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You ever wake up from a dream so fucked that you have to sit there for 10 minutes after waking to rewrite the ending so that you can move on with your day or are you normal
#messages from knave#i keep having these ongoing dreams about an alternate reality version of my life#mainly about my parents#like right after i lost my job i had a dream that they'd moved to another state on a whim#and just told me to either upend my entire life to move to florida with them or figure it out#and i ended up moving into a much shittier apartment before realizing 'wait i have a whole house' and moving back into my own house in NJ#and then last night i dreamed I'd visited them and spent a day with my nephews then we all went to a wrestling match#and then after almost being run over by my dad cause he started driving while i was getting into the car#we go back to their house and i take a fat nap only to wake up in the dream and discover that I've disturbed this thumbelina sized toddler#that my mom jad apparentky adopted and then completely forgot about. and we wtruggled to getbit comfortable again on its little ved#then it escaped as toddlers do and i went through a comedy of errors trying to find it only to find it seemingly plastic and lifeless#only for it to start going through rapid metamorphosis into an adult and running around my parents house#my dad and i tried to stop it from growing up becuase every transformation opened up a new pocket dimension or something#then the dream changed into something else as my brain slowly booted back up from a migraine back into reality and i woke up#but the visage of a polly pocket sized toddler being left behind in my adult sized bed really shook me for some reason#it was so small and it was on a teeny pink pillow and it had a little purple teddy it kept dropping#but now I'm thinking of the logitstics of actually raising a child you could step on and squash by accident#that must be nerve wracking like how did thumbelina make it to adulthood without being confibed to a single room or even a single table#cause my first instinct is to build a diarama on a table for them and never let them leave until they're old enough to dodge
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disappears off the face of the earth and reappears just to say hey have you guys seen this show?
#you guys should watch this show#lidia poët on netflix it's so delightful#usually like faux feminist historical shows really grate on my nerves but this one was genuinely a good time#maybe because it's funny#or the relationships are all really delightful between the eponymous lidia poët and everyone around her#or maybe im just gay#i wont deny it plays a role#the OUTFITS#also i think theres this like needle to thread is that the idiom when you make a story about like a real life woman who faced sexism#bc like you need conflict to have a story but sometimes that leads to the woman in question just constantly being beaten down#you know what i mean?#sometimes it feels like that#but i think this one does it well#i think bc like lidia faces all the sexism every time she steps out of the house#and also inside the house from her brother and sister in law#but she also has people - men - who love and support her..........disobedience#i think thats well balanced i think thats why it works#also shes just great#funny and obstinate but also kind#theres one moment i wanted to put in the video but couldnt find the right place for#actually two#one where shes talking abt a client to her brother and shes like 'shes an anarchist and a bit of a bitch but shes also innocent' fghjkgh#another time shes talking to her niece abt her crush lorenzo and shes like 'you can tell me. as a lawyer i offer confidentiality'#and her niece is like 'technically youre not a lawyer anymore'#and lidia is like '......bitch. theres nothing wrong with liking him you know'#it's just really cute hgkghh i love the relationships she has with literally everyone in her life#if you wanna watch it for like the lawyer thing you can skip it theres no lawyering being done really#because shes not allowed in court rip#shes more like a bit of a sherlock holmes#you know like the american one with the female watson whats it called.........elementary
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its just unbelievable really to have someone you can call your other half that you can say i was made for this person and they were made for me and every opposing force and every opportunity that builds a wall between you or tries to wrench you away from each other will just push you closer together and make you stronger in the long run. i have complete faith that no matter what happens we will get through anything together. thats priceless.
#and to be moving into a house together its just like the obvious next step im so blessed right now i have to find ways to share it#but really yesterday was horribly anxiety inducing and all i could think is im with you though#making everything i can easier while you do the same just knowing we have each other always
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Sometimes I still think about how sweet it was when that anon checked on me last year when I was posting overly dark jokes. Thank you whoever you were, that was kind
#i am so much better now but last year was a bad one for me#there was a time in the fall where i literally couldn't get out of bed just because it felt pointless#anyway my mom also forced me to make a doctors appointment and luckily my doctor is super kind and got me on a good medication#but it also was just from stuff like losing my job struggling in school and going through the hurricane etc#im just so glad that i was pushed through that by concerned folks because im enjoying life much better now and that wasnt that long ago#anyway if you're struggling badly right now pls know its not hopeless#reach out for the help youre given and try to see yourself as worth it to fight for#take it little steps at a time#celebrate the small victories like having a shower or taking a walk or answering a call#the best thing for me other than the doctor was just finding ways to be around other people more#instead of feeling defeated i had to think of ways i could fix the loneliness that was affecting me so much#i had to get proactive like i started volunteering and started a book club etc#also i just made myself be very honest with the friends i already had about my struggles and it helps with feeling closer to them#and less alone in it all#because its not that uncommon to have those kinds of struggles and it helps other people open up about their own or just know how you are#the hardest things to do were the most rewarding things in the end#volunteering gave me a reason to get out of the house meeting new people and trying new things and feeling good about myself and#i had to remind myself that i was able to offer things of value and that other people like having me around actually#like the book club is something my friend group looks forward to so much and made new friends through and i started that!#even though i was nervous about it and didnt know if theyd like it at all#other people need you just as much as you need them and thats the truth bby#p
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in my quest of boosting my own self-confidence via reminding myself there are people on this site who love trans bears i now have less of an issue wearing clothes that expose my tummy in some way. like i know this would make at least 10 people out there lose their minds. maybe even more
#not outside the house yet but that's a step in the right direction isn't it.#i know it's not good to measure your self esteem by how fuckable you are to others (or how others view you in general)#however right now it is the only thing that helps me so i will latch onto it until i become stable enough to find anything else.#and it really is helping! not just my self esteem but my mood too. i feel so much better knowing I'm wanted this way akdlfhlj#see this is why i say that telling me these things is always morally correct. you are actually doing me a huge favor yknow??
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Note to self: a large meal is a very effective sedative for hyperactive cats.
#not something i can do regularly obviously#but Mau was driving me up the wall ever since I brought them inside and closed the windows for the evening#he feels it's his god-given right to gallivant after dark even though i keep dragging his ass inside after every jail break#and he freaks out after 20 mins alone in the garden anyway#Moo also disgraced himself by throwing up his lunch all over my room‚ escaping while I was cleaning#and then finding himself stuck up another fencepost on the perimeter wall and mewling pathetically for me to rescue him#i went back to the house to fetch a ladder again only to find monsieur dragging his sorry butt up the steps behind me after all#maybe I do coddle them a bit too much#since keeping them inside all day is a flat impossibility in this house#they should have some degree of self-sufficiency so their fool asses can come home if they do prowl#i'm hoping that keeping them near home long enough will discourage them wandering too far even if they do go beyond the perimeter#for all dogs were exhausting i never had to worry about this shit with them#just close a door and a gate and boom. problem solved#cats though. fuckin Houdini-ass mfers#knee of huss#Méka Mau Moo#cat mom problems
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had the longest day in the world... and tomorrow is gonna be longer........
#bro 😑 why did i schedule two back to back 'go be condescended to while helping someone' items#i care about these people. i WANT to do the cleaning and grocery shopping and errands etc etc for them. genuinely.#unfortunately i am now old enough to recognize that i find them both personally insufferable MOST of the time. i just hate having a#'conversation' with someone that can't ever allow you to be right. like even when i agree with her i'm still wrong because she has to be#Right And Correct about everything. more than anyone else can ever be! it's like please just go back to tv and let me clean your house!!!#i'm here to dust your fifteen million bookshelves! i'm SORRY that some of the books got out of order the last time this happened -#when i wasn't even here! that was you!!!!! just let me clean!!!#and the other person is my grandma which is just like okay are you inviting me over to have lunch bc you actually want to see me#or is this the first step of the next elaborate guilt trip youve constructed for me. bc i'm just.#you can only say i dont love you and have me give in so many times ma'am. and you are over the limit.
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Any house md fans that also read Cassandra Clares clockwork series? Because huddson (House, Cuddy, Wilson) reminded me of that dynamic quite a bit. House loves two people in his life, one he can love and spend a "lifetime" with, as Wilson dies from cancer. And the other, whom he can love and finish his life with after Wilson's gone.
Neither one is loved less and they both led their own lives, of course, but for better and mostly worse, they revolve around each other.
#i could go into more detail but id need to reread the series#those books were the first time i saw an ot3 of any kind actually work out and it wasnt even polyamorous really#but the two guys were best friends closer than close due to their bond as warriors#and tessa comes along and they all just fall in love with each other#jem has his illness thats going to take him away from them#and will has his rejection fears and difficulty talking about feelings#and tessa cant die... can't remember why or how but she just doesnt die#and somehow it all worked out for them to all be happy together#amazing#in my head cuddy finds house after wilsons death because she just knows wilson didnt go travelling alone#right after house apparently died#and she finds him heart shattered but this time its shattered wide open and able to be mended#and shes in her fourties and she has a daughter shes been raising by herself while working at another hospital#but despite how all reason says its not worth it shes always had impossible expectations#she and rachel choose to spend their lives with him because he's different now#since he ran out of vicodin during wilsons increasing pain hes forced himself through withdrawal#and he doesnt have the stress of patient care anymore to make his leg ache worse than it always does#hes not happier necessarily but more present in life maybe he thinks ten steps ahead but he doesnt worry about it#house md#lisa cuddy#gregory house#james wilson#hilson#huddy
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"dehya is gonna be bad bcs blah blah blah" i am biting and killing you
#you come to me - sole defender of xinyan and (pre-release) kokomi and tell me an unreleased character is gonna be bad???#i am laughing you out of my house#im a firm believer that a character cannot be judged on unofficial information esp when shes a new type of support#dehya might take a while to find her niche but i think she's gonna be pretty good regardless#im so excited to wish for her fhjska#also slightly off topic but i hate this idea that you can only build characters 'optimally'#like my xinyan runs 4pc pale flame and just bcs its a different build doesn't make it bad lol#im sacrificing consistency for power and actually thats a good thing#i also wish genshin had more viability for tanks bcs i had an idea for a funny diluc tank build with the bell#maybe i can do that with dehya instead actually. hm#step right up! || 🪄.txt
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i hate going “hey i might not be up to hanging out im just not doing well mentally” but also i know if im either constantly panicking or completely out of it while we’re hanging out then it won’t go well
#got into a fight with my mum because she was like ‘well why r u still scared when we’re not seeing massive waves and hospitals aren’t#overrun and this 80 year old family friend has had it three times and is fine every time#and do you look at what people who don’t have the same opinion of you are saying’#my response to this was ‘no I do look at the scientific articles that come out though and most of the ones about covid are finding it does#damage to multiple parts of the body’#like. i already have fibromyalgia. we’ve removed the cancerous tumor but i still have iodine radiation and have to hope the cancer cells#they found in my blood vessels didn’t go far enough to spread and if they did that the iodine destroys them#like. is a kid with fibromyalgia not enough. im not doing chemo so it’s fine right just get me sick#does she not fucking remember how it destroyed her husband. she watched it we all fucking watched for weeks as he withered away from this#fucking disease#and then everything we didn’t see we got in twice daily calls from the hospital as they told us how his kidneys failed and they were excited#when he could breathe on his side for two hours instead of just on his stomach and then it killed him#am i the only one in the household who remembers seeing my dad as a barely breathing corpse when we forced him to go to the hospital because#he couldn’t say three words or walk a few steps without panting like he’d just done a sprint#im tired of her making me feel crazy for not wanting this disease im not irrational or insane for this i promise i promise im not#im tired of her coming in 5 minutes after i leave an argument going ‘don’t be angry with me. it’s just that-‘ and then making my only safe#place in this house a part of the argument too#fuck it it’s fine I’m out in a few months anyway#vent tw#sittin g in a corner rn so that the only open space is in front of me and i can pull my legs up to my chest and my fan is on and my windows#are open and im tired of being called crazy and paranoid and irrational#covid tw
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8 Major Steps To Find The Right House | Challenge Magazine
Uncover essential steps, strategies, and considerations to navigate successfully the steps to find the right house that meets your needs and preferences. Whether you're a first-time buyer or looking for an upgrade, this guide will equip you with valuable insights. Check out our full blog for getting more information.
#How to find a good house#how to find the right house#steps to find the right house#top 5 things to consider when buying a house#Challenge Magazine
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put morton’s fork on repeat because unfortunately it’s my pavlovian conditioning editing music but it got tangled up in the silmarillion brain worms and now i’m like. morton’s fork maedhros animatic
#something something the inevitability of trying to save the people you love from their doom something something all roads eventually leading#to the same fate#something something the cut from 'i thought we lived forever / a simple obstacle in the way' to 'turns out we are shit out of luck'#something something and the sun will explode but not before you and everyone that you'll ever know will be gone long ago#i can like. feel the thesis of this amv just right outside of my field of vision i am turning it around and around in my head like an apple#the first verse 'i told you ma i'd keep you safe when the sun expands to consume our house in flames'#and shots of the two trees dying / maedhros and his brothers running through formenos to find their grandfather's body#in the wake of melkor's destruction#to the last verse 'i haven't slept in several nights but i'm not tired / who protects the ones i love when i'm asleep'#cut to shots of elwing running through sirion holding the silmaril in the wake of the third kinslaying#'though there's little i can do i say a prayer that when the wolves come for their share they'll come for me' cut to her being cornered by#maedhros on the cliff and stepping off the edge and falling into the sea#the oath twisting your intentions until no matter what choices you make it leads you to become the villain of someone else's story in#the end#oh wait actually. im realizing that the final argument between maedhros and maglor is also a morton's fork. either we turn ourselves in and#forfeit the oath or we follow the oath and die but either way we damn ourselves#..........morton's fork amv just of that argument and the final attempt to get the silmarils......wait a minute.
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Imagine a bitch so dickmatized she acting jealous towards a man who still married. Like wtf. Make it make sense. 🤣 Like he still do for me & my kids & you jealous of him on some other weird shit. Girl go find god & a single man of your own. You look stupid. Yes we separated but still help each other for our kids. Like I’ll be around as long as our kids are & so will his other kids mothers! You won’t be taken seriously cause how can a woman want a man to be disrespectful to his kids mothers. He’ll see you for your sorry ass soon enough. Coochie don’t keep no man.
#seek god#jealous of a man who married like how#make it make sense#he don’t even acknowledge you#do better#go love yourself#find yourself a single man who actually wants you#he gon be around me for a long time so calm down buddy#she look so dumb#he still helps me#I’m at his house now#he helping me with my car now#I got his kids & he a good dad at the least so he will be around for them#can’t be jealous of that because no one told you to get with a married man with kids#can’t get rid of his bm’s we make sure they daddy help with them as he should#you can keep him but recognize he will always be around us#I ain’t never cared he was cordial with his bm’s because kids come first#he’ll see you ain’t shit cause you be mad he doing for his#what type of women wants a man to not communicate with his kids mothers. I could never#I love my kids & bonus babies#I could never expect a man to disrespect his kids mother#I expect a man to step up & do what’s right but be respectful to me#he don’t even respect you enough to acknowledge you to us or speak to you respectfully#dickmatized at its finest. you weird.#8 million people & you trying hard to be chosen by a married man#god heal your wierd ass
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Got so distracted playing minecraft that it's once again, 4 am. The seed of the world I got is so baffling to me, like it's the first time I've seen a seed with so many structures nearby and it's all cuz I put "GIVEMEAGOODSEEDBITCH" (was there a YOU there I forgor) in the seed input.
#aria rants#i have the biomes o' plenty mod for 1.20.1 and ive just been hopping world to world looking for a nice seed#thatd at least show me some of the structures from the graveyard mod i have installed without me using the /locate command#and that world did. in fact its so crazy i spawned right in front of the haunted house and had to immediately put peaceful on#my face was: 😦 when i spawned in cuz like-- ''the audacity of this seed to spawn me right at the monsters mouth''#and turns out that was just the beginning. the spawn was in the minecraft swamp biome and there were HIPPOS (from another mod)#nearby and like-- EVERYWHERE IS WATER those hippos turn aggressive when you step foot in water AND THEN i looked around#there was a tiny blue mushroom grave nearby. and then off to the distance i can see some houses. turns out it was a village--#with a HUGE MUSHROOM from graveyard mod that spawned right in the middle of it AND THEN when i went to explore#via creative mode just flying aimlessly-- i found a medium graveyard farther away (which i looted) and when i flew#some more i found ANOTHER haunted house with an abandoned portal and a VILLAGE nearby again and then you walk some#blocks away theres a washed up nearly fully intact shipwreck and it had a treasure map with the treasure NEARBY#and i was like: okay. wtf. so i tried to find my way back home and found out that it was actually CLOSE BY so i wanted to see#if i can find my way back there again and somehow found ANOTHER haunted house nearby and that haunted house#was near TWO MORE BIG structures from graveyard mod. the seed was insane. minecraft heard me and actually gave me a good one
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I found an extremely dope disability survival guide for those who are homebound, bedbound, in need of disability accommodations, or would otherwise like resources for how to manage your life as a disabled person. (Link is safe)
It has some great articles and resources and while written by people with ME/CFS, it keeps all disabilities in mind. A lot of it is specific to the USA but even if you're from somewhere else, there are many guides that can still help you. Some really good ones are:
How to live a great disabled life- A guide full of resources to make your life easier and probably the best place to start (including links to some of the below resources). Everything from applying for good quality affordable housing to getting free transportation, affordable medication, how to get enough food stamps, how to get a free phone that doesn't suck, how to find housemates and caregivers, how to be homebound, support groups and Facebook pages (including for specific illnesses), how to help with social change from home, and so many more.
Turning a "no" into a "yes"- A guide on what to say when denied for disability aid/accommodations of many types, particularly over the phone. "Never take no for an answer over the phone. If you have not been turned down in writing, you have not been turned down. Period."
How to be poor in America- A very expansive and helpful guide including things from a directory to find your nearest food bank to resources for getting free home modifications, how to get cheap or free eye and dental care, extremely cheap internet, and financial assistance with vet bills
How to be homebound- This is pretty helpful even if you're not homebound. It includes guides on how to save spoons, getting free and low cost transportation, disability resources in your area, home meals, how to have fun/keep busy while in bed, and a severe bedbound activity master list which includes a link to an audio version of the list on Soundcloud
Master List of Disability Accommodation Letters For Housing- Guides on how to request accommodations and housing as well as your rights, laws, and prewritten sample letters to help you get whatever you need. Includes information on how to request additional bedrooms, stop evictions, request meetings via phone, mail, and email if you can't in person, what you can do if a request is denied, and many other helpful guides
Special Laws to Help Domestic Violence Survivors (Vouchers & Low Income Housing)- Protections, laws, and housing rights for survivors of DV (any gender), and how to get support and protection under the VAWA laws to help you and/or loved ones receive housing and assistance
Dealing With Debt & Disability- Information to assist with debt including student loans, medical debt, how to deal with debt collectors as well as an article with a step by step guide that helped the author cut her overwhelming medical bills by 80%!
There are so many more articles, guides, and tools here that have helped a lot of people. And there are a lot of rights, resources, and protections that people don't know they have and guides that can help you manage your life as a disabled person regardless of income, energy levels, and other factors.
Please boost!
#signal boost#please reblog#chronic pain#chronic illness#disability#fibromyalgia#cfs#chronic fаtiguе ѕуndrоmе#actually disabled#spoonie#me/cfs#cfs/me#long covid#important#invisible disability#ehlers danlos syndrome#lyme disease#chronically ill#cpunk#cripplepunk
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