Follow your dental & bodily hygiene routines religiously:

Floss every day (after each meal if possible)

Brush your teeth with an electric toothbrush twice a day

Have mints on hand if you're a garlic, spice, or coffee lover

Keep your lips & hands well-moisturized and protected with SPF

Shower your body daily and be extra diligent in scrubbing your privates, everything behind, and under your arms

Don't use very hot water in the shower (it burns/dries out your skin)

Exfoliate 2-3 times a week with a sugar scrub

Moisturize daily or anytime you get out of the shower

Apply SPF on any exposed sun (especially in the summer or when the UV index is high in your area)

[janet-talks-about-fashion]

My friends every time I ask if my tee goes with my pants.

[brownsugar4hersoul]

Instagram: @irisloveunicorns

[oxfords---notbrogues]

What is the proper length I should hem my pants?

Short answer:

Somewhere in between a full break and no break. I personally ask for a quarter break because I like the clean look, and it adds some height to my silhouette.

———

Negative break and no break have been popular in the last 10 years, but in my opinion, they have made their way out of fashion. On the flip side, allowing your shoes to be swallowed in billowy, full break trousers is a master level style swerve best left for fashion experts looking to make a statement.

There’s no surprise to those that have followed me for a long time that I land somewhere in the middle. Half break or quarter break hemmed pants provide a clean silhouette and will add some height to the overall look.

Proper cloth has some more detailed information on what to ask for or look for at the tailor when getting your pants hemmed here:

[punkysdilemma-blog]

THE PERFECT WARDROBE (BY GIORGIO ARMANI)

(an excerpt from L’Etiquette issue 8.)  I love this list from a maestro and one of the last greats of the heroic 1980s fashion generation who still independently owns and operates his marque. 

I like casual and discreet elegance, this is what I look for as a designer.

T-SHIRTS AND POLO SHIRTS

*Cashmere jersey t-shirts. Blue, black, long and short sleeves, CREW NECK!

*Knit polo shirts. More refined than cotton pique polo shirts, they look great under a jacket. Practically indispensable in black and navy. Long or short sleeves.

SHIRTS

*Poplin shirts.  With big collars, wear with a tie or with the collar wide, open. Colors? Blue and white are musts. Cream, light gray and navy are very tempting this season. + AZURE

*Chambray shirt. Go for a real workwear look. 

Extras:

*Heavy twill shirt.

*Black linen shirt. Get over your prejudice against linen. + WHITE AND SKY BLUE

*Collarless shirt.

*Two evening shirts in silk. Black and blue 

SWEATERS AND SWEATSHIRTS

*Several crewneck wool sweaters. Black, navy, beige, ecru — take your pick. Wear over a round collar tee.

*Several v-neck wool sweaters. Same as for crewnecks. 

*Hoodies. Gray Marl, Navy or black. Because there’ll always be those Sunday mornings.

*Crewneck Sweatshirts. Gray Marl, Navy or Black. With Raglan sleeves, of course. 

Extras: 

*Merino wool polo collar sweater. Black or navy.

*Sailor Sweater. You’ll find you need it even between April and July. Easier to wear if you get one without stripes.

Note: Pretty sure this is basically a Guernsey or Matelot. 

SUITS, BLAZERS AND TIES 

*A velvet suit. Velvet is the most elegant fabric. 

*Two plain suits. One navy and one gray, with two or three buttons. Ideally made from Fresco fabric. Cotton is another possibility if you're not afraid of creases. 

*A full Tuxedo. At least one. 

*A navy blazer. Lined or unlined. Super-useful.

*Two silk grenadine ties. Blck and navy. Obviously. 

*Two printed ties. Go crazy!

Extras:

*Beige tropical wool suit. Wear it with a sky blue poplin shirt. 

*Silk knit tie. Cream or pearl gray. Makes a change from black or navy. 

*Unlined suede blazer. 

*A knit blazer. 

SUITS, BLAZERS AND TIES

*Bomber jacket. The summer equivalent of your leather jacket. Black, navy or beige. 

*Waterproof beige trench-coat. For rainy days. Get one thats too big. 

*Technical parka.  Zip it all the way up. And remember that Gore-Tex is always a good idea. 

*Denim jacket. 

Extras:

*Zip suede bomber.

*Nappa leather trench-coat. 

*A military jacket. Vintage preferably. 

*Lightweight windbreaker. Go for the retro sportswear look. 

PANTS AND SHORTS

*Two pairs of regular fit jeans. At two different stages of wear.

*Five-pocket white cotton pants. Indispensable in winter. Downright vital in summer. 

*Five-pocket black cotton pants.

*Beige chinos. Not slim, please.

*Gray fresco pants. Wear them as you'd wear jeans. Suitable for both summer and winter. 

*Navy, Beige or White shorts. Roomy, more fluidity, please!

*Swim shorts. In a technical nylon, perhaps in a bright color. roomy but not long.

Extras:

*Cargo Pants. Olive green, in ripstop fabric if you like. 

UNDERWEAR

As far as the great boxers-or-briefs debate goes, we leave it up to you. But do us all a favour and throw out the invisible socks.

*Several pears of navy and grey socks. Made of mercerised cotton. 

*Several pairs of brightly coloured socks. 

Extras:

*A few pairs of white or off-white ribbed socks. Wool and cotton. 

SHOES

*A pair of loafers. Preferably penny loafers. Black should be your first choice. 

*Black oxfords. For formal wear. 

*Brown derbies. Can be suede, if you like. 

*A pair of white or off white canvas sneakers.

*A pair of white leather sneakers. 

*Technical sneakers. Not just for running. 

Extras: 

*Opera pumps 

*Velvet slippers 

ACCESSORIES

*Cotton baseball cap. Navy or black. 

*Woven belt. In black or navy for versatility. 

*Leather dress belt. Keep it thin, about an inch (2 to 3cm) wide, and wear it with a suit. 

*Metal Sunglasses. Aviator or round styles. 

*Heavy-duty canvas shoulder bag. For workdays. 

*Military kitbag. A travel bag to get you through the weekend. 

Extras:

*A borsalino hat.

*Silk pocket squares. Collect them!

*Scarves. In wool, silk, cotton, for days and night.

*All kind of gloves. 

*Ranger belt. 

*A leather messenger bag.

Be discreet and precise and if you manage that, people will remember your style!