#radqueer rambles

[deadcaralarm]

i love it when i see cisid-transid love. like those "from a cis(id), i love you trans(id)s" it warms my heart uhgghhhh.

[transdilf]

I despise the notion that it makes you "less radqueer" to not accept everything. Just because you do not support one thing does not mean you are less radqueer than someone who does. Radqueer is not a static thought process. It is understandable if certain things bother you, it is understandable if you cannot will yourself to support a group of people. You and your identity are both still valid. Anyone who is unsympathetic to your ideas is, objectively, an asshole. Regardless of if "radqueer" means "radically accepting" or not. It is a label, it is a construct, and you are fully allowed to have your own thoughts outside of it. Speak your mind, Radqueers!

[a-dragons-journal]

How exactly is being otherkin any different than being transracial by idea? I’m not pro-transracial, but I can’t really formulate an argument on where the difference is and why one is okay while the other isn’t

The difference, in my opinion at least, basically comes down to the fact that race and ethnicity are things other real people deal with and which have big cultural impact for a lot of people; species is not. You can't hurt theriform wolves by identifying as a wolf because wolves are not people and are not aware of any of this. Dragons may be people depending on the dragon, but they don't exist physically in this world to have an opinion. You can, however, hurt people of color by identifying as transethnicity and approaching it in a disrespectful way.

And I say it that way because if I'm honest, transethnicity is one of those transIDs where I'm... a little torn on it. I can understand the feelings and experiences they're describing, but I struggle to find a way to engage with the idea of being transethnicity that isn't going to wind up being racist in one way or another. And while I haven't exactly spent a ton of time in radqueer/transID spaces, when I've gone into their tags and such to do a little research on them, I have overwhelmingly seen transethnicity people being kind of if not extremely racist about it. The experiences are not inherently harmful, but it's really easy to slide into engaging with those experiences in a way that's harmful.

And yet... in this community we have, for example, fictionkin whose fictotypes are a different race than them all the time, and sometimes that's very important to who their fictotype is and how they view the world. And that works out fine. I think the primary difference is that fictionkin are generally expected to acknowledge that they're not a part of that group in the present and can't speak on the group's issues or experiences as if they were, whereas the minute you put a trans- label onto the word, the expectation is that you should be treating a trans[x] person as if they're [x]. (And if it's not, then... why are you calling it trans- anything to begin with when that's what trans- means in an identity context?)

So, I do genuinely believe that they're having these experiences, but... idk, there has to be a better way to frame and engage with those experiences. I don't know what that is, but it's got to be out there somewhere, though it may not be a one-size-fits-all answer. (And maybe there's a transID community out there that's found it, I don't know.)

Anyway, open invitation for POC to give their thoughts on this, since they've probably got better-constructed ones than me; if I'm honest, I haven't spent all that much time thinking about this issue. I think about it on and off here and there when it comes up and then it gives me a headache so I move on.

[grotesqpallr]

“ You're actually white. "

Yeah. Did... you think the W in Wasian stood for waffle?

[artistic--screaming]

I honestly don't give a fuck whether somebody's proship or antiship or whatever the fuck. I always hate when people go "ERMMMM that artist is problematic cuz they PrOsHiP" ok why are you telling me this? I don't care. Find a real problem, I beg of you. If you really don't like something, just block it.

Like, I feel as if the only time people should care if someone's proship is if they endorse whatever problematic thing they're portraying IRL.

[goose-24-7]

hey tumblr can we not allow the active support and defense of pedophilia, rape, incest, zoophilia, etc. etc.

like i figured this was common sense.

[rqnirvana]

this might be a bad take or whatever but i mean it with my whole heart because i’ve had some time to think;

i’d rather follow and support 1,000 troll or bait accounts and extend them the benefit of the doubt, even if they “seem ridiculous”, than accuse one sincere transid being of being a fake because they “seem ridiculous”.

if you have conflicting identities i love you.

if you have ids that are “weird” by rqc standards i love you.

if you’ve ever been accused of being a troll i love you.

if you are in this community in sincerity and good faith i love you.

༘˚꩜⊹｡🎸:⊹࿓˚｡⋆ ༘ fellow freaks please int

[deadcaralarm]

i wish there was a radqueer discord server that didnt make me read 58 essasys the length of the declaration of independence to find a codeword or make me write several paragraphs on how i found the server and how i became a radqueer and what a radqueer is

[foullittleberry]

Your reminder that Xenosatanists and their allies have absolutely zero place around anyone advocating bodily autonomy, freedom of choice, and especially anyone advocating for paraphile rights.

You cannot, in the same breath, say "I want to normalize the right to do what you choose with your body, even that which disturbs me", and then "I want to violate your bodily autonomy with no consequences."

Good night, stay safe, and take no shit.

[transdilf]

Anti individuals who act as if every trace person is a "racist" transblack who "just wants to say the n-word" when transwhite people also exist...

Can I call bullshit on that one, yet?

[tntbiter]

Everyone that likes this post will get a little kissy in their ask box!!

[grotesqpallr]

Anyways, on the subject, what filters are y'all using to look more Japanese/Asian in selfies? I don't know where to look.

[necr0dork]

I love normalizing, fetishizing, romanticizing, and sexualizing

has to be my favorite hobby

[r41nb0wk1tt13s]

How the fuck are you gonna claim to be radinclus and mogai but then be anti radqueer 😭😭 babes they think your a freak deserving of death too but if you want to suck boots at least don't crosstag into our shit LMAO

Antis will be blocked I ain't giving you the attention you want

[archerinthewoods]

temporary return from hiatus to give out a self indulgent userbox, f2u w/o credit

[radq-bunn]

any transprogrammers want to program me?👉👈 im cute and easy to manipulate..!! bonus points if youre an adult map (trans, chono or alter) because im transaam