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chappellrroan · 6 months

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2024 is not a good year

#uncle called and apparently one of the good aunts is on her deathbed she has only few days left #so mom and dad went to visit her #we already had one death in jan #idk i dont feel anything does that make me a bad person i mean i did meet her few times she was nice she has a big floffy dog she used to #call her son because she did not have kids and an year or two ago he passed away so she was really heartbroken #plus her and her husband were the only sane loving couple #but i don't feel sad? idk it was just oh?oh...#tw death #mine

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nostalgicfun · 6 months

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Flying a kite with dad, 1999

#there's such a cute story behind this picture #1. my dad desperately wanted pictures of us doing activities together but my mom refused to go anywhere with us OR use a camera #(like. she never went to parks/on bike rides/out to lunch with us etc. because she doesn't like going out)#he kept setting the timer on the camera and then running over and trying to get a good picture of him and I flying a kite together #2. BUT THEN I let too much string out on the kite and it flew away and I was devastated #so he went and called my grandfather and then put my grandfather on the phone with me #and my grandpa told me my unicorn kite came to visit him and that he had her now :) and thanked me for sending her to visit him #such a good wholesome memory

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aroace-cat-lady · 3 months

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It should be illegal to do more of like. Two things in a day. And to have unplanned activities.

#this day has been. eternal. im SO tired.#woke up at 6am cuz my sis graduated.#visited my grandmother (multiple times).#went to a restaurant (they were passing a movie it was horrible)#went with my mom to drop my brother at the station cuz he's moving out #got my grades (failed. again)#went with my sister to do her nails cuz she has her party in two days #went to the cinema to watch a movie #had a conversation with my dad (he acknowledged we're very similar in ways i dont like. i cried silencely as always. bad business)#went through like five different crises throughout the day #i want to sleep thirteen hours

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emily-mooon · 6 months

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Imagine if Stacey and Neil actually met in high school except they didn’t go to the same school: they met through Kid Chameleon.

One night, Scott brings Stacey to one of their shows and it just so happens that Stephanie (or Steph) brought Neil with her.

Since they were both the youngest people there (Neil’s 17, Stacey’s 16 till December), they decided to talk to each other and they hit it off.

Stacey also develops a bit of a crush on Neil and would always ask Scott if Steph was going to bring her brother with her again, as she wanted to see him and didn’t know if there was another way.

Then one morning, she discovers that they take the same TTC bus and from then on they talk before and after school and become sorta friends. At this point, Neil also starts developing a crush on her.

Things stayed like that for about two months until Neil and his mom moved places (as I agree with the headcanon that the Nordegraf siblings have divorced parents) so they would no longer take the same bus in the morning or after school. They still have Kid Chameleon shows to meet up and talk at right? Ha ha wrong cause at New Years, the famous break up between Scott and Envy happens which in turn, also breaks up the band.

That whole break up was the nail in the coffin that strained Neil and Stacey’s kinda friendship. They didn’t have the others phone number cause they were both too shy to ask and also cause they both kept forgetting.

There also wasn’t a whole ton of opportunities to ask either of their siblings for their phone numbers so they just gave up and went on with their lives.

But then why didn’t they recognize the other in the like three times there were in the same room together? Easy answer: Stacey was distracted by everything around her to even notice Neil, who in turn, was slowly disappearing into the crowd and fully did by the time it was Lisa’s going away dinner.

So when they see each other again properly at the Chaos Theater, something clicks and they fall back into where they once were two years ago. To them it felt like a decade, but no it was just two years. They catch up on what they missed in the others lives on the walk home.

After that these dorks start dating cause the feelings were still there, just buried deep, left dormant, and forgotten. They came back but slightly different as people change.

#and that’s it!#this idea has been cooking for a little bit btw #i am an au fiend and this gets added to my long list #I have another idea where neil lives on the east coast with his mom but spent Christmas with his dad and Stephanie #he also says he’ll come visit Stacey during March break but since kid chameleon broke up after Scott and envy broke up #he didn’t get to (also cause he went on a trip with his mom instead)#the drama is there but I think I’m the only person who headcanons that Neil has family on the east coast sooooo #or hey how about he moves there with his mom since she wanted to be closer to her family #that’s another alternative #anyways try to pry this au headcanon from my cold dead hands #i love it sm #apologies if some things sound cliche deep down I’m a romantic at heart and I’m such a sucker for ppl meeting again after not seeing the #other for awhile #also sorry for any spelling mistakes it’s late at night and I should go to bed now so gn!#scott pilgrim #scott pilgrim comic #young neil #neil nordegraf #stacey pilgrim #nordegrim #emilys headcanons #emilys long list of aus #i guess this counts as canon divergent too #long post #cause it is kinda long ngl

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castielsupernatural · 3 months

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have you ever put somebody in an ambulance and then the ambulance literally goes missing

#????????????#my dad hurt his back (he’s fine he’s seriously fine) but his pain was so unmanageable a doctor friend had come over and immediately called #911 and they put him on a stretcher and all that and my mom followed in her car to the hospital #and got there and watched the ambulance pull into the parking lot then pull out #and she went in to the ER to be like lol is my husband here and they were like what are you talking about #so we’ve been on the phone for the past 20 minutes like????? did he tell them to go back home??? h #they wouldn’t have taken him to a different ER for Reasons but also my mom has his phone so we can’t contact anyone #anyway vibes on a wednesday night #i’m fine btw i actually literally love a crisis this is the third family emergency since ive visited home this week #it’s like they wait for me

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tj-crochets · 4 months

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What if you crocheted the cigar? Would that help the size problem? My brain is thinking: MR 6, INC 6, (SC, INC) 6 and then just SC to length and then color change to grey or red for the cigar end?

Depending on the yarn, you could get a nice texture to the cigar too.

Crocheting the cigar is definitely an option, and depending on the scale I was going for that's pretty much the pattern I was thinking too, I just have to admit I know nothing about cigars or what their texture usually is lol

#ask away!#I haven't reblogged it yet because I don't want to spam people with a single post about isopod cigars #but up until someone reblogged the other post and mentioned a label on cigars and shared a picture #I did not know cigars can have a label on them #do you just...burn the label as you smoke it????#one of my mom's exes smoked cigars but I have asthma so I was never around him while he was smoking #and also he was generally uh. not my favorite of my mom's exes so I didn't spend much time around him?#I mean he was not my least favorite of her exes but he is near the bottom of list of the ones I met #the top of the list is obviously my dad and the second place is the guy who always brought pie when he visited #which is less about the guy himself and more that there was a really good pie place between his place and my mom's #and teenage me was of the opinion that if I had to socialize with my mom's boyfriend I should be bribed with pie #that's not relevant to the cigar thing it just made me think of it and now I want pie #...the local pie place closes on sundays :(#well. there are other places but the local allergy-friendly pie place is closed #should I make pie???#no I should make brownies #sorry nonny these tags really went off the rails but if I weren't about to cook lunch you would have inspired me to make brownies

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backfliips · 1 year

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Man this is the first birthday I've sat alone in my room and sobbed on

#this fucking sucks #my dad called me to say happy birthday and i started crying because i got so bummed out #he was going to come up and visit and we had to postpone because i got covid #and then 20 other things went wrong already this morning #and im sick and exhausted and sad #and then i got dizzy while walking the dog im pet sitting #and i got stuck behind bikers taking up the whole lane #and then behind a pickup truck full of mulch going 20 under #and i had to cancel my birthday party #and my mom is at the beach without me spending time with her racist loser boyfriend and bragging about it to our family #and this was supposed to be the year i finally did something for myself on my birthday like it was supposed to be different this year #and im alone in my room #tired and sweaty and sad and lonely and miserable and sick and awful #and i just want to hibernate until this is over

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todayisafridaynight · 4 days

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Hey so Snap this is going to be so fucking weird, but honestly don’t care. So I was watching a clip of Drag Race Philippines and it was the make over episode and I think they were making over family members and this father was all about getting into drag. So, I just wanted to tell you never forget how much of a lovely loving kind and caring father you have, who loves you and protects you and makes you feel heard. That’s all.

i'd have to die before i forget how great my dad is thank you for the opportunity to brag about him again anon

#snap chats #no smarmy one-sentence response i fear i never play about my dad's character and its been. A Month so i gotta be earnest #Comically And Topically tho i still wonder wtf my dad meant when he said 'i always thought of being a girl' when i opened up to him #part of me thinks he was just joking and thats probably it but also ....... //audible confusion + vine boom + eyebrow quirking//#its so funny you brought up my dad though i was thinking of visiting him this weekend #last week my Bitch Ass Mom wanted to watch a movie with me and since speak no evil was coming out i proposed we see that #since starting therapy shes been 'trying' to be closer with us but she still doesnt like me on a fundamental level so get bent ig #but she hates horror movies and made a whole show of not wanting to go and how american movies are so brutal and blah blah #this was right after she took me ice skating with her .. cause shes obsessed with ice skating now ... like maam please #i like skating so thank you but ... idk ... she never wants to do things i wanna do #then again we're pretty different i think so. LOL sorry i like horror movies and nothing you like apparently #im glad she didnt come cause i just went with my bro and since the theater was Virtually Empty we just cracked jokes the whole time vjlaekv #plus i just know my mom wouldve been annoying and i wanted to enjoy the movie !!!! which i did ty !!!!!!!#but yk who LOVES horror movies and who i used to watch horror movies with all the time growin up !!!!!!!!!!#i havent seen a movie with my dad in forever.... the last one we saw was so long ago but it was some weird owen wilson movie i think #wait now that ive dragged my mom into this she started therapy Did I Share That. Im Reminding You Anyway #but the most vile thing i ever heard her say was that she admitted to me she never loved my dad 'emotionally'#like wow ..... a thousand life times in hell for you i think i cant even begin to describe the rage chat i could write a novel #but i only have 30 tags so i wont. i should call my dad tho.. this is inspiring me to call my dad thank you anon #if youre still reading Double Thank You. i havent complained about my mom in a while and this was just funny timing overall vjRLKJAEVK #ok im gonna go talk with my dad now. my college friend's coming oevr in like three hours and we're gonna watch glass #cause that came up in convo yesterday Long Story so that should be funny vjlekjlakj

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lefthandoverfoot · 1 month

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idk vent post

cw homeschooling trauma and general emotional abuse

#i am so angry #i was raised as a homeschooled child and just #the loneliness #the silence #my dad would joke all the time about how to act if cps showed up #meanwhile whatever happened could happen and i had no safe adult to do #go to #my moms friends from highschool would come to visit and warn her that she should leave #she would tell me “#honey love is complicated and hard and hurtful“#and then homeschool us at the age of fucking 22 #she didnt go to college #my dad barely got a GED #i practically was a second mother to my sister because just #homeschooling was not enough #when i finally went to school my dad would threaten to take me out if i acted up or didnt answer my phone 24/7 #one time when i was 14ish he told me he was going to ground me to where i couldnt leave the house at all except to walk the dog and take out #the trash and i wasnt allowed to see my friends anymore #because i didnt answer my phone in class #i cried and begged and pleaded to please let me stay in school please i love school #my mom talked him into grounding me for only 9months #i was allowed to go to school but i had to come straight home and i was only allowed to see my friend in the apartment complex when i walked #the dog #existing with my brain feels heavy rn #im just tired. im an adult. im almost 24 #my mother was homeschooling a 3 and 2 year old at my age #i mourn for her

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rasairui · 2 months

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Okayyy last night of our trip and my stepmom got into a fight with her sister. Like her lip is busted and her nose is bleeding and we have to get a last minute hotel room because we were staying in the same house as her sister's family and they cannot be in the same place rn.

#idk what the fuck happened. I know my mom apparently started it but she's the one bleeding.#and we've been frustrated with her sister all week for a lot of reasons #one being that she has not gotten her dog trained at all which resulted in him attacking our dog #and dad getting in between the two and getting his arm and leg bit to shit.#there were talks about her sister's family coming to visit but I really do not think that's on the table anymore.#I went outside cuz I had to restrain her fucking untrained dog from getting into the fight too #and my stepmom said something that made it sound like her sister said something shitty about my dad too. so. idk.

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strifethedestroyer · 1 year

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my uncle died. hm

this is the first time i've ever reached the tag limit. the last word is meant to be funeral.

#text #interesting experience #i mean it was expected he's been suffering for a couple of months now. he got a lot better at one point and everyone was like woo you're-#-gonna survive! you're not gonna be like before but you're not gonna die but eh voila he died #like a week ago he was sent to the hospital because his kidneys just failed and the doctors said nah dude he's on his deathbed. better #just die at home rather than dying in the hospital alone so they took him home and they've been waiting ever since and here we are #personally i barely know shit about the guy. he used to deliver us bread and he shook my hand once and smiled at me. radiated a good aura #but i dont know anything. dad says he really respected and loved my brother and i so ill take his word for it #but man for the past like month its all you hear about. like i dont mean this in a derogatory way i completely understand dont get me wrng #but its just death death death all around #an hour or so ago i was walking my dog with my mom and brother and i just said i wonder if uncle's died yet #20 minutes afterwards my mom gets a call that he's died. uncle was in a different room from the rest of the family so they couldnt know #exactly when he died (we went to visit at about 5 pm today and he was alive but asleep) but my parents think it must have been around when #i said that. dad's superstitious and all and says that uncle sent me a sign. like i said apparently uncle loved me a lot. im not #superstitious but i'll take his word for it - uncle sent me a sign before he died.#i feel a little bad now. he seemed like a good man. im just replaying my only memory of him - that time when he shook my hand and smiled #like smiled very brightly. he and grandma look so alike. like ofc they do they're siblings but they look so alike #im very worried for my parents and grandma though.#espechially grandma. she's been at his house almost all week becuase she knew his time was soon #when we visited today we were supposed to pick her up and bring her home and then return her tomorrow but once we arrived she apparently #said (idk i didnt go inside i just wandered outside and pspsed at cats #that she didnt want to come home becuase he was very ill. she knew man she knew.#i dont know how she's going to handle this i just hope she'll be okay we'll do what we can to help her #i hope my parents are going to be okay too. me and my mom's relationship is rocky and i dont like my dad much #my dad returned from europe yesterday to stay with us for a month and i was really not looking forward to it. i always dread his visits #like dont get me wrong i love him just like im supposed to i just dont like him very much #but nonetheless i hope they'll be okay #as far as i know my brother also didnt know my uncle very well so i dont think i have to worry about him #he and i will just have to do our best to support our family i guess #about like 30 minutes ago my parents left for uncle's house and they'll return early morning tomorrow and then go back immidietaly for the

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1ovestay · 1 year

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won’t lie, experiencing some horrors

#just cried uncontrollably for like 20 mins #cried like 3 times yesterday too #i have no energy for like anything rn.. went to buy new glasses today tried on 15 pairs hated them all and then went back to my car #and cried because i really need new glasses since i fucked up my current pair and they don’t sit right now and dig into my face #tw death . my grandma passed away while i was flying home from canada #and it sucks because everyone got to be with her and say goodbye but i didn’t #and there’s a viewing tomorrow and my dad thinks i should go since it will be my last chance to see her but i don’t want to #i get that it’s a healing way to say goodbye for some people but i don’t want to see my oma lifeless #i know i’ll never get to see her again and that fucking sucks but she’s gone and i don’t want to see her like that #plus i have work and i already called in sick 2 days i don’t want to leave them short again even if it’s understandable #anyway the funeral is on tuesday at least i have the day off already and don’t have to worry about work #everything sucks soooooo fucking bad rn i won’t lie i’m not doing too great #and i miss el so much like i would kill to be able to hug my gf right now #their mom sent me a video today of them laying on the couch with their parents cat cuz they visited for father’s day #and i’ve cried twice while watching it…#argh. anyway. going to go watch a silly little video of some sort and maybe sleep early cause i haven’t been sleeping well #it’ll be ok 🧡#p

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cannot-copia · 2 years

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this year so far

#tw death #once again saying things into the void on here bc i dont know where else to say it #went on a trip for a couple days for my moms birthday a couple weeks ago now #they called to tell us my dads dialysis had pretty much stopped working shortly after we were got there #insurance gave us 4 days notice to find somewhere for him to go (2 of which we were 1200 miles from home)#also was told by the place I work at i am not needed until further notice the same day #so I have no source of income until they get the necessary machine fixed and even then I am skeptical they will say to come back #since dialysis stopped working he had to be moved to hospice #which was a week ago now #so he has very little time left #my half brother and his wife came to visit him a couple days ago #now his brother is here from another state #and we took them to eat at the place they’ve always gone when they are here for as long as I can remember #on the way there we were told my grandmother was taken to the hospital in an ambulance #they don’t know what is wrong with her yet but she is 94 so her being not ok either is very plausible #we are only like 3 weeks into the year and I’ve already been soft laid off my grandmother could be dying and my dad is dying #I feel like I have been seconds away from having a complete panic attack for a week #packing up and cleaning out the assisted living (he only ended up being at 3 months) felt so wrong #it was his coffee mug and green cup of all things that got to me most #he always had them #and knowing he would never use them again #I bought his dog a new name tag today #so it has a tag when we give it to them to put in the casket with him #and i almost cried in a fucking petsmart #and now I’m here over sharing on the internet about it bc if I do not keep myself distracted I will just get more nauseous and cry more #delete later

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just-an-enby-lemon · 1 year

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I decided to rewatch a random episode of WTNV for no particular reason (except me wanting fo watch WTNV and being caught up with the plot so I can't just go for the next episode) and ended up with episode 56 Homecoming and I have thoughts!

My major one is that the fact this episode states Cecil visits his mom during Homecoming while impliying Abby doesn't and for me this says some interesting things about them and the Palmers familial dinamics.

#wtnv #welcome to nightvale #wtnv ep 56 #cecil palmer #abby palmer #i like to think that next homecoming Cecil either went see his mom by himself or brought Carlos #but either way Carlos was out of the desert and saw how the meeting was affecting Cecil and how his childhood stories were messed up #so Carlos talked Cecil into not going meet his mothet again #instead on homecomings Cecil visits Old Woman Josie #i also like to think Cecil did mention to Abby he was going to visit their mother the first time he did as an invitation #but without truly inviting her because the palmer sibblings have a complicated relationship #and Abby laughted before stopping and looking at him sad and going you're serius #she hugged him once and they never talked about it ever again #but he understood he shouldn't try to invite her and she understood she shouldn't try to convince him not to go #i do think Steve asked as well when Steve went to see his dad #and Abby just brushed it off without much details #because by Matryoska we can see Abby didn't tell a lot to Steve about her childhood #that and Steve has the inverse Cecil situation #the whole town loved kid Cecil except his mother who was the most important one anyway and so he grew up heavilly traumatized #while the whole town hated young Steve except his dad who was the one that really mattered and Steve still got trauma but less #Steve cannot truly understand parental abusive as he had a great dad and is a great dad and he admits it #because Steve is mature and the best #so he invited Abby to go with him and they could meet each other parents #and he realized that Abby was purposifully not going to the met her mother part but accepted it #and didn't force at all #because he is a good husband #sorry I'm a Steve Carlsberg fan #episode 56 is also the episode where earl segments started so get ready for a lot of coments on it #also this is Cecil's depression arc and it shows #abby is right you cut toxic relatives

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treesbian · 9 months

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sometimes other white natives will say shit and i just think "well this is why so many ppl are pro blood quantum"

#talk tag #but blood quantum as it functions rn excludes a lot of like racially native ppl. so.#the way i see it is like. if my great grandmother was chahta then her kids where chahta and their kids were chahta and so chahta sia hoke.#but i HAVE i absolutely HAVE to be normal about it #the other day this white chiksa guy at work asked what benefits i get for being native and i had to tell him i dont have a card </3 #bc my mom's dad is not on her birth certificate. but i can trace it back to the dawes rolls i know what that grandmother's name is.#but also there are clearly so many white chahtas who want to claim chahta but arent interested in learning or respecting the culture at all.#just want benefits.....#and idk if the resources are limited or not but i would feel better if those went to natives who are actually dealing with racism everyday #so like. hm. i would like my cdib and tribal id card just so i feel better about visiting those spaces #but i dont care that much about the benefits #bc i am indeed a nahullo. but GOD. these nahullos...

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liinos · 1 year

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saw a reel of some kids at an orchestra camp that looked suspiciously like the one i was forced to go to one year... worst experience of my life!!!

#when i tell you i think there are things stemming from that experience! my parents were actually so wrong for making me go...#my mom CRIED bc i kept insisting that i didn't want to do it bc i a) was never That into music especially not CHAMBER music #b) knew that i would not know anyone and would be stuck in the middle of nowhere with people who were already friends from previous years #c) was only even given an audition bc my teacher knew the staff and their other oboist wasn't able to go that year and they needed one #d) WAS THIRTEEN AND WANTED TO SPEND THE SUMMER WITH MY FRIENDS #i do actually think it caused me real psychic damage attending that like the fact that Everyone was already friends with everyone else...#i came with no friends and i left with no friends! and when i tried to talk to the other girls in my cabin i could tell they were like...#why are you trying to be in our friend group. there was a girl who was nice to me but i was not her friend very clearly #also i was soooo out of my depth there it was Rough for me fr and like i Knew i was out of my depth i had no illusions about that #i knew i would be which is why i was like yeah this is Not for me #i still cannot get over my mom crying about this like this wasn't some great life changing opportunity...#my parents really have and always have had these Ideals they place on me bc They think xyz would be nice #or they wish they could have done it like ??? okay why does that have anything to do with me #my dad keeps being like well *I* want you to go to grad school in mtl bc i like mtl and i want to visit 😁#like haha you're not funny actually 😁 first of all not a single damn thing is stopping you from going you can drive there whenever you want #secondly one of us does NOT want to be in mtl again 😁 and that one of us actually lived there before #also the way my parents constantly visiting me pissed me off to no fucking end... I'M NOT THE PROBLEM CHILD #worried that i just stay in my room like ???? okay??? but if i went out you'd flip bc what if it's unsafe. i LIKE staying home #and i HATED mtl so no way in hell was i going to go do shit especially not at night in the WINTER are you insane #like yeah i was super depressed. that was unrelated to me staying in my room like my room was my Space #anyway all this to say i'm setting the fuck boundary this time around like i actually dgaf i'm an adult and again #not your problem child so if you could stop projecting that onto me just bc HE fucked up when he was in school....#parents will be like why can't you be independent and then literally not let you be i 🫶🏻 it #i do also hold it against the boy child and my dad for this 'you can only go to schools within a 6 hour drive'#which is only a rule my sisters and i had and maybe if the boy child wasn't a fuck up i couldve not had it but you know #he ruined any chance of that but my dad when i was applying for college was like oh it can be anywhere :) and then was like lol no #and then was like well for grad school you can go anywhere and then when it was brought up last time went lol no :)#so i'm going to have to bring lol yes :) energy cuz...

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