#pro recovery para

[still-a-bastard]

Pro recovery is an anti para movement pushing to erase paraphilic attractions. Stop saying you’re pro para and pro recovery unless you change recovery’s context from “recovery from paraphilias” to “recovery from trauma induced by paramisia” or something.

[kyowuin]

if you think that having a paraphilic disorder makes u automatically a bad/terrible person me and all the folks who have a paraphilic disorder have the right to cover your house with toilet paper

[a-para-doxical-situation]

⋤Parart ahead⋥

canniball..istic..missingo....

[rose-courts03]

I just saw something where it said (rq + para talk)

‘… pro/comp-c/neu/anti recovery paraphiles… fuck off or get blocked’ just say you hate paraphiles in general. Just say you can’t handle kink.

Also like wdym pro recovery fuck off they are trying to get better and in a lot of cases get rid of their attraction? Genuinely what is your logic. I feel like I must have pro recovery wrong in my head bc why wouldn’t you want someone to heal?

[s1llyyyx3]

i might be anti recovery towards paras.

liek.

obviously things that can be recovered from do what you want

but if its not something that can be recovered from, do not try to recover. it will not help you.

paraphilia for example, yeah you can work on the issues surrounding it, from my experience i have calmed down paraphilic disorders to a point i would consider them just regular paraphilia now, but if you are not disordered do not try to get rid of it. it will only make you worse. self hatred has only been proven to make you want to do it more and i've seen it happen myself on multiple ends.

you cannot cure attraction

end of story.

and i feel like such a bad person because of this opinion since anti-recovery is always shown as a bad thing in the para community, but like in reality its not curable, professionals know they cannot cure it, if they cannot i doubt you can

hope to feel better and learn to cope so you can live happily and without (non-consentually) harming anyone, dont try to force a part of you out just because you feel its the "moral" thing to do

[warithalshaytan]

Anti recovery nodumophilia

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[pararecovery]

[kissflowers]

You support WHAT.

In case it wasn't clear, I support pedophile recovery. That shouldn't be a phrase that makes you recoil in disgust. Pedophiles deserve medical help without judgment. It's not logical or true to assume that all pedophiles have, or will offend

By demonising people minding their own business, you're making recovery much harder for them. That's not what you want

[thecherubprince]

dude having "dni (paraphila)" in your dni is such weird behavior. you cant control a paraphilia?? its not something you can control?? like my man thats like putting "dni borderline" or something.

"oh, dude, but- but but they mean offenders! they mean people who openly fetishize their paraphilia!" then put fetishizers and offenders in the dni. its that simple not to demonize people with paraphilia

-atari 🪡 (he/him)

[bloodfueledsundial]

bitches will be against ableism and then disrespect those affected by paraphilic disorders. like okay then

[radinclus-not-radqueer]

If you're a paraphile, even one of the big 3 or other nonconsensual paraphilias, you are safe in anti-radqueer communities. If you're anti-contact, or are recovering from being pro-contact, you are safe here, much safer than you are in the radqueer community. The majority of radqueers are pro-contact, often secretly pro-contact - they're going to try to manipulate you into thinking that being pro-contact is okay. As someone who has gone through that, you don't ever want that to happen. Radqueers are not the only people who will accept you, many people will accept you for who you are, and there are tons of anti-contact communities and support groups that will provide far better advice and help than radqueers. Don't let anyone tell you that you'll never be accepted. You are safe here, and you are amazing <3

[boys-with-guns-and-sticks]

may be a reach but i feel very uncomfortable with comments like "i hope all pedophilles die" from other pocd havers... i know i'm not the only one but i feel like its me and five other people lol. it just feels really stigmatizing. some of us can't afford therapy, some of us actually believe in the lies ocd tells them

please, try to be nice, for whatever reason (for all my apd and npd friends, i love yall, this is not about you guys)

[a-para-doxical-situation]

Reblog if you'd be my friend!

Lf; perferred here other paras, especially the same as me, or just RB if you want to make more para friends!

[warithalshaytan]

Anti recovery assassinophilia

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[squidfreak]

Does anyone know of blogs that are *pro recovery* para... been feeling kind of alone, and I genuinely want to find people that are in the same boat as me and want to recover and not encourage worsening their paras

[imhatsunemikurealz]

i am not a proshipper or a creep, and I don't support that gross shit, but I do admit that fiction can help some paraphiles cope with those feelings.