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How Fashion Affects Self-Esteem: A Week of Style and Self-Discovery

Fashion and self-esteem—two concepts that often go hand-in-hand in today’s society. The clothes we wear don’t just cover our bodies; they reflect our moods, our values, and often, how we feel about ourselves. But how deep does this connection really go? To explore this, I recently took on a personal challenge: wear different styles every day for a week and track how each one made me feel.

What I discovered was more impactful than I expected.

The Fashion–Self-Esteem Connection

It’s fascinating how fashion acts as a form of self-expression, yet it can sometimes feel like society is telling us how we should look. This pressure can take a toll on our self-esteem. Many people struggle with their image, feeling like they need to keep up with trends or fear judgment for their style choices. I've seen friends feel out of place simply because their fashion didn’t align with what’s trending.

This can create a cycle of self-doubt and comparison—especially on social media.

Social Media and the Comparison Trap

We scroll through Instagram and TikTok, bombarded with images of influencers and models with seemingly perfect outfits and flawless bodies. It’s hard not to compare ourselves. But those images are often heavily curated and edited—they're highlight reels, not real life. Behind the filters, everyone has insecurities.

Remembering that reality check can be a crucial step in protecting our self-esteem.

When Clothes Empower or Disempower

Throughout my challenge, I noticed clear shifts in how I felt based on what I wore. Some outfits made me feel powerful, others awkward and self-conscious. One day I wore something trendy but totally out of my comfort zone. I spent the entire day feeling like an imposter, second-guessing how I looked. My confidence shrunk like a sweater in hot water.

On other days, when I wore pieces that truly felt like “me,” I felt more confident, more present, more me.

There’s actually research backing this up. One study shows that dressing in formal, professional clothing can boost our sense of capability and power. Clothing influences not just how others perceive us, but how we perceive ourselves.

Society’s Role in Shaping Our Style Confidence

Fashion isn’t just personal—it’s also deeply shaped by societal standards. The fashion industry often sets narrow ideals for what’s considered beautiful or stylish. Thankfully, body positivity and inclusive fashion movements are starting to shift that narrative, making more people feel seen and valued.

This shift is helping people embrace their unique style as a form of self-love, not just self-expression.

Fashion as Self-Care

One of the most empowering realizations I had during this challenge was that fashion can be a form of self-care. Choosing clothes that reflect who you are and how you want to feel can be an act of self-kindness. It’s not about impressing others—it’s about honoring yourself.

When you dress in a way that supports your confidence, you’re not just showing up—you’re showing up for yourself.

The Takeaway: Be Mindful With Your Style

The link between fashion and self-esteem is real, and it’s powerful. While it can sometimes lead to stress or insecurity, it can also be a source of empowerment and joy. The key is to be intentional. Wear what makes you feel strong, comfortable, and authentically you.

Because when you feel good in your clothes, you carry yourself differently—and that’s the kind of confidence that truly stands out.

💬 Let’s Talk!

Have you ever had a moment where an outfit made you feel unstoppable—or maybe the opposite? I’d love to hear your experience in the comments. Sharing your story could help someone else feel a little less alone.

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[Week 7]

The Instagram Effect: How "Perfection" Became a Full-Time Job

Instagram is not just an app; it is a beauty factory. 

The Aesthetic Template: Copy, Paste, Repeat

Instagram's "aesthetic template" is not just a trend but a strategy for visibility. Influencers copy trends for algorithm success, forcing conformity and killing individuality (Witz et al., 2003).

Most European women adhere to a beauty template that favors darker skin tones, sharp and dramatic makeup, and a more muscular, robust physique.

In contrast, traditional Asian beauty standards have long celebrated lighter, whiter skin, softer makeup, and a more delicate, slender body type (Dean, 2005). Besides, Asian women on Instagram now express themselves more but keep their distinct style, which is influenced by Western culture.

💭 Confidence or conformity: Why chase beauty ideals?

The truth is complex. While some see it as self-improvement and validation, the overwhelming influence of curated, idealized images and algorithmic pressures on social media often pushes people toward conformity over authenticity (Daniels, 2016).

Beauty Is not Universal - It is Algorithmic.

Beauty on Instagram is not just about looks but about playing the algorithm's game.

Conventionally attractive women in revealing outfits? Boosted.

Gay men expressing femininity? Often ignored.

📲 Instagram boosts sexy women and ignores feminine gay men, creating a skewed perception of self-worth and societal value. When users constantly see sexy, Eurocentric beauty ideals being rewarded with visibility and engagement, they may internalize the message that this is the "ideal" to aspire to - leading to intense pressure to conform (Bishop, 2021).

🚫 Meanwhile, the lack of representation for feminine gay men can make individuals in this group feel invisible or undervalued, reinforcing feelings of exclusion and inadequacy (Carrotte et al., 2017).

🔄 This dynamic shapes self-perception, often pushing people to alter their appearance or suppress their authenticity just to be seen. It also perpetuates harmful stereotypes about what is considered desirable or acceptable, ultimately narrowing diversity and limiting self-acceptance on the platform (Witz et al., 2003).

When Beauty & Sexualization Blur

(Warning: sensitive photos included)

This is not just about 'blurred lines'; it is about the normalization of exploitation. Young people who really look up to influencers are being taught the wrong ideas about beauty and sex. They start to think their value comes from how sexually attractive they are, which is bad for their minds and feelings (Drenten et al., 2019). 

📌 BOP House, a social media collective known for its provocative and highly sexualized content, exemplifies this phenomenon (Upton-Clark, 2025). Members like Sophia Rain (6M followers) gain fame through controversial posts, blurring the lines between social media, entertainment, and adult content. This normalization reshapes user perceptions of beauty, self-worth, and online expression.

The Mental Health Toll: When “Instagram Face” Becomes the Goal

Figure 1 (Dixon, 2024)

32% of Instagram users are 18-24, making Gen Z dominant (Figure 1). The platform is linked to depression, low self-esteem, and body image issues (Abrams, 2021). BDD affects 2% of people, especially young users, highlighting social media's role in these challenges (BDDF, n.d.).

In this video, she discusses a client with BDD driven by perfectionism and the online "aesthetic template." Obsessed with perfection, the client feels insecure and has undergone surgeries since age 14 to "fix" perceived flaws.

✨ Instagram promotes an illusion of perfection, fueling unhealthy comparisons (Witz et al., 2003). The platform's focus on curated images creates a false sense that everyone else has an ideal life, pressuring users to meet unrealistic beauty standards. A 14-year-old undergoing multiple surgeries highlights how far people go to chase this unattainable ideal. 

📱 This constant exposure distorts self-image, increases anxiety, and normalizes harmful behaviors - profoundly impacting mental health.

So... Who Really Wins?

Influencers? Maybe. Instagram? Definitely. The rest of us? We are left chasing a beauty standard that was never real.

✨ Thoughts? Have you ever felt the pressure of Instagram beauty standards? Let's talk. 💬

References

Abrams, Z. (2021, December 2). How can we minimize Instagram’s harmful effects? American Psychological Association. https://www.apa.org/monitor/2022/03/feature-minimize-instagram-effects

BDDF. (n.d.). How Common is BDD? – BDDF. Body Dysmorphic Disorder Foundation. https://bddfoundation.org/information/frequently-asked-questions/how-common-is-bdd/

Bishop, S. (2021). Influencer Management Tools: Algorithmic Cultures, Brand Safety, and Bias. Social Media + Society, 7(1), 205630512110030. https://doi.org/10.1177/20563051211003066

Carrotte, E., Prichard, I., & Lim, M. S. C. (2017). “Fitspiration” on Social Media: a Content Analysis of Gendered Images. “Fitspiration” on Social Media: A Content Analysis of Gendered Images, 19(3). https://doi.org/10.2196/jmir.6368

Daniels, E. A. (2016). Sexiness on Social Media. Sexualization, Media, & Society, 2(4), 237462381668352. https://doi.org/10.1177/2374623816683522

Dean, D. (2005). Recruiting a self: Women performers and aesthetic labour. Work, Employment and Society, 19(4), 761–774. https://doi.org/10.1177/0950017005058061

Dixon, S. J. (2024, May 2). Distribution of Instagram Users Worldwide as of April 2024, by Age Group. Statista. https://www.statista.com/statistics/325587/instagram-global-age-group/

Drenten, J., Gurrieri, L., & Tyler, M. (2019). Sexualized labour in digital culture: Instagram influencers, porn chic and the monetization of attention. Gender, Work & Organization, 27(1), 41–66. https://doi.org/10.1111/gwao.12354

Marwick, A. (2013). Status Update: Celebrity, Publicity, and Branding in the Social Media Age. Yale University Press. https://yalebooks.yale.edu/book/9780300209389/status-update/

Senft, T. (2013). Microcelebrity and the Branded Self. https://fws.commacafe.org/resources/theresa_senft_microcelebrity_branded_self.pdf

Upton-Clark, E. (2025, February 12). Meet the Bop House, the internet’s divisive new OnlyFans hype house. Fast Company. https://www.fastcompany.com/91277825/meet-the-bop-house-the-internets-divisive-new-onlyfans-hype-house

Witz, A., Warhurst, C., & Nickson, D. (2003). The Labour of Aesthetics and the Aesthetics of Organization. Organization, 10(1), 33–54. https://doi.org/10.1177/1350508403010001375

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The Ripple Effect: How Low Self-Esteem Impacts Women's Lives and Health Hey there, let's dive into a topic that's close to our hearts: self-esteem. It's like the invisible force that shapes how we perceive ourselves and navigate the world. But what happens when self-esteem takes a hit? Let's explore how low self-esteem can cast its shadow over a woman's life and even affect her health. 1. Negative Self-Image: Low self-esteem often warps how we view ourselves. Women struggling with self-doubt might focus on perceived flaws, leading to a negative body image. This self-criticism can erode confidence and hinder personal growth. 2. Relationships: Low self-esteem can sabotage relationships. Women might struggle to believe they deserve love, leading to tolerating unhealthy dynamics. It's like a barrier to forming meaningful connections built on mutual respect. 3. Career and Ambitions: Doubting oneself can hinder professional growth. Women with low self-esteem might shy away from opportunities, fearing failure or feeling undeserving of success. This can stunt their careers and limit their potential. 4. Mental Health: The impact on mental well-being is significant. Low self-esteem can lead to stress, anxiety, and even depression. The constant internal battle of self-worth can drain mental resources, affecting overall happiness. 5. Physical Health: Believe it or not, low self-esteem can also affect physical health. Stress stemming from self-doubt can lead to a weakened immune system, disrupted sleep, and even unhealthy coping mechanisms like overeating or avoiding exercise. 6. Decision-Making: Women with low self-esteem might struggle with decision-making. Fear of making mistakes or believing their choices are bound to fail can paralyze their ability to take charge of their lives. 7. Missed Opportunities: Ever hesitated to try something new due to self-doubt? Low self-esteem can hold women back from seizing opportunities, leading to a life less lived. 8. Empowerment Disconnect: Empowerment blooms from self-confidence. Women with low self-esteem might find it challenging to embrace empowerment initiatives, perpetuating the cycle. 9. Joy Robbery: Low self-esteem robs women of the joy they deserve. It clouds their ability to celebrate successes and cherish their unique qualities. Remember, dear souls, your worth isn't determined by external factors or the whispers of self-doubt. Addressing low self-esteem is a journey toward reclaiming your power. Seek support, practice self-compassion, and remember that your journey is about growth, healing, and becoming the radiant person you were always meant to be. 🌟

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Living a life just like a Disney Princess or the Prince Charming is a dream for everyone. It is only possible if you are going to take it from your heart. Having low self-esteem is not gonna help you out with this. When you can Zest up; why to hurt your health with low self-esteem? Let us have a look at how we can deal with the trouble of low self-esteem.

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