#so so so much UNNECESSARY NEGATIVITY
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THIS IS NOT PRETTY.
this is not natural.
the human body is not build like this naturally.
this should not be the new average women body standard
don't punish yourself or get complexes because you don't look like a porn star
a healthy, natural body is much prettier
#tiktok and pinterest popularised this horrible trend to make this body type every girls “dream���#don't compare yourself to these bitches#....#sometimes I see women on the streets who look like this and men side-eye them in such a perverse way#I don't think it's nice to get these looks every day#no it's definitely not#but#not every man likes this fake body type#“players” like it but true men appreciate natural looks#I just can't stand how girls are so crazy about this body#that “manifesting 🤞🏻” Pinterest trend is so so toxic#girls look at perfect flawless pictures and hope they will get their glow up and transform into such a fake Instagram person?!?!#then after some months they're disappointed because it didn't turn out like this#no one is perfect#no one#not even Adriana Lima or the average Instagram influencer#ERASE these people out of your memory#so so so much UNNECESSARY NEGATIVITY#cherish life and your family. friends. etc etc#cherish that you're young & healthy#don't let bitches destroy the best time of your life#random mind
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The urge whenever I see a post that says “what’s something you hate in the marauders fandom” to say “videos like these” is immensely strong and ever growing
#i fucking hate those videos#im not sorry#they suck#it just causes negativity and arguments#so fucking unnecessary to make a video about hate just because it would get more views#ahhhhhh#marauders#marauders era#marauders fandom#wolfstar#the marauders#jegulus#jily#no one gives a fuck#like both for all I care#ahhhhhhhhhh#i hate it so much#i hate it i hate it i hate it#☹️☹️#why can’t we just hold hands
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literally half the things i hear about the realm on here (whether started here or brought here from twitter) is just new nothing burger discourse that really doesn’t make me want to actually watch the realm ngl
#like maybe it’s my outside perspective but theres like a lot of vitriol for the happening on a server that tubbo said he originally thought#up and created in like . two days . like idk it seems clear to me that it was always just supposed to be a chill server with room for fun rp#conflict If the ccs were interested doing it but godamn everyone makes it seem so serious 😭 do we truly care this much#like obvs im sure theres valid criticisms to be made . from an outside perspective the Need for different factions seems a little silly and#unnecessary but truly at my core none of this seems as serious as people make it out to be . IDK maybe it’s the residual anxieties from#dumbass q*mp discourse that makes me have this opinion but 🤷#like tbh constant discourse of nothing is kinda pissing me off at my core bc damn tubbster rly went out of his way to create a server for#all the q*mp streamers and his other streamer friends to play together but people seem to be rly keen on ruining that awesome idea with#Nothing discourse#neg#anw watch etoiles if u love fun <3
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I was in a major car accident yesterday (got t-boned) and was very luckily a) alone in the car, as the passenger side got walloped and b) not injured. However I took care of everything and then went home and proceeded to sleep for 19 out of the following 24 hours.
#I could feel all my muscles and all of them were in pain. every ounce of my energy was sapped#I needed to eat but the thought of eating made me want to puke#I had to be driven home and I was sat in the front seat like 😵💫🫥😱 why aren't you BRAKING you need to BRAKE every two seconds#After my 24 hour reset I am now up to eating a meal. I still hurt but only the top quarter of my body instead of all of it.#I can stand the thought of being driven now but idk how long it'll be before I'm OK with driving again 🙁#I have been thinking about it like. all the time which sucks. Unfortunately my tolerance for processing negative experiences is -1000#If something bad happens to me I want to just fix the situation and move on from it immediately#and that just doesn't happen in reality. But now I'm stuck sitting with this awful experience for who knows how long :(#I'm lucky our insurance is so good it'll cover everything (but deductible obvs) and I imagine the car is fixable#All in all I'm incredibly lucky and I know that and I'm so grateful to be healthy and home with my husband and cat#But also I've had my license for 8 years and never had an accident. I've been through so much this year. This car is 1.5 months old#It just feels so unnecessary and evil for this to happen now and I feel so guilty that apparently I'm at fault#and caused this huge financial and energetic drain for my lil family when we've already dealt with fuckin everything else the past 6 months#The ''why me why today why when I'm a responsible driver'' is real and my whole shit is rocked. I'm still shaken up#I've had a few times recently where shit felt... unreal? Like I should be able to reload my save because that couldn't have just happened#And this was so vividly that way#I'm strong but like. The Cursed™️ vibe is very present#May have to do a curse break and many protection spells soon#cause this is getting ridiculous#personal
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i cant believe how massively the lando/max incident has absolutely spiralled in the media and online. it was for the lead in what is shaping up to be an exciting season, i get it, but surely this reaction is way out of proportion? why are there 86 journalism think pieces on max's racing abilities and lando's winning capabilities? it was a single incident and an overal sloppy race. seriously?
#feels way way way unnecessary ? its fuelling so much hate to both of them#like yeah yeah it was only yesterday its still fresh but also can we move on pls#also not enjoying seeing the max hate in the media; its pretty bad for him in the press rn which reeks of british bias. as always#likewise; the lando hate online has also been a little silly. yeah his comments were childish but some of the things ive seen yall say ....#it is a sport. one that you personally are not involved in. touch some grass. go on a hike.#as always: this is Not max or lando neg. they r my fav drivers#m talks#discourse#austria 2024
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Maybe Minecraft is itself a tree that's grown rotten. Or maybe I've simply outgrown it.
(I had a mental breakdown in the tags sorry)
#something something so much of my personal neg experiences w the internet have stemmed from minecraft#maybe its time for this blog to go#maybe i need to cut that game and all its brambly roots out of my life#all the content creators and youtube channels and servers#ive lost close friends. ive been personally betrayed. ive experienced direct racism and misogyny. all bc of this stupid game#and ofc theres all the unnecessary and secondhand hurt from content creators#shitty internet drama. addiction. shipping. fandom discourse. bullshit and more bullshit#all i experience w this game is loss#im being dramatic but i dont fucking care#i dont want to process how much ycgma or sbi meant to me#how much of my emotional healing and outpouring went into them#sleepy boys was my entire world at one point#now i have to rip it out of my psyche root and stem#invested so much time and energy and emotion and for what#personal#to delete#.txt
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i still keep thinking about a thing i saw somewhere, i can't remember where it was, if it was a youtube comment or something a while back, somebody talking about russ's 2020 album and they were like "i told russ i didn't like it" and i was thinking like. why would you even tell him that though? you can just not listen to it. it's not like he's looking for constructive criticism, he's gonna do whatever he feels like doing regardless. he does everything for himself and anybody that also might like it. why would you go to him specifically to be negative at him for no reason? it's one thing to just put a comment that you didn't like it somewhere on the internet(still, why?), but it's another thing to want to go and report that directly to him. if you didn't like it, then it wasn't for you. it would be so much easier to just avoid it.
#me#excuse me venting#sometimes something invades my mind and won't leave#it just seems#so unnecessary???#the album before that one was literally all about the fact there's not enough love in the world#and then people will do things like this#which isn't helping anything#i wouldn't care as much if it was just a comment saying 'i didn't like it' but specifically saying 'I TOLD RUSS that i didn't like it'#that#sets me off#okay anyway#i'm done thank you#[urge to protect russ from anything bad and negative bubbling up inside even though he can handle it better than i could]
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Hab Das Mädchen, das allein nach Haus geht zuende geguckt. Ganz offensichtlich ist der Grund, aus dem Nina in den nächsten Folgen nicht mehr dabei ist, der, dass sie zusammen mit Julie in den Flieger gestiegen ist und die beiden zusammen ein neues Leben angefangen haben. Ganz eindeutig. Eine andere Erklärung gibts nicht.
#yes hello i'm not particularly emotionally affected by this but this is a very nice way to deny the ending#those two were gay as fuck and i just know they're living their best life in spain or something#kaj rambles#some negativity ahead tho so stop reading if you don't wanna see me bitch about this episode#unnecessary long tag in between just so you really do have the opportunity to stop reading if you don't want to see the negativity#actually hated most of this ep for reasons wholly unrelated to nina's death#pretty much everything between her and karow was just annoying#and sorry but the death scene was. so bad.#und ich wiederhole mich aber warum zum fick hat eigentlich im tatort nie jemand ne schutzweste an???#ja ich weiß nina hatte eine und hat sie julie gegeben. die eigentliche frage ist warum hatten sie keine für julie dabei???#ist ja nicht so als wäre yashas schießwut unerwartet gekommen.#anyway#tatort berlin#nina rubin#das mädchen das allein nach haus geht
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you are absolutely right about what you said re: censoring jkr's name though. it's the same mindset that encourages those people who are like 'i don't care about hp i just care about the marauders' which i completely get in terms of like, caring about the mwpp era vs golden trio era but i feel like sometimes people lean so much into that mindset that they sort of... forget that the marauders are a part of the hp universe?
another one i can't stand is 'jkr didn't write hp! (insert) did!' because, to me, saying stuff like this doesn't really do anything in terms of disavowing jkr and her beliefs. no matter how much you clog your ears and pretend otherwise, jkr did write hp and it's very much her work.
maybe it's the fact that i believe that the 'ownwership' of published literature (and other media as well i guess, but i care more about literature than anything else so i'll only speak for that) is sort of... a balancing act between the writer and the reader. it can be jkr's thing just as much as it's mine, you know? and my interpretation of things/the parts of it that resonated with me is just as important as jkr's involvement. so the very act of liking hp doesn't make me or anyone else an awful person because hp is also mine.
that's a more impactful mindset to me than erasing jkr entirely from the work because that's just... blatantly not true and never will be lmao
you are absolutely right about everything you said.
i think this is a general issue of people seeking control that they'll never have. nobody can guarantee you that the person whose music/art/writing you like will never do anything problematic. you need to learn to be okay with that.
you see that beyond fandom, with the rejection of the "culturally christian" label (which has always been baffling to me bc in islam/judaism we only have "practicing" and "non-practicing" but you cant just remove that entirely when youre born into a culture, yknow?)
or with countries. like. you need to be okay with your country having a shitty president that makes shitty decisions and still feel okay about identifying as american/german/iranian/etc and be proud of that bc it's still your heritage and your culture and you're allowed to take that flag and make it into whatever it is to you regardless of what it means to other people, because you can't control that.
#life gets much easier once you learn to do that#this whole...cult like behavior of anti-jkr disclaimers in every post and censoring her name is so unnecessary inside the fandom space itse#all it does is create negative energy and shame people and scare people away#do you also say an anti-slavery disclaimer every time you use your iphone?#give me a break
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Was sorting through my Zestiria merch and remembered I own the ufotable lineart books for TOZX and yeah there are still nice things in a vacuum to like about TOZX tbh. It fails as an adaptation and it fails as a standalone story, but it is still quite interesting for what it chooses to create anew.
Even though I don't think the anime used it very well (and it does have like way too much of a "suffering for humanity's sins" vibe) I liked that Sorey purifying malevolence basically puts him through what caused that person to become malevolent, and I definitely preferred that method of exposition to the Earthen Historia (which, yes, I know Berseria also did it and made it more streamlined, but in an anime adaptation that sort of fetch quest would not work).
If Alisha had to leave the party because of Sorey's blindness I definitely prefer the manga's take on it where she has more agency in doing so, but ultimately I still prefer Rose and Alisha's storylines in TOZX to what they get in the game because the focus is better placed on them having conflicts to deal with, especially actually treating Rose's murder thing as murder.
(Sure, we know she vets targets and has good intentions, but why should the party believe her when it's been established you can think you're 100% right about something and not generate malevolence.)
And I like that Alisha takes part in the final battle. I ~know~ there's a point to her staying gone in the game/manga but I'll take my silly power of friendship cheesiness in non-canon adaptation.
Like don't get me wrong, TOZX is a disappointing adaptation for sure, but TOZX wasn't a prequel or a sequel so if I wanted more of Sorey and Mikleo, game/manga canon was still there... Whereas we didn't really get much of Rose and Alisha interacting that way outside of the DLC.
Honestly I was just kind of "filling in the blanks" during most of TOZX imagining that the party were doing their usual party things while the focus was on Rose or Alisha, and you kind of have to when very little in TOZX feels "earned" through the continuity of that adaptation, you basically need to care about the characters via what you know about them from the game, but it's still nice to me to be able to see in some sense "what could have been".
(Hence, TOZX didn't have to be a faithful adaptation of Zestiria, but it was also not a good story as a standalone experience, so I imagine first-time audiences were very confused and existing fans were. well.)
But even if Eizen going back to normal was sudden (in an ending that was already over-the-top happy with everything neatly resolved), even if dragons can't be purified and they do it anyway, it's still a heartwarming thing in a vacuum, like how the Epileo and Sorey hug is still sweet even in TOZX continuity it's actually pretty fucking depressing confirming that Sorey is still human.
Like yeah, TOZX is a bad adaptation and it doesn't work as a story on its own either, but there are still small details I really like. I would have preferred an adaptation that was more faithful to the game lore, and I feel like they wasted a lot of money on it and probably should have just adapted Berseria instead since interest in Zestiria was dying already with Berseria's release, but for what we got it wasn't completely worthless.
Or maybe it's just because, to me, any adaptation is just free fanfic inspo to me and I just take the parts I like and ignore the rest.
#like im still mad at asteria but it's over now and i can just steal the premise of violet eyed elle surviving with victor!#i haven't seen much about tozx since i returned to zestiria fandom in 2021 but what i have is basically always negative and that's fair#but idk maybe it's because i already see flaws with zestiria's game story and i'm already nitpicking canon details to keep there#which is basically how i handle x2 because like. you just know they did NOT think it through#so to me it's really not that big of a deal that the adaptation is extremely unnecessary#tozx#v#i don't have a negativity tag we're all gonna have to live with this#zes
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i feel like people dislike cait for valid reasons,, she was literally a corrupt cop and a facist plus people could undeniably have their own personal reasons affecting the way they view her, just like you have yours.
i don’t like cait, but i’d never be straight up rude to people that do, just like you shouldn’t be to those who don’t. this is all fiction, these characters are not real. being disrespectful to actual real people over it is not it.
anyway, just be kind to people even if they have differing opinions on fictional characters than you.
"We want more complex female characters" you can't even handle an angry, grieving daughter who just had her mother killed by her future wife's sister, shut the fuck up
#arcane#arcane league of legends#caitlyn kiramman#caitlyn arcane#arcane caitlyn#idk there’s just so much unnecessary negativity in this fandom
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Sorry but are you telling me some people actually like having leg hair?? Huh??? Because I see all these posts like "a girl without leg hair is like an angel without wings" and like what??? You guys like that???
I HATE having leg hair with all my being. I think it's gross and scratchy and I hate touching it and I hate looking at it and I hate it I hate it and shaving is a lesser of two evils imo. But apparently, some people don't?
And I mean if you do like it--- then good for you! That's great! But I just don't understand it.
And also apparently some people only shave because it's a social norm?? Like no, I shave because if there are hairs growing anywhere else on my body than my head I will explode. I want to be smooth and I don't want to put my legs together while wearing shorts and feel all the Hairs. I also hate looking at it, call it societal conditioning or whatever but I really don't like how it looks. Am I alone on this?
#this is such an unnecessary rant#I'm so sorry if I offend anyone that is not the intention I'm just confused about all the stuff I've seen lately about not shaving and stuf#and disclaimer: I'm not saying if a woman has body hair she's automatically gross#like you go girl!#but it's just not for me#idk what I'm rambling on about anymore#I guess I was just under the impression that everyone hates body hair and that's why we shave#I might delete this post if it starts discourse or gets negative feedback#you know I also don't really find body hair on guys attractive either#I know a lot of women do but at least from what I've seen (from pictures because I get no bitches) it doesn't do it for me#I'm rambling so much omg
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new pokemon episode!!!
#vi rambling#pokemon#this ep was great honestly... i kinda lowered expectations because i kinda... disliked last ep lol . a lot didnt make sense#but i really liked basagiri's characterisation and seeing more of lucius.. that flashback was really sweet and a lot can be inferred from i#and there were great moments direction wise. basagiri locking them in with the rock tomb and liko terastalizing were really great#i will say im a little disappointed it didnt last for one more episode? it felt a bit short lived in comparison to the others?#because the pacing was mostly spent on looking For basagiri. and when we finally find him ig all just feels pretty short.#honestly i think my biggest problem is perrin because as much as i wanted to like her her presence felt pretty unnecessary imo.#until now the series has done a shockingly very good job at implementing the game characters in a way that doesn't feel forced#but in this case it.... kind of is. i didnt feel like she did much other than providing the initial picture and her dynamic with the others#didnt stand out enough for me to feel like the characters gained anything from her presence. there was the cute moment with dot last ep#(which was honestly the highlight of the episode imo) but its very short and doesnt change much or provide much insight on perrin herself.#mostly sad the rest of the rising volteccers are being kinda shelved for this... which is transparently the intervention of gamefreak#wanting to promote the games. ehhhh whatever whatever. i cant decide if what would solve this would be perrin staying longer#or just writing her out. no clue.#anyways DIANA IS BACK LETS GOOOO. i will say seeing liko's growth is really satisfying and so is rhe rest of the kids#and this ep did a much better job at that than last episode because seriously im so... what was with that.#ITS FINE im not gonna be negative about last episode i enjoyed this one and thats what counts. i need episode 75 very badly#FOR THE THIRD TRAVELER REVEAL... i dont remember her name but . this sounds fascinating i NEED more of gibeon and lucius#from just the little information that is scattered and inferred... they fascinate me.#also i realize why lucius fascinates me so much.#something to do with... a kindhearted gentle looking hero of old.... with blue hair... who roams the land helping the people (or pokemon)#who sort of haunts the narrative as rhe character who's legendary legacy the main character is following after his journey has ended...#HMMMM.... HIMMEL CODED MUCH..........
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i hate my parents’ relationship with each other
#it sucks so fucking bad#can my dad like at least be a better person i feel like it could cause a lot less issues#and if he didn’t lie about things and if he actually did things he was supposed to do#it’s just fucking bullshit and it causes so much unnecessary shit#it would cause so much less of my mom yelling at him#and none of this would even be like this if he just helped her with shit#it’s just a huge fucking mess and it’s his fucking fault honestly#it makes my brain want to explode#ender.txt#negative
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To "take everything literally" (taking everything in the manner of being literal) is to interpret ambiguous phrases in a literal manner, ignoring the possibility of hyperbole, metaphor, euphemism, or other rhetorical tricks common in human communication across cultures. Being able to properly understand the intentions of others is an important part of many societies, so 'taking things literally' is almost always seen as a negative trait. Correctly identifying a literal statement as literal would not usually be labeled as "taking things literally." Rather, it is misidentifying a phrase as a literal statement that is called out as such. This trait is associated with autism in the early-twenty first century, but it is not a one-to-one correspondence.
To "literally take everything" (to take things in actuality not in rhetoric) is to steal. Kleptomania (from Greek for theft madness) is a mental condition where individuals feel a compulsion to steal. Often theft born of kleptomania is not driven by need nor by desire. Kleptomaniacs (especially when children) are known to steal things to simply hide them or even throw them away.
The above post is a joke. They are taking the phrase "taking everything literally" literally. This is a form of humorous irony, self demonstrating the answer to the initial question. The fact the individual is joking about such is evidence that they do not, in actuality, take everything literally.
#period novel details#explaining the joke ruins the joke#not explaining the joke means people 300 years from now won't understand our culture#I don't mean to punch down on people who take things literally#but there is a REASON it is seen as a negative trait#but I hope to explain for people that are honestly ignorant#and if people are aware then this explanation is unnecessary for you#if someone says “I could eat a horse” instead of saying “I am hungry” there is a reason#because there IS a difference between the two#the word choice and euphemism are a deliberate choice#depending on the culture saying “I am hungry” directly can be rude since referring to one's own needs is demanding#and using a humorous euphemism might be a way to show informality and friendship#if they wanted to be aggressive and bully people around they would have said “I am hungry” instead#it is mathematically impossible for words to convey the full meaning because cultural connotations and impressions embed in word choice#and if you hear “I could eat a horse” and think someone is bragging about that...#well you KNOW they cannot do that. No human can do so. No human can get that hungry#so you HAVE to conclude that they are a liar for making a stupid claim like that#or think they are a weirdo who says random things#or think they are ignorant of how big horses are#no matter how you cut it if you take that phrase literally you HAVE to assume something pretty negative about the person saying it#and that's not charitable at all#the kinder (and much more natural) explanation is that they were NOT speaking literally#and assuming that it was literal WILL come across as rude because you did NOT extend that grace to try to interpret otherwise#that's a pretty extreme example but I am trying to explain the mindset of why taking things literally would be viewed as a negative trait#if people are ignorant about that#and yes there ARE people that are just assholes and use their words to hurt them pretend it was just a rhetorical trick#“it was just a joke” kind of assholes#but most people aren't using non-literal phrases to do so#they are just trying to communicate
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And now I remember why I stopped hanging out with men
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