#self-reliance

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

[noosphe-re]

A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen and philosophers and divines. With consistency a great soul has simply nothing to do. He may as well concern himself with his shadow on the wall. Speak what you think now in hard words, and to-morrow speak what to-morrow thinks in hard words again, though it contradict every thing you said to-day. — 'Ah, so you shall be sure to be misunderstood.' — Is it so bad, then, to be misunderstood? Pythagoras was misunderstood, and Socrates, and Jesus, and Luther, and Copernicus, and Galileo, and Newton, and every pure and wise spirit that ever took flesh. To be great is to be misunderstood.

Ralph Waldo Emerson, Self-Reliance, Essays: First Series, 1841

[themotherofrevelation]

Self-reliance is the ultimate bondage; self-reliance opposes the natural design of life. Hyper-independence is a trauma response. Rely/lean on Goddess; Goddess’s way is whole communion.

[the-healing-mindset]

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[apesoformythoughts]

‘“Individualism” claims G.K. Chesterton, “kills individuality.” While perhaps formulating a subjectivist paradise devoid of “pure” objective rationality, Nietzsche opened the door to a form of individualism that led to a new extreme of impotence and feebleness that the Enlightenment might never have reached. Peterson’s dour temperament, juxtaposed with the well-adjusted temperaments of the jovial Chesterton and the vivacious [Slavoj] Zizek . . . testifies to the death of individuality under the tyranny of individualism.

To base one’s moral compass on lived relationships with real people outside of one’s head, rather than on abstractions of their selfhood or of “humanity” broadly speaking, seems to be both a necessary and perplexing conundrum. The self, for Chesterton, was perpetually caught in a tension whose dynamic was relational. Existence and freedom are not to be harnessed and regulated, nor outsourced and relieved of responsibility. They are gifts…and at times curses, but always given, implying a relationship between a gift-giver and the self as receiver. “Most modern freedom is at root fear,” writes Chesterton, “It is not so much that we are too bold to endure rules; it is rather that we are too timid to endure responsibilities.” Responsibility for Chesterton is not so much a matter of lifting oneself up by one’s bootstraps, but a response to the One who gives one his existence. Thus, we are faced with Chesterton’s ability to hold together the paradox of the power of free will, but also its fragility and limitations.’

— Stephen G. Adubato: “Beyond the Cult of Self-Reliant Bootstrapping”

[themelanindigitalwave]

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[jennifersblog-en]

Would you rather call it cottagecore or self-sufficiency? A short essay on rural life and self-reliance.

Good afternoon!

I originally intended to write about cottagecore, which is pretty much what surrounds me in this rural region. However, I have a love-hate relationship toward these social media aesthetics, which are first and foremost photography aesthetics and themes with ugly names. This said, in a context of domestic abuse, I mostly count on myself for many of my needs. It is true that self-sufficiency and food self-relience tend toward the Cottagecore sub-culture, and it is tempting to go in that direction, but it would be first and foremost lying to myself, and then to others. Therefore, I prefer to face my own reality by talking about my life journey, rather than to sweeten my speech.

I prefer to be clear, in a situation of abuse, when somebody else is controlling the budget and poverty is a reality, complete financial and material autonomy is more than a fantasy, it's a need.

Facing reality: you don't need to aim for complete self-sufficiency 

In fact, to be honest, you'll never make your own medications. What is complete self-sufficiency? A myth.

This said, my aim is to improve my self-reliance, which relies on a few hobbies, such as gardening, and I invite you to do the same.

Although my production of food is far from being all-year-round, or even enough for canning and preserving, my first attempt has provided me with fresh fruits and vegetables almost every day of Summer. In terms of fruits, I have only grown strawberries and raspberries, as well as the old apple tree planted decades ago by the late owners. I have grown a wider array of vegetables, such as tomatoes, peas, snow peas, and yellow and green beans. A little bit of my protein intake came from lima and borlotti beans, and I had five fresh herbs to choose from. My biggest failures have been my onions, garlic bulbs and radishes; they were disappointingly lost to rot and drought before harvest.

Overall, this was not bigger than a balcony garden, which proves that you don't need a lot of space to feed yourself if you aim for a percentage of your plate, rather than the usual message of the internet, which is complete self-sufficiency.

Growing food can be the cure to food trauma and insecurity

If, like me, you've been traumatized by food shortages and a lack of financial freedom, growing your own food can be the necessary cure, and at relatively small costs.

At the very least, you'll control some of the food you'll have later in the season. If you're lucky, you can make preserves, or meal-prep and freeze.

Baking and bread-making

This is something I was already doing, and there is something special about having a dessert or a slice of fresh bread, still warm from the oven.

All winter long, I try to do something inspired by the Swedish fika concept, and use these months to plan ahead for Spring.

Needle arts are far from dead

From cosplay to insta-worthy embroidery, the needle arts are far from dead, despise their temporary rejection at home, as shopping malls and hypermarkets became my own parents' stress-relief and boredom-killing hobby. From a personal point-of-view, their consumption habits were far from my values, and I have come back to sewing and knitting to supply a percentage of my wardrobe. I've also tried to make very simple jewelry.

The initial cost is not always cheaper to make your own, because you will possibly choose a thicker, high-quality fabric, that will hopefully last longer, which is where you can really save. 

I often like to remind myself that this is not child labour, but my own labour; and it makes a world of a difference from a moral standpoint.

♫ These boots were made for walking, and that's just what they'll do ♬

When I have decided to get back in shape, I didn't have the financial means to pay a subscription at the gym. However, did you notice the free sports you can start doing today? 

I have started walking almost every sunny day, and it has greatly improved my cardio-vascular health, as I was enjoying the scenery and leaving my problems at home, behind a closed door.

When bad weather forces you to stay inside, there are still many Youtube channels to watch, and I have even found a few workout television shows on major channels. They tend to be at 6am, though, and they have to be recorded to watch them as a hobby, instead of a morning chore.

Which comes to a conclusion: dis I really ever intend to write about the Cottagecore movement and its photography aesthetic, or simply about real life and self-care? I'd say the latter, for this is what feels better, and always will.

[dreaminginthedeepsouth]

"What I must do, is all that concerns me, not what the people think. This rule, equally arduous in actual and in intellectual life, may serve for the whole distinction between greatness and meanness. It is the harder, because you will always find those who think they know what is your duty better than you know it. It is easy in the world to live after the world's opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude.”

― Ralph Waldo Emerson, 'Self-Reliance'

[The Makers Rage Podcast]

[tmarshconnors]

STOP HELPING UKRAINE!

The war between Russia and Ukraine has dragged on for over a year now, and the West, particularly the United States and the United Kingdom, has poured billions into military aid, equipment, and financial assistance for Ukraine. The argument has been that Ukraine needs our support to defend itself against Russian aggression, which, in theory, could pose a broader threat to Europe and even global security. But is this endless funding truly in the best interest of our nations? I argue that it is not.

Unintended Consequences: Economic Strain on the West

Let’s start with the practical issue: the economic toll on our countries. We are facing significant domestic challenges – from economic recessions and rising inflation to unemployment and energy crises. Yet, despite these struggles, billions of taxpayer dollars and pounds continue to flow out to fund a conflict halfway across the world.

Consider the impact on everyday citizens. Energy prices have skyrocketed, in part because of sanctions on Russian oil and gas, but also due to our funding of this seemingly never-ending conflict. Instead of investing in infrastructure, healthcare, or education at home, we’re propping up a country that, quite frankly, needs to take responsibility for its own survival.

What’s Really at Stake?

While it's easy to frame this war as a moral crusade against tyranny, it’s far more complex than that. Ukraine is not a perfect democracy, and its issues with corruption are well-documented. Are we truly supporting a nation based on democratic ideals, or are we merely caught in a geopolitical tug-of-war with Russia? Either way, the continued funneling of funds is draining resources that could be better spent elsewhere.

Moreover, the West has already armed Ukraine to the teeth, providing advanced weaponry and training. The Ukrainian military is now well-equipped to hold its own. So why are we still providing an endless cash flow? At what point do we say, "Enough is enough"?

Ukraine's Responsibility to Defend Itself

At some point, we must allow Ukraine to stand on its own two feet. Nations throughout history have had to fend for themselves in times of crisis, and Ukraine should be no exception. This is their fight, after all. If they wish to preserve their sovereignty and independence, it’s their duty to do so.

One might argue that cutting off funding would be abandoning Ukraine to a Russian takeover. But that's an oversimplified view. Ukraine has proven its resilience time and time again. They have the will to fight; what they now need is the determination to do so without relying on endless Western support. The question isn't whether they can defend themselves – it's whether they will if left to their own devices.

Western Nations Need to Prioritize Their Own Citizens

The well-being of our own citizens should always be our primary concern. Our governments are elected to serve ourinterests, not to act as the world's police force or charity. With millions struggling to make ends meet, is it really fair to continue sending our hard-earned money to a foreign conflict?

We need to refocus on issues that matter at home: rebuilding our economies, strengthening national security, and addressing the energy crisis. Instead of being distracted by far-off wars, let’s direct our efforts toward solving our domestic problems.

The Risk of Prolonging the Conflict

Finally, there's the risk that by continuing to fund Ukraine, we are merely prolonging the conflict. If both sides know that Western money and weapons will keep flowing, where's the incentive for peace? By stepping back, we encourage diplomatic solutions rather than an endless military stalemate.

It’s time for the West to rethink its role in the Russia-Ukraine war. While supporting Ukraine was initially seen as a moral and strategic necessity, the continued funding is proving to be more of a burden than a benefit. Ukraine has the means to defend itself. Now it must find the resolve to do so independently. Our priorities should shift back to addressing the needs of our citizens, and it's high time we let Ukraine face Russia on its own terms.

After all, every nation must ultimately be responsible for its own survival.

[omegaphilosophia]

The Philosophy of Individualism

The philosophy of individualism is a worldview that emphasizes the moral worth, autonomy, and rights of the individual as paramount. It holds that individuals are the primary units of moral and political consideration, and that personal freedom and self-reliance are fundamental to a just society. Individualism is often contrasted with collectivism, which prioritizes the group or community over individual interests.

Key Aspects of the Philosophy of Individualism:

Autonomy and Self-Determination:

Personal Freedom: Individualism asserts that individuals have the right to make their own choices and control their own lives. Autonomy is a core value, meaning that individuals should have the freedom to pursue their own goals, values, and interests without undue interference from others, including the state.

Self-Reliance: Emphasis is placed on the importance of self-reliance and personal responsibility. Individuals are encouraged to depend on themselves rather than on societal structures or other people for their success and well-being.

Moral and Ethical Foundations:

Moral Agency: Individualism views individuals as moral agents with the capacity to make ethical decisions and to be accountable for their actions. This perspective upholds the importance of personal integrity and the right to act according to one’s own conscience.

Rights and Liberties: A key aspect of individualism is the belief in inherent individual rights, such as the right to life, liberty, and property. These rights are seen as fundamental and inalienable, meaning that they cannot be justly taken away or violated by others or the state.

Political and Economic Implications:

Liberalism and Libertarianism: Individualism is closely associated with political ideologies such as liberalism and libertarianism, which advocate for limited government, protection of individual rights, and free-market economies. These ideologies emphasize that the role of government should be to protect individual freedoms rather than to impose collective goals.

Capitalism: Economically, individualism is often linked with capitalism, which promotes free enterprise, private ownership, and competition. Capitalism is seen as a system that allows individuals to freely pursue their economic interests and rewards personal initiative and innovation.

Cultural and Social Dimensions:

Cultural Individualism: In individualistic cultures, personal achievement, self-expression, and independence are highly valued. People are encouraged to think of themselves as unique individuals and to prioritize their own needs and desires.

Social Relationships: While individualism recognizes the importance of social relationships, it emphasizes that these relationships should be freely chosen and should respect the autonomy of each individual involved.

Critiques and Challenges:

Potential for Isolation: Critics of individualism argue that it can lead to social fragmentation, isolation, and a lack of community. By prioritizing the individual over the group, individualism may weaken social bonds and reduce the sense of collective responsibility.

Inequality and Exploitation: Another critique is that individualism, particularly in its association with capitalism, can exacerbate economic inequality and exploitation. Without sufficient regulation or concern for the common good, individualism can lead to vast disparities in wealth and power.

Philosophical Justifications:

Rational Egoism: Some philosophical justifications for individualism are rooted in rational egoism, the idea that individuals should act in their own self-interest because it is rational and moral to do so.

Existentialism: Existentialist philosophers, such as Jean-Paul Sartre, emphasize individual freedom and responsibility, arguing that individuals must create their own meaning and purpose in life without relying on external authorities or pre-existing moral codes.

Historical and Contemporary Examples:

American Individualism: The United States is often cited as an example of a society deeply influenced by individualist philosophy, with its emphasis on personal liberty, entrepreneurship, and the "American Dream."

Global Spread: In contemporary society, individualist values have spread globally, influencing various aspects of culture, politics, and economics in different regions of the world.

The philosophy of individualism champions the rights and freedoms of individuals, advocating for personal autonomy, moral agency, and self-reliance. While it has been a driving force behind many social and political movements, it also faces critiques regarding its potential to undermine social cohesion and contribute to inequality. Balancing individual freedom with the needs of the community remains a central challenge within this philosophical tradition.

[quotelr]

The victory over our inner self is a daily struggle. Be strong and do not give up.

Lailah Gifty Akita, Pearls of Wisdom: Great mind

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

Master Detachment. What stays, stays & what goes, goes..

[codeandcanvas]

Dear traveller,

this is a place which exists on your screen, but which I have built from the raw material of this land. Indeed, I am still building, other places too. And take respite, and refresh your soul, here.

Trust your soul. You are born of this world, and you do understand it like you understand your limbs, like the world understands you.

Be yourself. Live. You are always home.

Enjoy this short video about a writer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7tCN4qOoRs having written about self‑reliance.

Dedicated to my yearlong and dear friend S., and our friendship.

[hspcoaching]

[the-healing-mindset]

“I only rely on me”

It's easy to develop this mindset. We get caught up in the thought pattern that no one is out there who can help us. That we can depend on no one because we must be strong and prove that we’re capable. In our past, we may not have been able to depend on anyone else for any reason whatsoever. Those around us back then may have been harmful or hurtful to us. That doesn’t mean that we have to continue on all alone though.

There are people out there for you to trust, however. Yes, there are some things that you will absolutely have to take care of on your own. But not everything. If you keep trying the same thing over and over again, yet keep getting the same result, then it may be time to get the opinion or the assistance of someone else. You’re not weak for that.

[apesoformythoughts]

‘But the [Jordan] Peterson crying videos mostly make me sad for him because of how seriously he takes himself, and how rarely, one finds the man laughing. These videos also make me think of something even sadder than—as Slavoj Zizek once remarked—how difficult it is to “elicit from [Peterson] a joke”: the life and death of Friedrich Nietzsche.

Self-reliant bootstrapping rhetoric draws heavily on the Nietzschean exaltation of the Ubermensch and the will to power. Yet ironically, Nietzsche’s death was sadly unNietzschean. Lonely, physically ailing, driven to madness, and plagued by an “urge for the truth” (which he “so detested”), he found himself calling into question the worldview he constructed upon the rejection of all external authorities.’

— Stephen G. Adubato: “Beyond the Cult of Self-Reliant Bootstrapping”