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i couldn’t go to bed last night so i ended up drawing pim
and then i kinda shifted to matthew self projecting vent art ???
#𖢥 crickets gallery ;;#smiling friends#smiling friends pim#sf pim#pim pimling#matthew patel#fictionkin#semi vent#gender dysphoria#tw vent#tw gender dysphoria#trans#transgender#tw sa implied#??? i think
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Belated happy SF-24 launch day! Fingers crossed for a fast car. She’s already a beauty! 🏎️
Meanwhile, I was busy building my own SF-24 today… somewhere long ago and far away: 🤭
#elle.txt#please be a fast car please be a fast car please be a fast car#hope everyone is having a lovely day!#building this droid was a blast! hope you approve of the colours lol#and no her name is not sf-24… she’s actually named SAS-E 🐱
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Until the End by Thomas Hawk https://flic.kr/p/2ojrCuE
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Found Kodachrome Slide -- San Francisco, California by Thomas Hawk https://flic.kr/p/2om8uWc
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well i suppose even christians deserve lofi............................
#tobias talks#i dont know what ive been interacting with to make the algorithm think i wanted either lofi or christian stuff but i got to stop it#like this makes me ?!?SA<F>A?SF???? lofi worship is killing me
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B0t0xbrat 90's Girl Next Door Collection Long Sleeve Shirt
original by @b0t0xbrat
for young adult females
one recolorable channel; 4 presets
download link (sfs)
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hello everyone !! :D there is not much to say tbh, i haven't had time to convert/play ts3 for a while, but i'm slowly getting back into the groove i love this shirt sm and b0t0xbrat has the best cc i've ever seen, i wish i had some of these stuff in my closet lol sa i'm expanding on my 90's/y2k stylee
there shouldn't be any issues but for some reason there are some random mini holes in the front part, they are visible one the 2nd preset, but in the others they can barely be spotted
enjoy! :)
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Welcome to another one of my long rants!
Media has been violence porn for men since forever with female characters reduced to no more than an object to project their fantasies onto. So, when I read a book written by a so-called feminist woman who writes about badass female leads and feminist characters, and uses major societal issues to push her narratives, I’m expecting her to treat them for what they are and not brownie points for her creativity and aesthetics for her characters.
I'm glossing over every abuse mentioned in the ACOTAR books. I won't be taking responsibility for your reactions if you choose to read.
SJM loves trauma dumping, especially on her female characters. Whether a lead or a supporting role, every one of them undergoes a form of abuse.
Feyre is sexually assaulted by Rhysand for two months on top of being starved, imprisoned and forced to participate in life-threatening games. After this, she becomes a victim of domestic violence at Tamlin’s mansion. But in her apparent safer life with Rhysand, she’s thrown into the house of the Weaver—a death god whom even the ‘most powerful HL’ himself is afraid of. From there, the amount of physical violence she suffers is lessened though she becomes a perpetrator herself. And then, there is the impossible pregnancy (because even in a book about her sister, Feyre can’t take a fucking backseat) that even the best minds in the Prythian can’t save her from (since apparently these two bigger-than-thou are the only ones to ever mate or crossbreed).
Nesta is abused at the hands of her mother and grandmother, and she’s neglected by her father. She’s sexually assaulted by the man she intended to marry. She’s thrown into the Cauldron against her will and killed—which is equivalent to SA. She’s exploited in a war when she has no experience or training. She’s verbally abused by her sister’s family and disrespected. She’s imprisoned, tortured and tamed like an animal by the man she’s meant to end up with. She’s emotionally manipulated and psychologically abused by Cassian in the entirety of SF. She’s sexually abused by a Kelpie and to some extent by Lanthys. She’s kidnapped again and thrown into a game where she’s hunted and expected to kill.
Elain suffers the same fate as Nesta during the transformation. She’s later kidnapped by Hybern and the Cauldron during the war. (And in her book, I will bet anything that either some heinous abuse she suffered in the past from Graysen/his father or before her rescue from Hybern’s camp will come up, or she will be abused somehow by at least one man. Given how Rhysand abused Feyre and Cassian abused Nesta, I won’t be surprised if SJM drags Lucien down the same path as well because that woman’s idea of romance is hurting someone and apologising which is the equivalence of vulnerability in her stories. She would even use the ‘fire in his veins’ to push this, something he couldn’t control or whatever.)
Morrigan is brutalised by her father and dumped naked in unknown lands. Her abuse is so grotesquely described and too twisted for her crime of sleeping with a man out of wedlock.
Emerie loses her wings to wing-clipping, an improper method no less. Later on, she is abused by her father after he killed his wife in the same way. She even digs her own mother’s grave on his orders. She’s kidnapped and forced into Blood Rite for being a woman and wanting to never be abused by men again.
Gwyneth is r*ped by Hybern men. And she suffers the same as Nesta and Emerie for wanting to grow stronger and defend herself in the future.
Lady Autumn is abused by her husband.
Cressida suffers under Amarantha’s rule. (I don’t remember how exactly but I know it was mentioned somewhere. Remind me if you know.)
Clotho, other priestesses—all of them end up in the library after they suffered at the hands of men. They are too afraid of the world and broken by their trauma that they are content to spend the rest of their years never once leaving the library even for daily lives.
Almost every woman in SJM’s books is tormented in so many ways and it’s always the men who perpetuate it. And this is a theme that spans over all of her books, not just this series. Micah abuses Bryce. Pollux SA’s Lydia. I haven’t read TOG nor am I planning to, but I know there’s something in there to pick about.
I don’t mind a little violence and I don’t mind representation of such issues in a female oriented books. What I can’t tolerate is the idea is that a woman has to endure such things and rise above it all and only then she can be labelled ‘strong’.
Elain is the only soft character so far as SJM wants to keep that ‘inclusive writer’ status, and this pattern is also seen in the CC series where June is the only soft-spoken female and every other woman is either rageful or a fighter.
These characters are introduced with violence, their whole identity revolves around this. Their emotional intelligence, capacity and growth all stem from violence and how they heal from it. Feyre’s MO is her hunting and her trauma. But there’s no self-reflection to drive her growth. It’s her relationship with Rhysand that takes precedence and even then the SA is swept under the rug. Same with Nesta—her trauma is on the forefront while her healing is so vague and none of her real issues are ever addressed. In fact, violence is a core part of her healing. During majority of her screen time, Elain cries, suffers and gets rescued. Morrigan is all hatred and trauma and wine. Emerie and Gwyneth have depth but the first thing anyone recognises in either of them is their trauma—Emerie’s wings and Gwyneth’s indefinite abode in the library.
Clotho’s past alone is enough to prove SJM’s obsession with women’s pain. Clotho is not a major character and she has little screen time and yet her abuse is described in such detail for pages and often. Even a fleeting character like Lady of Autumn suffers the same fate. SJM’s idea of cruelty in men is perpetuating physical violence against women.
Moreover, all of these characters have the sense of justice and power which are strongly rooted in these abuses. None of them see the cruelty in the world and choose to stand up to it or fight it unless they have suffered too. As if one can have strength and courage only if they have been broken down by a man first. Like their fight can’t be driven by kindness and compassion for the people around them.
See, my female hero doesn’t have to be abused by every man as a trial for her to overcome. She doesn’t have to be a siren 24x7 seducing men left and right. She doesn’t have to sleep around with different men every night to let me know she’s likeable. She doesn’t have to kill in every chapter to be strong or brave. She doesn’t have to be sex on stick to be beautiful. She doesn’t have to have big boobs or ass in leathers to be beautiful. She doesn’t have to be thin and fair to desirably moderately tanned or dressed in skimpy dresses to nothing at all times. And she doesn’t have to have miracle sex with her abuser partner to heal every one of her traumas.
It’s infuriating how criticising these books calls for such hatred when these topics are exposed to young audience without proper warnings or sensitive measures. These are defended as written for and marketed to NA as if the brains of the 17 year olds level up to the full functioning adult brain overnight when they turn 18. The first book is still sold as YA and there is no warning in it either for the amount of violence, gore, SA in it. Even if the latter books are NA, someone who reads the first one in a series is bound to pick up the sequels.
SJM hides behind these technicalities and refuses to educate herself or take accountability for all these toxic narratives she’s passing off as feminism and ideal romantic relationships. She shouldn’t be writing about these topics as she herself has a warped concept of violence and she can’t recognise the different kinds of SA and uses it freely to pass them as sexual tension like in case of Feyre and Nesta.
She’s not the best fantasy writer out there. She’s not a progressive, feminist writer. She doesn’t even respect her own female characters for more than playing out her fantasies with these ‘ideal’ men she created in her head. If anything, SJM writes like a man who hates women.
#acotar critical#sjm critical#adding critical tags to keep the stans away#nesta#feyre critical#elain critical#morrigan critical#rhysand critical#cassian critical#cw rap3
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My husband finally put into words for me something that has been the main problem with this whole Anti Gwynriel because of Gwyn's past narrative.
According to Anti's, it's not ok to ship Gwyn with Az because she's not healed enough and hasn't shown that she's ready for a relationship.
According to Anti's, fanart of Gwynriel in provocative positions are not appropriate because it's disrespectful to Gwyn due to her SA, that she needs to first give verbal consent before we're allowed to imagine what a HEA for Gwynriel might look like.
And at first, it almost feels like a gotcha for them because you question whether you're disrespecting real survivors by saying, "she doesn't need to give consent for us to ship them since it's a book." This statement is true, I don't think readers should be forced to abide by real world morals when it comes to possible paths a characters arc might take, however it makes you pause for a moment to question whether what you're saying is disrespectful to those who have been victims.
But he actually flipped that entire thing on it's head when he said, "if the issue is about consent, then why is only being applied to a SA victim? Shouldn't consent be applied to everyone?"
It was kind of a lightbulb moment for me because those Anti's never vocalize how it's wrong for people to ship Eris & Az, Mor & Emerie, Vassa & Lucien (SA victim), Lucien, Jurian & Vassa, the LoA & Helion (because at this point they are not a consenting pair), Nesta & Eris. There are a bunch of non canon, non consent ships in this series and nobody has an issue with those. Nobody takes up the crusade arguing that it's wrong for people in the fandom to imagine those pairings together or drawing fanart of them in NSFW positions. Most of the time they're celebrated but has Emerie consented to having a sexual relationship with Mor? All she did was call her beautiful and Feyre had done the same in ACOMAF. Why do they never call out fanart of that pairing? Or Neris after Nesta harshly rejected him? Where Eris is currently suffering torture at the hands of Beron and we've got no clue as to his sexual preference. Also, Elain only consented to a fully clothed kiss in the bonus (remember, she grew up with human morals which she still holds fast too, she didn't jump right into bed with Graysen), we have no evidence she wanted more yet there's plenty of NSFW E/riel artwork out there and I'm betting some existed before SF, before she even consented to a kiss.
The only time I've ever heard anyone argue for consent or argue against NSFW art is in relation to Az and Gwyn and the message they're sending is that only female characters who have been SA need to give consent before fans should be shipping them.
That's when the shipping agenda makes itself known because if no other non-canon / non-consenting pairing disturbs them to the point they need to create post after post surrounding how wrong people are for shipping them, then it's clear to see that it's only Gwyn being shipped with Az that they take issue with and when only E/riels make these arguments, it seems highly suspect.
Gwyn's SA is irrelevant in terms of consent because EVERYONE should have consent before engaging in physical acts with others no matter their past. However, Gwyn's SA should not be the weight dragging her character down, the scarlet letter on her chest that means the fandom isn't allowed to give her the same treatment that all other characters receive. Where we're free to imagine and create fanart / fanfiction / headcanons (even the NSFW variety) for any pairing that we desire, regardless of their past or preference, even those who have never expressed romantic interest towards one another, except for Gwyn.
Consent in the actual book will be important but consent having already been given in our imaginations so we can imagine possibilities beyond what is currently written is the right of any reader.
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11/15-16/2024 Daily OFMD Recap
TLDR; David Jenkins; Rhys Darby; Taika Waititi; Con O'Neill; Samba Schutte; Adam Stein; Dominic Burgess; Fan Spotlight: Fluffvember Reminder; OFMD Advent Calendar; Love Notes; Daily Darby / Today's Taika;
= David Jenkins =
Chaos Dad was sharing some sweet fan videos this past weekend on twitter-- but it wont let me link the video in tumblr, so here it is on Instagram by the same person!
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Source: Astralvcid's Instagram
== Rhys Darby ==
Rhys out and about in LA and running into fans!
Source: Ops35mm's Instagram
Rhys will be joining the San Francisco Comedy Festival that's going on between January 16-Feb 2, 2025! Thank you to @adoptourcrew for shouting this out!
Source: Adopt Our Crew's Tumblr
= Darby Daily Doodles! =
I'm so behind on sharing the Darby Daily Doodles! Here's a pile for you since there's image room today!
Source: Rhys Darby's Free Substack
= Darby Family Kittens =
The Darby's are still looking to adopt out these kittens! If you are in the area and looking for some adorably sweet and energetic (if not chaotic) kittens, please hit up https://www.instagram.com/kittenrescuela/ and help Rhys and Rosie reduce the cat size of their house!
Source: Rosie's Instagram
= Taika Waititi =
More of Taika out at the Interior Chinatown premiere, this time with Tzi Ma!
Source: Tzima8's Instagram
Taika and Jimmy O were on Good Morning America talking about Interior Chinatown!
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Source: Youtube
And a tragedy/comedy in 5 parts.
Source: TV Insider's Instagram
An article about the Boy and the Octopus <3
Source: Belfast Telegraph UK
= Con O'Neill =
New trailer for Con's new role in SAS Rogue Heroes!
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= Samba Schutte =
Samba sent out another thank you everyone who attended his Momentus event!
"Thank you again to all 250+ of you who joined my Death by Cheese baking class🙏🏾 We are able to serve over 4000 meals to hungry kids, elders and families thanks to your generosity via @lafoodbank❤️ Thank you thank you thank you, and so happy you love my mac and cheese recipe🫶🧀"
Source: Samba's Instagram
= Adam Stein =
Our fab writer/executive producer/extra Adam Stein has been active with Waiting for Godot, and also getting to meet one of his idols!
Source: Geffen Playhouse Instagram
= Dominic Burgess =
Dominic was out at the Paramount backlot!
Source: Dominic's Bsky
== Fan Spotlight ==
= Fluffvember Reminder =
Fluffvember is still going on! You can check out what's been posted or interact with them on bsky! ofmdfluffvember.bsky.social there's also some fluffvember going on over here on tumblr! Check it out!
Source: ofmdfluffvember.bsky.social
As a taste-- Our darling crewmate @blueberreads' is back with more pixel art! This time of our Boyfriends!
Source: Bluberreads Bsky
= OFMD Advent Calendar =
Sounds like things are ramping up for an OFMD Advent Calendar this year! All the collaborators have been found so if you'd like to keep an eye out for the advent calendar starting Dec 1, you can follow them on Bsky!
Source: OFMD Advent Calendar 2024 Bsky
== Love Notes ==
Hey there lovelies. I hope the weekend has been treating you well and you've gotten some good rest. We've got some holidays coming up soon-- do you get to take any time off?
I hope you know that you are loveable no matter where you are in life. I hope you know that you are worthy of that love no matter where you are, no matter what you've done, and now matter how little or how much you've accomplished. A lot of people in this world want you to believe you are only worth something if you are making money, or gaining status, but you are worth so much just being your goofy, wonderful self. Please take care of yourselves this week lovelies. Rest well <3
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Source: Anxiety Positive Instagram
== Daily Darby / Today's Taika ==
Heyyyy been a while since I was able to get one of these in here! There's been so much going on! I know I've used the Taika one before, but it's too good not to apply with Rhys working out. Today's gifs courtesy of the fabulous @daxxlovesrhys and @meluli!
#ofmd#daily ofmd recap#ofmd daily recap#our flag means death#rhys darby#save ofmd#taika waititi#adopt our crew#adam stein#david jenkins#dominic burgess#jimmy o yang#interior chinatown interview#con o'neill#ofmd advent calendar#ofmdfluffvember#Instagram#Youtube
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okay but Price and Adopted!Daughter???
Adopted her after her family died. He was her father’s closest friend, she knew him etc. She was ten, turned 16 when he was promoted to Captain.
After she set her mind on joining the SAS because her dad is so cool, he took her to mil-sim over a weekend because ‘if you’re gonna join i might as well make sure you’re prepared.’
Queue the 5AM runs before school at 8. The workout program packet he compiled for her to make sure she would be safe out there.
Her nanny/the house caretaker is Ex-SF, approved by Laswell, has superb training in home defense, just generally a badass. Really nice woman too, makes amazing eggnog and cookies.
She's in TF141 as a Sergeant. The team jokingly calls her and Price the Dynamic Duo because they move so seamlessly together.
Falls asleep on the hard couch in his office while waiting for him to go home
a private once tried to harass her. Fully aware she was a Sergeant in the SAS, even knowing she was in TF141, he still tried to put the moves on her. Except Price was taking a cigar break outside. You can imagine how pissed Papa Bear Price was. That private cleaned the men's toilets with a toothbrush for three weeks before Price let him stop.
#i dont know what this is#price x daughter!#Captain John Price#Task Force 141#TF141#The 141#141#headcanons#COD#COD MW2#i dont know#fluff#?#because he's my father your honor#pls adopt me sir
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It's so funny to me when someone says that ‘gwynriels and elriels are equally problematic/toxic’ and that ‘people weren't harassed! that's fiction!’ because you just had to be there (or have to be here) to know how this shipwar really works.
You just had to be there to remember how Azriel's bonus chapter leaked. And who exactly celebrated first. You had to be there to remember how Gwyn and Az, as a ship, were welcomed in this fandom. How people who shipped them were ‘insane’. Or how Gwyn was ‛just a maid/servant’ (I'm being sweet. We all know what she was actually called). Then, how Gwyn ‛could not be with Azriel because she couldn't have sex, you all. She was a SA victim!’. And then, all the harassment towards real people: us and content creators.
I could ask my fellow gwynriels: raise your hand if in 2021, after SF, you were harassed!
You just had to be there, now in 2022, to know how the ending of HOSAB was leaked. I mean, we all are familiar with ‛bread and roses’. Do you remember who once again celebrated first? (or celebrated at all). Because I do. Do you remember what it was like to be a gwynriel then? Or how many of us were heavily harassed? 🤷🏻 You just had to be there, weeks ago, to know how CCT3 spoilers were leaked and by whom. You just had to be there to know exactly how this fucking shipwar works.
But somehow we are as toxic as them. We cannot answer them or answer all the false information they spread because we are ‘fighting and not enjoying things’. We cannot mention Elain and Azriel or debunk their theories because oh, damn, we are fighting again! Just let us fuck the shut up and let them call us whores, hoes, stupid. Or let them say that victims of SA can't have a sexual life. Or print us and share on their pages to make fun of us. Or change canon facts and distort Sarah's every word.
Funny. It's so funny when someone also says that we all could be ‘happy’ and enjoying things together without disturbance.
Like we haven't tried already. Like, before us, there weren't Eluciens.
No one is angry that someone is shipping something different. NO ONE. We are angry by their fucking behavior.
See, if you feel comfortable by not getting involved in this shipwar, great! If you haven't been harassed, that's perfect. I'm happy for you. But do not assume that everyone is like you. Do not assume you know how this shipwar works. Do not assume how gwynriels and elriels behave without seeing it. Do not assume we are here being ‛lazy and childish’ by pointing out that they are nastier.
Believe me, any of us could leave our social media and forget about this while elriels would still be saying shit about our ship and us. And I'm not excusing bad behavior from gwynriels. I know it happens. A lot. But we aren't the same.
Go look closer. Talk to some people. Some content creators.
Dito isto, como brasileira, devo admitir que o fandom gwynriel anda bastante equivocado. Quase se assemelhando ao elriel. Por isso, peço: não sejam. Não interajam com conteúdo do ship ao lado, especialmente fanarts. Pelo amor.
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UUUUGH. SCIENCE BEEF: ABBREVIATED (spoiler-ridden)
Why Aren't There More Scientists Involved On An Expedition To A Planet With LITERAL ESTABLISHED ALIEN LIFE (seriously, if our two hugely incompetent leads stumble across a MASS GRAVE OF ALIENS, then you NEED BETTER SCIENTISTS SCREENING THIS SHIT LMAO)
Why the fuck would you call an alien species that existed 10,000 years ago on another world "mammals," why are "giant sloths" the best you can do, why do you keep dropping random asides about them based on like. one mummified corpse that showed up elsewhere. WHY DO YOU SAY "COMMUNITY WAS IMPORTANT TO THE LYRIANS," YOU KNOW N O T H I N G ABOUT THIS SPECIES.
Why!! If you find an UNREPORTED MASS GRAVE ON YOUR SURVEY SITE!! do you NOT TELL THE REST OF YOUR TEAM!!! The two leads keep this discovery a Secret (even from their ~scientific coordinator~, who, to be fair, is a 23-year-old grad student) from the rest of the crew?? There are no consequences for this, and it never comes up again???? This wasn't even the first place they should've noped the fuck off this planet, but holy shit why didn't they nope the fuck off this planet at this point.
Seriously I'm so salty about how the Lyrians were almost entirely a Non-Thing--that's a whole ancient alien civilization!! "Mammals." "Sloth-like." "Brachiation." Sad image of a baby clinging to its mother (both dead, in the mass grave). WHY WASN'T SOMEONE HERE SCIENCING THIS BETTER, WHY WAS THIS SO INCONSEQUENTIAL TO YOUR TRIP
and yeah 10,000 year old ruins do NOT preserve that well lmao what the FUCK
Nobody asked questions that would've been relevant and timely (like gee why is the hab fucked like this, why is it dark and spooky and why is the generator out and what happened to the last people who were here, why are there signs of violence, why is it so big, oh gee well we're probably fine we'll just live our lives in here because scans came back clean :) )
Maybe, like. unexplained rashes and hallucinations and sleepwalking and bumps that move around when you poke them aren't gr8. Maybe y'all should sit down and fucking talk about this, instead of trying to hide it from each other until you start dying horrible deaths.
YOUR DECONTAMINATION PROTOCOLS ARE BAD AND YOU SHOULD FEEL BAD
Our mental health professional MC kept ignoring signs of Want To Murder Everyone Disease in both herself AND in somebody else, even though that's literally why she's here?? (this is of course your beef first ez, i'm just reiterating it lmao)
Our mental health professional MC absofuckenlutely should not have been on this trip, she wasn't qualified for anything (I was going to say "except being a therapist" but even that's not true, she did such a bad job of it)
why was nobody a medic
YOUR MEDICAL TECHNOLOGY ONLY EXISTED AS A PLOT DEVICE (CONVENIENT WHEN THE CHARACTERS NEEDED IT TO BE, OPAQUE AND ESOTERIC WHEN YOU NEEDED TO RAMP UP THE TENSION)
In General: YOUR SCIENCE IS BAD AND YOU SHOULD FEEL BAD
What did you learn about ghost station? :O
@bigcats-birds-and-books is reading it and validating my lukewarm at best feelings about it LMAO
the science is BAD, the characters are DUMB, the writing is MID. Also, learning the author primarily writes YA paranormal romance makes everything make more sense.
#text#reblog#ghost station#sa barnes#asexualbookbird#it's 1AM suddenly and i am Tired™#i remember hollering about other science things as i read but it's become a fever dream#(i'm sleep deprived)#seriously what the fuck though#if you're gonna write SF/horror please WORK ON THE SF#this pisses me off to no end!!#i wanted this to be great!! it was just stupid!!
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will delete later but imma gonna rant bc i can and yall be sending me these things knowing im gonna snap but HEY i guess ill take over hate.💀
you know, when we said that cassian was abusive in acosf, and that his behavior was not only unromantic, but very much parallel to the way tamlin treated feyre in maf -- we were met with contention. it was ‘cassian is the best bat boy!” “how can you hate cassian” and “you guys always find problems”
but if when the conversation becomes something like nessian >>> feysand or cassian >>> rhysand then suddenly all of the red flags that cassian showed in sf and even in acowar become apparent. then you guys can point out the problems in the hike, how cassian treated nesta horribly, wasn’t attentive. how cassian sexualized her body, and used her body, how he wouldn’t even give nesta sugar even though she was literally suffering through something adjacent to an eating disorder, where she wasn’t eating or practicing self-hygiene. now you see how he doesn’t tell nesta that she is loved, how he calls her out of her name, how he repeatedly disrespects her boundaries.
it is abuse. say it with me: a b u s e.
it was easy for y’all to blame the 25 y/o and not the 530+ y/o who personally saw himself in charge of her mental health journey, against her wishes, locked in her in the house with him, and then made sexual comments about her while continually isolating every part of her life, and having her do things on behalf of the court and the library with no money.
and then y’all argued that more responsibility should be placed on nesta and not the immortal man who literally put himself in charge of every aspect of her life. that nesta somehow deserved that bc she was difficult. that argument is deranged. i don’t give a shit how ‘difficult’ nesta was,’ she is still the victim. that you guys believe other wise belies a fundamental understanding of abuse and domestic violence
and it wasn’t like writing a 2000+ words of textual evidence, scene by scene parallels was enough -- nah. all we have to do is realign the conversation a character v. character debate and suddenly it becomes very clear.
and as i said, i always fucking knew y’all saw the problems, even when y’all called them ridiculous. but if the conversation was removed of y’all hate for nesta and recontextualized as a feysand v. nessian argument all of a sudden you guys can see the abuse. its absolutely disgusting.
and even then, the acknowledgement of these issues is only because you want to laugh at nesta for being in that abusive predicament. because of course these issues only matters when your trying to prove a tit-for-tat point about what batboy is better. cassian was abusive. the hike was one of the most disgusting act of abuse in that book.
and this matters bc literally we watched a man -- a famous actor -- sue the woman who he abused, and then have the whole world argue that she deserved the abuse because she was a difficult woman. we saw her sa be mocked, her trauma dubbed ‘not realistic enough bc thats not how real victims act, we saw people fandomize a grown real life man (a HASBEEN) and it has now set a trend where abusers are suing their victims arguing the SAME argument, it matters. we watched as RAPE threats were suddenly ‘okay’ bc the victim was ‘difficult’ that the 20 something y/o somehow how more power and money than the the man twice her age, with triple the funds.
y’all are absolutely disgusting and i will NEVER take any of u anti nesta people seriously like y’all are nasty people.
y’all tried.
#anti cassian#not a safe place for him and his ppl#anti acosf#anti sjm: nesta archeron#anti sjm: pro nesta
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If the ewriels want to pretend to be the girl supporting/loving side of the fandom then they need to stop putting down girls for shipping characters which they don't ship
So this literally shocked me so much, Basically i though that all posts who say negative stuff regarding gwyn and her SA are trolls and no body actually thinks that
But.. Seeing the troll post credit actual big accounts that are supported and seeing the OG post getting support shocked me to hell.
The actual creator this post, Not only put a timeline on what is the appropriate time for a SA Victim to heal like, As a SA survivor you don't get to put a timeline on when a person chooses to have sex again,
If Gwyn wants to have sex after sf or even after the blood rite she can do so, She can choose to have sex whenever she is ready and you don't get to decide when that time is,
Secondly, they are guilt tripping people into thinking they are doing something wrong for shipping fictional characters!!
This isn't even an argument this post is just putting down readers by guilt tripping and gaslighting them into believing that they are doing something wrong because they want gwyn to have a happy ending bcoz they want to make themselves look superior.
This is an actual post by a famous e/riel blogger (Checked their a/c)
Many people liked and supported this post (OG).
Wow this is honestly so disgusting
#gwynriel#E/riels need to stop being toxic#anti e/riel#gwyn x azriel#pro gwyn#sjmaas#pro gwynriel#gwyn berdara#antielriel
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Self-Expression: a retro furry poster set on @lordcrumps ' 4t2 repoed posters
My @uberhood story has so many angsty young furries that, even with my low CC setup, I figured they needed a way to express themselves. Hence this low-effort poster set, for all your furry Simming needs. Whether you bought these at a convention or printed them off the internet at the library, you can have as many furry arts as your heart desires. (Provided what your heart desires is the creative-commons licensed furries of the Wikimedia Foundation c. 2009.)
Art used is all under a Creative Commons license. Most of it is from the Wikimedia foundation, and a lot of it is older-- which is a plus, for me, because it fits in with the Sims 2's ~vibes~. All of it is SFW, and all of it is really charming.
You'll need @lordcrumps' 4t2 Poster Conversion set, which you can get here.
DOWNLOAD (SFS)
Credits under the cut.
Ninja Mole by flo0d
Doug the Ferret by cuprohastes
AoiTrelliaSky by Aoi~CommonsWiki
Dokuro Manga Cover by Djkyota
Glowing Vulpine by Yamavu
SCP-1471 by Mecanautes
This is a very cool furry by OrdinaryMeHere
Vuk sa pipom by ScruffyFox
My Fursona by RegularBlueJay
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Kalayaan Para Sa Mga Bata
Ang kalayaan ay tumutukoy sa estado o kondisyon kung saan ang isang tao o grupo ay may kakayahang kumilos, magdesisyon, at magsagawa ng mga aksyon nang walang hadlang o kontrol mula sa iba. Sa mas simpleng salita, ito ay ang pagiging malaya at may karapatang gumawa ng sariling mga pasya.
Ang "kalayaan para sa mga bata" ay tumutukoy sa mga karapatan at kalayaan ng mga bata na dapat nilang matamasa at maprotektahan. Ito ay hindi lamang tumutukoy sa pisikal na kalayaan, kundi pati na rin sa mga karapatan na mag-aral, makapaglaro, magpahayag ng kanilang opinyon, at mabuhay sa isang ligtas at makatarungang kapaligiran. Ang mga batang may kalayaan ay may pagkakataon ding mapangalagaan ang kanilang mga pangarap at matutunan ang mga bagay na makatutulong sa kanilang personal na pag-unlad.
Ayon sa United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC), may mga sumusunod na karapatan ang mga bata:
Karapatan sa Edukasyon – Dapat magkaroon ng akses ang mga bata sa libreng edukasyon at mga pagkakataon para matutunan ang mga bagong kaalaman.
Karapatan sa Paglalaro at Libangan – Ang mga bata ay may karapatang maglaro at maglibang para sa kanilang mental at pisikal na kalusugan.
Karapatan sa Proteksyon – Dapat silang protektahan mula sa anumang uri ng pang-aabuso, pagsasamantala, at diskriminasyon.
Karapatan sa Kalusugan – Dapat magkaroon sila ng akses sa sapat na pangangalaga sa kalusugan at malusog na kapaligiran.
Karapatan sa Pagtukoy ng Opinyon – Ang mga bata ay may karapatan na magpahayag ng kanilang opinyon sa mga bagay na nakakaapekto sa kanila, ayon sa kanilang kapasidad at edad.
Sa mga pambansang batas, gaya ng Batas Republika Blg. 7610 sa Pilipinas, layunin na protektahan ang mga bata laban sa anumang uri ng pang-aabuso at eksploytasyon. Ang kalayaan ng mga bata ay mahalaga upang sila ay lumaki nang masaya at maligaya, handa sa hinaharap.
AMANCIO, LAWRENCE HUMPHREY 10-SF
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