#spoken from personal experience

[sleepytownez]

An excruciatingly long slow-burn fanfiction could fix him. (Debatable)

[hilacopter]

no babe you can form your own opinions you've just learned to automatically check what other people think and form them in accordance in fear of having the "wrong" ones and have hindered your own critical thinking as a result

[this-should-do]

me when i meet with my colleges first out trans teacher who is like a celebrity with me after one of my teachers puts me in contact with her again (i had interviewed said trans teacher 4 years prior and hadnt met with her since) and she tells me tjat my teacher had so many positive things to say about me, about how i was one of her brightest most well spoken students and that she (within like 5 minutes of having been talking) immediately sees exactly what my professor had been talking about and so many super implied positives about me that i would never had known about and i dod everything in my power to avoid prying for more details but even what i heard was soso nicies

[thebisexualwreckoning]

maybe this is just due to my upbringing but everyone knows that no matter what YOU DO NOT START A WAR AGAINST THE HOUSEKEEPER, they will win and they will make your life hell while you do it

I have watched 5 minutes of season 1 of bridgerton and I know I shouldn’t expect much and I was ready to let go of them not wearing chemises but why on earth are they wearing corsets with an empire waistline? What is the point of it?

[autopsytableromance]

Trying so hard to not just fucking hate my comms class but my professor is making it real hard

[potassiumcyanides]

no matter how bad of a driver you are there will always be a man with a truck who is worse. remember that

[chris-sya]

my take on what color human! Grimmjow's hair is: it's blond but like. it never really is. he bleaches it, dyes it with a box dye and, like, he uses gloves if they are in his immediate proximity when he decides to dye it again. So each month he will have blue under his nails for a couple of days.

and his ends are just hay bc of all the shitty dyes and bleaching, and his roots are constantly outgrown cause he has better shit to do than dye his hair regularly🥺🥴

and his eyebrows are normal person sized but since they're blonde they aren't really visible anyway so he shaves a good chunk off for funsies. He tried using the hair dye on them once and almost lost his eyesight

[eebie]

When school starts back up again im gonna search for people who will want to hang and watch movies

[the-voice-of-night-vale]

social anxiety can be really funny in retrospect bc it will have you saying shit like 'is it weird to call a doctor's office and schedule an appointment?"with 100% sincerity and panicking about it as if that's not the silliest thing in the world

[bigbihatemachine]

Mum: I don't understand why the council would treat you, a disabled person, so poorly!

Me: well yeah it's disgusting but their reasoning is none of this is support needs so I can go off my meds, that's not their problem, never leave the house, etc etc, none of these count as support needs-

Mum: stop! This is too upsetting to hear!

Me, who is currently living it as and as a direct result of my mother making me homeless: sure it def is upsetting

[sawruhh]

Boy do I have updates

[freutsch]

There's probably something interesting to be said about how when british trans women on tiktok are doing their 'man voice' as a joke, they often also switch accents to MLE.

There's something there about the accents people choose to depict certain characteristics and the hypermasculinisation of men of colour in our society.

I don't wanna deep this, this is not having a go at any of these women. It's almost definitely a subconscious choice. I just think it reveals something interesting about out attitudes towards certain dialects, and the communities that use them.

[sleepygirlthing]

its sooooo fucking satisfying seeing some cocky sub that was just teasing you moments ago moan desperately while you push their head into the mattress >:3c

[geekwiththegoggles]

. . .

[supercantaloupe]

“but sasha you just spent like the past hour complaining about having to talk to other people in french why would you want to go back to europe” easy. i don’t speak german or italian or spanish. and the awkwardness of being an english speaker in austria or italy or wherever is far better than trying to speak subpar french to a french person

[isekyaaa]

Tbqh the only reason why I don't write original fiction is because I don't feel confident in writing a realistic man. Which is funny because I can write men in fanfiction, but like.... Tbh, I don't think they're very realistic men either. People don't talk like men from games, manga, etc. Which I suppose someone can say, "Well if fictional men don't sound like real men, then why do you need to worry so much?" And I suppose that's a valid point. But still, regardless of how logical it is, I want to write a realistic man.