#selfworth loveyourself

[glowettee]

hiii! i love your acc, it's so cute :3 i was wondering if you could do a post about self-love, it's something i've been struggling w/ lately. thank youuu

uncommon but life-changing self-love practices (that actually work) 🎀

posted by: glowettee

hey angel! thank you for this question in my mailbox! and ahhhh thank you so much you're so sweet!! i'm sorry this post was a little late, self-care is soooo important, i want to give you some tips that you don't hear to often that i do in my self-love journey! i'll share some not-so-obvious self-love practices that literally changed my life! ♡

♡ redefining your space psychology because your environment shapes your self-perception:

bedroom makeover with intention:

rearrange furniture to face the sunrise (this literally changed my morning mindset!)

create a "victory wall" with tiny achievements (i put up a photo of my first B- grade that turned into an A-)

place mirrors strategically (not just for selfies, but for daily affirmations)

use color psychology (i painted one wall rose quartz pink in my room and it actually improved my mood)

create a dedicated self-love corner (mine has fairy lights, positive letters from friends, and little trinkets from my childhood, along with printed photos from pinterest with self-love affirmations/lists.

��� morning practices instead of basic routines, try these instead:

the "main character energy" morning:

write how your day went (successfully) and about yourself in third person (like "mindy gracefully picked up her pen, to conquer calculus, she did all her chores, and even studied japanese for 2 hours.")

practice "mirror dating" (spend 5 mins having an actual conversation with yourself - it's weird but works!)

create a "today i choose" list (instead of a to-do list)

dance to one song before doing anything else (i do taylor swift, or newjeans obviously)

write a love letter to a body part you're struggling with (i wrote to my uncooperative hair and now we're besties <3)

♡ digital self-love (but make it intentional) because we live online but need boundaries:

phone transformation:

change your passwords to affirmations (mine is a variation of "mindyisworthy2025")

create a folder of your awkward photos (embrace the cringe! and laugh with your friends, its so fun)

record yourself modeling, or pretending your a celebrity or k-pop idol

take selfies without filters (document your real smile)

set random alarms with love notes to yourself

hide little sticky notes with cute reminders about yourself in your room, so when you stumble upon it a month later it'll make you smile!

social media rebellion:

post the photos you'd usually delete (even if it's made private)

share your real study space (messy notes and all)

document your growth journey (even the uncomfortable parts)

create a finsta for your completely unfiltered self

make reels about your self-love journey (even if they're private)

♡ physical self-love (the weird but effective version) not basic bubble baths:

unexpected body appreciation:

thank your body parts for specific things ("thank you hands for letting me write my study notes")

have a private dance party in weird places (i do this in elevators when i'm alone)

wear your prettiest clothes to study, or even to the grocery store (even if no one sees)

make up your own choreography to your favorite songs

make your own workout or stretching routine with different stretches/exercises you make up yourself

comfort zone expansion:

try eating alone in public (start small - i began with coffee shops)

wear that "special occasion" outfit to class

speak up in class even if your voice shakes

send yourself flowers to your dorm/apartment (I LOVE DOING THIS EVERY VALENTINES <33)

take yourself on cute dates (let a coin flip decide where you go! or ask google.)

♡ emotional archaeology dig deeper than surface-level feelings:

create an emotion museum:

keep a "weird thoughts" journal (mine has my 3am existential questions)

make a playlist for each mood (even the uncomfortable ones)

collect "emotional souvenirs" (me and my grandmother had a cafe date a few years ago, and i still keep the receipt today)

document your crying sessions (trust me, looking back at these helps)

write letters to your past and future self

validation exercises:

practice saying "my feelings about this are valid" in the mirror

create a "proof of worth" folder on your phone

collect screenshots of nice messages

record yourself giving pep talks

keep a "wins" journal (especially tiny ones)

♡ advanced self-love techniques for when you're ready to level up:

relationship building with yourself:

schedule weekly "self-dates" (i do wednesday coffee dates with myself)

create a personal manifesto (update it monthly)

develop inside jokes with yourself

celebrate monthly self-love anniversaries

create traditions just for you

growth documentation:

take progress polaroids (not just physical)

voice record your daily thoughts

measure growth in unconventional ways (like "times i chose myself")

create time capsules every season

write monthly letters to yourself

self-love isn't just face masks and bubble baths (though those are nice too!). it's about building a deep, weird, wonderful relationship with yourself. it's about becoming your own best friend, confidante, and biggest supporter.

some of these might seem strange at first, but that's okay! the best relationships often have their quirks. start with what feels right and slowly expand your comfort zone. it's not just about practicing self-love, it's also about creating your own unique love language with yourself!

you're doing amazing things just by being you, and i'm so proud of you for prioritizing this journey! remember, the relationship you have with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship in your life.

xoxo, mindy 🎀

[happy-place-for-sad-people]

you're safe, it's just silence.

you're safe, they're just feelings.

you're safe, they're just thoughts.

you're safe, it's just fear.

you're safe, they're just people.

you are safe. i promise you. you are safe.

[zibethrose]

It's time to remove the

splinters of past hurts.

Let go so healing can begin,

No waiting for better days.

Live fully in the here and now,

Strong in contentment,

No thought of envy nor arrogance,

No regrets.

Do this to stay in sync with the

sacred

and bloom into fullness.

Be authentic. Do not mask yourself to become acceptable to others. Be expansive, do not shrink yourself to fit into another's expectations. Be you, your uniquely wonderful self. Recognize that Love begins where judgement ends. Be there for others but never leave yourself behind… learn to embrace and know yourself through your heart. Your heart knows that Everything begins and ends with love. Love is the whole, the all that is. Know that love is our essence. 

You can either activate thoughts that produce stress within you or activate thoughts that make stress impossible. It’s your choice. Change your mindset.

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[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

[toange]

This is your time. Be selfish. Selfish with your time, your energy and your attention. Your blessings have been blocked for way too long. You wonder why your life feels stagnant while they prosper. It's time to take care of you. Love yourself and watch how you bloom.

Definition of bloom: a flower, especially one cultivated for its beauty. 🌸🌷

[moonshadowmystique]

I used to think loving others was the key to happiness, but I learned something life-changing: I have to love myself first.

Self-love isn’t selfish. It’s necessary. When I prioritize my well-being, set healthy boundaries, and embrace my flaws, I show the world how to treat me. The relationship I have with myself sets the tone for everything else.

Loving myself means accepting that I’m enough—just as I am. It’s a daily practice, but one that brings more joy, peace, and fulfillment to my life.

When I love myself first, everything else falls into place.

[bercintalewatkata]

Manipulation is when they blame you for your reaction to their toxic behavior but never discuss their disrespect that triggered you

Manipulation can be hard to spot, but here’s a sign: if someone constantly blames you for your reaction to their toxic behavior, but never acknowledges the disrespect that triggered you, they’re manipulating you. ✩₊˚.

They twist the situation to make you feel guilty and avoid taking responsibility for their actions. It’s not your fault for reacting to mistreatment. Healthy relationships involve mutual respect and accountability, not shifting the blame. If someone always turns the focus on how you reacted instead of addressing what they did to cause it, that’s a red flag. ⋆☾⋆

“Ya Allah, aku berlindung kepada-Mu dari sifat gelisah (pesimis), sedih, malas, kikir, pengecut, terlilit hutang, dan keganasan orang lain." 🤲 -Diriwayatkan oleh Anas r.a-

Trust your feelings and recognize when you’re being manipulated. You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, not made to feel like your reactions are the problem. Always stand up for your worth and don’t let anyone convince you that their bad behavior is your fault.⁺₊✧

[bondedbythoughts]

Happy Saturday beautiful souls. Never forget how loved and special you are.Stop self-sabotaging your own happiness. Work on you for you.Let your heart lead you out of misery to love and light. Examine what is causing you grief, know it, name it and change it to be healthier and happier. It is now or never, take a chance and do what your heart wants. Realign your thoughts to change your paradigm by becoming still to divest yourself of the things that do not resonate with your true natureLife challenges you not to diminish you, but to familiarize you with the deep truth that love is key in bringing you to wholeness within yourself.Journey home to your own heart for its perspective is in sync with the sacred and transcends the limitations of the mind.To love someone is to acknowledge the goodness of who they are and awaken them to their sacred nature as our love allows them to see the beauty of their soul as they see their splendor reflected in the mirror of our love.

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[realanastasiagree]

My confidence doesn’t come from compliments; it comes from withinFind my link https://linktr.ee/Anastasia_Gree

[allycat92]

was a little lost, finding my path again

[happy-place-for-sad-people]

you'll never feel ready, and while there's fear and anxiety in that, there's also a decent amount of freedom and joy. you'll never feel ready, but that won't stop life, and whatever needs to happen will, and you'll survive it. you'll outgrow it, and the version of yourself you thought you were. you'll build yourself up from the scratch, and you'll start again. and then again, you won't feel ready, but with uncertainty there's possibility, and adventure, and hope. just make sure you're there for the ride! keep it going, baby, you got it!!💛

[zibethrose]

Happy Sunday Beautiful souls.

Make love your daily bread.

Remain rooted in love having faith in your ability to traverse life’s vagaries,shaken but never defeated,standing steadfast and true in the energy of Faith and Hope with resilience ,no matter what others may say or do.

Retreat to your inner sanctuary to commune with the Sacred to gain clarity and strength to quell the fears raised by the storms of life...this allows you to move forward, no longer stuck in the negative loop of anger and hurt,free to close that chapter and start a brand-new one.

Know that Love inform your very existence to find inner peace so that the happenings on your earthly sojourn will not break you nor imbitter you,but instead elevate you through challenges without compromising your truth.

Take care of yourself with compassion. Build a habit of daily gratitude to serve like a scattering of breadcrumbs showing you the way out of the forest of despair through love,faith and hope. Be good to yourself innerstanding You are the blueprint and the imprint of divine love

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[rachelwbush]

Overcoming Self-Doubt

Self-love is the antidote to self-doubt. In my book, "Self-Love," I share insights on overcoming insecurities and embracing your worthiness.

Through empowering stories and practical strategies, you'll learn to silence your inner critic and cultivate a mindset of self-empowerment. Discover how to trust your abilities, celebrate your achievements, and navigate challenges with grace.

Are you ready to break free from self-limiting beliefs and embrace your full potential? Explore "Self-Love" on Kindle Unlimited today. Let's conquer self-doubt together and shine bright. Don't forget to leave a review and let me know how "Self-Love" has impacted your life. Let's celebrate the beauty of self-love together.

[toange]

Note to self

Everybody wants to change the world by attempting to change others, without realising that, OUR OWN SELF GROWTH is in itself a major step in changing the world.

30th October 2024

[fixquotes]

"We accept the love we think we deserve"

- Stephen Chbosky

[bercintalewatkata]

To My Almost... If one day we go back to being strangers, it's okay. That doesn't mean I hate you, or I forget about you. It just simply means that I am giving you back your peace. I want you to live your life the way you deserve it. Meeting you and falling in love with you wasn't a mistake. It was God's way of giving us a lesson that we can carry for the rest of our lives. °˖𓍢ִ໋🌷͙֒✧°.🎀༘⋆ The memories we shared will forever be treasured. The pain that we caused each other will remain in our scars. But that scar will not always be ugly. Some of it was tears, but mostly laughter. So don't worry, I'l always choose to remember the happy times, and bury the painful ones. °˖𓍢ִ໋🌷͙֒✧°.🎀༘⋆ I am now slowly forgiving myself for the things I wasn't supposed to do. l pray to God to give me the courage to move on with my life without holding on to the promises that has been broken. I pray for strength to face each day without any regrets.