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“Why do I ride buck naked?
Why else… to feel my hard cock flappin’ in the wind!”
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#specs and muscle#zelex鄭翔#specs and pecs#asian specs#specs and abs#specs and sex#naked specs#naked muscle#shades and muscle#謝梓秋#cool shades#absolute abs#deepcut abs#specs and traps#asian seduction
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saw someone on here the other day say that we don’t need aromantic and asexual representation in media because that’s a “sanitized” identity like BITCH WHAT????? IF YOU CAN ONLY SEE ASPEC PEOPLE AS CHILDREN THAT IS A YOU PROBLEM.
#also. these people should know that sex isn’t the ONLY THING being queer is about. same for romance.#it IS something but it’s not for everyone nor does everyone have the same feelings on it#just. ugh#tw aphobia#aromantic#asexual#arospec#ace spec#aspec representation#aspec rep#aggie posts
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I bring a certain repulsed aroace vibe to the fandom that most people don't appreciate
#it is a constant struggle#the people hate my ideas#but it only fuels me#aroace#repulsed aroace#romance repulsed#sex repulsed#apothiromantic#apothisexual#aroace spec#aroace spectrum#aromantic spectrum#aromantics#aromanticism#aromantic#arospec#aro#acespec#ace#asexual spectrum#asexuality spectrum#asexual#asexuality
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i will always dislike the stereotype that cisgender men are just beings who only think / care about sex, so my cis men out there who are asexual or just genuinely don't think sex is that important, you are seen and will always be valid :D /gen
#tw sex mention#cisgender#cis man#cis male#cis men#cis#asexual community#asexuality#asexual#asexual positivity#asexual pride#asexual representation#asexual spectrum#actually asexual#ace stuff#ace pride#acespec#ace positivity#ace rep#ace representation#ace spec#ace spectrum#ace umbrella#ace#pride#queer#lgbtq#lgbtqia+#lgbtq+ community#lgbt community
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if you see a male character kiss a male character, you assume they are gay.
if you see a female character kiss a female character, you assume they are a lesbian.
if you hear a character say they don't feel like their gender, you assume they are trans.
so why do a-spec characters have to jump through so many loops?
a character saying they've never had a crush or don't want a relationship or that they don't understand romantic love is so often ignored or used as fodder for other queer or autistic headcanons (reinforcing stereotypes that aroace people are secretly gay or always autistic)
why is it that our stories are always "up to interpretation"? why do we have to wait for the words aromantic or asexual to be said to be taken seriously? why is it that even when characters say they don't want relationships, fans will scream and cry about sex/romance favourable aspecs and qprs?
when it comes to gay and trans characters, even the likes of bisexual lighting is often treated as though it canonises their sexuality. for aroace characters, even the most explicit coding possible is swept under the rug in favour of other "interpretations"
i'm so tired of fighting for representation just to have it ignored and minimised by fans. let characters be aroace. please.
#obviously there are a ton of circumstances where the qpr and sex/romance favourable is completely fine#but when characters explicity say they dont have sex or dont want relationships it feels so hollow#fandom is fandom and there is nothing i can do to stop you shipping or writing smut or headcanoning or whatever#but please just think it through. the characters aren't real but there are so many geniunely harmful ideas doing stuff like this reinforces#rhi rambles#aroace#aromantic#asexual#a-spec#a spec#aspec#aro#ace#aspec representation#asexual representation#aromantic representation#lgbtq+#queer
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I’m sick and tired of having to explain to people that i’m not interested in sex because i’m asexual, NOT because i’ve been brainwashed by purity culture. 😒
*I’m also sex positive but apparently it’s not possible to be sex positive and have a disinterest in sexual activites at the same time. 🙃
#lgbtqia+#asexuality#asexual#asexuality is valid#ace community#ace space#lgbtqia community#queer community#queer#sex positive#ace spec#acespec#aspec#wtf#acephobia#lgbtqia#lgbtqia+ community
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กฤตยศ กาญจนดุล ๒๔๐๕๒๗
❤︎ ร้องเพลงกับฉัน ♪
I’m too sexy for my pecs!
Too sexy for my pecs!
Just sexy for sex!
#กฤตยศ กาญจนดุล#krittayot kanchanadul#mirror shades#cool shades#specs and muscle#black undies#specs and pecs#asian specs#peeking pec#specs and sex#smile john#specs and abs#juicy pecs#thai sports model#thai specs#thai physique#sultry pecs#slim muscular#slim and slutty
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Reminder that not everyone thinks being attractive is a compliment and it makes a lot of people uncomfortable. Not everyone wants to be "hot" or "sexy"
#nonbinary#< tagging that cus it's where I mainly see it#lgbtqia+#queer#asexual#aromantic#sex repulsed#romance repulsed#aroace#asexual spectrum#a-spec#aspec#aromantic spectrum#Janus's Corner
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yes, i am aroace. yes, that person is hot. no, i did not mean that platonically
#i’m aroace not blind#my relationship with romantic attraction is relatively complicated so i suppose it’s understandable to not really Get It#but most of the time when i say stuff like that i really do mean it#and i do not meant the Platonic Version#that being said if it’s a sex joke or something along those lines then i’m probably not being serious#mxpotatoposts#aromantic#asexual#aroace#a-spec#ace pride#acespec
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Sure you're sex positive but are you normal about aroallos?
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Thinking about a-spec Zoro as always and I just think it’d be really fucking funny if Sanji decided to withhold sex because Zoro pissed him off somehow only for Zoro to be wholly unaffected by it meanwhile Sanji is getting more antsy as the days go by until he finally blows up at him like
Sanji: WHY AREN’T YOU MAD THAT WE’RE NOT HAVING SEX??
Zoro, putting his weights down: Huh? What are you talking about it’s only been— *counts on his fingers* Oh.
Sanji, seething, spitting, ready to tear his head off:
OH?
#Sanji <-the one with a much higher need for physical intimacy: haha that’ll show him!#Zoro’s autistic a-spec ass: we had sex yesterday I think.. I’m pretty sure.. whatever it’s fine if the cook doesn’t want to#zosan#rambles
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aromantic and asexual cis men seriously need more recognition, they've been told that being a virgin above the age of 18 is weird and that all cis men are p0rn brained and they've seen that romance and sex is very important to a man and you need to have it or you're confirmed "lame" "boring" and a "virgin loser" /gen
#tw sex mention#cis men#aromantic stuff#aromanticism#aromantic spectrum#aromantic pride#aromantic asexual#aromantic#aro pride#arospec#aroace#aro ace#aro spec#aroace pride#aroacespec#aroallo#aro#asexual pride#asexuality#asexual spectrum#asexual representation#asexual#acespec#ace spec#ace pride#ace spectrum#ace stuff#acearo#ace#queer
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Growing up as aromantic / asexual:
In my childhood and adolescence
After 10 years of desensitization by watching popular media...
...and after few months on Tumblr
I did not even realize how much fed up I already was with all the cisheteronormative couples struggling with stereotypical "gender roles" dilemmas, "traditional family" conflicts and "social expectations" of patriarchal world...
I mean how many times can you watch the same issues over and over again when none of it ever was part of your own not-partnering single life in the first place?
#I needed disgusted-Miguel-reaction-meme but it turns out nobody did a meme out of this scene before??? so I did it myself#asexual#aromantic#arospec#acespec#aro ace#aroace#aspec#a spectrum#a spec#sex repulsed#sex positive#romance repulsed#romance positive#miguel coco#coco miguel#miguel reaction meme#reaction meme
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I don’t know who needs to hear this but you can be sex positive and not be sexually active.
#sex positive#asexual#ace spec#lgbtqia+#asexuality#asexuality is valid#ace community#ace space#lgbtqia community#queer community
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i don't think folks realize this, just because it's all fantasy worldbuilding, but dungeon meshi is absolutely a work of speculative evolution. the only major difference is the addition of a semi-sentient wish granting force called magic. (not unlike @dimespin's worldbuilding)
it takes a variety of fake creatures with biology that doesn't quite add up usually, and places it in the context of "while creatures are evolving, their wishes shape them" and manages to explain every monster from there.
dragons are a type of salamander that wished it could eat larger prey (just make it bigger, unintended consequence of sedentary lifestyle) wished they could make food could sustain them for longer (fire breath derived from the gizzard cooks food, makes it provide more nutrition)
it also manages to explain the different fantasy races pretty handily with this (one king wished for his people to be immortal -> folks wanted their life to end at some point, say 1000 years -> everyone wants to live for different lengths of time eg. some folks think 50 years is plenty while others feel they need around 500)
elves have a higher mana capacity because somewhere along their lineage, they wanted to use magic, but this leaves little energy for much else
dwarves are incredibly strong because they wished for it, but that strength comes from the same nutritional budget as everyone else, so they get exhausted quickly
someone wished dogs could talk and they eventually got kobolds
but the most common of those desires was some rephrasing of "i'm hungry, i wish i wasn't"
and so magic gained a hunger
and wanted to eat, like any hungry creature
and it started to evolve to make eating easier
#dungeon meshi#dungeon meshi spoilers#spec evo#spec bio#speculative biology#speculative evolution#evolution really is all about hunger and sex#and the warping of the flesh to better reach those goals
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colin 🤝 anthony: making an heir in s3
#the rest of my serious input is that i think this will be a flirty thread in a sex scene#esp bc in the book they have sex before they're married#but not so far before that they had to change the wedding date (although colin does but simply bc he just wants to be married)#i think it'll be the same in the show#except mirror stuff and also colin being like hey let's get in on this heir-making competition#and pen will be like colin! we're not even married yet#and he's like well do you want children? and she'll be like yes...#and he'll be like well our wedding is not so far out that starting now versus on our wedding night matters...#and pen will be like but my sisters are already pregnant#and colin will be like they could have girls! and i will love my prospective nieces very much but... we could still win this#and pen will laugh and roll her eyes and be like oh you bridgertons and your competitive spirit#and colin will be like we do like to win#(insert porn)#bridgerton#bridgerton spoilers#bridgerton s3 spec#polin#also. I DON'T SEEM SO DELUSIONAL NOW DO I!!!!!!! I FUCKING CALLED IT!!!!! I SAID THIS WOULD HAPPEN!!!! AND IT'S HAPPENING!!!!
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