there is this one VERY pretty very emo girl who sits two tables away from me in my health class and she has the prettiest hair that i want to touch and gorgeous makeup and always is listening to music and doesnt give two shits about me. im in love. i dont even know her name
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You know, you don't think about until you're taking every thing out of the fridge/freezer, but there's actually a lot of pieces in there to clean
I have basically spent all day taking apart the interior of the fridge, cleaning it, and putting it back; i've been meaning to clean the fridge for a while now but thanks to the power outage I wanted to be extra thorough... which, I guess it's a good thing there's very little food to shuffle around from shelf to shelf while I deep clean?
*shrug*
of course the hard part about standing around cleaning for hours is... the standing
my legs hurt, I probably need to stand more every day :/
with all the food that went bad in there it seemed like a good idea to be extra thorough with my cleaning and while I'm sure it was the right choice to make, man to my legs and feet feel regret from pushing to get it all done in one day
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Look i know its a rly dumb idea to try and set up a base in the middle of louisville buuuuuut i like being withing walking distance of things and i think it would be fun to try?
Now the question is... do i take my game where i have a nice base in muldraugh and try to move as much as i can over to lv or should i start a new game already there? Kinda wanna keep my things but also kinda wanna start new again...?
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it always pisses me off when people start ghosting me and completely cut me off and think i'm annoying because I didn't ~get the hint~ all because they're too much of a coward to be straightforward and honest with me!!!!
i'll keep asking about a thing or when we are hanging out or try to converse with them, because their response is always excuses and not straight up "no" so how am I supposed to know?! either short responses of 1-5 words that I can't really respond to or things like "I'm busy this weekend/I'm too tired today/I forgot about it/we can try next time/I'll get back to you and le you know" are apparently all hints and lies to hide the truth. what they really mean when they tell me this is "no, stop asking. stop talking to me. I do not want to hang out with you or talk to you anymore"
why can't you just say that?! it will save you the annoyance of me asking you 20 times because i took your words at face value. your excuses sound temporary and you didn't get back to me so maybe you forgot. there are rare times people say these things and it's the truth or they really did forget!!!! when I say it, it's the truth. I also have a bad memory. you can't just suddenly ghost me for that! it's on you if you aren't being honest with me. it's up to you to be straightforward and tell the truth so you don't waste both our time. (what's worse is this is usually one of the first things I tell people when we meet. that I need then to be straightforward and honest. they promise they will but that's also a lie)
ghosting is so cruel (when the other person has no bad intentions/isnt causing harm). more cruel than telling me to my face you hate me and never want to speak again! i actually prefer that, so i at least know and can give up on your useless ass and stop wasting my time. don't give me false hope when i'm really excited to be friends and hang out, don't waste my time and energy and efforts, and don't lead me on with lies only to crush my entire soul when I find the truth much later. just say it and get it over with!!!! it's your fault if I annoy you by "not taking the hint" because there was no hint, lying isn't a hint. spill the truth and don't blame me for it!!!!!!
this is why i've given up with people and now only give attention to the ones who contact me first every time continuously, and I put little effort into anything anymore. I know that will end up making some people give up on me by thinking i dont care. but I'm tired of wasting my time and energy on the people who put no effort into me. you must prove yourself and keep doing it or I won't try at all. the people who ghost me and hurt me are to blame. yes, I live a very lonely existence with maybe one friend I talk to once every week or two for a total of 5 minutes at most. yes I wish I had more connections or closer ones. but i'm SO FUCKING TIRED. i'm tired of trying so much and so hard just for people to shit on my efforts and disrespect my needs and boundaries!!!!!!
why should I keep trying when it always ends bad and adds yet another layer to my trauma.
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life is really beautiful when you feel like a person again and not a living corpse. like you understand what it's like when people say they're happy to be alive. like i feel like the first time in so long i really feel close to really feeling that way. like even when my life sucks to know that i will be able to still be truly happy to be alive and know i will eventually be able to pick myself up. im sure i've felt it before but it's been so long it feels like for the first time in my entire life i'm truly happy to be alive and know what that means. and will this feeling go up and down of course. but it's like. to not feel like a painfully kept alive corpse and to actually feel like a person. is really nice. it's really really nice. and i want to hold onto the moments where i feel that so i can remind myself i have felt this way before and i will get to feel it again even when stuff is really bad. eventually I'll get to feel this way again. i really hold it close.
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