#paraphilia isnt controllable

[thecherubprince]

dude having "dni (paraphila)" in your dni is such weird behavior. you cant control a paraphilia?? its not something you can control?? like my man thats like putting "dni borderline" or something.

"oh, dude, but- but but they mean offenders! they mean people who openly fetishize their paraphilia!" then put fetishizers and offenders in the dni. its that simple not to demonize people with paraphilia

-atari 🪡 (he/him)

[florenceisfalling]

people are bringing the toonimal situation back into my notes and i just want to say that if you make it about ezras paraphilias rather than his actions youre doing his pr for him

ezra tries to use the argument of "people are attacking me for my paraphilias which i cant control" to garner pity and cover up his actual behavior. and when you post about how hes evil for being attracted to bad shit youre helping him with that.

ezra isnt a problem bc of his feelings. ezra is a problem bc he acted on those feelings and hurt real kids. he could have chosen not to do that. hes not fucked up because hes born a certain way, hes fucked up because he made intentional premeditated choices to abuse kids and facilitate the abuse of kids

[googoothegodofblood]

damnnnn i miss my friend lol ahaha *kills self

Im not exactly happy about Gyro. I was a really lonely kid prior to 2020, i had like one friend and being part of Fersona earnestly changed my life, Gyro was one of my longest friendships, i loved this person, but to defend their participation in fetishizing child abuse and other such materials would just go against my morals, i'd really just like to see them reflect and get better, i didnt really want to leave but what fucking choice did i have if it was posting joyously about "t4t incest" or writing about a demented, lobotomized, transgender woman raping a child after school hours. Just why did you have to do this? this isnt how you cope, this isnt normal or healthy and it feels like self harm so why would you go ahead and say all these things. i dont wanna assume but yknow.yknowww it feels like Mallory coaxed them into it, entering a relationship with Mallory only to randomly one day get exposed for getting off to actual child abuse feels weirdly connected. but these were the people i'd suspect last of such a thing. i was raised on drama content, on callouts and whole essays dissecting how a child predator or a fido fucker was exposed and their descent into madness. i try to be normal, i try to have that voice in the back of my mind at all times. and yknow. i do struggle with weird things too, i did so at their age, i wouldnt say i was groomed, but i was influenced, i was influeneced and conditioned and i knew it was bad but i was told it wasnt bad as long as a very flimsy condition could be met and im seeing that in Gyro, someone their age takes their hand, pats it, and says "hey...its weird to be a freak" and you say "yeah! yeah! i know that! i advocate for freaks!" but at some point its not being a freak, its being a danger to yourself, its a slippery slope into something very very bad. i know you cant exactly control this sorta feeling i know this is a mental illness i know you have to get treated for paraphilias but for fucks sake you dont need to indulge it, when you have an urge to self harm you might self harm, or you might try to not self harm, you might find ways to hurt yourself without saying its self harm. as long as its not strictly "knife to wrist" you cant call it self harm right? like beating your legs until theyre purple or slamming your head against the wall or scratching yourself or bumming cigs or actually fucking slicing up for vulva for no fucking reason or trying to get yeast on purpose and then years later it happens okay WHY WOULD YOU FUCKING DO THAT. i miss my friend, they were my friend, i know we stopped talking as much, it hurt, i wanted to talk more, to both of them, but maybe its good i didnt get too attached.

fuck 4th of july

[randomkitcat]

Intro under the cut

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Byi (before you Interact)

My instances are neuship, neu para/kink, anti contact, pro endo, radinclus(pro contradictory labels, etc. Not including radqueer identities)

We are multigenic system of 3 beings(one is dormant but she still counts)

Im a cat and sheep therian, and angelic/angelkin, i'm also a furry. I have other alterhuman identities that you can check on my pronouns.cc further in this post

You may call me "Lamb", or "Ash", or simply "cat". My gender is gxrl and cistrans, my xenogenders are angelkinic and invinepgender, my orientation is aroflux and bi-straight, my safe pronouns to use are she/its, you can also call me a he too. Im achronal but bodily a minor. My zodiac is leo(solar) and capricorn(ascendent), and my mbti is infj

My first language isnt english so i may commit grammar mistakes.

I won't engage in any kind of discourse and If you try to drag me into It, i'll instantly block you

I block antis and anyone who i don't like on sight

Asks and dms (direct messages) aren't encouraged but If you need to, they are open

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Dni (do not interact)

I can't control who interacts, so anyone "can" interact with my posts, but, i, please, ask to not If: you're racist, ableist, xenosatanist, part of the radqueer movement, pro-c for non consensual paras, a map(nomaps are fine), a bestialist(non contact zoophiles are fine), anti recovery, anti endo, fakeclaimer, pro harassment, suibaiting, anti otherlink(funlink, copinglink, etc), anti furry, anti mspec mono/contradictory labels, anti liom(aldernic, chronosian, alterhuman, neurodivergences, etc)/mogai/lgbt, terf/radfem, BaB, LsL, GkG, exclusionist, "hardcore" proship, "hardcore" antiship, thinks fiction inherently affects reality, thinks fiction can't affect reality in any way, thinks paraphilias are inherently harmful, thinks paraphilias can’t be harmful, ai "art" supporter.

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Qna (question and answer)

"You're pro para? You support zoos/maps/necros?"

No, im in general neu paraphilia and anti contact for non consensual ones, while i don't support zoos/maps/necros, i want them to get help and live their lifes as equal as any other being. But im against those who act on these paraphilias.

"What do you mean 'if you think fiction inherently affects reality'? And 'hardcore antiship?' You're a profic/proship?"

No, im actually neuship, why? Because i don't want to be associated with neither sides, wich both are very toxic. And i personally think that fiction doesn't affect reality, as long as you dont let it affect your reality. And i dont want to interact with antishippers that tell others to kill themselves and only post about complaining and reminding about proships. In the end i'm not proship neither antiship

"you identify as a cat, sheep and angel? Are you crazy?"

If what you call "Crazy" is to experience involuntary urges, insticts and other experiences and wish to fully embrance this part of me that makes myself, then yes, i am crazy. Sure, i know i'm in a human body, but my mind and soul is not, and If you don't agree with me, it's ok, everyone can have opinions, but please, kindly dni If you're not willing to learn that my ways of living aren't hurting anyone and i'm Just being myself.

“You’re a furry? You’re a zoophile”

Anthropomorphical characters aren’t irl animals that can’t give consent, so obviously not.

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Asks and dms

I Will answer any ask that i feel comfortable to, If you need help with alterhumanity and other terms, feel free to ask me, either on my dm or on the ask inbox, about it.

If you wish and try to insult me on my dms or asks because of my beliefs or identities, kindly dni

[thecherubprince]

saying paraphilia isnt a sexuality is just plain wrong because its literally an attraction. attraction is a part of sexuality. people are gonna drive me nuts

[data-sweet-potata]

No kink?? No kink?? EVERYTHING THAT ISNT ATTRACTION TO SEX ORGANS IS A KINK YOU FUCKWITS. Like titties? That's a Kink! These people are stupid.

No ships involving a minor at all? Like I'm against censoring any ships like that (yes there are some distasteful and...inadvisable ships, but some of the best condemnations of these relationships involve media that features these relationships. Lolita is a condemnation of pedophilia told by a pedophile.) Also look me in the eyes and look at the teen pregnancy rate and tell me teenagers dont fuck.

Abuse or domestic violence? Say goodbye to darkfic and all the beat revenge/horror/ect stories that can come from that.

No rape/dub-con? Women have rape fantasies, you know. It"s a perfectly valid fantasy to have. Exploring dark subjects via a sex fantasy where you, ultimitely, are in control is okay. This applies to fiction too. Fiction is not reality.

The -isms come from a good place, but again, this also means banning stories in which overcoming the ism is the driving motivations of the character.

Incest, see my argument for ships involving minors. Also never read Flowers in the Attic you'll shit yourselves

Grooming: can mean a lot of things. You can be groomed for anything, not just sex. Specify what you mean, or you ban any work in which someone is conditioned for...anything. say goodbye to royal fics. The prices a d princesses can't be groomed for the throne.

Excessive vulgarity: fuck shit goddam cocksucking motherfucker fuck you.

Rpf, yeah it's not my cup of tea but chill?

Intentionally inflammatory content also means fics antis write to piss off the shippers. Keep that in mind, buddy.

Original content? Um? The hell? Fuck you.

Reader fic: is difficult to write and a goddam artform. Not my thing, but why do you have issues with this?

Paraphilias. Foot fetishes are a paraphilia. Sneezing is a paraphilia. Everything someone does gets SOMEONE horny. You CANNOT ban all of them.

Congratulations!! You've became so woke you"ve horseshoed right back into conservative chrisitanity!

They lost me at no kinks but REALLY put nail in coffin at orginal content and self insert

Just throw creativity out the the window akjdakdsm