#queer as a slur

[animentality]

[yellowyarn]

Actually, the "F" on my passport is for faggot, not female.

[acelessthan3]

Posting faggot and queer like 2am gunshots to keep property values on my blog low and scare away assimilationist LGBTs who want to replace my empty lot full of native wildflowers with a 5-over-1 because they're too traumatized by their upbringing to accept the reality of our diverse marginalized community

[pien-art]

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[lgbtq-userboxes]

[transbunnyboi]

Whining and whimpering and shaking my little hips I want him to pin me to the wall and bite my neck and feel me up and touch my nipples and make me hump his thigh while he calls me a faggot for begging for his cock while my boycunt leaks on his jeans >//////<

[imthat1boy]

I genuinely like the word queer sm.

It's so much better than the acronym!

A. It's so many less syllables (therefore shorter to say and write)

B. It doesn't leave out any identities

C. It sounds better

[playfully-sadistic]

"Stop calling me gross!"

I'll stop calling you gross, when you stop thinking about someone shoving the tip of their cock against your swollen clit, rubbing it up and down, watching it throb, and laughing at how pathetic and small it looks in comparison.

I'll stop calling you disgusting and nasty, when you stop fantasizing about someone jerking off in front of you, dumping their cum right on your stomach while your clit is ignored, hard and sensitive, and your cunt is drooling a puddle between your legs, because you're reminded just how primitive and easy your body is and how your tiny cock reacts to the realization that it'll never come close to this fat, thick, long breeding device.

I'll stop calling you a perverted fag, when you stop shoving your hands down your own pants whenever someone is being a bit mean to you, and when you stop groping and twisting your nipples whenever they perk through your shirt even the slightes bit, and when even getting dressed and feeling your underwear slip between your slick folds and rubbing against the head of your sensitive boyclit while putting it on gets you so worked up, that you gotta fingerfuck yourself.

I'll stop calling you mean things when you stop getting hard and wet from it.

[poetry-protest-pornography]

So, I was going through some old Pride posts, looking for things to queue up for June, and I remembered this post:

This 9 note post got me my first anon hate and death threats, sparked a few follow up "Another Fun Fact About Queer" posts, that led to very intense bullying from mostly very young people, and even more hate mail.

9 notes. I would have sworn this was my first big post, based on the fallout, but it says it right there: 9 notes!

Anyway, while I have since learned more about gender, sex, and identity since 2017, I have only come to love "Queer" more. It's a beautiful, empowering word, and it means I don't need to hand out a big gay resume to everyone to vet. And, my favorite part, is that it automatically puts me in a beautiful community of people who I know are in my corner, and I love that for all of us.

All this to say:

Fun fact about the word "Queer" as an umbrella term:

It includes any and all identities, genders, and sexualities! Even those that aren't included in the ever changing LBGT+ acronym!

[bonefall]

Anyway. Bi and Mspec Lesbians aren't a hotly "debated" topic or even new to queer culture, it's just the newest thing that bullies who REALLY want to be homophobic and even racist use to justify harassing gay people they don't like.

It's the thinnest possible veneer of progressive language wrapped around TERF and reactionary rhetoric so that they can feel righteous for forming an angry mob against vulnerable targets. If you're gullible enough to fall for the newest wave of bigotry within the queer community, and turn on your allies because they're "confusing" or "invading your spaces," the SAME way they turned on bi/pan labels, trans people, xenogenders, neopronouns, and aroace people before this, then get lost.

[lgbtqtext]

[bluebeetle]

I saw someone say Astarion bg3 is "the most queer coded man ever" and yeah. Its. Its because hes queer. He has canonically slept with men. He will date women, men, and nonbinary folks. "Queer coding" you mean the literal text they coded into the fucking game?

[pien-art]

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[your-mums-nuts]

[butterflyinthewell]

From a queer elder…

Being queer isn’t supposed to be palatable to non-queers.

We don’t tick little squares on a checklist of “queer enough”, we obliterate the checklist.

We defy societal norms that say our bodies, families or relationships have to look a certain way.

Queer is the insult we took away from oppressors. We’re here, we’re queer, get used to it.

The people who hate us will hate us regardless of how palatable we make ourselves.

Stop licking fascist boots by policing queers who are queer in different ways than you.

Oh, someone is bi/pan trans lesbian with he/him pronouns? So what! They’re welcome on the rainbow. Their identity doesn’t have to make sense to you, it has to make sense to them.

Our identities don’t make sense to non-queers. They see us as unnatural and disgusting, so why are you turning around and crapping that same garbage out at your own community??

Once you drive the visible queers underground, the same people who hate us all will target you next. Nobody will defend you because you drove away everybody who would have.

Enough already!

— sincerely, an old queer.

[bixels]

The Ryoko Kui interview's reception is such a disaster over a pretty normal (yet still flawed) interview between a non-Japanese fan and Japanese artistic. This is discourse for discourse's sake, and it's no surprise that almost every Twitter user I've looked at who's using this interview to parade Kui around as a goated mangaka standing strong against Western ideology is anti-trans.

Like, I do think the interview was kinda wonky with its focus on fandom culture, which Kui clearly didn't have much interest in. But sometimes that happens. Sometimes interactions between two people, especially a fan and a creator, two people who view and interact with a piece of media in completely opposite perspectives, don't click. Does this really need to get blown up into a "West vs. East culture war" issue.

Anyways, Kui saying "I don't consider my audience's interpretations when writing. I leave it to their imaginations, but I have my own read on things too" is the healthiest, most normal thing an artist/writer who wants a non-parasocial audience could say. Artists and writers use this line all the time. If Kui didn't enjoy autistic Laius or Farcille headcanons, she would have probably voiced/signalled her discomfort, like she did on the topic of Senshi fanservice. Overall, Kui handled the interview really well. Props to her to sticking to her guns and keeping a healthy disconnect from the fandom. While I think the interviewer could've/should've been more tactful and restrained, the flaws in their questions is not a symptom of the woke mind virus trying to wriggle its way into the pure Japanese psyche. It's the sign of an over-eager fan who sees a piece of fiction differently than its creator.