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beardedbookboyfriend · 22 days ago
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Dress her up, spoil her, slut her out, give her quality aftercare. Is it that hard
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enbeemagical · 5 months ago
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I want to tell you all about this horse
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IDs: three pictures of a beautiful bay horse with a white blaze and a purple halter /end IDs
Her actual name was pretty distinctive, but I mostly called her Coco or pretty girl. We were the same age. I started riding her when we were about 14 or 15, she'd been my uncle's and he was moving away.
I fell in love with her immediately.
I learned to ride bareback before I learned with a saddle, but when I started riding her I hadn't ridden without a saddle in years. Then one day I couldn't use the saddle. I told her I was nervous and asked her to please not let me fall. She snorted and shook her head, and true to her word, I didn't fall off for I think it was a year. (Then I fell rather spectacularly into a small tree.)
She loved to run. Sometimes I couldn't catch her because she kept running away. It was incredibly frustrating, but the good part is that when I rode her, I knew she wanted me to. Sometimes we'd go on the trail, and she'd walk so fast we outpaced the other horses in moments. I could feel her panting, but she wouldn't slow down- if I asked her to stop, she'd stop and then charge on. Other times we'd just go out, find a hill, and race up it. She had wings on her feet, just like the Phantom from Misty of Chincoteague.
On our last ride, we won a race against some friends. One minute thirty-two seconds.
I almost never rode her with a saddle. Usually a bridle, but sometimes I didn't want to bother, so I just used her lead rope. I trusted this horse with my life, I could lie down on her, ride backwards, text or take photos while riding, pretty much whatever the hell I wanted. She knew humans Just Do Crazy Stuff Sometimes. She was smart, you know? I could ride her reinless, even. I wasn't confident enough of that to ever ride her fully liberty, but I could drop the reins and steer with only my legs. Mostly she listened. It was really fun to show off.
Once, she tried kidnapping me. We went on a trail that had a little loop at the end. We finished the loop, got back to the main trail, and she didn't head home- she went back to do the loop again. The other riders with us worried. I nearly fell off from how hard I was laughing.
Her summer coat this year was way too thick. I clipped her for the first and only time this summer and then went on a trail ride with her and two others. Coco loved the new lack of fur. The other girls said they thought I was going to die. I didn't mind much being nearly run into so many trees, I was laughing the whole way.
Anytime I actually started to fall off her, though, she always slowed and stopped. I could never manage to haul myself back on, but at least I could drop from a standing still horse onto my feet instead of tumbling from a moving horse.
She learned how to steal carrots from my pocket. I have it on video.
She was smart, sweet, gorgeous, careful, fast, determined, and funny. I progressed so much while I was riding her and I didn't really notice, I just wanted to spend time with her.
She colicked yesterday and was gone before we got there. I have a lock of her mane now. I'm not quite sure what I'll do with it.
I miss her so much.
My beautiful girl. You deserved many more years than you got. I wish I could have petted your nose as you grew old, and given you carrots in your retirement. I wish I'd been forewarned, I wish I could have prepared, I wish I'd seen it coming. I wish you could have had one more September, one more apple, one more winged run up that hill, but I know it would never have been enough to keep my heart whole.
May your heaven be filled with more apples than you could possibly eat, hills that last as long as you want to run, and may your memory always be a blessing to everyone you knew. I know it is to me.
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(ID: side view of Coco from the cheek up, ears pricked, wearing a silver baseball cap backwards /end)
I love you.
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justskibby · 7 months ago
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I cannot stress how important this is
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Why is a woman's worth decided by her relationship to a man?
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hamsternamedmarinette · 6 months ago
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Italian microaggressions
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yogurtgut · 26 days ago
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HI THERE!! HERE'S THE ROBOTNIK SIBLINGS!!! I AM NOT OKAY, SEND HELP :'''DDDDD
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guiiay · 2 months ago
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yeah... yeah
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hinamie · 4 months ago
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10 years later
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saga-of-poems · 5 months ago
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Being a Woman
Magic happens inside you, A baby grows, it's true. Strong and special, a wonder to see, A gift to the world, wild and free.
But sometimes it's hard, it's true, The world's made by others, not you. But you're strong, like a mighty oak, You can do anything, that's no joke!
You're a creator, a wonder of life, Face the world with courage and might. You're special and loved, in every way, Shine your light, come what may.
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Disclaimer: Google Gemini and I cooked up this little rhyme!
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chloesimaginationthings · 20 days ago
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FNAF Scrap baby is just Michael’s little sister
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21stcenturyschizoidfag · 1 year ago
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please check out my The nefarious anglerfish tribute video i am such a big fan
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protoctist · 1 year ago
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i know ryoko kui is a real one because she wrote 97+ chapters of a manga about fantasy ecosystems and food chains and not once did she write the phrase "survival of the fittest" (it's a bad phrase) (it's a social darwinist phrase even) (hated amongst biologists) (doesn't make sense) (darwin didn't use it) (coined by an business major) (one of the worst phrases in pop science) (no good)
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beardedbookboyfriend · 22 days ago
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She deserves to cum too
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majunju · 1 month ago
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"cuddler"
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biggest-gaudiest-patronuses · 3 months ago
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main take aways from Halloween (1978) rewatch:
michael myers is canonically 21??? this bitch should be at the club
*sees tiddies* ***MURDEROUS RAMPAGE NOISES***
that's it that's the movie
outside of the fact that everyone who has sex is murdered by the narrative, this is a surprisingly chill portrayal of female sexuality? these teen girls are horny and actively enjoying Getting It On with their boytoys. no pushy boyfriends sneaking in through their bedroom windows--these ladies are taking the initiative to sneak out and GET SOME. one of them gets laid and then immediately orders her boyfriend to get her a beer. (yes she gets Slashered soon afterward, but so does the boyfriend so honestly, gender equality.) yes the Final Girl is the only one not having sex, but she's not bullied for that, nor are her friends slut shamed except possibly by being murdered by the narrative
actually the only character who is shown being morally condemned on-screen is michael myers. specifically FOR his violent overreaction to other people's sex lives. (people he is spying on). metaphorically, the villain is American Puritanism sticking its judgy nose into other people's business.
aka Michael Myers Is A Republican
but actually the real villain is the doctor. guy's a judgemental, shaming, pathologizing asshole. and he's been in charge of michael's care since he was SIX YEARS OLD? kid never had a chance. i'd go on a killing spree too
also the parents. where are the parents? it's halloween night and all the teenage girls are home babysitting their younger siblings? come to think of it, michael's first victim was his own older sister, whom he killed while she was babysitting him. teen girls are really shouldering a labour burden here. maybe parentification is the true villain
side note: mike commits his first murder wearing a clown costume...which is never referenced again? his 'iconic' costume is a generic mask and wig and jumpsuit, when we coulda had a Killer Clown Michael Myers??? travesty
i like how the Final Girl and her friend casually smoke weed in her car. yeah she's an honor student and her friend is the sheriff's daughter. yeah they smoke weed. so what it's 1978
(to reiterate, mike is 21 and should be at the club. im not saying he shouldn't be rampaging, im saying it's sad that he broke out, tasted freedom for the first time in his life, and immediately snuck back into his childhood home to go rampaging. let's have a remake where he goes to a nightclub and has a few beers. maybe some slutty dancing. then rampage)
oh no he's hot
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#HALLOWEEN#halloween the movie#michael myers#do you think he's a mike? mikey? to his friends? if slashers had friends?#i'll be honest i was expecting this movie to be way more of a bitch to its female characters#i mean yeah they died but so did some dudes#there's just a lack of cattiness compared to the way most later movies portrayed teenage girls idk#yeah the Final Girl is a Virgin and a Bookworm. but there's no bullying or any strong sense that's she's morally superior to everyone else#mostly she AND the other girls feel a bit sorry for her lack of a social life. one even tries to set her up with a date to the school dance#solidarity! trying to get your nerd friend laid!#overall it's just teenagers being teenagers and then a slasher comes in and ruins everything with his Lack Of Chill#like yeah dude sometimes teenagers have sex. get over it#also something to be said about how while the girl who survives is the one who isn't sexually active and dresses conservatively...#ultimately those things aren't ENOUGH to prevent her from being targeted#you could say that the other girls 'provoked' the villain (the same way women irl are so often accused of provoking their attackers)#but ultimately that doesn't keep the Final Girl safe. it just delays the inevitable.#because violent men never need excuses. no matter how eager society is to provide them.#ultimately she is at the mercy of the same violent whims because it was never her behavior that invited the violence.#gendered violence doesn't need an invitation.#also she doesn't save herself the doctor saves her#it's not her actions or choices that put her in danger OR save her from it--once again it is the whim of a man#no this wasn't intended to be a feminist movie it's just fun how you could argue it that way
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star-anise · 29 days ago
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I really wonder if trauma theorists who say things like "Humans are the only animal that will be in a fright state when physically safe" or "the rest of the animal kingdom doesn't get PTSD" have ever, like
Do you think they've actually ever met an animal?
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khruschevshoe · 9 months ago
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There is a conversation to be had about the fact that Taylor Swift's album is being played in its entirety across all of iHeartRadio's 868 stations, pushing out the opportunities other artists might have had to get radioplay. That's the literal definition of a monopoly. No wonder she'll hit the top of the radio play charts with this maneuver, because at least 65 minutes (if not the back side of the album, which would take it to nearly twice that length) across EIGHT HUNDRED AND SIXTY EIGHT STATIONS will be dedicated to her, artificially boosting her radio play and decreasing everyone else's. In this essay I will—
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