#reminder to take care of yourself

[dearest-amber-daily]

Your one and only medic is here to remind you of something! Remember to take care of your body. Drink enough water and eat enough food. Exercise, and go outside every once in a while.

Not only should you take care of your physical health, but your mental health matters, too. Take a break from scrolling on the internet. Read a book, draw, journal, whatever puts you at ease and helps you unwind.

Don't push yourself to study or work to the point your energy is depleted. You need rest, even if you don't think like you need it.

That's it for today's check up! I'm here for you, whenever you need me. Take care, alright? Doctor's orders.

A new (and wholesome) thing I've cooked up on this blog. Amber's daily check ups! She'll be here to provide reassurance, comfort, and reminders for your health and well-being.

....pst. She's proud of you. So am I. - Mod Sharon

[soulmvtes]

just a reminder that it's okay to change and fail and make mistakes and be imperfect and feel grief and not know what you're doing with your life <3 life will pass + you will succeed even if it looks different to what you imagined

[valtsv]

New road sign just dropped (courtesy of my unconscious mind)

this is a road sign that i would extend my commute to drive by

[maxiglow]

[apple8ees]

she knows you can do it!

higher quality ver of a doodle of alinua from @comicaurora i made for a friend who needed to go do sustenance things (og under the cut)

if you can see this drink a beverage preferably water or just smth without caffeine in it and take a stretch break

[free-my-mindd]

Reminder to take care of your heart today.

[itscassc]

It has gotten better before and it will again

[alpacacare-archive]

some body positivity from wingdings for this valentines day <33

(trust him, He’s a doctor!!)

[raining-at-ease]

[emberzzstellar]

Spread kindness, it is useless 2 fight with others for nothing.

[kindnotestoself]

[It's okay to be tired] [It's okay to rest.] [Don't push yourself until you break down]

[thelunarsystemwrites]

Lust says, "No means no, darlings! ♡"

Swap says, "Remember to eat, humans! ☆"

Facąde says, "Get rest! 💤"

Lust belongs to NSFWShamecave

Swap belongs to Popcorn Pr1nce

Facąde belongs to @thelunarsystemwrites

[yourlocallostboy]

Saw this https://www.tumblr.com/anshelsgendercrisis/759583013442125824?source=share and I just wanted to say thank you.

Thank you for having an open mind, thank you for being willing to listen and change, thank you for having a moral compass.

Sorely needed and hugely appreciated right now. Thank you.

hi! thank you (every jewish person who reads this) for giving me a chance to be better. you'd have every right not to given how easily i traded my humanity for my own comfort, even temporarily.

i've been looking at this ask for hours and not knowing how to respond. it's difficult to process how little is expected of my fellow non-jews, and how we still (collectively) fail to meet the standards.

yesterday, i reblogged this. in the hours since, i've had about twice the engagement i've had ever, almost exclusively from jewish blogs.

it's both incredibly inspiring and heartbreaking.

i am so deeply inspired by how hopeful and kind so many jewish people are. everyone i have seen or interacted with on here, even when they're receiving vile hatred and are incredibly frustrated, stress that they want peace.

but it is so heartbreaking to see so many people who are doing exactly what i did. maybe for the same reasons, maybe for different ones, but still with the same effect. it's so hard to acknowledge when you were wrong, when you make mistakes, when you hurt people. it's so hard because i believe a lot of people truly don't want to hurt people. but they're not willing to confront their own discomfort to do it. i know, because i didn't. for months.

i want to say thank you to every jewish person on here. you are unbelievably strong, and i hope you all have a good day soon. i'm grateful for your patience.

and to every non-jew who has read this far, especially if you've been advocating for palestine or if you've been engaging with anti-zionist content: please, just for a moment, take a step back. i cannot understate how little nuance is accepted in (specifically western, i have no experience in other cultures) online spaces. even surrounding things not related to the conflict, there is next to no level of nuance.

i saw people who quite blatantly said "i almost always disagree with this person politically but now they're agreeing with me so obviously they've joined the 'good side'." without even for a moment stopping to think that maybe—maybe—they're wrong. maybe they're on the wrong side. maybe they're doing the wrong thing if someone they usually find does bad things is doing the same.

i thank whatever deities or higher powers there are out there in the big wide universe that my dad is an english teacher who grilled linguistic analysis and grammar into me from when i was a baby. i truly believe it was one of the only things that kept me from being radicalized beyond repair. because i was constantly skeptical of people in those spaces and disturbed by their lack of nuance. but i still believed everything they said so long as it wasn't overtly contradictory.

i won't say you haven't done anything bad or wrong. you probably have. i have. what i will say is that you always have the opportunity to be better. to choose peace instead of violence and kindness over hatred. it's a hard choice to make, and it's one you have to make over and over and over again. but i promise you it is worth it.

[positivelypositive]

🌿

loving yourself...

...also means being careful.

careful about how you speak to yourself.

careful about how much space you give yourself to just be.

careful about letting yourself breathe.

careful about being true to yourself.

and, careful about protecting your boundaries.

be careful how you treat yourself, everyday. you're precious ✨

[c-kiddo]

jus rememberd abt this and. the way i used to draw cad in 2020 vs now in 2023 is funny to me idk why

[cavityinmybrain]

something that i think is important for a lot of the plurals on here to remember: you should have spaces other than discourse focused ones where it is safe for you to exist as you are and as you want.

if you are a system that has to hide in everyday life, pleasee make sure you have spaces available for your alters to exist that arent focused on discourse. if you are a system that doesnt get a chance to let parts out irl, please make sure there are spaces that are safe for them to exist in that arent discourse.

its incredibly unhealthy for anyone to have the only space where they can be themselves to be filled with vitrol and fighting and hate, so make sure you have spaces where you can escape and take a breathe.